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  • mw13
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    Please. There about a half-dozen deranged individuals who support Iran and Palestinian terrorism. Attempting to characterize the all of the various Satmar/Badatz communities based such is about as disingenuous as claiming that that anybody who opposes the assassination of Jews for political purposes should be concerned about the growth of the Dati-Leumi community- just look what happened to Rabin.

    Now, I happen to believe that there legitimate gripes about the political beliefs of the average Satmar chossid. But I don’t think that’s the most important thing we should be focusing on when we think about the growth of Satmar. We should be focusing on their attitudes towards Shabbos, kashrus, tzniyus, chessed, etc.

    This may be controversial here in the CR, but I don’t think “What was your position on the State of Israel?” is going to be one of the first ten questions that Hashem will ask us. Or the first hundred. Or thousand. There is a time and place to argue about politics, but we really must make sure that we put our actual religion first.

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    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1338374
    mw13
    Participant

    Syag, not every single thing said to you in this forum is intended as a personal insult. I was (fairly obviously) just leading up to the rest of my question, which you have not responded to. Namely:

    When do you think that issue would apply? If I’m in the neighborhood playground and I hear a rumor that Mrs X is abusing her husband, do you think I should immediately call the cops?

    in reply to: Calling cops on frum neighbor #1338151
    mw13
    Participant

    Joseph:
    Do you believe that there is any case that would warrant calling the cops on a frum neighbor (or beighbor)? If so, what would that case be?

    LC/Syag:
    Do you believe that there is an issue of mesira? When do you think that issue would apply? If I’m in the neighborhood playground and I hear a rumor that Mrs X is abusing her husband, do you think I should immediately call the cops?

    in reply to: Should We View Satmar Growth and Anti Israel Indoctrination as Concern #1338141
    mw13
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    CTL:
    I’m a believer in earning one’s own way in the world.

    Oh? Then what do make of the approximately $233.7 BILLION in aid (adjusted for inflation) that the US has given Israel since the state was formed in 1948?

    Zionists, Chareidim, and Handouts

    in reply to: Should We View Satmar Growth and Anti Israel Indoctrination as Concern #1338142
    mw13
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    I wish people would be half as concerned about the spread of sinas chinom as they tend to be about the spread of political ideas that they disagree with…

    in reply to: The Casualties of Yiddish in Litvishe Chadorim #1338139
    mw13
    Participant

    I think it is beyond ridiculous for lessons to be given in a language that is not the native tongue of 99% of the students, or 98% of the teachers. Nobody wins here except for the status quo.

    And what exactly is the point of teaching in Yiddish, anyway? What is there to gain by giving lessons davka in Yiddish?

    in reply to: OTD KIDS ALSO HAVE FREE WILL. #1337045
    mw13
    Participant

    I’m not convinced that all the OTD kids who take drugs are doing so because use have been “pushed out”, rejected, abused, etc. I don’t deny that that’s how some of them ended up where they unfortunately are, but I think it’s an oversimplification to claim that this is the primary or even only way kids end up on drugs. Many kids try drugs just to experiment, or because they fell in with the wrong crowd, and end up addicted.

    in reply to: Tight-fitting clothing and tznius – the elephant in the room #1335426
    mw13
    Participant
    in reply to: Are You An Apikores? #1335437
    mw13
    Participant

    Finally had time to sit down and find this piece from R’ Dessler It’s in Chelek Aleph, page 180 (although its definitely possible that says this idea somewhere else as well). This is an excerpt from much larger piece that I cannot do justice to, so if you want to see it in context, you’re all gonna have to go crack open a Michtav Eliyahu yourselves.

    He begins the shtickel by making is famous and piercing observation that the only reason we think of techiyas ha’maisim as being miraculous, while we regard plants growing from dead seeds as mundane, is because we happen to be accustomed to seeing the latter and not the former. If it was common for the dead to rise from their graves, but uncommon for wheat to grow from the ground, we would regard techiyas ha’maisim as being natural and consider plants growing from seeds to be a miracle. He goes on to say (page 178): אבל באמת הוא, כי אין בין נס והטבע כלום: הכל נס הוא. כל העולם כולו אין לו שום סבה רצונו ית’

    And now, for our feature presentation (page 180-181):

