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  • in reply to: Halachic Penalty for Attempted Murder #720337
    WolfishMusings
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    Wolf – Why do you always repeat the post? Why not just address the poster by name, like I do?

    So that other readers don’t have to go searching for the last thing you said. They can see what I’m responding to here in the post.

    Bais Din killing the guy is severe pain. You can just imagine the pain of the person’s belly exploding!

    Not everyone who commits suicide looks for the easiest way out. Plenty of people hang themselves — which is neither quick nor painless when they could probably find other, less painful and quick ways to go.

    If someone wants to die, they aren’t necessarily looking for the quickest, most painless way to go. They might be, but in no way can you say that they always or even generally do.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Separate Boys and Girls pre-school #738270
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    Because people want it. No other reason.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: DATE NIGHT #720142
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    your daughter married a designated hitter?

    Feh. That’s why I always dated in the National League. 🙂

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Lunar eclipse #719697
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    lunar eclipses are pretty common

    Actually, they both occur with roughly the same frequency. Every year has at least two of each.

    The difference is that a lunar eclipse is visible everywhere on Earth where the moon is visible, whereas a solar eclipse is visible over a smaller area (and totality over a much smaller area).

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Opening the Car Door for Your Date #721129
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    Ah. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: DATE NIGHT #720134
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    Mike,

    Just out of curiosity, why would you have thought that it might be unhealthy that you felt the need to ask the question?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Opening the Car Door for Your Date #721127
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    A common method of indicating that you agree very firmly with a post (used on other boards I frequent) is to quote the part you agree with and say “This.”

    Short and elegant.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Opening the Car Door for Your Date #721122
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    I do think if its important to your spouse, you should do it, even if you don’t think its a big deal. This goes both ways.

    This.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Brim up ~ Brim Down #1012123
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    Every time I see the title of this thread, my first thought is:

    Brim Up

    Brim Down

    Brim Up Brim Down… the Clapper. 🙂

    The Wolf

    in reply to: The classics, Yidden, and the recent closed thread #719356
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    Wolf, its excellent.

    What? The movie or the fava beans and a nice chianti? 🙂

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Ad Meah V'esrim…? #720588
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    ad meah v’esrim still works.

    Why only wish them 20 more years of life? Why not more?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: DATE NIGHT #720125
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    What is a “date” (that you question if it is healthy they see)?

    Going out and spending time alone. He even gave an example (dinner).

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Halachic Penalty for Attempted Murder #720334
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    If a mentally competent Jew wanted to commit suicide, he would try to make sure noone saw him. Why? Why not let Bais Din finish the job, if he doesn’t succeed? Because even though he wants to commit suicide, most humans want to do it with the least amount of pain. If he isn’t successful, he wants to try it again himself; he doesn’t want Bais Din to do it for him, because their method of death was extremely Painful!

    Maybe. Sometimes, however, people just need for others to do the job for them. Witness the phenomenon known as suicide-by-cop. I’m sure that being shot by a cop (who usually isn’t intentionally shooting to kill) isn’t terribly pleasant either.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: The classics, Yidden, and the recent closed thread #719351
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    I can’t believe NO ONE has brought up Wolf’s role in Little Red Riding Hood. Where do you think Wolf got the idea from??

    I want it stated for the record that that was a different Wolf. I NEVER eat little girls. Not even with fava beans and a nice chianti*.

    The (other) Wolf

    * I never saw that movie, but I am familiar with the line. 🙂

    in reply to: DATE NIGHT #720123
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    Is it healthy for your children to see their parents go on a date?

    IMHO, absolutely. It’s important for children to see that their parents love one another and enjoy spending time with each other. Not only does it help to increase their sense of stability of the family, they also see how spouses can and should interact with each other.

    How oftern do you go on a “Date” with your spouce?

    Sadly, due to the fact that we both (at the moment) have VERY busy schedules, not as often as we’d like.

    What do you like to do (dinner etc…)

    Dinner. A movie. A trip to the Botanic Gardens. A trip to the zoo. A day in Manhattan. A play. A surprise trip. Just walking in a park. A picnic. Sitting on the beach listening to the waves in the moonlight.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Halachic Penalty for Attempted Murder #720332
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    Wolf – You answered you own question – Of course they would.

    So if someone who was competent wanted to die badly enough, all he had to do was make sure someone saw him. If he succeeded, then he succeeded. If he didn’t, Bais Din would finish the job for him.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Regarding calling people by nicknames #719806
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    WIY,

    Sorry I missed this thread…. I was in corporate training last week and barely had time to look at the CR at all.

    PY,

    The Rambam makes no such distinction. As for what amoraim did, I can’t speak. Perhaps they had reasons for what they did. They certainly never learned the Rambam on the matter.

    But, in any event, it doesn’t really matter. This is only the tip of the iceberg in reasons why I’m an outsider looking in.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Do you have a TV at home #722491
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    Homeowner, where did you get that from? No one mentioned anything negetive against TVs.

    From page 1:

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    The coffeeroom should put a “TV” mark under the screennames of posters with televisions, so others know where their non-Torah views on Jewish issues come from.

