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  • in reply to: Guy who knows everything here; ask me anything #1215196
    Sam2
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    Burnt Steak: The winner will be ahead of Ohio State but not Oregon. Not a chance (well, maybe a slight chance that Clemson can in the BCS because the computers hate Oregon right now but definitely not in the polls).

    in reply to: Becoming an NCSY Advisor #1178628
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    rd: No, it’s not. Advisors by definition have to be people that the kids should want to respect and emulate. That would be like an advisor saying “My affair with my neighbor’s wife is a matter unto itself.” Being an advisor is just as much about who you are as it is what you say. If you do activities that NCSY wouldn’t want these kids to emulate, they wouldn’t want you to be an advisor.

    in reply to: Is there a way to tell if an Esrog is murcav? #979122
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    twisted: I’m familiar with the Sugya. It’s still not so clear to me that this is anything more than a Chumra and that some cases (your Murkav Bidei Shamayim, for example) might not be worth worrying about.

    in reply to: Advice: Shita Mekubetzes, Rashba and Ritva Publisher #979213
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    If you can’t afford the MHK Ritva, then it’s probably K’dai to save up for one. The Rashba it’s not so necessary for and any Rashba set is pretty good.

    in reply to: Using Physical Force #982381
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    frumnotyeshivish: How do you explain the Rambam Paskening against HaKadosh Baruch Hu in Yevamos 63? You need to figure out a little more about Lo BaShamayim Hi.

    It’s a complicated issue, for sure. And I don’t claim to have any good all-encompassing P’shat (which I usually think I have on these Hashkafic type of Inyanim). But I think you are being a little too simplistic here, not that it matters. There’s nothing wrong with your opinion. I just think it needs a little more nuance to be entirely accurate.

    in reply to: Is there a way to tell if an Esrog is murcav? #979118
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    Better question: Why do we all assume that Murkav is Passul?

    in reply to: Leah Weiss, energy healer? #996406
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    Chcham is basically just saying over the Rambam. If she believes it’s Avodah Zarah, though, that’s still bad.

    in reply to: Bad mood. #1032258
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    You had a bad day? You sing a sad song and you turn it around.

    in reply to: Saying Kaddish For A Suicide #1101251
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    Oomis: Even though there is no Aveilus and no Shivah, the logic from above should still apply. Such a person probably needs more Z’chuyos anyway.

    in reply to: Using Physical Force #982375
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    DY: Well sure. But that doesn’t change the fact that Dinei HaTorah might not equate to perfect morality in an imperfect world.

    in reply to: Using Physical Force #982371
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    DY: I believe that R’ Schachter explains that the Torah was given to human beings with an inborn (and imperfect) sense of right and wrong. We have to learn the Torah to hone that sense. But the fact is that some things that work Al Pi Din Torah don’t work in an imperfect society. If human beings were all perfect then we could follow the letter of the Dinei HaTorah with no problem. But we aren’t. So we have concepts like Lifnim MiShuras HaDin and G’zeiros D’rabannan in general. So while Halachah might be the ultimate morality for a perfect society, the fact is that there are some cases where the Halachah does not accurately represent the morality of an imperfect world.

    in reply to: Correct Pronunciation of Tav #979018
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    Akuperma: Machlokes is an indication that something wasn’t part of the Mesorah? Well then.

    in reply to: Correct Pronunciation of Tav #979009
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    Akuperma: You’re still being silly. Why wouldn’t the proper pronunciation be part of the Mesorah just like vowels are?

    in reply to: Latest Arrests In Flatbush & Monsey #981444
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    147: What about them? Because abusive mothers exist we should let children stay with abusive fathers? If a parent is abusive, they don’t deserve their kid, whether it’s the mother or the father (or both). How does your response in any way answer my point that there are sometimes where a child should absolutely not be with his father?

    in reply to: Saying Kaddish For A Suicide #1101245
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    Wolf: I believe that you yourself have pointed out the inherent paradoxes involved in phrases like, “Someone who says Ashrei 3 times every day automatically goes to Olam Haba”. So why would this be any different? Nothing in this universe (from our point of view) is absolute. Chazal made absolute statements that were true 99.99% of the time. There can always be exceptions. If this happens to be one of them, then saying Kaddish would certainly help. And even if the person has no Chelek, maybe the extra Z’chuyos would make his Din easier, whatever that means.

    in reply to: Using Physical Force #982357
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    The Beis HaLeivi has a relatively famous piece on the difference between “Yashrus” and “Din” that would seem to not fit well with this idea that Torah=morality. Then again, it doesn’t make sense to say otherwise. So I don’t know what the P’shat is with this.

