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WolfishMusingsParticipant
I don’t think I experienced it to be your message, but it struck me very deeply the first time I saw it and became representative of the dichotomy of how we feel vs how we look, and how we look vs how we wish we looked etc. It really pulled me so I hope you don’t mind me applying my own messages.
I never quite thought of the picture in that way. Thank you.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantThen I’m sorry I’m not clear
No need to apologize. It could be that you were clear and I just missed it anyway.
A person shouldn’t be judged on how little he (or she) does, as long as it’s done with the right כוונה
As long as your כוונה is right you are doing a good thingOK, I think I can agree with that.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantwolf – I know I’ve posted this before but I’m saying it again. Your photographs are stunning. You obviously possess intense feelings and awareness of beauty. I can only assume this intensity sometimes works against you as well, your funks are no strangers to the CR.
You are a man of tremendous talent, but also of depth and perception (can perception be used in this way? Well it can now).Thank you for the kind words. I appreciate the comment and am glad that my photos bring you happiness.
I argued with my daughter today about an intense picture I saw online of a disheveled man looking in the mirror and a well kempt man looking back. I said this seems to be the opposite of a depressed man, who is actually well kempt but sees himself as disheveled. She said that she thinks this is not the opposite. This is a man feeling awful, who’s pain is ignored by everyone who only sees a well kempt man.What do you think?
Actually, neither. That picture had nothing to do with pain or depression. It was just a photographic experiment that worked fairly well, trying to composite two different pictures while telling a story. If anything, the picture means nothing more than “it’s just too early in the morning…” 🙂
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantHashem created animals…Adam Harishon named animals…not the eggs. so Mistama the chicken came before the egg
And how do you know that the first chickens weren’t created hatching from their eggs?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantI have no data to back this up, but my gut tells me that I’m in the older half of the posters in the Coffeeroom.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantYou’re deliberately misunderstanding me and you know it
I give you my word that I’m not deliberately misunderstanding you.
You don’t judge a person on how little he (or she) does, as long as it’s done with the right כוונה
I wasn’t judging anyone other than myself.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWolf,
There are numerous stories of gedolim that “steal” 5 minutes a day to learn something where in the end they make a siyum called a “5 minute siyum”
And that’s wonderful. But it also has nothing to do with me. I’m not competing with the Gedolim to see who can accomplish the most in the least time.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWolf, as I asked you above, do you utilize “ma’am” with your female immediate family as you do “sir” with your male immediate family?
Interesting question. No, I can’t say that I do.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantThere’s no such thing as “chance”.
You know what I meant…
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantSo what? How many people say even one perek of tehillim (besides the שיר המעלות that everyone says)
I don’t judge myself in comparison to others. Whether every one says the entire sefer 100 times a day or not at all does not change my own views about my own accomplishments (or lack thereof).
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantTerrible.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantAnd, of course, as chance would have it, today I was up to Tehillim 20.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWolf, I know people who said “Sir” and “Madame” to their kids sarcastically.
I never use the term sarcastically.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWow wolf!
Thank you, but in reality, it’s not that big of a deal. It literally takes me no more than three minutes a day.
(And, to be completely honest, I did miss a week in November when I got sick with food poisoning and had to be hospitalized.)
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantThe formalized title is, indeed, a British thing. However, it’s common usage is not. I use “sir” with just about anyone outside my immediate circle of family and friends (and sometime even within… I’ve been known to say “Thank you, sir” to my sons when they do something for me). I even use it for kids, saying “Thank you, sir,” when they hold the door open for me or something else.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipant
I believe it is incumbent for posters to henceforth always refer to the OP as “Der Tzadik Reb Volf”. (Wolf doesn’t do him justice.)In all and complete sincerity, please, please, please do not do that.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantBeing the shul’s Ba’al Kriah, I just stop and let everyone get it out of their systems, then continue.
That would drive me nuts. Fortunately, they don’t do it my shul, but if they did, I would just go on. Hopefully, eventually, they would get the message that I’m not putting up with that. 🙂
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWho is calling someone else names?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantIf it was me, I apologize. I did not intend to call another person by any derogatory name.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantPlease, don’t ever undervalue the importance of kaddish.
If we are going to accept, a priori, that it’s proper for me to say kaddish (which I’m going to do anyway, since I told the family members that I would), then the question should be thus:
My commitment to say kaddish is a commitment that I can take voluntarily. But I cannot force the tzibbur to take the time to listen to it. I don’t have the power (nor do I want the power or responsibility to) force the tzibbur to do so. Since I am, in effect, doing so, what are the proper steps that I should take to remedy it to the tzibbur?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantCould there be anything more non judicial than a partisan hack, Patrick Leahy, who had already decided publicly that he would vote for impeachment
I’d be willing to bet that at least ninety of the Senators went into the process knowing how they would vote and had no intention on changing their vote no matter what evidence or argument was presented.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWolf, how about not ignoring the strong answers and only refuting the weak answers. This is a trademark of yours.
What strong answers? That I’m anti-tefillah????
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantDo you think the avos hakdoshim davened for no reason????????????????!!!!!!!!
My question has NOTHING to do with davening. It has to do with saying kaddish. You can have a 100% valid and kosher davening without someone saying kaddish at the end.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantAnan,
How about answering the question I asked, rather than get outraged over something I never said.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantshachris on a regular day should take 55 minutes MINIMUM
The numbers were just to illustrate the point. They weren’t meant to imply that davening should be of any particular length.
