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  • in reply to: Chinuch #913921
    zahavasdad
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    Yeah there are no Teens-at-risk in Satmar

    Ive never heard of any Satmars who go OTD

    And there are no Satmars at the Anti-Kiruv organization because their schools are perfect

    in reply to: Boehner is the new Israel #913553
    zahavasdad
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    In any negotiations you need to negotiate from strengh not weakness and if you are weak, you need to bluff , However if you are weak and cannot bluff, you take the best deal (or only deal) or even sometimes have terms dictated to you

    in reply to: Any suggestions for a new chumrah #1089073
    zahavasdad
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    Did you want some Quackers with that too?

    in reply to: Tehillim for Noah Pozner a'h #913705
    zahavasdad
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    Aurora

    Pslams is tehilim, its just the english word for it

    in reply to: Y.U. Abuse Scandal and Cover-Up #913549
    zahavasdad
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    A trustee is not an employee and Yes some people who are retired do get very generous retirement packages (Even $500,000)

    The normal way non-profits are run is trustees and board of directors are sperate from the institution and not employed by them (They might get a stipend for the position)

    in reply to: The Weberman Trial By 5TJT Staff (this brought tears to my eyes) #913499
    zahavasdad
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    So only goyishe costs?

    Their lemudei kodesh is exponentially better than in any of the expensive schools. SO somehow, the schools you champion are ripping you off. And apparently foster inappropriate relationships that are not dealt with because of financial issues. (With tuition at 25,000 a year with out dorms)

    Exactly how many Talmedei Chachamin have been produced by these schools

    Health…

    There are other victims they were afraid to come out, Some have now said they will come out after the verdict, but after the way the victims family is being treated they are also having second thought

    in reply to: Any suggestions for a new chumrah #1089067
    zahavasdad
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    Only eat foods that start with the letter “Q.”

    Well there is

    Quince, Quiche, Quinoa,

    in reply to: Ideas for parnussah? #913341
    zahavasdad
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    Be a Plumber…You dont need a college degree for that and the pay is decent

    in reply to: The Weberman Trial By 5TJT Staff (this brought tears to my eyes) #913485
    zahavasdad
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    The see the “tuition crisis”

    Doesn’t exist in Satmar.

    You get what you pay for

    in reply to: Chinuch #913916
    zahavasdad
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    I am sure Hashem is getting a lot of Nachas from the Satmar community this week

    in reply to: Y.U. Abuse Scandal and Cover-Up #913544
    zahavasdad
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    President Emeritus is not really a job, Its an honory position usually given to a long time employee who has retired.

    Most times it isnt paid either other than a pension

    in reply to: Chinuch #913913
    zahavasdad
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    Do you know the reason we dont we Teffillin all day?

    Its actually the Halacha to wear them all day.

    A stranger walked into a strange town with alot of money. He needed to store the money with someone and he saw a jew wearing Teffillin (It was the Afternoon). He figured he must be a very Ehrich a Yid and could trust him. When the man came back to get his money The person he entrusted it to denied ever receiving it.

    He went to the Rav of the town to tell the story and somehow they got the man to admit he had the money.

    Afterwards a Tachana was implemented forbidding wearing Tfillin all day for fear of fooling people that they are more frum than they appear.

    You can be the biggest Baal Chessed, but if you are Mechalel Shabbos, it doesnt matter and if you commit the greatest Chilul Hashem in society. All your previous good is being thrown down the drain

    in reply to: The Weberman Trial By 5TJT Staff (this brought tears to my eyes) #913469
    zahavasdad
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    If a reform Jew has a Jewish Mother, He is a Jew.

    If a “reform Jew” has a Jewish father, but not a jewish mother he is not jewish

    in reply to: Muttar for a Rabbi to discuss the awful shooting on Shabbos? #913253
    zahavasdad
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    Some news outlets have also identified Ben Wheeler as jewish.

    Noah Pozners twin sister and older sibling survived the shooting

    in reply to: Y.U. Abuse Scandal and Cover-Up #913528
    zahavasdad
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    As long as Satmar gives ONE PENNY to this RASHA, they are supporting a criminal

    in reply to: Y.U. Abuse Scandal and Cover-Up #913524
    zahavasdad
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    I have never gone to YU or MTA and I have nothing to do with them, although I know people who went there and they did know the Reshaim who did this, including some Charedim (They were not Charedi when they went to MTA or YU)

    First of all Norman Lamm isnt with YU anymore he retired. So he cannot be fired. He is in his mid 80’s. Richard Joel is the head of YU.