    in reply to: Saying Kaddish For A Suicide #1101236
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    It’s a Machlokes Achronim. There S’vara that they can still gain some type of Z’chuyos is a stron S’vara, especially because we don’t know the Cheshbonos of the Ribbono Shel Olam.

    in reply to: Latest Arrests In Flatbush & Monsey #981442
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    147: And what about abusive fathers?

    in reply to: Which Jewish books are kosher? #999164
    Sam2
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    Ginzberg’s Legends of the Jews is pretty much just an accurate translation of Midrashim. It should be fine to read.

    in reply to: Why is Columbus Day a legal holiday? #978838
    Sam2
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    The first person to set foot on the Americas was Leif Erikson.

    yehudayona: If you want to research a truly inspirational explorer, look up Bartolome de la Casas. Columbus was the worst, de la Casas was the best, and most were in the middle.

    akuperma: That’s not so Pashut. Goyim probably have R’shus to wage war and capture each other. There are Gemaras that imply this.

    Many hispanics and Latin/South Americans are incensed at Columbus Day, actually. As are Native Americans.

    in reply to: Correct Pronunciation of Tav #979000
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    Correct meaning what was said at Sinai? Probably close to a “th” (as in “with”; the “th” as in “the” is a Dalet). Correct according to your Mesorah? Whatever your Mesorah is. There were 12 paths through the Yam Suf, all of which were the same. So too as long as you have a legitimate Mesorah you can pronounce it any way you want. (The current Yeshivish “oy” for a Cholam, which started about 100 years ago, may not constitute a legitimate Mesorah. The Litvish “A” for a Cholam, on the other hand, certainly does.)

    in reply to: Why is Columbus Day a legal holiday? #978829
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    yehudayona: He did have an army, you know. He enslaved the Native Americans and stole all of their gold. This influx of gold destroyed the economy of basically all of Africa, directly leading to Africa changing their main export from gold to people.

    Had Columbus treated the Native Americans with more respect, we may have never seen African slavery either. He still would have wiped out the Native Americans by disease, but that’s not really his fault.

    Oh, and he did lots of other terrible things that are not appropriate for mention on this board.

    in reply to: Why is Columbus Day a legal holiday? #978825
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    Christopher Columbus was not a Marrano. Or a converso. He was a Catholic from birth and a terrible human being and role model for children. He single-handedly enslaved two continents, almost wiping out one of them.

    in reply to: Using Physical Force #982344
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    Midwesterner: I don’t think the left-wing is so upset about this. Someone showed me an ORA post on Facebook basically saying, “For all those asking why we don’t just beat people up, it’s because this could happen.” Hevei Mashma that they would if they could. I think, once the media firestorm is over, the left-wing will be happy to see this and that the Chareidi community supports Agunot too. Because, for the most part, the only press that Chareidim get in regards to Agunot is not good.

    in reply to: Does an invalid "get" cause mamzeirus? #994100
    Sam2
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    In theory, it depends. In reality, it is quite difficult to prove that a Get was Meuseh (and that he still did not give it B’lev Shalem; M’useh by itself is only a P’sul D’rabannan so we would throw every Kula in the book and more at the case to make sure the kids aren’t Mamzerim) and the burden of proof is entirely on the former husband. Therefore, while in theory it could create Mamzerim, such a case occurring L’ma’aseh would be incredibly rare.

    in reply to: Using Physical Force #982339
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    showjoe: Because there wasn’t an actual Beis Din that had declared him a M’sareiv or obligated to give him a Get. And certainly not this group. They never even saw him. Makin Oso… is an extension of Beis Din Makin V’onshin Shelo Min HaDin. It has to be a legitimate Beis Din and for legitimate reasons. They weren’t in this case.

    in reply to: If I only had a brain #1039306
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    ultimaterock: Most assume the Issur is 3D (because the Gemara explicitly states that), but some Achronim are still Machmir, if I recall correctly.

    Also, many in previous generations (it’s not so Shayach nowadays) were Makpid Al Pi Kaballah to not have their picture taken. That is why there is only one picture of the Chafetz Chaim (for his passport) and he covered half his face.

