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  • in reply to: Help Locating Rambam In Tosfos #936852
    popa_bar_abba
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    1. Log onto Bar Ilan

    2. Select tosfos

    3. Search for ??????, and for ????

    4. View results.

    in reply to: Marriage/Weddings – Whats The Big Deal? #936572
    popa_bar_abba
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    This is the stupidest question that has ever been asked on this site.

    in reply to: Kosher L'Pesach Cigarettes: Is Something Wrong With This? #938049
    popa_bar_abba
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    For the record, there is at least one very choshuv posek (and likely more) who held smoking is muttar. I am referring to Dayan Fisher, who is reputed to have responded to the question by taking a long drag and exhaling “muttaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar”.

    in reply to: Want to move from out of town community to New York… #936485
    popa_bar_abba
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    For the record: It will be cheaper for you to live at home and get a car, than to live in NY.

    in reply to: Want to move from out of town community to New York… #936452
    popa_bar_abba
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    Frankly, I know you haven’t told us why you don’t want to stay in Chicago, but I’m thinking you really should rethink it. Striking out on your own is really hard at your age, and you really need to be thinking longer term–not just scraping by.

    in reply to: Shmaltz Herring on Tuesday #936137
    popa_bar_abba
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    I’ve got more in the freezer. For after pesach.

    in reply to: Shmaltz Herring on Tuesday #936133
    popa_bar_abba
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    For the record:

    My kiddush club meets on shabbos during the speech.

    The speech is given every other week by a YCT student, and the other weeks by random people from the community who usually know as much torah as a YCT student.

    I consider my kiddush club to be a great kiddush hashem.

    We eat herring, drink scotch, and then eat mints.

    I also agree with mobe though, that the general idea of a kiddush club is a terrible idea and undermines the rav and the shul. v’hameivin.

    in reply to: Understanding Car Specs: HP, RPM, Torque #936673
    popa_bar_abba
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    HorsePower is a measurement of how many pounds of pressure the engine produces. I think you get it by multiplying the amount of pressure each cylinder produces by the number of cylinders. I think it tells you very little.

    Torque is a measurement of circular pressure, that is, how much pressure is exerted in a turning fashion. This is calculated in pound-feet, and is calculated by multiplying the pounds of pressure by the distance from the axis.

    To make that clearer: Imagine you have a rod that you wish to turn. You are going to turn it by exerting pressure on another rod which is attached to it perpendicularly. (shaped like a T, you are moving the top of the T to spin the upright). The amount of pressure you exert on the top of the T will have more effect if you hold it farther away from the shaft, because of a lever effect. This is why you are able to remove your lug nuts with a wrench but not with a screw driver.

    Therefore, to calculate how much pressure is being exerted in a circular way on the shaft, you need to multiply the pressure by the distance from the shaft–“pound-feet”.

    In a car, the pressure is exerted by the pistons on the drive shaft. You need to multiply the pressure exerted by the distance from the center of the drive shaft to arrive at torque.

    Thus, torque is an important number for measuring how much weight your car will be able to move, though not really for how fast it will do so.

    I have no idea anything about pickup. Pickup can usually be measured by numbers the car companies report as 0-60.

    in reply to: Colored Shirts #985688
    popa_bar_abba
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    Do blue shirts cost less than white shirts?

    Yes, because it is easier to find sales.

    in reply to: Shmaltz Herring on Tuesday #936128
    popa_bar_abba
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    I know that there are gedolim who are against eating pork though I can’t give specific statements.

    Exactly. Therefore, if I was going to say why eating pork is wrong, I would cite the Torah, the mishna, the gemara, the rishonim, and the shulchan aruch. I wouldn’t invent gedolaic statements out of whole cloth.

    in reply to: Shmaltz Herring on Tuesday #936121
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    No, we are not being childish. We are picking up on a very real issue. That is, people who invent statements by “gedolim” to back up any opinion they have.

    I think that is a much bigger problem than kiddush clubs.

    in reply to: Shmaltz Herring on Tuesday #936113
    popa_bar_abba
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    Of course I won’t answer that. I don’t answer questions under fire.

    And I’d rather not get off topic. The topic being whether it is ok to make up stuff from gedolim.

    in reply to: What Is Your Ideal Endgame In Israel? #937900
    popa_bar_abba
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    I think moshiach will be chareidi, but will arrive wearing a srugi, just to test our ahavas yisroel.

