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Praying With Fire. (book)
Sushi date? Nice.
FAFSA isn’t PELL but its based on EFC, so if your parents aren’t ‘poor enough’ you’re not going to get too much.
Seeing as the parents are handing over the money it isnt extortion… but good one!
Probably around 3 weeks where I discussed him incessantly w my friends (thanks guys, your the best!) We had been dating for 6 months.
I didnt say if you drink beer you dont know how to treat a woman (but nice try). I said that on a second date (especially since he is “Yeshivish”) when you are trying to get to know someone and you make it a point to order an alcoholic beverage you are showing you are uninterested in getting to know HER.
I think calling him a bum is very apropos. I wasnt referring to his religious level I was referring to his middos*.
Drinking on a date, on a second one no less (!) shows a girl you arent interested in her or what she has to say. If you want to chill, or you NEED to chill, do that on your own time! Its disrespectful and uncalled for and he will continue getting dumped until he learns how to properly treat a woman.
(Definition of bum is also obnoxious person. Look it up.)
Just to break it down. I’m going to assume that since you went to a lounge on a second date you probably associate yourself in the more “Yeshivish” circles.
Good decision, your better off without the bum.
Besides he doesnt take your safety seriously. Hotel lounges dont usually give the standard 12 oz bottle, they have beer on tap and give you a large cup. Good chance he was driving inebriated.May 23, 2011 10:27 pm at 10:27 pm in reply to: how not to speak loshon hora without annoying others?! #769580
“Excuse yourself that you have to leave, as soon as you smell the conversation even might veer into loshan hora.”
It is your obligation that others not speak L”H as well.
Try implementing a Machsom L’fi amongst your friends and co-workers (if possible) hopefully you can teach by example.
“You should really find someone in real life whom you can pour your heart out to”
AKA a shrink.
On the same note, take off the stickers from their baseball caps.
I’m sure you dont have problems, Jews arent known for their physical stature so I’m sure there was a bevy of woman for you to choose from. Altho I highly doubt its because of muscles, at a buck 30 you can have either bones or skin or a minimalist neuro system not all three 😉
With you coming in at what 5’7, 150? I see…
(really pop a lil originality)
Have you seen these scrawny things they are calling men these days? Pfft.
I was going to say something to that effect, but couldnt figure out how to make it sound clean. Kudos!
So next time let him go flying out the window… that will definitely be on his list of worst dates.
What a raunchy site this is! 😉
Me too. I don’t know which mod posted it, but it wasn’t 95
What is your price range?
“Friends date was gpsing and not paying attentiion to the road and almost slammed into a car so my friend instinctively put out her hand and touched him righttt in his chest.she was dyingggg of mortification.”
Big whoop. Grow up.
This is going no where fast.
As I have already pointed out (um, thanks for reading my post? ;), there are many pictures of Prince William in jeans.
Looks like I’m not the only one who thinks you are full of it.
As an aside, adorable you are not as bad as you think you are if you appreciate this story.
(I dont believe it ever happened, not to detract from the message. Of course.)May 19, 2011 8:24 pm at 8:24 pm in reply to: Anyone see these rediculous "Doomsday" Ads in Subway? #769993
All those years of living in Staten Island have gotten to him, nebach.
First of all, I never saw a wig that was SO good that I wasnt able to tell it was a wig (excluding those where the wearer takes out 9/10 of their hair and puts it over the ‘wig’). I HAVE said hey, thats an amazing wig! But for other Jews to not realize? Dont think so.
Secondly, Hash-m knows that should be enough.May 19, 2011 7:18 pm at 7:18 pm in reply to: Anyone see these rediculous "Doomsday" Ads in Subway? #769981
There is a huge sign across the street from Kings Plaza (for all the Brooklyners)
How I hate the holier than thou attitude *gag*
“and long jean skirts are just nerdy”
I doubted you working in the fashion industry in your first post, now I am sure of it.
…which is just as Jewish as you.
We aren’t debating religious levels, nor are we debating where jeans originated.
You keep mentioning how RABBONIM would not to X Y & Z, the same RABBONIM have clearly come out against the internet so all your arguments are now invalid (and annoying).
No one goes golfing in jeans. Not Goldman Sachs execs and not farmers, its not how the game is played… just sayin.
President Bush and Prince William were photographed many times in jeans. If you need an example of ‘malchus’ that wear jeans, there you go.
Re: Heels & Toes
Thats how I was taught the halacha.
Elbows, Knees, Collar Bone, Toes & Heels. Thats halacha.
More than that is sensitivities so call it as such.
“By which I mean that when you want to make something assur and have no basis, you just claim tznius.”
Moshiach is definitely coming, popa is being serious?!
Some people like that real problems not be addressed. Its totally appropriate.
Learn the laws of Loshon Hara… it will change your life.
“She is not Frum enough for me”
You seem like a nice person.
” <eyeroll> “
I think I’m rubbing off on you 🙂
If you really think that your children will never be exposed to things/expose themselves to things because they are ‘good Bais Yaakov girls’ wake up. Fast.
Reading comprehension. Its called word clues. You learn it in 3rd grade.
There we go.
I never said that she cant be attain a high level. What is that chazal about Baalei Teshuva being in a place where Tzadikim cant reach? I just pointed out that once you are exposed to certain things you cant bleach your eyeballs and just forget them.
Its a good thing that you arent infatuated, infatuation is skin deep and isnt based on anything substantial and doesnt last.
Not everyone is a ‘fireworks’ kind of person. You need to know yourself. Personally, I am an all or nothing kind of person with everything, if my heart doesnt skip a beat when trying on shoes/clothes I wont buy it.
Do you find yourself looking forward to seeing him, or are the dates more of a hassle? You dont need to get engaged after 6 weeks, DATE HIM! Relax, no pressure, let it be easy, develop a relationship and see where it goes.
Is everyone being thick on purpose or do you really need everything S-P-E-L-L-E-D out for you?
Does it erase memories?
If youve been there you know what she is talking about.
Join the club. You wont get it back, whats done is done. If you have really done something wrong do teshuva on it but your innocents? you cant get that back.
Another thing, I’m a little confused between the first half of your paragraph and the second. In the first part you say,
“i feel like I lost a lot of my purity that I had when I left high school. is there any way for me to get that back?”
To me that sounds like you regret what you’ve done and you miss your innocents. Then you go on to say,
“I don’t want to get married and feel like the “smooth” (translate to another word that wont go through here) one”
That sounds like you dont regret what youve done and are happy youve “dirtied” yourself up because you dont want to be innocent. Conflicted?
“No double letters or sounds (like sh and ch)”
Koof and Kuf make the same sound…
Bais, Vais. Kuf, Chuff. Pay, Fay. Shin, Sin. Tuff, Suff.
**Hebrew confuses the b’jeezus outta me, and thats before allotting words to being female and male…
Lox = stinky fish.
Long Locks = silky long hair, in my case brunette.
You are right on scallion cream cheese… yummy.
I was going to get a haircut… but I am quite fond of my long locks at the moment.
I had to resort to Google… I have no idea what that is.
LOL! I’d love to see the picture in your head of me.
I am actually quite conservative… at least I think so.
What can I say I love R&B.
Studying for the Bar?