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June 29, 2022 12:19 am at 12:19 am in reply to: Supreme Court Rules – States Can Ban Abortion #2101269Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant
Avira, I am not standing by any of the authors or publications I am quoting. So, if you want to perform letzinut b’humra, you would have to contact then directly. Sevorot stand on their own. Feel free to reply on substance.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAvira > chazal’s authority in all areas
you have to be more specific on what you mean here. chazal’s authority is collective, of course. We have amoraim presenting a position, but then rescinding it when someone else brings a baraita. This is normal. There are many social takanot that hinge on the result.
Say, R Huna would buy leftover vegetables at the end of the market day. But, now farmers have cellphones and abuse it by quickly sharing the news and bringing more vegetables to sell to R Huna. Will R Huna insist on his minhag or change his policy?
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAvira, as I am not always up to detail of kollel lifestyle, you have outdated info about working yidden: a day of 9 hours working and 6 hours sleeping leaves 9 hours daily, that may or may not include – 2 hours of learning-while-driving; 30+30+15 minutes of the minyan; 1 hour learning w/ kids maybe while eating dinner or driving them; there are 4 hours left for learning at kollel. This is not counting 18 extra hours per weekend and vacations.
That said, I agree that full-time work is overkill. A real baal middos should work maybe 4 hours a day leaving plenty of time for learning & chesed. This would be Rambam’s middle way, but I do not know people who follow it.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAvram > . I also find it interesting that the CR is not full of angry kollel wives bemoaning their fates.
A fair point. I saw a number of people of all genders working in chinuch who are burnt out with the lifestyle. As a shocking illustration, one complained to me that her husband did not want to move the kid to another school for several years because they both worked in the current school and it was “free”. But you are right, a lot of kollel wives are nashim chayil and do not complain here (although they have their own site).
And I am not at all claiming that something is majority or typical. I am asking – whether we have mechanisms to prevent abuses, however rare they might be. Gemora brings examples of women upset by away husband, so it is not unthinkable.
I out in-laws on the list of possibly non-kosher funding for the reason that if the in-laws are not doing it fully out of their free will, there is avak geneiva here.
Suggestion of working less is accepted, Avira already mentioned that. My understanding that majority of Bavliim would come to the yeshiva for 2 months and go work the rest of the year while reviewing the masechet on their own.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantok, then, I’ll go to the time when I was younger and review all the learning that I already forgot. This is what we will be tested for, not what other generations did.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAvira, gemora generally respects facts and logic. To understand your position better, I would like to see your examples of, say, Amoraim, researching facts and then paskening against the facts. I am sure there are some examples when we “do not believe our eyes”, but let’s analyze what are limits.
For example, there is a discussion between Jewish and Greek scholars whether the world was created and seemingly Greeks won the argument, but Jews are staying with our position due to the strength of the tradition (some of the conclusions may be Tosfos, not fully in Gemorah times).I understand that this is due to the incompleteness of the Greek proof. Were they to be shown a video recording of the eternal world (I guess this would have been an eternal video), they would have agreed.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantn0, great, they could not find retzicha and geneiva, now let’s do thought crimes…
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantKorach also davened, I presume.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantthe question is asked on the right day:
I would go to Sarajevo, June 28th 1914. Would park my horse on Archduke’s path to the assassination, possibly preventing terrible WWs. Nobody would say thank you, but that’s ok.June 28, 2022 8:54 pm at 8:54 pm in reply to: Supreme Court Rules – States Can Ban Abortion #2101186Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAlan Jotkowitz in The Intersection of Halakhah and Science in Medical Ethics, Hakirah 19, 2015 compares Tzitz eliezer with R Moshe on several other topics – time of death, eod of life care, artificial insemination, .. and conckudes that Tzitz Eliezer leans towards more conservative positions relying on classical halakhic decisions without taking modern science into account, while R Moshe is more “modern” (my words, not his). For example, he rejects paternity disproof by blood type, relying on Gemora’s position that all “red” (including blood) comes exclusively from the mother.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantn0, so he fulfils his ketuba, what is your issue with him?… Is he depressed? Maybe you should not try to put him into a (learning) institution, but find something that will excite him to learn?
