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  • in reply to: Parents and singles #2074815
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    Dr. Pepper, you are the kindest, most gentle, sensitive and thoughtful poster on this forum. By a wide margin. That’s without even speaking of your superior intelligence. (No offense intended towards squeak.) I’m very confident that telling a poster that he’s bitter (or worse) isn’t something you’ve previously directly said to anyone here. And doubtlessly you’ve had ample opportunities in the well over a decade you’ve graced us with your special presence.

    If I’m wrong about the above I’ll eat my words. But I know that I am not.

    All that said, addressing a person’s bitterness isn’t necessarily a negative. Indeed it can be helpful in assisting your interlocutor address that very issue that you’ve identified to him. Also note that while it was strong and sharp comparative to your previous comments, in the grand scheme of conversations it certainly was far from being a harsh comment. I merely noticed that it was outside the typical tone of a comment coming from yourself.

    Ah Gut Shabbos and ah Gutten Chodesh!

    in reply to: How much hand shmurah matzah should I buy? #2074774
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    Godol: Are you agreeing with me again? I must say that it seems to start becoming a trend with you.

    in reply to: Lubavitch – Mitzvah Tantz? #2074757
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    Millhouse: But is it unheard of for a Lubavitcher to attend a non-Lubavitch chasuna? (i.e. I’m not referring specifically to Lubavitch.)

    By the way, in Lubavitch the Kallah doesn’t go to the men’s section for Keitzad Merakdim?

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2074726
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    Dr. Pepper, I must say that, firstly, your most recent comment is absolutely on target, appropriate and correct. But more pointedly I I feel compelled to note that this comment is the strongest, sharpest and most stinging comment I’ve ever seen you post in all your 13+ years of posting to this site — and I’ve certainly read the vast majority of what you’ve written here.

    Again, justifiably so.

    in reply to: How much hand shmurah matzah should I buy? #2074641
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    Warm up the Matzahs long after Pesach, and will feel and taste very fresh.

    in reply to: How much hand shmurah matzah should I buy? #2074639
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    Warm up the Matzahs long after Pesach, and will feel and taste very fresh.

    in reply to: How much hand shmurah matzah should I buy? #2074640
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    Warm up the Matzahs long after Pesach, and will feel and taste very fresh.

    in reply to: Lubavitch – Mitzvah Tantz? #2074638
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    Leiby Wasser: You never saw a contingent of women come from the women’s section into the men’s section with the Kallah for Keitzad Merakdim?

    And have you, ever, heard anyone insist everyone must have a Mitzvah Tantz, even if it was never their Minhag?

    in reply to: BACK PEYOS OR FRONT PEYOS? #2074636
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    The famous picture drawing of the Baal HaTanya seems to show big Peyos. More than the typical Lubavitcher today.

    in reply to: Hours before attack: venomous headline in Haaretz #2074635
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    Haaretz is the Zionist version of Der Sturmer.

    in reply to: BACK PEYOS OR FRONT PEYOS? #2074637
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    The famous picture drawing of the Baal HaTanya seems to show big Peyos. More than the typical Lubavitcher today.

    in reply to: Hours before attack: venomous headline in Haaretz #2074634
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    Haaretz is the Zionist version of Der Sturmer.

    in reply to: Daylight Savings time #2074410
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    Wolf: Are these the kinds of jokes you share during laining? (One of your admitted aveiras is constantly talking during laining.)

    P.S. Still waiting for your response in the King Charles and Queen Camilla thread.

    in reply to: Lubavitch – Mitzvah Tantz? #2074304
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    And Keitzad Merakdim, when they bring the Kallah into the men’s section (and in the not so Frum circles dozens of other women slip into the men’s section with the Kallah) is more Tzniusdik??

    in reply to: Washing on Pizza #2074023
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    @ujm
    “Everyone must have a Rov.”

    “Source?”

    Pirkei Avos. Common sense. And that’s how Klal Yisroel has always acted for thousands of years.

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2073967
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    Ari: Because then you might become smitten with infatuation before finding out the match is inappropriate due to background reasons.

    in reply to: Lubavitch – Mitzvah Tantz? #2073958
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    Reb Eliezer, what is a “macarena” dance?

    in reply to: Washing on Pizza #2073938
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    “Not everyone has a Rav. (I am not saying the OP doesn’t necessarily, just that there are people that don’t)”

    Everyone must have a Rov.

    If one doesn’t have one he would act the same way he would if he had no pair of pants.

    in reply to: Washing on Pizza #2073940
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    *should

    in reply to: Lubavitch – Mitzvah Tantz? #2073614
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    Are you asking about currently or regarding prewar Lubavitch?

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2073553
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    The Kallah’s family providing the Choson a dowry is a very strong Yiddishe minhag from ancient times through modern times that is well established and proper.

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2073528
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    follick2, You’re declaring that 3,000+ years of how our Yiddishe Zaidas and Bubbes made shidduchim, starting from Avrohom Avinu for Yitzchok Avinu all the way through European Ashkenaz, Eretz Yisroel, the Sefardic communities, Teimanim as well as all sectors of Klal Yisroel all got it wrong and, finally, after 3,000 years you figured out the right way to change things?

    in reply to: BACK PEYOS OR FRONT PEYOS? #2073443
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    Avira, which comment is your last one responding to?

    in reply to: Washing on Pizza #2073352
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    Basing it on the number of slices can be misleading because one pizza stores single slice is equal in size to another store’s two slices.

    in reply to: BACK PEYOS OR FRONT PEYOS? #2073194
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    Yitz17: Read the full thread. All Litvishe Yidden used to have long Peyos hanging down from the sides of their faces; and not behind their ears.