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    Poster (OP) is correct. Often we see people posting their Hashkofos Hatelevision with their views here.

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    you value my opinion less because i own a tv

    Absolutely. And that is because your opinions are influenced by your television viewing.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Lunar eclipse #719694
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    always occurring on the full moon

    By the very definition of what it is, it *must* occur on the full moon, just like a solar eclipse *must* occur on the new moon (although not necessarily on Rosh Chodesh because of possible dechiyos).

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Halachic Penalty for Attempted Murder #720330
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    Health, RuffRuff and RSRH,

    Thanks for the info. Greatly appreciated.

    If they could do this for an attempted murderer, could they also do it for an attempted suicide (which, at its core, is really a form of attempted murder). Would Bais Din take an attempted suicide (assuming him to be fully competent and all that) and put him in the Kippah to kill him?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Halachic Penalty for Attempted Murder #720327
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    RSRH,

    Thank you for the information. So, to make sure I understand you correctly, a Bais Din *could* punish an attempted murderer with death by using extralegal measures. Is that correct?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Maybe I Should Compensate The Store Owner…? #727146
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    If anything, you helped the owner by giving the impression that he is concerned about his customers and meticulously honest about the contents of his products.

    I’m afraid not. While speaking to her on the phone I told her that I do not work there and that I was just a customer who happened to be in the store at the time. Anything good I did probably did not reflect on the store or its workers.

    minor nitpick: it’s called gluten intolerance, not gluten allergy.

    Thank you for the info. Noted for future use.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Halachic Penalty for Attempted Murder #720326
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    Maybe the case of Shimon ben Shetach was that there wasn’t even circumstantial evidence, but somehow he knew this guy was a murderer.

    He most certainly did have circumstantial evidence. He had very compelling circumstantial evidence.

    He saw a person chase another person into an alley. When he got to the alley, he saw the chaser standing over the pursued with a bloody knife in his hand. He expressed his frustration that even though he knew the guy was a murderer, he could not punish him because he did not witness the actual murder — even though it was very clear what happened.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Halachic Penalty for Attempted Murder #720322
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    But circumstantial evidence is not valid in Bais Din. If circumstantial evidence were valid to punish someone, why was Shimon ben Shetach so frustrated about his inability to punish the murderer based on circumstantial evidence?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: A Radical Solution to the Shidduch Crisis? #719450
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    talking “grob”

    Please define.

    Thanks.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Halachic Penalty for Attempted Murder #720320
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    What did they do with a ???? who killed someone who turned out to be a ????? ? there is no ???? ???? but he still is a danger to society. If you find an answer to this question yours is answered as well.

    Good question. I’m not sure they did anything. Witness Shimon ben Shetach’s frustration (Sanhedrin 37) at not being able to do anything about someone whom he was 100% sure was a murderer. In that particular case, HKBH handled the matter immediately, but I hardly think that that was the universal rule. Had Shimon ben Shetach had some extra-judicial way to mete out justice, I don’t think he would have been so frustrated at his inability to punish the murderer.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Deport the Illegals #1211748
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    Use the “em” tag.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Halachic Penalty for Attempted Murder #720317
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    OK, so again I ask: Was this what was used for attempted murderers?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Maybe I Should Compensate The Store Owner…? #727142
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    Do we now owe money to these stores for the loss of sales?

    No. It’s not the same thing at all.

    It’s one thing to tell a friend that they can find a bargain at store X. The owner of store Y has no expectation of making a sale from my friend, and so I owe him no obligation for any sale he may lose.

    Here, however, the customer was already in the store (or on the phone, ready to make a purchase). At that point, the store owner would have had a valid expectation of making a sale — which I robbed him of.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Halachic Penalty for Attempted Murder #720315
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    Wolf as a Baal Kriah you should remember ??????? ?????

    Yes, I remembered that. But that was an extraordinary situation where they just needed a place to put him until they determined the proper punishment. He was never meant to be kept there for any length of time.

    They must have had prisons. In the case where Beis Din starved someone to death, as in ??????? ???? ?????

    ??????? ??;?

    So, is that what they used for attempted murderers?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Halachic Penalty for Attempted Murder #720313
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    They must have had prisons. In the case where Beis Din starved someone to death, for certain crimes that were lacking in the strict judicial proof required, they did so by locking him up.

    Perhaps, but that’s a very short-term situation. Your previous post made it sound like they kept people there for years on end (until they felt it was safe…).

    Or is that what they used for attempted murderers?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: The classics, Yidden, and the recent closed thread #719332
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    42

    Well, that’s the answer to Life, The Universe and Everything. 🙂

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Maybe I Should Compensate The Store Owner…? #727137
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    Wolf: I don’t really think you should burn it down. But neither do I think you should let yourself feel guilty for doing the right thing.