    To say I am happy with their response isnt true, I am not happy what went on there , its disgusting and wrong, but it is not the same as what happend this week in Williamsburg, The community supports that Rasha, I do not support these reshaim, I will not give them any money for defense. And the people I spoke with over Shabbos dont really support the YU perps either (The ones who know them)

    As far as Lamm going to prison, I never called for any Satmar leadership to go to Prison only the person who committed the crime, and If the 2 at YU committed the crime and are convicted by a Jury, YES they should go to Jail

    in reply to: Y.U. Abuse Scandal and Cover-Up #913520
    zahavasdad
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    Look at the differance in response from YU vs the response of the Satmar community. And what happend was 30 years ago

    in reply to: Giyoress or Not? #913663
    zahavasdad
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    What if someone says Ill convert but I wont give up Haagan Daas Ice cream (Not Chalov Yisroel) or Ill convert but I wont give up Football

    Or Ill convert but I wont give up the internet or my smart phone(Gedolim have ruled smart phones and internet are assur)

    Of course other communites dont hold by these

    in reply to: Y.U. Abuse Scandal and Cover-Up #913516
    zahavasdad
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    They didnt think it was OK, they just didnt realize how bad it really was and covered it up like everyone else did (Like the Catholic Church)

    in reply to: Frum Communities #967414
    zahavasdad
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    Lakewood is in a flood zone. I dont think it flooded for Hurricane Sandy, but parts did flood for Hurricane Irene last year

    in reply to: Chanukah Presents for Rebbes #913110
    zahavasdad
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    If a family has 10 kids and is a Kollel family. How can they afford to give Chanukah Presents to all the Rebbes and Morah?

    They still have to give something to the kids. Even an $18 gift is still $180

    in reply to: Shocking Study of Modern Orthodox OTD Rate #941633
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    You can be proud of her appearance on the view and other talk shows, something no YU beacon author was able to do.

    in reply to: Lipa's new Chanuka video…So, so sad… #914972
    zahavasdad
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    WIY

    I am fairly knowledgeable about pop culture

    I was a for Shabbos at my neighbors house who are very Charedi and are very careful what they allow in the house.

    Right in front of the parents the teenage daughters started talking about how they had gone to concerts of certain pop stars and the parents seemed oblivious to what they were saying. They really didnt have a clue what was going on. The parents are very old world and dont speak english that well (Which the children do) and the kids were really getting over on them. And Ive seen it many times with the same family. The parents are totally clueless. Ive heard my kids listen to songs I do not approve of and I asked them who told them about it and they said their friends. I met their friends parents, they were totally Charedi and obviously were clueless about what these songs were about.

    in reply to: Shocking Study of Modern Orthodox OTD Rate #941627
    zahavasdad
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    As far as I know YU doesnt have a best selling author like Williamsburg does

    in reply to: it's all about the wick #913237
    zahavasdad
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    I dont use the pre-measured cups. They are overpriced. Its much cheaper to pour oil and used the wicks and floaters

    in reply to: To answer "why" #913323
    zahavasdad
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    And FYI if its not disussed here it will be discused on a more general forum for survivors in an enironment most here would not approve it

    in reply to: To answer "why" #913322
    zahavasdad
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    +1

    in reply to: Lipa's new Chanuka video…So, so sad… #914970
    zahavasdad
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    Banning Lipa will not make people listen to Dvekas style music. People who listen to Lipa , Matisyahu etc are not listen to say Reb Sholmo Brazil, they would listen to even more pop style instead

    in reply to: Feif Un was right #912921
    zahavasdad
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    If there are people in leadership positions especially on the right, especially whom you have serious issues with, this is not the forum to express those positions. Even if they are correct.

    I didnt say it was fair, but thats just the way it is

    in reply to: Feif Un was right #912918
    zahavasdad
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    This is the internet and there are troll, You do need to get a thicker skin otherwise you cant properly express your opinon.

    There are plenty of trolls who think they can bully me here, but they are wrong and I dont really care what they have to say and by not answering and ignoring them it makes them look at lot worse

    in reply to: it's all about the wick #913235
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    Aurora

    Most people here use oil which is a bigger pain to use. I almost never get it right. The candles are much easier to use.