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2073207
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    It has always been the Yiddishe way, for millennium, for the parents to make the shidduch decisions.

    The kids making these decisions, to the extent it even happens (hopefully not too extensive), is a purely American thing without precedent in Jewish history.

    Of course the boy and girl must agree to marry each other, that’s always been the case, but virtually everything up to that point always has, and should, go through the parents and shadchanim.

    in reply to: BACK PEYOS OR FRONT PEYOS? #2072582
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    abooseinak: The Chasidim didn’t get it from the Teimanim. As was pointed out, all Ashkenazim used to have such Peyos even long before Chasidim existed. When the Goyim started forcing Jews to abandon having such Peyos most non-Chasidim didn’t resist those antisemitic decree whereas most Chasidim did resist and persisted in continuing to maintain such long Peyos hanging from the sides.

    in reply to: Ideas wanted on how to find a chavrusa #2072394
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    commonsaychel: It would be easier for you to point out every poster who is not a troll rather than informing us all everytime of everyone who is.

    in reply to: BACK PEYOS OR FRONT PEYOS? #2072391
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    When/why did the Sefardim stop letting their Peyos hang from the sides of their faces? They weren’t subject to the Russian bans against Peyos and Jewish dress.

    in reply to: Two Years since Covid #2072371
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    anIsraeliYid: If you spend too much time in this forum, eventually you (slowly but ever so surely) come around to my views. It is a deliberative and, for most, an indiscernible process. Few realize it until it is too late to revert. So, congratulations, on your being cognizant and self-aware of your change.

    With great love and Ahavas Yisroel,

    Ah Gutten Shabbos and Chag Kosher V’Sameach!

    🙂

    in reply to: Two Years since Covid #2072324
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    Being a better Eved Hashem. Covid was a warning shot from Shamayim.

    in reply to: BACK PEYOS OR FRONT PEYOS? #2072291
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    1. When (time wise in history) did some people first start hiding their Peyos behind their ears?

    2. Is it a fact that the reason was due to antisemitism? And was it pikuach nefesh? Even without noticeable Peyos a Jew can be identified as a Jew. When have we ever, in all of history, hidden that we are Jews?!

    3. What is the reason some people curl their Peyos?

    4. Why do some wear their Peyos over their head/under their Yarmulka, coming out on the other side of their face?

    5. How long should the Peyos *ideally* be, not considering antisemitism or other external/non-halachic factors?

    6. What is the reason some people have *no* Peyos hanging from their sides (i.e. not even hidden behind the ear)?

    in reply to: Two Years since Covid #2072154
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    BP, such scepticism predates Covid.

    in reply to: Chillul Shabbos? #2070865
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    How about placing the bookmark in the Chumash at the next Parsha.

    in reply to: teenagers drinking on purim #2070860
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    Marxist: Your having seen it in no way demonstrates that it is permissible.

    in reply to: King Charles and Queen Camilla #2070824
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    Wolf: Awaiting your rejoinder or concession.

    in reply to: teenagers drinking on purim #2070816
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    Wolf: Why didn’t you sleep, despite your schedule, considering you knew the obligation?

    in reply to: Declaration of War #2070814
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    Nero became a Yid. The fiddling accusation was a defamatory lible and slander against him by the goyim angry at his becoming Jewish.

    in reply to: How Old Was Vashti When She Was Beheaded? #2070812
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    18 was the drinking age in the United States until the 1980s.

    in reply to: Declaration of War #2070712
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    Reminder: Putin has nukes at his personal disposal.

    in reply to: Who is the new leader of Klal Yisrael? #2070711
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    And now?

    in reply to: How Old Was Vashti When She Was Beheaded? #2070106
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    Boruch: Rashi says “lefikach neherga”.

    The Yalkut Shimoni 1091:2 says Achashverus regretted killing Vashti. If he hadn’t executed her, he could have undone it.

    The Medrash in Esther Rabba 4:9 and 4:12 says that Vashi as beheaded and her head was placed on a platter.

    גמרא, מגילה יא עמוד ב — בא שטן וריקד ביניהן הורג את ושתי

    Vashti married Achasheverus as a child. She must have been pretty young when she was killed. Do we have a timeline of her age? She must have been a teenager.

    ujm
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    America has confiscatory “laws” too, that unfairly seize private property for nebulous reasons.

    in reply to: teenagers drinking on purim #2069993
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    “These sources are saying that it’s assur? Or that there’s just no mitzvah? I never heard that it’s assur for women to get drunk (privately at least)”

    Yes, it is assur for women to get drunk.

    in reply to: teenagers drinking on purim #2069991
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    “On a more (slightly) serious note, you’ve got to be really, really drunk to get to ad d’lo yoda.”

    Correct. And there’s the widely accepted and followed Psak Halacha that that’s exactly what one is required to do every Purim.

    Despite TLIK’s false insinuation that those following this Psak Halacha do so for “hedonistic “reasons*.

    in reply to: Declaration of War #2069988
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    A so -called “no fly zone” is an obvious act of war. America declares a no fly zone and one hour later Russian warplanes violate it. Does America shoot down Russian war planes? If so, America and Russia are immediately at war and Russia can shoot missiles into Washington and New York. If not, the no fly zone is a joke.

    in reply to: Declaration of War #2069919
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    1. Against

    2. Yes

    3. No

    in reply to: Daylight Savings time #2069717
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    For some people 9:00 might still be too early.

    in reply to: CONSPIRACY THEORY #2069716
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    And I’m just a volunteer?

    in reply to: chavrusa politics #2069280
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    He was too good for you. You did him a favor by saving him the trouble of getting rid of you.

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