    יש אשר יקראו לעצמם מאמנים בוטחים בה’ ית’, ןמ”מ יראו בכל מהלך העולם דרך טבעי, מסבות ומסובבים מעתדלים לנהל את הסבות אל אשר יחפצו. ויסמכו על הבנתם ושכלם לכשוב בחשבון הסבות איך תסתבבנה זו מזו, ובכחם וכשרון מעשיהם יאמרו להסב הסבות שתביאנה מסובבים כרצונום. ומ”מ יחד עם זה יבקשו מאת ה’ שיצליח את מעשיהם: היינו כי אף אם מעשיהם עושים בחשבון נכון ובטוח, מ”מ הרי אינם בטוחים מסבות מן הצד אשר תוכלנה להתערב באמצע, כמו חולי וכדומה, או אשר משד אכר סבות אחרות אשר לא ידעו מראש, תבאה צרות ורעות והזיקות וכדו’: וכן מודים שיש להודות להשי”ת שנתו בהם הכח לחשוב ולהבין בסבות ולעשות מעשים להסבם לחפצם: אבל בעצם הענין, הנה דכתם כי העולם מתנהג בדרל הטבע, וע”כ הם בעצמם ביבודתם ושכלם ישיגו את אשר יצטרך להם וכו’. וכך הם מפרשם “בזאת אפיך תאכל לחם”.

    בעלי המדרגה השאת, באמת הם מבעלי השיתוף – כי משתפים את עצמם עם הבורא ב”ה בהנהגת העולם: ואחר כל אשר ידברנו מדברי האמונה והבטחון, עדיין הכפירה משורשת בלבבם, כי בעומק לבותם יחשבו: כחי ועוצם ישי כשה לי את החיל הזה.

    in reply to: Are You An Apikores? #1335318
    mw13
    Participant

    gavriel613, I don’t think things are quite as clear-cut as you are attempting to portray them as being. If somebody ch”v believes that Hashem *cannot* give somebody health/wealth/etc unless they do theirs, and Hashem is just “helping” them be successful, they are indeed an apiokores. Ditto if somebody believes that their hishtadlus is what is creating their success, and Hashem is just a part of the process, not the be-all and end-all. The technical term for this belief system is shituf- I believe Hashem plays a part in my ultimate success, but not the only part. If I’m not mistaken, R’ Dessler goes through this as well.

    A great example of this – my brother once had a substitute teacher that claimed that Hashem needed our help to stop global warming. Is that not apikorsus?

    Now BH, I don’t think too many people here in the CR or in any frum circles believe in this kind of thing. But we may live our lives in accordance to this ideal to a greater or lesser degree – and at a certain extreme degree, it does indeed become possible apikorsus.

    in reply to: Are You An Apikores? #1334951
    mw13
    Participant

    Avi K:
    Suppose Hashem decided that if Reuven will write a decent resume, dress presentably and speak well at the interviews he will get a certain job. If Reuven does not fulfill any of those conditions who “ultimately” lost the job for him?

    I think it is important to stress that although we must do our proper hishtadlus (putting aside the almost impossible question of precisely how much hishtadlus is necessary), it is not the hishtadlus itself that gets us the seemingly resultant health/wealth/security/etc; it is nothing but a gift from Hashem.

    Moshol, li’mah ha’davar domeh – if I tell my five year old that if he behaves I’ll give him ice cream, while he must keep to his end of the deal to get the ice cream, the ice cream is still a gift from me. His good behavior will not magically make the ice cream appear, and our hishtadlus does not actually create the success that we receive – it is nothing but a gift.

    The appearance of a cause-and-effect relationship between our hishtadlus and our success is nothing but an illusion. We just go through the motions, but it is Hashem Who decides what we actually get.

    I’ve seen it quoted from the Chazon Ish that what we view as teva is nothing but רצון ה’ היותר תמידי – how Hashem happens to usually run his world. It is not a “rule” that the sun must rise every day or that objects must always fall to the ground anymore than it is a “rule” that I get up at 7:30 every day – both are nothing other than a routine, and can be changed on a whim.

    (The impetus for this thread was actually an excellent piece that R’ Dessler has on this subject, which I am trying to relocate so I can quote it here. Any leads would be appreciated)

    in reply to: Are You An Apikores? #1334941
    mw13
    Participant

    Jospeh and golfer:
    The point of this thread is not for me to decide who is or is not a true believer, or any such finger-pointing and name-calling (although I am aware that this is a common side effect of CR threads). The point was for all of to take a long, hard look in the mirror and figure out to what extent we acknowledge that Hashem runs every aspect of our lives, and to what extent we labor under the false pretense that כחי ועצם ידי is what got us where we are. And as Avraham in MD pointed out, I’m far from perfect in this regard myself (as is true in most other regards) .