    Or maybe to test our convictions.

    in reply to: Shmaltz Herring on Tuesday #936105
    popa_bar_abba
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    I acknowledge your question, but I am choosing not to respond to it.

    I am also calling you out for making stuff up about gedolim.

    That’s not ad hominem.

    in reply to: Shmaltz Herring on Tuesday #936103
    popa_bar_abba
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    Sorry, I don’t believe you anymore. You started out saying that gedolim say it is assur, but when I challenged you, you started arguing that it is logically assur, then when I challenged your inconsistency, now you “know for sure” that gedolim say it is assur.

    You’re just making stuff up; I don’t believe anything you say. Not about gedolim, not about halacha, not about what you ate for breakfast on rosh chodesh.

    in reply to: Shmaltz Herring on Tuesday #936101
    popa_bar_abba
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    Popa- its obvious, how can you leave shul in the middle to get drunk? First of all, your probably shouldn’t be davening while under the influence, second you are missing part of davening when you go out to drink, and third, even if you are only going out to drink during the drasha you are being mevatel torah and poreish min hatzibbur.

    Meaning, that you thought a certain way, and so you made up that “gedolim” said like you.

    That was the point I wanted to make.

    in reply to: Shmaltz Herring on Tuesday #936098
    popa_bar_abba
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    azah shtuyot. Find me one gadol who stated that kiddush clubs are assur.

    in reply to: Do You Eat Mushrooms on Pesach? #936400
    popa_bar_abba
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    Only magic ones.

    in reply to: Win for the Charaidim in Eretz Yisroel!! #939308
    popa_bar_abba
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    I hadn’t the slightest idea what the point was. And now even less so.

    in reply to: Win for the Charaidim in Eretz Yisroel!! #939304
    popa_bar_abba
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    Ah, back to that? The dati are just as bigoted as the chareidim, what with your mechitzos during davening, not counting women for a minyan, not counting women as witnesses or dayanim, grooms buying brides for silver, etc.

    To the outside observer, we’re all just the same on that score. At least we believe in what we’re doing, so we have a good justification for it. You guys claim it is really bigotry but the Torah makes you do it (for now)–you’re the much realer bigots.

    in reply to: Everything is great, but I'm not sure if there is chemistry! #953721
    popa_bar_abba
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    in EY: You are aware, that the chazon ish was speaking to people who have a much different dating system than do we. It is obvious that nobody is going to feel chemistry after 2 dates, which is when the community he is speaking to is thinking of getting engaged.

    And correspondingly, the absence of chemistry after 2 dates does not signal anything wrong with the relationship, so the only question then is if you are willing to jump in knowing very little–which the chazon ish’s community was accustomed to.

    I think it is very different in our system (depending on the who “our” is), where we date for a more extended period, and the expectation is that you are developing a relationship before the engagement. In such a system, I personally think the absence of chemistry is notable, since I would expect it to develop.

    I personally once dated someone for an extended period of time, and ultimately broke up for this reason, and I don’t regret it at all.

    But not all situations are the same. Sometimes it can just be that the couple doesn’t really know how to act towards each other in a way that will develop a relationship, and that is why there is nothing. So I’m not comfortable giving advice on this.

    in reply to: Win for the Charaidim in Eretz Yisroel!! #939274
    popa_bar_abba
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    Taxes pay for services. If you want clean water, sewage and garbage removal, roads, etc. you need to pay them.

    This is not relevant to this thread, but please don’t perpetuate that myth.

    The majority of tax revenue does not go for public expenditures; it goes for redistribution of wealth. The main purpose of taxation is to reallocate resources from the more productive people to the less productive people.

    in reply to: Jews Resisting the Zionist Draft #940171
    popa_bar_abba
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    Also, just for the record: We shall outlive you.

    in reply to: Matza Bakery Shailah #937764
    popa_bar_abba
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    This is interesting.

    First I was wondering how it could be not lishma, since, did he make the matza intending it for purim? No, he intended it to be sold to someone to eat on pesach while doing the mitzva. So that seems lishmah.

