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Ckasiical music- I understand your issue with it i had the same issue when I found out my at the time kallah had Facebook. I always had an issue with it and still do. However you should understand that there are people especially girls that can use Facebook kosherly with their friends only. I suggest bringing it up as telling her how you feel about it I would be careful not to hurt her by saying something like if someone has it then they are…. However you can explain that it’s something you don’t want in your home because it can lead to undesirable situations. She/ he may be willing to give it up, or not. You won’t know until you discuss it. Once you get his/ her opinion about having it in your home or not you should def discuss this with a mentor.

It the same answer for a normal car, is there any car that you can ca “normal”? No, so it all depends on your lifestyle and budget, you may spend fifty buck and you may spend one thousand dollars so go figure

Lemon- make sure there’s a reason why you’re marrying her not that there just isn’t a reason not to marry her. Also, something I’ve heard from a friend, do you like her the way she is without her ever changing? Do you want to be like her? Will you be proud If your children turn to be just like her? You gotta have three YES’s to marry a girl.

Above all the advice you got here, most important is advice from a mentor in real life that knows you well. Tell them all that your feeling and don’t holdback anything. I had some things bothering me while engaged and didn’t really bring it up and got married and quickly divorced , if something is on your mind talk to someone about it until you’re completely comfortable.

Hatzlacha

Mp- thanks its a Yamaha F310 it’s my first and only guitar I bought over ten years ago. I hope things work out for you and your upswing comes soon, you really help a lot of us here so we wish the best for you. Like I’ve told you in the past you def have been one of the threads that kept our place alive and you always have an encouraging word for a friend, keep it up we all appreciate your kindness here.

Kodesh- welcome to marriage, there’ isn’t someone who really knew their spouse until being married for a bit , look I’ll bet there were some surprises you brought to you spouse , and that the point , when you Mary someone your telling them I like you so much that I’m willing to accept any surprises that come my way and learn to love it. Look If you feel this way you should speak to a mentor a Rebbi someone who can guide you. Hatzlacha.

Appreciate her for what she is.

Sayididit- elimelech blumstein

Well it def helps if you are musically inclined but you don’t have to be . In fact a famous Jewish composer is quite tone deaf and has someone listen to him song and together they figure out what he was trying to sing. Personally I compose songs usually on guitar sometimes on piano and it starts with adorned focusing on a Paul that stood out for me or something that I connected to for whatever reason and I’ll sit down with an insrument and play some chords and see what happpends. You dont need to play an insrument to compose though many omposers dont play any instruments. Honestly a song comes the easiest when one has a strong emotion whether happy or sad or anything else it seems that emotions realy shape a beautiful song

You don’t have to understand the language to feel the urgency in the message delivered.

Sure I’d be a navy seal.

Hi there, I want to share with you guys a nice line that I thought of last week it goes like this “Hope is in the mind let not actual circumstances cloud that beautiful picture that in truth can become reality “

I haven’t found that its acceptable to negotiate with a retail store, however with regards to electricians plumbers and similar contractors Theres definitely room to negotiate in fact I feel that their original price was inflated expecting the cliend or customer to pull it down a bit so the way i see it is that if I don’t negotiate I’m giving away extra money he didn’t even expect. Why should I do that.

Hi everyone! I logged in and saw thr for some ur week wasn’t great well here comes a brand new week and I hope it a good week full of good feelings and success.

Mp nice to have you back here, ur the man and I hope that shortly you will be someone’s man and have a happy and beautiful life together.

Honesty is very important , however there’s no mitzva to go ahead and tell your date about all the the things you you have don wrong in your life. For example if your a guy who while in yeshiva have visited casinos and you realized that it’s wrong and you never went again and all around your a good guy. Well then don’t get up there on stage on a date and say ” you know shprintza I used to go casinos” what’s the point? However if u still do oh you better open ur mouth and tell her. You can switch casino for watching movies or anything of the sort and I feel the same way if you aren’t involved in the behavior anymore why bashmutz yourself , teshuva erases things from ones syche

Watch this! 23 in the Omer is the only Omer counting that the second digit (3) is equal to the weeks and the first digit (2) is equal to the days. 23 days is 3 weeks and 2 days.

Cool huh?

Hey Dhl do you work for DHL?

The power of minyan is so great that even if one doesn’t have his zechusim the power of a ztibur pulls him through.

Shabbos was awesome. I also like to use the coffe room to pass some time like right now. It gives me the opportunity to feel fulfilled to answer someone’s question on different topics or to start a new thread if I’m feeling ambitious enough. I can also vent on the poetry thread and my friends wil be supportive.

She sells sea shells at the seashore

Dear poster, sorry but I’m not scrolling all the way back up to the top to see who you were. These were some great lines.

Now a riddle for you guys, one line was repeated and one word was misspelled, what are they?????

Bank is a place where they lend you money if you can prove you don’t need it, great one! Although the banks’ theory is correct.

From pictures I’ve seen it seems that’s chassisish rabanim and some chassidim not all though wore black hats many others wore gray , sometime after the war in America the hats slowly changed to black until it becames what it is now the yeshiva symbol. It’s not inherently different from any other color that one can wear blue brown for example in fact in a hundred years the color may change but whatever the color is at any particular time is the symbol and uniform accepted by those in that class of people

Mp ur right about dancing in the rain, things wont always be great however we have the ability to always make the best of any situation. We all fall at times and feel like we’re done, remembering the good times wil help us be encouraged to pick up and move on.

Thanks kapusta , Middle Path I’m glad you’re back,

A gadget with which you can beam into someone’s brain to make him or her think something you want them

to. For example, if you know someone who is very annoying and talking about it with them hasn’t changed them at all, to be able to beam into his head and make them understand that they are annoying so that maybe theyll have a chance at being friendly and social would be awesome!

Yoyo- seems like u need to figure out what ur looking for because ur coming up with situations that aren’t real. When you find a guy you really like you may just overlook smoking and not even ask us here.

Susie- as long as a girl dresses within the guidelines of tznius , she’s not over anything I’d someone looks at her.