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> what do you say to someone who is just sitting and not learning?
you don’t need to say anything to him, except a polite hello. At some point, he’ll get hungry and will have to get up.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantn0 > how can one be ‘holy of holies’ and the other an embarrassment to religion?
Maybe you are mis-reading the Shmita Rambam through your own reading (“Yaakov wearing hat from yete m’BeerSheva). He is saying that the ideal T’Ch should follow derech Levi, being a giving teacher… Did Leviim only sang and taought? They had their cities where they probaqbly grew cucumbers and radishes for themselves … yes, they collected maaser, but I am not sure Rambam includes that in his ideal. Maybe you see more in close reading or commentaries
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantThe most effective way woudl be, to quote Reb Regan, “for Jimmy Carter (3rd) to lose his job”. Reduce problems that government creates for businesses, make sure people expect that their businesses will not be vilified and regulated.
June 27, 2022 8:43 pm at 8:43 pm in reply to: Supreme Court Rules – States Can Ban Abortion #2100763Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAs expected, the issue is now back part of public discourse, after being frozen for 50 years by the courts. I don’t know whether it will lead to some mature conclusions or will be ugly. I guess, Hashem gives people bechira hofshit .. for now, some arguments are somewhat inartful – one article bemoans that colleges are concerned. I thought they are concerned by a need to reduce “fun” on campus, maybe making them less popular. Turns out their concern is even simpler – they are concerned that mothers will have hard time studying and will drop out.
June 27, 2022 6:43 pm at 6:43 pm in reply to: Supreme Court Rules – States Can Ban Abortion #2100762Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantDaas, if you were to drink the same good stuff I do, you would notice that I referred a _greater_ r Moshe – son of Maimon. I am not trying to rank Rabonim, I am just replying to those who do it as a way to quash other opnions. I am also in no way support Roe, just trying to understand the range of halakha that is absolute and what are the social components. As Gefilte mentions, it is possible that R Moshe was reacting to the social conditions (and I have no problem with that too).
June 27, 2022 12:23 pm at 12:23 pm in reply to: Supreme Court Rules – States Can Ban Abortion #2100647Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantSometimes we want to understand what is the range of acceptable opinions especially on controversial social topics that are not yet fully resolved. No need to shortcut the debate by saying that nobody could argue with r Moshe. Same way so many found ways to go directly against an even greater (with apology) r Moshe’s position on Shanda of getting $ for Torah teaching, not even learning.
June 26, 2022 11:07 pm at 11:07 pm in reply to: Supreme Court Rules – States Can Ban Abortion #2100548Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAvira > Americans are wildly against most of the 7 mitzvos being capital offenses.
Actually, I did rough estimates, 5 out of 10 comm on the havero side are ordered according to popularity in current society if you take them literally: a tiny percentage of people kill, with increasing frequency going further.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantReb Clarence Thomas has a new book out. In excerpts he quotes his grandfather who looked at the newly constructed “projects” and remarked – they are building houses, not communities. It is not enough to wish away helping poor – you need to actually know how to achieve it. See Rambam’s priority list.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantSyag > Danger has criteria
Right. I was just pondering this. We can put some numerical values on mixtures – 1/60, 1/100 and on preponderance of evidence (50%), but I am not seeing good definition of “danger” or just “this might happen”. Anyone knows?
Gemora has a lot of discussions weighing dangers of missing out on something v. remote risk (not necessarily to health, maybe just of public confusion). On the current page – should we allow yibum under some confusing and rare circumstances when someone somewhere might see that and not realize what exactly is happening and learn halakha incorrectly. While the weights are not clear to me, what is clear that every time we can avoid risk, we should consider it seriously. Very common solution in Yevamos – do halitzah instead of yibum, something you would not do if there was no risk at all.As to socks – what if a shidduch date is already driving? what if she is gonna steal socks from her sister or even brother, risking lives in the upcoming fight? what about mental stress on her mother?
So, I usually take such calls at work (btw, my kids consider calling rude, they text) – at least first 2-3 per incident.Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantTry lending money for free, Chofetz Chaim considers it a bigger mitzva.
A couple of halachik reasons:
– people in need of loans are more limited in their choices. You can go to multiple places asking for $20, but to get a serious loan, you can only go to people who know you or are willing to do due diligence
– loans are often for people how are temporarily down and see a way to get back on their feet. It is a great mitzva to help thme now before they become totally ruined.You also have a great feeling of relief when you are finally (after some delays) get paid back, and the other person stops avoiding you. And you can lend that money again!