    But the teretz is, that he expected them to fall for his extortion, so he was intending it to be thrown out after he told them which one it was.

    in reply to: Nurse Refused To Initiate CPR, What Is Your Opinion? #938769
    popa_bar_abba
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    You should quit being a nurse, if you think it is ok to let a woman die on the floor in front of you while the 911 dispatcher is begging you to do CPR, because you have decided her life is no longer worth living.

    in reply to: Why Shidduch Kol Korehs Don't Work #942973
    popa_bar_abba
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    I need more explanation. I think you’re saying more than just that you don’t think the NASI style advertising is effective.

    in reply to: Nurse Refused To Initiate CPR, What Is Your Opinion? #938743
    popa_bar_abba
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    commonsense: That may or may not be true, but usually people who don’t want CPR just sign a DNR order. The home still did call the EMT’s, who doubtless did CPR. And the nurse could not have known that those were her wishes.

    in reply to: Nurse Refused To Initiate CPR, What Is Your Opinion? #938740
    popa_bar_abba
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    syag: Of course, that is precisely what I am saying: that she was comfortable allowing someone old to die, and didn’t care enough even to ask a passerby to do CPR. Because she thinks old people should just die.

    I don’t think she chose her job over what she thought was right–that is what artchill is claiming. I think she did exactly what she despicably thought was right.

    And that is precisely the attitude that I am criticizing. She should be ashamed of herself, and America should be ashamed of itself for allowing such attitudes to develop.

    in reply to: Shadchen's View #935589
    popa_bar_abba
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    Hey Gumball, thanks for dropping in.

    in reply to: Nurse Refused To Initiate CPR, What Is Your Opinion? #938736
    popa_bar_abba
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    artchill: I don’t exactly know what issue you are addressing. The question I am addressing is whether the nurse is a callous and despicable person, for not caring that her following company policy was allowing a person to die in front of her.

    My answer is “yes”, and I don’t think that the corporate policy is at all relevant to this question. I don’t know why you think corporate policy is relevant to that question, or if you are perhaps answering a different question, hence my explanation.

    syag: I concur that many Americans including the daughter do not value human life. That is precisely what I am reacting to.

    in reply to: I'd Rather Win Than Be Right #935652
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    So how does perpetuating the stereotype of Jews being cheap, greedy, and combative make a kiddush Hashem?

    Would a stereotype of being sheep be better?

    in reply to: Shidduch Crisis is not real! #935354
    popa_bar_abba
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    (gets married)

    (no longer cares about the girls left behind still single)

    in reply to: Should someone become a Rabbi as a career path? #935441
    popa_bar_abba
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    Well yes, I think YU will come with us to yeshivish, and will cease to be the same institution at all.

    in reply to: Nurse Refused To Initiate CPR, What Is Your Opinion? #938706
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    artchill: Are you serious? You think you can just excuse any behavior with “I am an employee and these are the rules”?

    It was bad enough when the forced conscripts of the Nazi’s said that. You would extend it to any employee?

    Any employee would break the rules if it was something they cared about. If it was their nephew being assaulted 300 feet away, you better believe they would go save him. If it was this nurse’s mother, you better believe she’d have done CPR or at least tried to find someone to do it.

    in reply to: Nurse Refused To Initiate CPR, What Is Your Opinion? #938698
    popa_bar_abba
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    It is so sad how little people value human life.

    in reply to: Shadchen's View #935580
    popa_bar_abba
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    So exactly what is your point?

    I see you saying that nobody except a metzuyan should learn for 10 years. That I don’t agree with.

    I also see you saying that only a metzuyan should ask for support for the years he wants to learn. That I also don’t agree with.

    I also see you saying that parents should know their children. That I agree with, but still don’t agree with the application here.

    I also see you saying that support should be shared between the parents if they are able. That part is worth discussing.

    in reply to: I'd Rather Win Than Be Right #935649
    popa_bar_abba
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    PBA, I hope you did not make Chilul HaShem by being overly demanding etc.

    I made a kiddush Hashem by not being a pushover.

    in reply to: Should someone become a Rabbi as a career path? #935438
    popa_bar_abba
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    Don’t go to YU. They aren’t going to exist in 20 years. It’s going to be just YCT and Yeshivish.

    in reply to: Mazel Tov! #1224138
    popa_bar_abba
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    mazel tov to a certain CR member. I’ll let him post it himself.

    in reply to: I'd Rather Win Than Be Right #935644
    popa_bar_abba
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    Tonight I was somewhere using a groupon, and they tried to not give me everything I was entitled to. I don’t want to give specific details.

