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Rav Moshe’s Heter still applies. Europe has differant laws than america. dont talk about things that you dont no about.
the reason it is ussually not a problem to eat at a Rebbis house even if he has teenage girls is because most probobly nothing would happen seeing as your Rebbe is sittting at the same table as you unless you have no Yirah of your Rebbe- that should be worked on
it is preferable to sit on the same side aof the table as the girls with your sisters in between because if there across from you, youll be looking at them
although i do not Pasken if indeed someones Rav told them it is assur then they cant really have their own opinion beacause its assur
encouraging a possible issur is crazy and before encouraging it ask your Rav what he thinks
theres no being liberal with halacha
I have heard from a reliable source that it actually is a problem with the buttons because the buttons on boys and girls shirts are on the oppoaite side but GO ASK A RAV!BECAUSE I AM NOT ONE AND I DONT WANT TO BE RESPONSIBLE
are you asking for a halachic asnwer or a opinion beacuase it seems to me that most people are offering thier opinions. This is BAD if the questioner wants a halachic answer because if he/she asks and you think that you know and answer when you dont really know and they act on your answer that would be your fault! Plz plz plz do NOT ask these questions here it is not the place have you seen anyones Smicha? doyou know if they are learned? go ask a Rav your Shailos.
Personally my opinion is that the person in the world who loves and cares about you most right now is your mother. Seeing as nobody posting on here is your mother(unless your mother posts) I would advise you to talk to your mother about these thought and feelings as opposed to strangers who dont have anything against you but also have nothing to do with your life. The coffeeroom is to talk and get opinions however you should not ask advice on life-altering topics. You need to talk to someone who really knows and cares about you!
This goes for all other topics too. It drives me crazy when I see questions that can change a persons life. Do you go to random strangers on the street and ask if you should marry a boy you just met?? NO because thats ridiculous
61-67 inclusive In the zechus that he should be sent home healthy and safe soon.
ok there are many things wrong with everyone’s comments on this post:
1) there aredefinitely many things wrong with chatting on the internet especially with people of the opposite gender. when it stops feeling weird you are just desensitizing yourself and lowering your standards. i feel like its sort of like dating. In the beginning when you first start commenting you just state your ideas. After your 6th or 7th comment you feel comftorable enough to start adressing others by their first name. That is very innapropriate especially for different people of differant genders of differant ages!!
i think anyone who disagreees with this is just closing thier eyes to this sad but true state
whts wrong with going to a movie theater
helllloooo where have you been your whole life????
you watch movies?????????
watching movies is terrible and going to theaters is even worse its Chukas Hagoyim
While I basically agree with you, there is a proper way of expressing this idea. Very sadly, many, if not most, living in America have become totally de-sensitized to what is wrong with viewing most movies and TV, and so do NOT see it as “terrible” at all.
They don’t realize, for example, that even if you are watching a TV show or movie that MIGHT, in and of itself, be OK to watch, it’s VERY likely that along with it, one will see commercials or “coming attractions” that are NOT ok at all. We need to stress this in the chinuch to our children and re-sensitize ourselves to what is appropriate for a Torah Jew to see, and what is not. Just “yelling” at someone (with lots of exclamation points and question marks) will not make your point.-YW- Mod.
wuld you rather be 8 feet tall or 3 feet tall?
Would you rather be 100 lbs overweight or 100 lbs underweight??
These are irrelevant questions cuz its not up to you!!!!!!
ok there are many things wrong with everyone’s comments on this post:
1) there aredefinitely many things wrong with chatting on the internet especially with people of the opposite gender. As “always here” said in the beginning it felt very weird and he did indeed talk to people whom he thought were a different gender than they actually were. this means that when it stops feeling weird you are just desensitizing yourself and lowering your standards. i feel like its sort of like dating. In the beginning when you first start commenting you just state your ideas. After your 6th or 7th comment you feel comftorable enough to start adressing others by their first name. That is very innapropriate especially for different people of differant genders of differant ages!!
2) its true that things can be used for good and bad, but there is a difference between what is good and can be used for bad and what is bad and can be used for good. The internet would fall in to the second category.
3) i think its very sad that people will be going on to the internet as soon an moshiach comes, to see everyones responses-dont be such a yenta! Focus on doing teshuva.
i think anyone who disagreees with this is just closing thier eyes to this sad but true state that our generation is in
u never know maybe there are gedolim that are on this website under screennames!!!!!
wolfish would u say these things if EEES was on here??
do i get a subtitle??
chayav what kind of messages are u sending
bad hashgafas u are lending
all u think abt is drink drink drink
but maybe u shud stop to think
cuz a lot of ppl you are offending
chayav how cud you say something so tumadik on such a kadoshdikka website?? im surprised at uDecember 23, 2010 4:04 am at 4:04 am in reply to: would you go into a shidduch with a boy from a divorced home? #721011
mods this question may have good intentions but prolly hurts ppls feelings in the cr cud be ppl in cr r divorced
if we all put our minds together we cud solve the crisis. i assume evryone here is a yenta so we all know tons of people if we all submitted diff name sof ppl we know we cud make it happen
so right- clearly ur a guy that has a complex and wants the girl to open the door for u and have major taivah issues.
10-luchos u have absolutely no life if u remember posts from 2 yrs ago
i know someone who is 17 and his metabolism greatly slowed down ever since his birthday. He says every yr his metabolism slows down more. Daven for him
PB ill pay for u
i didnt really have time to read all the long comments that ppl left but i was thinking that it goes both ways a lot of times girls r very into mundane things abt the guy such as what car does he drive?? Does he read the newspaper?? Does he have nice clothes?? i think that everyone involved in shidduchim has to start focusing on the more important things in life. Why do the important questions such as does he have good middos?? often come later than a question abt the car
i thik its good ur taking a break from the coffee room if its eating into ur other responsibilities. Im yirtzah Hashem ull get over the addiction and be able to start using it again without it interfering in ur personal life
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