    Yes, I could have called this thread “Do you have strong Bitochon” or something similar, but then how many comments do you think there would be here? Controversy is what keeps people interested.

    in reply to: Chasidishe Schechita #1334858
    mw13
    Participant

    Isn’t there also some kind of difference in the actual knife?

    in reply to: Stop Supporting Terrorism #1334764
    mw13
    Participant
    in reply to: Practicality on the Palestinians #1331099
    mw13
    Participant

    From an (otherwise pretty bad) article by an Aaron David Miller for Politico:

    Perhaps the most refreshing thing about Kushner’s talk occurs at the end, when he concedes the obvious—that this might not work. “So, what do we offer that’s unique? I don’t know,” he says. “I’m sure everyone that’s tried this has been unique in some ways, but again we’re trying to follow very logically. We’re thinking about what the right end state is. And we’re trying to work with the parties very quietly to see if there’s a solution. And there may be no solution, but it’s one of the problem sets that the president asked us to focus on. So we’re going to focus on it and try to come to the right conclusion in the near future.”

    This is exactly right. In the end, reality must be the point of departure. For too many years—and I’ll speak personally here—my own view was based on the illusion that there was a deal, that the parties could make it and that the U.S. could help them deliver it. I haven’t given up hope entirely; but I have abandoned my illusions. The fact is, you need real leadership and commitment by the two sides. Then and only then can America be a key force in peacemaking. My sense is that Kushner realizes that the peace process isn’t ready for prime time, and isn’t quite sure what to do about it. (Neither am I.)

    in reply to: Practicality on the Palestinians #1331066
    mw13
    Participant
    mw13
    Participant

    Don’t know if anybody else said this, but I once heard from R’ Yitzchok Fingerer, Rav of BJX, that he and his wonderful institution are involved in combating Footsteps.

    in reply to: Gee thanks, anti-vaxxers #1329051
    mw13
    Participant

    Frum The Sun:

    TRAGIC TWIST Mum Imogen Petrak who died hours after giving birth may have caught deadly ear infection from her unvaccinated toddler

    Heartbreaking image shows Australian mum Imogen Petrak’s son giving her a kiss before she died in the hospital
    By Maryse Godden
    30th July 2017, 1:37 pm
    Updated: 30th July 2017, 3:33 pm

    AN AUSTRALIAN mum who died after giving birth may have caught a deadly disease from her own unvaccinated toddler.

    Imogen Petrak, from the Gold Coast, was 36 weeks pregnant when she was rushed to hospital on July 14 with severe swelling of her brain after complaining of an ear infection.

    Mother Imogen Petrak is given a ‘final kiss goodbye’ by her son JB after she becoming critically ill through an ear infection

    The 35-year-old delivered her daughter Eleanor by an emergency C Section – four weeks premature – but died from severe swelling of her brain.

    Blood tests confirmed she died from pneumococcal meningitis, The Daily Telegraph reported.

    It is believed her 17-month old son JB, who was not vaccinated, was also unwell in the days leading up to her death – and may have passed on the deadly disease.

    The vaccine for the pneumococcal infection is on the National Immunisation Program Schedule and should be given to babies at two, four and six months.

    Baby Eleanor was released from hospital at eight days old. Her father John told Gold Coast Bulletin: “Imogen’s biggest dream was to see our daughter and she didn’t get to do that.

    An online GoFundMe page was set up by her friend Renee, who runs a local playgroup which is attended by JB.

    The campaign, which is aiming to raise the equivalent of £60,000, has already raised more than £40,000 to support Imogen’s husband John and pay for funeral costs.

    An image on the page captures her other child, 17-month-old JB, kissing her in hospital in the final moments of her life.

    It reads: “Imogen was loved by all that crossed her path, she had the biggest heart and sweetest loving spirit, an incredible selfless mother and cherished wife.

    “Eleanor is doing well but her mummy Imogen suffering catastrophic brain damage only hours later tragically passed away.

    “Her husband John is now left a widower with their two babies, 17 month old JB and new prem baby Eleanor.

    mw13
    Participant

    What a classic CR thread. Let’s find some random misguided and marginalized individual, plaster him with the label of a group we don’t like, and then hurl nastiness at him.

    At least during the nine days, I was hoping we could be better than this.

    in reply to: Quotes #1307548
    mw13
    Participant

    For every action, there’s an equal and opposite reaction. Plus a social media overreaction.