    So I insisted, and they brought the manager. And I insisted again, and she wasn’t happy at me. Then she finally said that I’m wrong, but if I really really insist, then they’ll give it to me.

    So I smiled broadly and genuinely said, “thank you so much!”

    in reply to: Homemade Chummus #934936
    popa_bar_abba
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    I once had a roommate who made chumus. I liked Sabra better. (he doesn’t read yeshiva world)

    My homemade lox was much better. And beer. And we’ll see about my pickles.

    in reply to: Everything is great, but I'm not sure if there is chemistry! #953695
    popa_bar_abba
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    oomis: that is a good point. Leah did always feel second best, and Yaakov did always love Rochel more, and loved her kids more as well.

    in reply to: Everything is great, but I'm not sure if there is chemistry! #953693
    popa_bar_abba
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    True, Yaakov had feelings for Ruchel before they got married, but (as the mod nicely pointed out) that doesn’t mean that that must always be the case; feelings can and often do develop later on.

    Of course, I’m not claiming that if you don’t fall in love before marriage, that you will certainly have a bad marriage. I’m just responding to those who claim that any love before marriage is necessarily fake and meaningless.

    I fully believe that the level of love achieved after marriage cannot be achieved before marriage. But I think that the feelings that people do feel before marriage are real and valuable. And the absence of such feelings might ask a good question about your compatibility in a situation when you’ve been dating long enough that you’d expect such feelings to have developed.

    in reply to: Yarmulkas vs. Baseball Caps (why?) #935005
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    I think I’ll easily admit that when I go on vacation, I dress so that it is not obvious that I am frum, and I deliberately do so.

    Mobe’s proof was actually inapposite, since when I snowboard, I dress in normal snowboarding gear, which necessarily means I don’t look frum. But I’ll concede it anyway.

    I do so probably for several reasons. The main one is that I want to be friends with the people I meet on the hiking trail, or on the ski lift, and I don’t want them to focus on my differences.

    At the same time, in my regular life, I am in a non-jewish environment, and I deliberately dress like a yeshiva guy, and deliberately do stand out as different.

    And I’ll even readily concede that we are supposed to dress and look different, and are supposed to stand out as different–because we are different, and we want to remember that and want our relationships with others to take that into consideration. So perhaps there is a good tayna on me for what I do on vacation.

    And that’s what I have to say about this topic. And if you show up at the hostel looking like a yeshiva guy, I will be thrilled.

    in reply to: Yarmulkas vs. Baseball Caps (why?) #935003
    popa_bar_abba
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    Popas posts are all important. How else would we know when he’s going skiing? I for one would love to join, but I joined the coffee room a bit too late for that. I think.

    Not too late. You are welcome to join. I will be staying at the Alyeska Hostel from Mar 17 to Mar 21. It is 20 bucks for a bunk, and like 50 bucks for a lift ticket.

    ????–??? ??????? ????? ?????? (I’m so glad my wife doesn’t read this.)

    in reply to: If you like it, put an egg on it #934887
    popa_bar_abba
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    It is a moshol to dating. When you like something, you should want to improve it and make it even better.

    Everyone knows that when you get married, women revert back to being women (with all the baggage that brings), and when you are dating, after a while they start demanding that. So if you like your relationship, you should throw egg in its face and then go find someone else to have a relationship with for a while until she starts demanding marriage, in which case you put an egg on that also.

    in reply to: Everything is great, but I'm not sure if there is chemistry! #953683
    popa_bar_abba
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    Good luck with that one.

    in reply to: Everything is great, but I'm not sure if there is chemistry! #953675
    popa_bar_abba
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    I have a riddle:

    Q. Where does the Torah lie?

    A. It says ????? ???? ?? ???, and they weren’t married yet.

    yes but he also married Leah and that seemed to have worked out for them.

    in reply to: Should someone become a Rabbi as a career path? #935425
    popa_bar_abba
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    I don’t even count it as Judaism. But I would gladly recommend a YCT grad for a pulpit in a conservative temple. Or an “orthodox” one without a mechitza like the one in Denver that has a YCT grad.

    in reply to: Simchas Chanoch #934678
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    Looks good to me. I know the people who set it up personally, and I trust them.

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