If you don’t get paid, consider that you finally did what you tried to do to begin with – to give tzedokah. (just do not lend more than what you wanted to give).
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantNo price controls. He is simply printing money to give to those who are lacking and forcing companies to produce formula or whatever other markets his decrees destroyed.
June 24, 2022 6:49 pm at 6:49 pm in reply to: Supreme Court Rules – States Can Ban Abortion #2100171Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantujm, a good question:
most increase will be in the most restrictive states and those are very pro-Republican, so it should not dilute much. Economic migration from high tax states to the free states is a bigger threat. Maybe states can introduce taxes on new arrivals only if they vote same way as they voted before, although there are some technical problems with this approach.Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantn0mesorah, thanks a lot. I did not know that Sefaria’s gemora is using R Steinsaltz! Woe to me for not recognizing it … I think I looked up what Seforia sources are before 2017. I don’t recall whether they had Bavli then at all. Also, they are using mathematician’s Heinrich Guggenheimer 2015 translation for Yerushalmi.
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Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantJackk, I looked up polling about the committee:
45% of independents approve their work and 20% of Repubs, so not much traction with Indies, but some with anti-Trump R-s.on hearings (literally sheni vhamishi – June 13 and 16):
20% of Ds listened in full, 8% of Is and 5% of Rs did
44% of Ds did not listen at all, I 68% R 75%
they do not seem to have data on the rest of hearingson minute details:
Only 40% of Dems heard nothing at all about some lady paid $60K for a short speech, 60% of R-s and I-s did not hear that.
30% of Ds did not hear anything about a judge talking about “war on democracy”, 50% of the rest.
30% of Ds did not hear about email asking T for a pardon, 50% of Rs and Is did not
for comparison:
40% of all group did not hear that some Elon M. voted R first time in his life
only 20% ! in each group heard nothing about some doctor getting positive for Covid
13% of Ds and Is and 10% of Rs did not hear about inflation (no car?)
50% of all groups did not hear that border Patrol arrests on Mexican border are record highAlways_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAnswer: current Daf Yomi Seder.
More(!) seriously, I have to answer humbly “I do not know” to the OP’s question – despite years of diligent study with a personal tutor. Even after the tutor and I introduced. B’H, several more exemplars into the world and I was zoche to observe them closely, first in vivo and then in vitro – I still cannot comprehend them. But the Seder is not over, so I am still holding hope.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantPI > Why do we need to ban anything? You’re a smart person!
There is value of having Jewish resources without shmutz, so that people who do not want it can confidently stay on that site. That what a smart person would do. Sefaria seems to be doing a reasonable trade-off between being an open site and limiting problems, given that only one person here was able to find something inappropriate (probably after looking for it for a long time).
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantA bigger picture – there is always a difference how we address risks coming directly from Hashem, or indirectly from our enemies:
David rightfully choose a plague v. a war, as there is no end to which evil people might go; We teach Torah in the face of Romans or Soviets, etc. But there is no chiyuv to do bris milah on a bleeding child to prove that we are big tzadikim. This was also addressed in some of teshuvos regarding Covid.Where the limits of risk are might be a subject for debate. People can indeed be affected by biases here: some because they “believe in science” and will swallow anything to show how “progressive” they are; others – because they do not trust anything “from goyim” and do not know anything themselves. Most are affected by the bias of convenience and personal finance – I don’t want to do some extras; do something my friends do not do; or that can hurt my mossad. (kiso/koso/kaaso).
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI heard Ramallah is still affordable, albeit gentrifying… I saw an article saying that locals complain that some Israeli Arabs are buying apartments on a cheap to accommodate their kids who also attend Rammalah U.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGadol, yes, we will first need to file for an order to disclose ujm’s IP.
Maybe rather than monitoring mental and prisoner records, there should be psychological tests for empathy. Just review of social media would suffice, like in this case.
June 24, 2022 5:58 pm at 5:58 pm in reply to: Supreme Court Rules – States Can Ban Abortion #2100133Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantThe dangerous part for liberals – in 19 years, growth of number of voters in red states. This is already happening based on ideology and has a scientific name “Roe effect”, and now it will further increase red state population, leading to changes in electoral college.