    R’ Moshe was Mapkid to never have his picture taken until one summer when he was learning in the mountains or a camp or something for his vacation (like most Gedolim used to do). Many guys wanted to take his picture and R’ Moshe refused. R’ Moshe asked a few people why the Bochurim wanted his picture. They said they wanted to put it on their walls. R’ Moshe was shocked and then asked what they would put up instead now that he refused. Someone told him that they would probably hang up pictures of baseball players. R’ Moshe said better him than the baseball players and from then on allowed his picture to be taken. (Told firsthand by my grandfather, who spent that summer helping take care of anything R’ Moshe needed.)

    in reply to: Coffee Room quoted on Yahoo news (Sam2, Stuck, yummy cupcake) #978595
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    Well, I don’t think my post there made a bad impression. Anyone who understood it would see that it’s quite a normal opinion.

    in reply to: Interesting Quote from Satmar Rebbe, Rabeinu Yoel Zatzal #978548
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    Feif: I will tell you the difference, and it is clear as day. There are/were major, major Rabbonim who strongly disagreed, even on a personal level, with R’ Tendler (heck, even major “Modern” Rabbonim think he goes too far sometimes) and R’ Soloveitchik (though there were very, very few Rabbonim of a high caliber that attacked him), among others. No one of any caliber attacked R’ Yoel on a personal level. You can critique his opinions, but not him personally.

    Personal attacks against R’ Kook should not be allowed to stand though. He was the nearly-undisputed Posek HaDor. You can argue with his Shittos, but attacking him personally costs you your Chelek in Olam Haba.

    in reply to: Latest Arrests In Flatbush & Monsey #981426
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    HaLeiVi: Then he’s a M’sareiv and you can beat him for that. But that’s not what happened here anyway.

    in reply to: If I only had a brain #1039304
    Sam2
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    As long as the scarecrow has an entirely flat face I think it’s okay, though some Poskim would be Machmir in that case.

    There is an Issur D’Oraisa of Lo Sa’asun Iti, which we assume means (in very un-Maimonidean fashion) that one cannot make a Tzurah of a human face.

    (BTW HaLeiVi, if you want proof of Rashi’s corporealism see what he says on Lo Sa’asun Iti, Al Tikri Iti Ela Osi on the Gemara in Avodah Zarah. It doesn’t get much more B’feirush than that.)

    in reply to: 50,000 davening at Kotel #978425
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    Well, if it was a given that every Tefillah made by 50,000 people would be answered, then we would have a serious hand up over HKBH. He wouldn’t be able to run the world the way He needs to. Obviously, some times some Tefillos cannot be answered as we ask.

    in reply to: Using Physical Force #982337
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    showjow: Yes, but this was not a case in which that Gemara applies.

    in reply to: Latest Arrests In Flatbush & Monsey #981417
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    Pixelate: No. These “Rabbis” are thugs who beat up husbands for money. The ones who are Mekadesh Shem Shamayim are those who beat up husbands when the courts have determined that there is no other recourse to get a woman her Get. Then it’s Makin Oso Ad SheYomar Rotzeh Ani. And it doesn’t cost upwards of 60K to do that.

    in reply to: Latest Arrests In Flatbush & Monsey #981410
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    Adam: That is a minority opinion. But you are right, I shouldn’t have stated so definitively. It definitely is a matter of debate among the Poskim.

    in reply to: How does one define a rasha? #978535
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    Lost: Of course not. The more Mitzvos and fewer Aveiros that one does, the less of a Rasha they are. They might still be a Rasha, but they are certainly less of one (I feel like the Gemara in either Yevamos or Sanhedrin 32b says like this).

    in reply to: Does anyone know where I can get mezuzos that are REALLY a shemirah? #978579
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    I’m not going to comment on the veracity of these statements, but why on Earth would being M’kayeim a Mitzvah D’oraisa cause Tzaros?

    in reply to: Latest Arrests In Flatbush & Monsey #981405
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    adam12: What you say is almost entirely correct. If the Beis Din determines that the marriage is over, then he is M’chuyav to give a Get, even if the reason for the marriage ending is that she says Ma’us Alay or that they fight too much.

    in reply to: Lost Tribes. #978143
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    Akuperma: There was a major study on this published less than a week ago. I’m not saying whether it’s accurate or not, but it deserves to be mentioned.

    in reply to: Can cancer be cured with organic vegan whole food diet? #978640
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    Yaakov doe: Having the shorter life expectancy that existed 75 years ago would also result in less cancer. Dying of other diseases before getting cancer also causes less cancer.

    in reply to: Lost Tribes. #978140
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    Chacham: No. They wouldn’t have a Yerusha in Eretz Yisrael. However, a recent study indicates a strong portion of Ashkenazi Jews have Indo-European matrilineal descent and are Near-eastern patrilinially, which would not be an issue of this.

    in reply to: Going to Uman under age seven #978628
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    yytz: Chabad might be a debate, but at least there are strong, strong opinions that they are okay.

    No one supports Na Nach.

    in reply to: Harav Ovadya Yosef ZTL #1037576
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    Mods, can we change the title? The Minhag is to not keep the added name if the person passed away from the illness for which the name was added.