You are correct! The only reason you would ask such a question is because you do not value tefilla
Fine. Despite the fact that I said above that I was in favor of tefilla b’tzibbur, you’ve decided that I don’t value it. So I don’t value it. I guess that’s what you’d expect of a complete rasha like me.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantI do not understand what you mean by wasting other people’s time. ITS CALLED TEFILLA BITZIBUR!!! During the lockdown, I PERSONALLY REGRETTED every moment of davening I missed. What is this an ANTI-TEFILLA GROUP???!!!!
If I gave you the impression that I don’t believe in Tefilla B’Tzibur, then I apologize. That wasn’t my intent.
My point was that I feel responsible for Shacharis taking 45 minutes instead of 42, wasting three minutes of everyone’s morning every day. That was my point. My apologies if I gave the wrong impression.
(Of course, the fact that I’m a stupid apikorus is probably why I wasn’t clear…)
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantThank you, Dr. Hall. That may be true, but I don’t know that the gabbai has the authority to allow one person to potentially waste everyone else’s time.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantpretending leining is talking
It is, is it not?
Perhaps you can more properly classify it as singing or chanting, but those are both subcategories of speech.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantIf treif wine,
Thank you. I did not realize that the same barrels were used for wine and whiskey. Being a non-drinker, I never would have thought of that.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantIn our shul, they say the Misheberach of the Tosfas Yom Tov every shabbos.
My shul did that too, although they recently stopped it. I was actually very upset when they stopped it (despite the fact I talk during laining). Alas, my opinion (being worthless and stupid) was not asked when this change in practice was being considered.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWolf, is it because they are all taking?
No. They’re usually silent.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantI talk constantly throughout laining. No one in the shul seems to mind or complain.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantFor the extremely stupid, ignorant and non-drinkers among us (meaning, me), can someone break down exactly what the issue is? Please explain to it to me like I’m five.
Thank you.
The Wolf
February 14, 2021 10:29 am at 10:29 am in reply to: Commemorating Mosheh Rabbenu for Zayin Ador #1947910WolfishMusingsParticipantSo, why is Moshe’s name not in Parshas Nitzavim?
(Yes, I know I’m an apikores for even asking this question)
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantFor what it’s worth, my opinion:
No one today knows who Gog is. And no one today knows who Magog is. And it won’t be apparent who they are until after the deed is done.
(Yes, I know I’m an apikores for having such a opinion. I don’t care.)
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantIt is gratuitous because is assumes the reason is because they went to a Yeshiva. There are always people who do bad things. In spite of the best Yeshiva education.
Then I was less than clear. I did not mean to imply that they failed because of Yeshiva. What I meant to imply was the question that you did — why, despite going to Yeshiva, do some people (like myself) turn out horrible, despite the yeshiva education they received.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWhy is a knapsack even an issue?
I, too, am curious about this.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantGratuitous, inane remark. Was it really necessary?
Care to explain why it was gratuitous and/or inane? I think it’s a valid point.
You may disagree, of course, but that disagreement does not make it gratuitous or inane.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantI think the focus needs to be on the opposite — not why some people went to public school and became gedolim, but why some people who went to yeshiva turn out to be horrible people and embarrassments to the Jewish community.
The Wolf
January 25, 2021 9:30 am at 9:30 am in reply to: why is there such a cover up about these problems? #1942207WolfishMusingsParticipant4. calendars which are bound too tightly to comfortably be able to check a later date without ripping the pages off.
Considering that I literally made calendars of my photography, I can tell you that not all calendars are like that.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantAnd he is president of Apple Bank?
No, because he’s not “The President.” He’s the “President of the United States.” And if Apple Bank, or Apple or you happen to be in the United States, then he is the President of the United States in which Apple Bank, Apple and you are located.
The Wolf
January 20, 2021 2:05 pm at 2:05 pm in reply to: Frum Man Has “Credible Information” That Trump Will Remain President #1940704WolfishMusingsParticipanti do wish Pres. Trump do the martial law thing.
Declaring martial law does not magically extend the President’s term It would have still ended at noon on Jan 20.
If Joe Biden and Kamala Harris were prevented by this martial from taking the oath of office, then at noon, the presidency would devolve on the next person in line, Nancy Pelosi. She would then end the martial law and say “Mr. Biden, you may now take the oath of office.”
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantI wonder if Moshiach Agent is fasting today…
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantAmong the Jewish podcasts I listen to at least once in a while:
5 Minute Daf Yomi with Rabbi Shmuel Herzfeld
Chochmat Nashim podcast
Daily Halacha Podcast by Rabbi Eli Monsour
Headlines
Iggros Moshe A to Z
The Maimonides MinuteThe Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantwolf: leave it up to god
You really should use a capital G when referring to HKBH.
to allocate where your prayers go and whom they benefit. just because you think you are saying a prayer “for such and such” does not make it so.
For general prayers, yes. But here, I’m explicitly saying them because someone died and for the purported benefit of that person.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantNo Wolf, you should not say kaddish, you are the worst.
Thank you.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantwolf: it says “kol haneshama tehalel yah” that includes you.
Of course it does, and I’m not suggesting that I’m exempt from prayer.
But the question here is this: If my personal prayer is a blasphemy, that only harms myself. Here, I’m saying it for someone else and I don’t want to harm them.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWhatever your shortcomings (which I’m sure are overstated), they are no excuse not to do the right thing from now on.
Of course not.
This includes the Chesed of saying Kadish as a zchus for the Neshama of your relative.
If it’s harming them, then perhaps it’s not the right thing to do.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantUnfortunately, since most yeshivas are in deep blue states it really can not make much difference.
There are other races. In fact, I would argue that the local races have much more of an effect on the daily lives of the voters than the presidential race.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantNo. Let it stand as a testament to my rotten character.
The Wolf
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