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In my shul buying a seat is membership.
1: thats rude.
A great book is Make Me Don’t Break Me by R. Moshe Gans. Please don’t take anecdotal advice from unknown entities. Find an experienced mechanech who can guide you from his extensive experience and research.
Corporal punishment works. It also has many negative effects. Some experts will say NEVER (R. Sholom Wolbe, R. Ginsberg and others, while some will say under extreme circumstances. If you hit in anger you are transgressing “pen yosef” that you may not hit someone.
When I was an inexperienced parent I sometimes hit my kids. I now create charts and rewards and at times will punish but never hit.Shmaya: are you looking for a rav, a toen or a lawyer? It might be worth to spend money and get qualified advice.
Joseph: you write something without being able to quote a source??
Joseph: what makes you say that?
My life mission at this point is to raise and support a family.
Is it interesting? To me it was.
Is it current? Yes.
That makes it news.
Is it yeshivish? Hmmmm. ..thats a good question.CTL said hes willing to give more so that people who really need help can get it.
I would only give for short term help and vocational training.Heres an idea…government tkes a dmall percentage for defense and run the government. Afterward, people must pay a percentage, sliding scale, to whatever government program they prefer. Housing, infrastructure, entitlements etc.
Sam: dont denigrate a brocha from a tzaddik. It borders on apikorsus.
If you have a son-in-law a talmid chochom, you buy fir him a regular chosson shas.
If he isnt a talmid chochom, you need to spend much more on an Artscroll shas!Joseph: do you have any facts to back your claim?
Maybe your mom is right? Is it possible that you arent mature enough to get married?
Joseh: can you back your statement that she has an obligation to get married?
Joseph: you say the state wont care if they fail. How do you know that?
They are different, both socio-economically and in terms of yeshivish.
Two options,
1. Ask some anonymous people in the CR.
2. Find someone qualified to ask.I agree with meno. Xylitol though is decent.
I like torah tales or stories on the parsha. They arent written as you requested, but you canvlook up based on the parsha. R. Zevins stories, I dont remember the name , maybe hassidic tales on the parsha are great a well.
Joseph: what is the research to back your comment?
Joseph: I prefer it.
Why should chulent be a high calorie food? Beans, barley, meat? Unless its a high fat meat, try turkey necks or chicken gizzards.
Kugel? Instead of putting in oil, try half oil half water.If you are so yeshivish that you say CHEVRA, why do you send your son to MO HS?
How do you know if its up and coming? Just taking the brokers word?
You should be concerned if you are anti Israeli-American Yeshivishkeit.
Judaism without Torah cannot last.
Three things to do: student loans, write letters and ask the school for scholarships and work p/t and college p/t.
Best of luck.Why not? Sunday is Shabbos sheini shel galus!
It’s important to have a rav who knows you and your circumstances. Second best would be a rav that you live near and you can become close to.
Best of luck.Joseph: without getting into details, my wife and I come from different communities and neighborhoods and our parents don’t share mutual friends.
My brother’s shidduch, btw, was also through a professional shadchan.I think that the rebbes, Morahs and teachers deserve the break. They come back refreshed ready to tackle a job that so many of us wouldn’t.
Heres my pet peeve, the baal tefillah takes his time by chazoras hashatz. R. Zilberstein says that it is tircha detziburah.
Whoa! A shoita?? Is that your definition of moderate mental health issues?
Dryidd: bothers me.
I agree that anyone can be a shadchan. However, there are many people who view it as a p/t or f/t job. They spend countless hours pairing people and make a living out of it.
There are times, my shisduch included, that no one who have thought of it and only a pro puts it together.Shes probably coming late becaise thats wht her mother did you need to have a serious conversation with your mil about how she raised her children.
Kreina daaharta ihu lehevai pravanka.
Sounds like you should become a shadchan…good luck with your divorce rate.I dont get it. Who prepared us, or our parents for marriage? Isnt it someyting that everyone needs to work on and master?
1: what is the final product?I dont get it. Why would it be an issue if a president os oved a”z?
Fry in a foil pan. Use a fork instead of a whisk. Warming up pizza in the microwave.
OP: you are asking the question, obviously you think its a problem. Why do you care about the thoughts of random people who have varying standards ?
1: I disagree. We all know thay we arent on his level. I work for a living and do not learn anywhere near what he does. I need vacation to relax, he finds learning relaxing.
I am not saying cruises are kosher. I dont know enough anout the topic. But I dont compare myself to the Rav.Cherrybim: I would assume that heimishe hashgachos research the mashgichim when they trust ou.
How about non heimishe hecsheirim? Do peop l e trust them?
Ctlawyer
Well….how much is rent/mortgage? Kosher groceries? Tuition? TAXES?
Cancer vs cancer? Both terrible ways to die.
How about a thread, what do you think of Trumps immigration policies?
Why are you tying his religion (or lack thereof) to his policies?