    That being said, one cannot truly appreciate the Gadlus of R’ Ovadia until one has read his T’shuvos. People who base his Gadlus off his P’sakim and his political activism (he reinvigorated the Sephardic world-through Torah-in an unprecedented way since the Expulsion). Similarly, people who think he just knew every opinion and counted the majority on each issue cannot appreciate his level of learning. He was not just a computer counting opinions.

    One cannot understand the depths of his learning-the way he used those thousands of sources to weave a brilliant and beautiful tapestry on each and every minute Halachic issue until one reads the T’shuvos in the Yabia Omer. (The Yechaveh Da’as and his other Seforim are easier to read through and therefore show this ability less.) These T’shuvos themselves show how beautiful Torah is more than just about anything else I’ve ever learned.

    It is said in the name of R’ Shlomo Zalman Auerbach that had R’ Ovadia lived 100 years earlier, he would have still been a Gadol. That was a necessary statement for R’ Shlomo Zalman to say 50 years ago, when R’ Ovadia was just beginning to build worldwide acclaim as a Gaon Olam. Nowadays, though, it is immediately obvious to anyone who learns his writings that his level of Gadlus would have been appreciated in any generation.

    R’ Ovadia Yosef had the third-biggest Seforim library in the world, had extreme vision problems for many years, and yet he still knew every Sefer in his library Ba’al Peh. Nevertheless, he was an incredible Masmid, devoting every second available to learning Torah. He managed to do this even with the exhausting demands of leading a massive Tzibbur.

    My Rebbe once told a story about R’ Akiva Eiger. He was once traveling and was forced to stay at an inn. The innkeeper only had one Sefer to give him. It was a Chiddushei HaRashba Al HaShas. When R’ Akiva Eiger left, the innkeeper noticed that his bed had not been slept in and that several pages missing from the Rashba had been written in by hand. What is the point of this story? That R’ Akiva Eiger knew the Rashba by heart? There have been Talmidei Chachamim throughout even recent generations that knew the Rashba by heart (including R’ Ovadia). No, the lesson is that even though R’ Akiva Eiger knew it by heart, he still stayed up all night learning it. That is a true lesson to learn from the Hasmadah of R’ Ovadia. We may never be blessed with his incredible memory. But we can strive to be as devoted to learning Torah as he was-especially because we don’t have that memory.

    One story about R’ Ovadia to close this. R’ Soloveitchik was once considered to be the Chief Rabbi of Israel and, therefore, went through the country giving Shiurim in 1935. One Shiur was in a Kollel in Chaifa (maybe Tel Aviv; I’m not positive which city). The Rav wanted to make a Diyuk from a Rashba at the beginning of Bava Kama (Bava Metzia?) but, unfortunately, there was no copy in the Kollel. One of the Avreichim asked the Rav which Rashba it was and that he would recite the Rashba by heart so that the Rav would make his Diyuk. Rabbi Genack did some research, found out which Kollel it was, and asked R’ David Yosef if his father happened to be in that Kollel at that time, to which R’ David Yosef responded in the affirmative. R’ Ovadia was confident that he knew the Rashba Ba’al Peh even back in 1935- when he was only 25 years old!

    in reply to: Why no mention of Rav Ovadiah in Monsey/Lakewood, etc. #978770
    Sam2
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    About Time: That’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard. No one represents YU if not R’ Schachter.

    And your comment about R’ Ovadia’s methodology without a doubt qualifies as being Malig Al Divrei Chachamim and possibly bordering on Machchish Magideha. One can lose their Chelek in Olam Haba on a message board too.

    in reply to: Why no mention of Rav Ovadiah in Monsey/Lakewood, etc. #978768
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    HaLeiVi: There is a T’shuvah in the Yaskil Avdi discussing this. I think in Chelek 4. I know R’ Schachter is very unhappy with the concept though. He thinks like you.

    in reply to: Going to Uman under age seven #978626
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    MDG: Read the pamphlets they give out. There is some solid K’firah in them.

    in reply to: Going to Uman under age seven #978620
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    yytz: I think he was referring to the line, “In order to be a Meilitz between him and HKBH”.

    It might be mainstream Hashkafa, but that doesn’t change the fact that the Rambam seems to have thought it’s Apikorsus. The Rambam probably would have said the Zohar was Apikorsus if he saw it.

    in reply to: Why no mention of Rav Ovadiah in Monsey/Lakewood, etc. #978757
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    I believe YU also gave Divrei Hesped for R’ Elyashiv.

    in reply to: Lost Tribes. #978137
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    It is better for the tribes if we assume that all of these groups aren’t Jewish, even if some might actually be.

    in reply to: Sefardic Aveilus for a Rav #978808
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    A Rebbe would generally be the Rav Muvhak of his Chassidim, so yes, they would tear Kriya.

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