    I almost always have an issue with the wicks with the oil

    in reply to: Let's Be Honest About Ourselves. #912907
    zahavasdad
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    How about honestly if I see an Avererah, a Huge one at that and one that causes tremendous Chilul Hashem. It needs to be told how terrible it really is.

    in reply to: Throwing bleach at R' Nuchem Rosenberg to achieve justice? #912408
    zahavasdad
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    I cant belive the mods allowed nivel peh in Yiddish, if I used the same word in english Im sure the post would not go through and Id be warned

    in reply to: Why Hasn't YWN Reported The Webberman Trial? #912243
    zahavasdad
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    The Rasha was NOT convicted because he was a Jew, He was NOT convicted because he was Chassdic , He was NOT convicted because he was Satmar.

    He was convicted because he was GUILTY and a RASHA

    By equating true victims of Anti-semtism with this Rasha, you are deligitimatzing their imprisionment

    zahavasdad
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    Its amazing that some think its a bigger Averiah to read People magazine than violate laws of Yichud, and someone should be put in Cherem for reading people magazine but become a hero for taking a 15 year old on a road trip

    in reply to: Why Hasn't YWN Reported The Webberman Trial? #912235
    zahavasdad
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    To compare this RASHA to the Maharam M’Rottenberg is laughable and a tremendous lack of Kavod to the Maharam

    in reply to: opposite gender therapists #912358
    zahavasdad
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    Deprssion is not “Feeling Sad” its very different than that, Its a very serious mental illness.

    Its unfortunatly people who dont understand mental illness mock it and dont take it seriously.

    If you had cancer would you only see a same gender doctor?

    Why should people who suffer from mental illness be treated any differently

    in reply to: Throwing bleach at R' Nuchem Rosenberg to achieve justice? #912389
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    ZK

    You are always saying how you want to defend the torah.

    Those of us who are against abuse feel strongly we are defending the torah

    Its likely that abuse is the #1 reason why people go OTD. If you could get a good reason people go OTD and STOP IT, wouldnt you be in favor of it.

    Unfortunatly abuse has been hushed and the only reason anything is being done is because people are talking. Its been the only way to get rid of this virus in our community

    in reply to: May one listen to church music? #912175
    zahavasdad
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    Maoz Tsur is Germanic Church Music

    in reply to: You Have the Right to Remain Silent… #912934
    zahavasdad
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    During the Holocaust many jews who knew what was going on were silent, and it wasnt just jews in the USA, it was jews in Europe too

    in reply to: Throwing bleach at R' Nuchem Rosenberg to achieve justice? #912372
    zahavasdad
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    What Mitzvah is there to do such an act?

    Has he been convicted by Beis Din?

    What punishment is this in the torah?

    in reply to: Taking vacation holidays between Dec 25 and Jan 1 #913089
    zahavasdad
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    In Israel the Charedi parties want to make Sunday a day off for everyone

    zahavasdad
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    A lot of people lurk on this blog who never post many even paste the links elsewhere.

    I speak to those people that people who condone this behavior are in the minority and not reflective of the majority.

    We are not afraid of being bullied.

    in reply to: opposite gender therapists #912353
    zahavasdad
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    The Rasha never claimed to be a therapist

    zahavasdad
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    Im amazed some are more willing to belive a Rasha than Rav Horowitz or Pearl Engelman

    in reply to: Why Hasn't YWN Reported The Webberman Trial? #912228
    zahavasdad
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    It very well might be legal to take someones picture in the street, The so called Papparazzi do it.

    However you are NOT allowed to take pictures of anyone in a NY courtroom , only outside.

    zahavasdad
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    This is an anonymous forum, How do you or anyones backround

    This is not about Satmar, Yeshivish or any chassidism. Its about abuse.

    There could very well be Satmars on this Forum who are happy with this verdict and dont want such a rasha in their comminity

    in reply to: opposite gender therapists #912351
    zahavasdad
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    Its interesting that many of the same people who are claiming this is assur are defending an individual who did just that…

    in reply to: opposite gender therapists #912349
    zahavasdad
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    I guess its OK if the “therapist” is male and its a teenage girl.

    Then he is an Ehricher Yid

    in reply to: Taking vacation holidays between Dec 25 and Jan 1 #913077
    zahavasdad
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    Will you be fasting on Dec 25 and Jan 1st?

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