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BY THE WAY THE YERUSHALIERMER KEHILLOS, (THE REB ARHELECH) ARE ALL FROM BEFORE THE WAR. REB YOSSEF CHAIM SONNENFELD. TOO
ACORDING TO SOME TCHORKIV WAS ONE OF THE BIGGEST, SADIGUR TOO. TODAY THEY HAVE NOTHING. GER BEFORE THE WAR WAS 100,000 CHASSIDIM AOORDING TO THE IMREI EMES, SFTER THE WAR THEY NUMBERED NOT MORE THAN 250 PEOPLE WORLDWIDE, TODAY THEY ARE OVER 60,000 INCLUDING ALL AGES (INCULDING THE 1500-2000 PEOPLE FROM REB SHAULS KEHILLA, ALL AGES). IT IS ESTIMATED THAT ALEXANDER ALSO REACHED TO THAT NUMBERS BEFORE WORLD WAR 2, RADOMSK WAS ALSO COMPLETELY WIPED OUT. DONT FOREGET OUT OF 6 MILLION YIDEEN KILLED, 3 MILLION WERE POLISH, AND OUT OF 3.3 MILLION YIDDEN IN POLAND 3 MILLION WERE KILLED, INCLUDING THE 100,000 GERER CHASSIDIM, 100 THOUSAND ALEXANDER, AND THE SAME FOR RADOMSK. ONLY LESS THAN 10% OF POLISH JEWRY SURVIVED WHOM ONLY A SMALL PERCENT REMAINED FRUM YIDDEN
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BTW there was an Israeli “yoreid” with us, and I remember he was very unbothered about losing his shoes, and he would play soccer without them
I went out on to the enclosed tiled porch with out shoes and my mother punished me severely. I was 11.
I know in Israel its normal, its as normal as walking in the street in geulah and suddenly your shaitel or hair gets drenched from someone’s horrible dirty sponja water. it happened to me. and to many others
MY HOUSEHOLD HAS VERY EARLY BEDTIMES, I MYSELF, WHO GO TO SLEEP AND PREPARE FOR BED ONLY AFTER ALL MY KIDS ARE IN BED, GO TO SLEEP EVERY NIGHT AT 10:00. MY OLDEST KID AT HOME IS 20, A KALLAH, AND WILL NOT DARE TO MISS HER BEDTIME AT 9:30. I BELIEVE IN GOING TO SLEEP EARLY AND RISE EARLY. I WAS RAISED LIKE THIS TOO. I AM VERY STRICT WITH BEDTIME, THOUGH I HAVENT NEEDED TO PUNISH OR SLAP FOR A MISSED BEDTIME IN MONTH OR MAYBE YEARS. THE ONLY ONES WHO MAY HAVE A LATER BEDTIME ARE THE BOYS, WHEN YOU CANT DAVEN MAARIV TILL THEN. THEN THEIR BEDTIME IS 25 MINUTES AFTER THE FIRST MINYAN AROUND THE CORNER
MY KIDS ARE HAPPY WITH MY DECISION, THEY UNDERSTAND. ESPECIALLY THE OLDER ONES. THEY SLEEP WELL. HEALTHY. WAKE UP ON TIME. DO WELL IN SCHOOL. AT HOME. AND ARE RARELY TIRED. ALWAYS HAPPY, GOOD MOOD. ETC.
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yes he does, chazal never say that the arbaim yom kodem is only for yidden
absolutely no. biden won fair and square
none, no such thing as favorite sefirah song. there is a reason why its permitted in the 3 weeks, because it makes you sad and miserable.
boy was on the bus from his yeshiva in jerusalem to bnei brak to meet a girl in her parents house. on the bus ride he felt sick and through up and his pants got dirty. he needed a change of cloth or else the girl will not even meet him
he borrowed a cell phone, and called his parents who lived in bnei brak to wait him outside with a new pair of pants
as soon as he gets there he takes the bag and goes in, apologizes, asks if he could please be shown the bathroom because he had a long trip.
takes the bag in to the bathroom and doesnt know what to do with his old pants, he decides he has no choice and opens the bathroom window and throughs it out,
he opens the bag he got from his mother and sees his mother had mistaken, he sees in the bag…..A SKIRT…..i think he is still in the bathroom red faced till now
my favorite is schug from golden taste, hot enough hummus, extremely spicy tomato dip, jalapeno dip, these are all my sisters favorite too, my husband loves olive dip and home made tomato dip, my girls love all the spicy dips like me and some of them will not mind olive dip or my home made tomato dip like my husband.
who can share here some good recipes of home made dips, i am looking for some good recipes pleaseso you are trying to convince me that what i do is wrong
our rav will not hit his kids, he will just yell at them or punish etc. i am not just an anonymous poster. i am a poster just like you and everyone else. i was mistreated, correct, but i will never do it to my kids, i do believe in potching but only regular petch and not for small crimes and not done with happiness, only done with a broken heart
seriously?? specific?? do you think that any rebbi, rosh yeshiva etc. will slap his kid in front of the entire shul so everyone can see and let you know?? i know for a fact that my rav is an extremist when it comes to chinuch, he raises his kids with yiras shamayim and obviously with petch when neccesary. i hear from my husband how the rav will yell in shul on his kids or punish them. he suggests parents to potch when neccesary, he is a chasidic rav in a certain kehilla.
i think your comment is not so derech eretz toward rabbanim and talmidei chachamim.
also a parent has a right in disciplining her kids without consulting her rav etc. taking in consideration that its just normal discipline which 99.99 percent of parents do, a potch can be normal discipline if not done cruelly like my mother who would give me gezunte petch as a teenager for the smallest thing. i had no therapy and had to torture myself and fight for my life to grow up normal and self confident as i am. i had a miracle that i am normal.
anyway, just whatever you do to your kids make sure that its really out of love and care and chas veshalom punish with happiness. i always show my kids my face as sad and half crying that i have no choice and potch them, they see how i hate to do it and know its just out of love and i have no choice and give them that potch so they behave. REMEMBER: NEVER EVER GIVE GEZUNTE PETCH EVEN IF YOU SHOW THEM HOW YOU CRY AND HATE TO HIT THEM, I SUFFERED MISSERABLY FROM MY MOTHERS GEZUNTE PETCH
yes johnklets. i agree with you. petch is the way to raise kids if done normally
the gemara says about a father that kills his son from petch……
its the yidishe mesorah…. petch is a good thing for kidsa name? oh, name it after your great grand father, thats a nice name. LOL
opinion still stays opinion. i see what people write here, but i still did not read here something that will really make me change my strict way of discipline, or lower my amount of petch and punishments, no one here proved anything or mentioned anything with the way i take care of my kids. and no matter what people will say, i still think i am right with how i deal with things at home, and now in the summer when my kids go off t camps i fell much less stress at home, after all, my teenage kids are missing and all the behavior is now on their camps staff tp take care of
why are people telling others what to do and how to discipline and be mechanech their children. every mamme and tatte may use whichever method they wish, including petch and soap. i think i can say for certain and positive that most mammes will give petch and soap for misbehaving. it is okay, there is nothing wrong with it. lets see here how many mothers hit their kids or will use soap, all mothers who hit r soap please speak up and share your voice and opinion, or husbands speak up for your wives.