Another question – some hope that Dems will be so outraged that they’ll drive to elections this November. (Well, given gas prices, maybe they need to be bussed). From rumors, even Trump is afraid of that. From experience, though, Rep base is showing up more for social issues, while those Dems who did not vote so far do not really care much. Maybe because Rep social agenda is positive for a normal human being, while the slogan “let’s make sure a girl in Alabama can get rid of her baby if she can’t afford to feed her” is less motivating.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAvira and it’s evil at its core.
>> When it comes to mitzvos “Hashem will forgive us”, nu nu, it’s only a mitzvah…
We have lots of halakha of postponing bris (jaundice) or cancelling (hemophilia, empirically measured – 2 brothers dying), possibly even draft as I mentioned (Yevamos ~ 70). So, it is clear that health is a factor, the question is a matter of degree that can be rationally discussed, nothing “evil” here. The “forgive” wording is entirely mine, poorly paraphrasing the shabbos breaking rationale “live for them”.
>> But when we have non torah based political interests…. that’s a different story.
I understand that you see this as political on the context of pro- and anti-Zionism. Here we are trying to get into another person’s mind, so let’s try following him. In the context of people affiliated with Israel as a Jewish country, this is an issue of having an upper hand against the enemy who is a threat to Jewish lives. Lubavicher was quoting in this context a difference between fighting goyim in general and those who attack border cities – the latter requires extra protection, otherwise enemy will continue creeping in over time, like Russia in Ukraine. Har Habayit is an important place both in Jewish and non-Jewish minds, so prevailing there matters. You can continue arguing that his premise is wrong and Jews should evacuate from Israel, or you can disagree with the heshbon whether it is healthy to provoke a billion people, but – again, from that POV – it is a reasonable sevora.
June 24, 2022 5:40 pm at 5:40 pm in reply to: Chaveirim, Yidden, and Lomdei Toirah, be malveh me your Oznayim #2100139Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantHeram Wouk’s grandfather came to Amerika, spent some time teaching in Yiddish and after lacking students, decided to go to EY. In the airport, he told his grandson – maybe I should have learnt English, but, on first impression, it sounded very crude so I did not… Of course, he actually did not say that, please translate it back into Yeshivish Yiddish in your head.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAvira > we’re not obligated to follow the opinions of climatologists, there’s no source or mesorah for it.
n0 > We should follow the truth.I agree with both! We have great mesorah from Gemora that we should use sevorah to make decisions. Sometimes, you can experiment yourself, others – consult experts. In all cases, you need to be critical of what experts are saying and strive for truth. Of course, one should listen to gedolim here – who know halocha and either studied science themselves or can consult sufficient authorities.
Edited. Leave it to the rabbeim to decide who is qualified to pasken.June 24, 2022 5:35 pm at 5:35 pm in reply to: Supreme Court Rules – States Can Ban Abortion #2100129Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> Roe vs Wade has been overturned.
Roe was overturned. Wade – won.
For those concerned, this is not a gezirat malchut, the issue the being returned to the democratic process, like many other issues in this country. Most states have reasonable laws for most issues lately (excepting slavery 160 years ago). CA is not (yet) arresting people for owning businesses, and AL is not arresing people reading Das Kapital. So, they will figure out this also, hopefully. some states might be pushing for extreme positions now, because of political stagnation, but will do some accommodations later. At the end, each state will get what their voters deserve, and those who really really do not like the result – they can easily move. Just be grateful for all these painless freedom options that this great country provides.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAvira, a good question about difference between metzitza and har habayit. I presume that the thinking is that danger is allowed when there is a reason. On metzitza, one can say that H’ will be also concerned about baby’s health and will forgive skipping this tradition. Gemora says that one Rav will postpone bris due to draft from wind, so it is not too outrageous to be concerned about remote threat to a baby. On the other hand, one might claim that going to Har Habyit has a value in strengthening Jewish presence in Yerushalaim, etc rather than danger. I understand that this is questionable, and that nonsense for you, but this is a disagreement on political judgment rather than halakha.