    -Various

    in reply to: Hated, Persecuted Minority 2 #1307518
    mw13
    Participant
    in reply to: Peanut Ban in Schools 🚫🥜🏫💉 #1303175
    mw13
    Participant

    For all the usual ranting and raving going on here, I still have yet to see anybody explain what a possible downside to a peanut ban could be (although It’s certainly possible that I missed a post).

    As others have pointed out, a lack of peanuts has never killed anybody. Peanuts have. Shouldn’t the answer here be obvious?

    in reply to: Maybe it’s time to ban passengers #1303129
    mw13
    Participant

    I think we should just ban cars – way too dangerous. And faucets – kids can literally drown to death. Oh, and maybe sitting:
    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/sitting-at-work-is-as-dangerous-as-smoking

    in reply to: Rumor about Ivanka Trump Spurs conversation about Geirus #1302867
    mw13
    Participant

    Joseph:

    Just out of curiousity, what would you say about somebody who was megayer, and joined a chassidus that completely and utterly disregards the zmanim for teffilah?

    in reply to: Religious Coercion in Israel #1299872
    mw13
    Participant

    Avi K, I happen to agree with you. My post was directed at those who do not support outlawing certain activities on Shabbos, or the Rabbinate controlling marriage. This is not an uncommon position – many will tell you that we should not force anybody to what is right, just show them unconditional love and hope that that will sway them.

    Do those who believe the aforesaid support attempts to force recalcitrant husbands to give a get? If so, what’s the difference?

    in reply to: Religious Coercion in Israel #1299705
    mw13
    Participant
    in reply to: Your reply can’t be created at this time #1299671
    mw13
    Participant

    Hasn’t happened to me (yet)

    in reply to: Pilgrim Jews #1299669
    mw13
    Participant

    CTL:
    shuls and yeshivos were started in the US.

    Which yeshivos (aside from RIETS) were started in the US before 1930?

    (Not challenging you, just curious.)

    in reply to: Rumor about Ivanka Trump Spurs conversation about Geirus #1299597
    mw13
    Participant

    This whole thread is titled “Rumor about Ivanka Trump Spurs conversation about Geirus”. I persobnally do not understand how the mods allowed it.

    The thread was actually originally titled just “Rumor about Ivanka Trump”. The second half was added by the mods when the said rumor… spurred a conversation/debate about geirus (and now, Goren).

    in reply to: East Ramapo budget should be voted down #1299600
    mw13
    Participant

    The Eas Ramapo School District has, for years, been the source of baseless acrimony directed at hardworking Orthodox parents who just want their fair share of the pie (that they are almost completely paying for!!!) for their own children, particularly those with special needs.

    TheGoq:
    I think people who don’t live there shouldn’t tell people who do what they should do.

    +1

    in reply to: Quotes #1297433
    mw13
    Participant

    don’t accuse of hate if you are hateful… you want to criticize, feel free. You want to insult, go for it. But don’t knock someone for the exact thing you yourself displays, and don’t display the exact thing/behavior that you are knocking someone for.

    – Syag Lchochma

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/liberal-assassination-attempt-of-republican-congressmen-after-liberal-violence/#post-1296793

    in reply to: Anti Zionist demonstration planned in Barclays Center #1296693
    mw13
    Participant

    Joseph:
    No worries, my friend. These things I never take to heart. And I still love you all the same.

    I have to say, I’m always impressed by how Joseph always just ignores all of the venomous nastiness that gets thrown his way. If people were saying those things about me, I don’t know if I’d be able to take it so calmly.

    in reply to: Quotes #1296758
    mw13
    Participant

    In America, we don’t worship Government. We worship God.
    #FaithandFreedom

    – @realDonaldTrump

    in reply to: Anti Zionist demonstration planned in Barclays Center #1296688
    mw13
    Participant
    mw13
    Participant

    Why don’t we make it harder for these nut jobs to get guns?

    Seems far more practical than trying to convince them to be less nutty…

    in reply to: Anti Zionist demonstration planned in Barclays Center #1293670
    mw13
    Participant

    If the speakers at this event included a Rabbi from NK and this individual who has no problem being mevazeh the Gadol HaDor R’ Shteinman, I’m quite glad that I didn’t go to this event.

    (Not that I support anything Kotlorism says – the issur of being mevazeh talmidai chachomim goes both ways.)

    in reply to: The God Squad #1292534
    mw13
    Participant

    I can never get over the hilarious irony of self-righteously bashing others for the crime of… self-righteously bashing others.

    in reply to: I Hope Trump Gets Impeached 🎺🍑 #1292300
    mw13
    Participant

    And the President legally CAN directly order the FBI chief and the FBI to open or close any investigation. He can also order a US Attorney to prosecute or not prosecute a case.

