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Nishgesheft. Really you _had_ to say that
Always ask questions why are we thinking we control realty. Maybe let people meet more easily. And _open_ the market. If a friend rests a shidduch. Believe him and go for it. People need to date. The lack of faith and obsession with control. And talk about expectations and false values we look for. Crazy.
If someone doesn’t understand an answer is not always cuz they don’t have background to understand but also prob because it doesn’t make sense. Fresh eyes can sometimes see things others miss. Just a thought
Woman have wisdom men logic. A man needs a woman’s wisdom to guide him properly. woman know and understand. Men can miss what empathy understands. If she says it’s unfair it prob is. Logic without wisdom is knowledge. Knowledge disconnected from realistic thinking can disconnect a person from reality. The only “tree” G-d said to not eat from. Living outside reality and not having any wisdom disconnects your soul from gan Eden, which is actually the rivers in your brain. Your brain is the shape of a tree.
Cuz your human. And we don’t do things based off technicalities but also feelings. It’s ok to be paradoxical. This is real life. And it doesn’t always have to make sense. Use your brain for more important things.
Polygamy solves alot of issues…
Go out more. Trust your friends more. If someone suggests someone go out to see if your _compatable_. You cannot know if someone’s tor you if you don’t date. If you don’t do all this you will end up with someone who’s not your type even if they check off al your boxes and there’s nothing wrong with getting to know people even if they are not for you in the end.
Get rid of the resume, that should solve the “crisis” stop shopping for people like _you_ decide who to marry and start trusting G-d in bringing you whoever is actually right for you. Your dealing with human beings. with feelings and a need for dignity. Stop looking into people like thier criminals and start acting with more _faith_ you. Can’t. Control. Reality. You can only discern right and wrong for yourself and the only way to do that is if you rate. We are obsessed with control. you need to marry someone you like. Not someone who checks all your boxes. Someone who you see yourself being able to live with not someone who is perfect.
That’s ok relax. This is just exposing people. you take tucker Carlson seriously? I don’t. Relax
Golly it says I bound you in oaths as a figure of speech. How did you get all these technicalities out of thin air. When you read a book do you read into every word or do you understand intention and the message the words are trying to convey. Taken out of context much.
The rebbe said this the rebbe said that what about your opinion you also have a brain and also have a life and your _own_ circumstances. What are _you_ going to decide
Crazykanoiy I want to see you do better.
Goes to show halacha isn’t realistic. End of story lol. Does it fit. It doesn’t fit. Everyone needs to live in reality. Wake up
Always ask questions what? Skewed, crooked logic, or someones opinions or beliefs system that they formed by speaking about what they think? Your literally saying we should all censure ourselves for you. Not say our opinions. Only think one way. Your ok?
Damoshe your not sounding coherent. What the guy said. Makes sense. Screaming it’s our state sounds very uh….childish. The reason there _is_ a state at all and or “belong’ to Jews at all is because of the state so the guy is right he supports the state even if he doesn’t support the apikores aspect it _makes_ sense. Live in reality. Kindly
Sounds like they are afraid of being found out about something. What are they hiding. At the same time. Torah is a book of morals. Everyone should be tought how to live with morals. If you don’t have a good grasp of Torah/morality. (Ye your ganna say it has nothing to do with that shows how far from reality you are) Then we can’t live in reality properly as reality requires morality, and proper understanding of right and wrong in order to choose correctly in this very often confusing world.
Hakatan first off relax on your mean statements. Everyone can say whatever they want. Just because it doesn’t fit your ideology doesn’t mean it doesn’t belong someone we aren’t a clique. (Or we sure act like it sometimes,pathetic) Adverse opinions are important so everyone finds the truth. If we all agreed with each other we would never learn something. You don’t have to agree but whoa chil
Is it me or do people miss the forest for the trees. Can we stop technolozing everything
The rainbow represents redemption at our imperfections. Tho we are imperfect and we fall short. G-d made a promise to us He will not destroy humanity and that’s why it’s so beautiful
He does give us reward for our good deeds. Try it. Go help someone and do good in the world..
Maybe we carpementalized the shidduch process too much. Like let’s let people meet _naturally_ then they will be forced to face their delusions becuase real life is not a bunch of resumes. Where you nix or faver whoever checks all your “boxes”
The fact that you think we care what the lubavitxh rebbe said. Lol sorry but I’m tired of this blind fath and G-dlike whatever you partain to him so he said something great. I also said something
Sorry clearly didn’t read the actual post. What the post is saying is be polite. No people need to be real. Enough is enough. Say what people need to hear. Not everyone is a good person and not everyone is going to do the right thing. Either stand up for yourself say what you need to say hold people accountable or forever step on glass and be polite. Even if you say something “mean” the other person also needs to learn not be a snowflake. Goodness. Backbone
Yehoshuah at yeshivah ketanah. Your brother can want whatever he wants but he sounds delusional to me. At the end of the day you reap what you sow. If he continues to be stubborn and push his will on reality and not realize his expectations are foolish. He will have to live with the consequences aka living with a woman who is stronger then him and controls him or staying single for a very very long time or marrying someone who is mismatched. The point is we can want whatever we want doesn’t mean we are not delusional. Remember it’s not what a person does that makes a happy marriage but who they are. When I see people start talking about character not whatever everyone does maybe I’ll start taking the system seriously until then all I see is hundreds of thousands of people trying to control reality and pushing their will instead of focusing on the right things
Most things we do come from what we are tought not because it’s actually who we are in the heart. We just tought that way. It’s habit or skill. But when it comes down to it we are judgmental unkind and no we don’t actually give to the poor we scorn them. When we see them it’s like Sodom and gemorah for someone who has less. And can’t afford basics. Because everything in our society is about presentation not character .
Maybe cuz our ego has gotten to a point we can’t see the poor or act kind towards strangers or people that are different then us cuz we have so much more then we need. Maybe we need to humble ourselves and be human
You cannot “solve” the shid such crises. Because we are not G-d. Only G-d can. But we can change the direction of our values to be more in line with basic reality. Alot of people say “I want xyz in a guy girl” or I want to find him/her in a specific manner You can’t control that. I also want a million dollars but it’s not happening. Normal expectations.
You cannot “solve” the shid such crises. Because we are not G-d. Only G-d can. But we can change the direction of our values to be more in line with basic reality. Alot of people say “I want xyz in a guy girl” or I want to find him/her in a specific manner You can’t control that. I also want a million dollars but it’s not happening. Normal expectations. Natural expectations. You don’t get to decide who comes into your life or how they look but whether you agree with them or not
These are such snooty comments. Stop trying to control reality. Deal with it. _most_ people like commentary
I think we technlosize things too much and miss the morality of situations. What is right to do….not what are we “allowed” to do according to whoever. We are faced with moral choices everyday and we need to live with those choices what would you have done if you didn’t have anyone to ask. The consequences of those choices is also something you need to take into account when making any moral decision.
Dreams dreams lots of delusional dreaming. We are not in control let’s give control over to G-d who is the decider of things. And has reasons for everything
The question is what’s more important to you. Shabbas or inconveniencing someone. You need to ask yourself what choice can you live with, breaking shabbas and living with that. Or inconveniencing someone. As a clearly fervant religious person for you shabbas comes before all. I think the hatzlah members would understand. You tho also have to live with the understanding that _if_ you do decide to inconvenience them which it’s ok. Shabbas first, you may take them away from saving someone else’s life. Again life is full of moral _choices_. With consequences we have to live with in a pekuach nefesh situation shabbas gets put aside