    I don’t feel guilty. I KNOW I made the right decision. But that doesn’t necessarily absolve me of responsibility for costing him a sale.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Plasma or LCD #719360
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    Sorry… despite being a Yankees fan, I usually end up watching no more than a few minutes in any given season. I’m just too busy.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Halachic Penalty for Attempted Murder #720310
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    don’t we say Habah L’Hargecha Haskeim V’Hargo (if someone’s coming to kill you take the initiative and kill him) so I would assume that sam can now buy a gun and kill joe.

    I hope this isn’t halacha L’maaseh

    I was strictly concerning myself with Bais Din’s role and possible punishments they could mete out. I did not intend to discuss whether it’s proper or not for the intended victim to take action on his own.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: The classics, Yidden, and the recent closed thread #719327
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    To be honest, I hadn’t even read the whole thread. I saw someone comment about eating people and that, of course, brought to mind Soylent Green. Putting it in Homer’s voice was just an added dimension.

    I certainly didn’t mean to suggest that people should REALLY eat people.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Maybe I Should Compensate The Store Owner…? #727134
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    Forget stealing… how about putting people’s lives in danger? Even if the store is deserted, the firemen who come to put out the fire will be put in unnecessary danger.

    In any event, I don’t believe you seriously mean that I should burn down his store. You’re just playing devil’s advocate.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Halachic Penalty for Attempted Murder #720309
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    In your case they’d probably lock him up until they felt society was safe with his freedom.

    Did they keep and maintain prisons? Not that I’ve learned all of Shas (far from it), but I don’t recall a single mention of a prison being maintained. Certainly there must have been cases of attempted murder, no?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: A Radical Solution to the Shidduch Crisis? #719414
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    < off topic moment >

    My apologies to anyone who was offended by my remark.

    The Wolf

    < /off topic moment >

    in reply to: Rebbi Smacking Kids #719612
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    hss – you’re wrong. There is no such distinction in NY’s penal code. A parent and (private school) teacher may use a belt.

    And if I hear that any teacher at any of kids’ schools used a belt to hit their kid and s/he was not summarily fired, I would withdraw my kids in an instant.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Maybe I Should Compensate The Store Owner…? #727132
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    One man’s arson is another mans freedom fight.

    If you say so. Nonetheless, I’ll pass on your suggestion. While I’m sure I’m OK halachically with my suggestion (even if I don’t have to send him money, there’s nothing that says that I can’t.) while I’m pretty sure that I’m not with yours.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Maybe I Should Compensate The Store Owner…? #727130
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    I have a better idea. Burn down the store and let the guy collect insurance on the whole thing.

    Why are you suggesting that I intentionally commit arson?

    I’ve maintained all along that I made the right decision in my actions. The only question that I had was whether I’m responsible for the financial loss that that decision created.

    I never said that I did anything illegal (such as arson) or even suggested that I should.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Peanut Butter and Sacrilege #720809
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    I don’t find peanut butter to be a sacrilege. 🙂

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Maybe I Should Compensate The Store Owner…? #727128
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    I’ve been giving this some thought and perhaps the best thing to do is to just send a money order anonymously to the store for the price of the cones.

    True, it’s not a perfect solution. A perfect solution would have me going to the store owner and personally apologizing for ruining the sale (even though it was the right thing to do). But (a) I’m too cowardly for that and too non-confrontational to do that and (b) I’m afraid to open myself up to further liability (perhaps he might claim that because of the loss of those few dollars he suffered additional losses for which I should now be responsible…).

    Yeah, it’s nothing more than a meaningless salve for my conscience and not truly meaningful in any way, but it’s better than nothing I suppose.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: What's _____'s pet peeve? #718749
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    Wolf I hope you are not the ??? ????? who is one of my pets peeve.

    This yugerman utilizes ??? ???? ????? to turn to his friend who sits just in back of the Bima to discuss his Kasha’s on the Parsha.

    No. That’s not me.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Deport the Illegals #1211740
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    Read the rest of the tag

    I can’t. I threw it away.

    I now live in perpetual fear that Sam I Am is going to send the cops to my home to have me arrested and deported. 🙂

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Lunar eclipse #719686
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    the chas v’shalom is that saying your wrong when your not

    If that were to be the case, then it would be a factual error on your part. Is a simple factual error (whether it be mine or yours) such a tragedy that it requires a “chas v’shalom?”

    I don’t believe so.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: What's _____'s pet peeve? #718747
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    Wolf, knowing you, you probably mean that seriously, somehow.

    Absolutely. That’s why even though people talking during davening bugs me to no end, I will never actually tell anyone (other than my own kids) to stop. I will just sit and fume instead.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Deport the Illegals #1211729
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    Enough with the illegal lawbreakers!

    Agreed. Please send INS to come deport me for crossing the street while the light was red today. Oh, yeah, and for tearing the “do not remove this tag under penalty of law” tag from my couch.

    What? You’re only opposed to those who break immigration law?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: What makes a guy interasted in saying yes to a girl? #718780
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    What criteria is necessary for a guy to be willing to go out on a date?

    At the risk of sounding stupid, wouldn’t that vary from one person to the next? Or is there some secret set of criteria that all males have that I was not privy to when I was dating?

    The Wolf

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