Looking at metzitza issue from recent knowledge, Aguda’s response that “driving is more dangerous” seems to be true. On the other hand, cases of post-bris herpes is still reported in press once in a while over the years. Maybe someone wants to compute numbers to compare with covid danger per person, assuming say 10 herpes cases per NYC (of course, cases may be under-reported).
We can also conclude that, similarly to Covid, it is possible that R Tendler with his understanding of builogy and statistics understands the danger and thus osers, while a community of people who do not study that may rely on “shomer peshayim”, as they do for Covid.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantHe might be shogeg when he is a cat, but maybe he was mazid in becoming a cat?! Or at least shogeq karov l’mazid! He shold have guarded himself from thinking he is cat before it became too late.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantanon, it is Trump’s fault. He appointed Powell. Biden was not expected to do better, say thank you that he resisted appointing a diversity socialist that his team wanted.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantRebE > Someone got lost in the winter without cell phone connection
Many years ago, I observed thousands, even millions, of people roaming around NYC without cell phone connection, totally lost – some wandered around and, ironically, even talked to each other – as if one lost person can help another lost person! Kids think I am exaggerating as usual.. If you also saw that, please confirm.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantApparently even after all blunders, there are still things that administration can do, but does not:
1) Biden.. dangled the possibility of at least temporarily waiving the Jones Act, . that says only American-flagged ships can carry fuel and other goods between U.S. ports. The industry would likely jump at that, but there’s doubt that the administration could overcome union opposition to doing so2) Industry ..requesting faster permitting times for pipelines and easier access to public lands for drilling — .. administration is unlikely to acquiesce. In fact, the Interior Department in January is expected to propose new rules that would raise the royalty rates companies pay to produce oil on federal land.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantthis is a CATastrophe!
If he destroyed your couch, you can still sue him in Beis Din. Beis din will then have to assert whether he is an Adam or a Behama (and who the responsible owner is who will pay for shen & regel then).
I am not sure what the beis din going to say if they are given both a bris certificate and a vet immunization record.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGadol, thanks for explaining this old adage: of course, it means that the person should always go “up” – when he leaves the house and when he comes back! To remind yourself of this practice, you should always leave the house from the basement so that then you go “up”, and then come back to the first floor (or whatever is the top floor when you live on a terrace).
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGive it to someone who you know does a good job at whatever he is doing. Giving funds to institutions may or may not be efficient, but also does not just provide an opportunity but also increases someone’s power and you are responsible for that.
For example, providing funds for educational purposes either directly to parents or to outstanding teachers, wherever they will be teaching, might be better than giving funds to institutions.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantSyag > You admit you are lacking information but your response is to tell me to do research.
to recap: I did my research – have read a number of works and heard references from others that all lead to the conclusion that the Rav is a Talmid Chacham. You and others are dismissing him based on some unclear references/rumors/opinions that claim that his views are not just something you do not agree, but unacceptable. I am pointing out that the picture of such a dysfunctional Feinstein family does not make sense and should make you ask yourself a question.
Btw, some introductions mention that a number of Igeres Moshes are addressed to R Tendler. Can someone summarize what topics are in their conversation and how is R Moshe addressing R Tendler?
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> said, “No, inflation was high before the war in Ukraine broke out”.
why do we need expert opinions when we have facts? Just look up inflation plot and dates when war started.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantJackk, thanks, this is mind boggling stuff. Is this still prime-time TV or on C-span? How many people are watching (besides you).
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipanttp clarify, I meant his works on Torah & Science, not on pure science. I think hespedim are online. Maybe it is on you to find R Reuven’s hesped and see whether he says what you say.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantSyag,
I am not familiar w/ R Tendler’s declarations that are “against Torah”. I am not fully familiar with all he said and did over years, I read some of his science-related work and it was reasonable. He was R Moshe’s s-i-l and not put in herem by him, as far as I know. A quick search shows that R Reuven Feinstein spoke at R Tendler’s levaya. All of this just has to give you a pause before proceeding, but I see no acknowledgement.Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantujm, as I said, these 2 versions seem to compliment each other, not contradict. I heard it from someone who was learning together w/ R Tendler in his later years and heard it directly from him.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantujm, you can refer to physicists on the issues of physics, but if you look at relationship between science and Torah, you would obviously start with someone who is bokeh in both.
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