    Source?

    If Obama had told Comey “Hillary is a good woman, I hop you can see your way to letting her go”, would you have called the that an obstruction of justice?

    in reply to: I Hope Trump Gets Impeached 🎺🍑 #1291671
    mw13
    Participant

    there’s about as much likelihood of impeachment as there is of Canada’s 10 provinces becoming US states.

    That’s what they said about Trump becoming President…

    in reply to: I Hope Trump Gets Impeached 🎺🍑 #1291469
    mw13
    Participant

    So now it’s being reported that tomorrow Comey will testify to the Senate that Trump told “I need loyalty, I expect loyalty”, and that Trump asked him to let go of the Flyn investigation…

    Looks like my dream is getting closer to being a reality 🙂

    in reply to: How come all frum Jews today aren’t Chassidic? #1291462
    mw13
    Participant

    LB:
    Just to clarify, Chassidim did not invent the concept of serving Hashem with simcha. David HaMelech writes in Tehilim: Ivdu es Hashem bi’simcha. But he also writes Ivdu es Hashem bi’yirah. As with everything else in life, we must maintain the proper balance of simcha and yira in our avodas Hashem. Even a hard-core litvak will tell you that.

    (Btw, both Chabad and Satmar are normally referred to as being Chassidism, even if they have very different outlooks on the world.)

    in reply to: What’s the point in “real” jewelry? #1289800
    mw13
    Participant

    Makes people feel important.

    Why else would anybody drop a couple of grand on a rock?

    in reply to: Anti Zionist demonstration planned in Barclays Center #1289799
    mw13
    Participant

    GH:
    there is zero evidence these “rallies” serve any purpose other than to enrich those who provide logistical support with banners, sound systems etc

    The same can be said about the Israel Day Parade. But that’s just the way people are; we like to announce our beliefs and opinions to the world in the hope that it will somehow make a difference.

    That’s also why most of are here in the CR.

    in reply to: Condoning by silence (T) #1289428
    mw13
    Participant

    Does anybody really think that anybody is condoning abusers or thieves?

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/quotes-2/page/3/#post-1285675

    in reply to: Hated, Persecuted Minority 2 #1289324
    mw13
    Participant

    Another unfortunate example:

    VIDEOS/PHOTOS: MK Eichler Getting Vocal In Response To Police Brutality In Meah Shearim

    In the first video, we see a person tackled to the ground and possibly arrested for the crime of trying to document police brutality against Chareidim.

    In the second video, we see a small child chased by an undercover agent, thrown to the floor, kicked, and then dragged away with a bloody face.

    In the third video, we see a person being tackled and kicked while on the ground, while another agent attempts to tackle bystanders documenting the ongoing police brutality.

    In any civilized country, these officers would be fired, and charged with assault and hate crimes against a religious minority.

    In Israel, they are just carrying out official state business.

    in reply to: free day care for the kollel wife #1288550
    mw13
    Participant

    huju:

    If we built free yeshivas, how do sign up my kids? And please post the addresses of the free mikvahs and synagogues.

    +1

    in reply to: Anti Zionist demonstration planned in Barclays Center #1288546
    mw13
    Participant

    GH:

    Why not acknowledge that there are a range of views on the issue of draft registration and/or ANY form of cooperation with efforts to recruit frum bochurim

    LOL. You’re the one here who’s being intolerant of the positions of others. You can’t preach about tolerance and in
    the same breath insist that that anybody who disagrees with you are “wrong”, “despicable”, “idiots”, and that you Hashem “squashes” them.

    And then, of course, you complain that not enough people are condemning “verbal assaults”.

    Whatever.

    in reply to: Anti Zionist demonstration planned in Barclays Center #1288296
    mw13
    Participant

    oyyoyyoy, GH & Co are well aware that the purpose of this venue is not to encourage verbal or physical assualts on anybody. But they like to obfuscate the issue so they can excuse insulting and wishing harm upon those that they disagree with.

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/quotes-2/page/3/#post-1285675

    As you’ve pointed out yourself, cmon this isnt lishmah one bit, just a way to have fun.

    in reply to: They Tried to Kill Us, They Won (somewhat), Let’s Eat #1288297
    mw13
    Participant

    I do apologize for the absolutely horrific spelling mistakes in the title of this thread. I wrote this up on the go, and that doesn’t appear to have worked out very well (or wel).

    in reply to: Anti Zionist demonstration planned in Barclays Center #1287896
    mw13
    Participant

    Then I’m not talking about you.

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