Always_Ask_Questions

Forum Replies Created

Viewing 50 posts - 5,351 through 5,400 (of 9,102 total)
  • Author
    Posts
  • in reply to: Let’s Say Republicans Win the Midterm Elections? #2097922

    > Hungary has made great friendships with Poland

    I don;t think this is true any more. Poland is cutting off Hungary due to Orban’s pro-rus-nazi policies. poland shows that it is possible to be against western-European liberalism and still make sense. Maybe the difference is that Hungary seems to be currently centered around one man, while Poland has healthy politics, so they are not getting to dark corners (at least right now).

    in reply to: Let’s Say Republicans Win the Midterm Elections? #2097921

    RebE > for me it does not give a good taste when Orban is so close to them.

    You are seconding your famous neighbor – Von Neumann. When he was a kid, he lived several months under Communist insurrection and then escaped and helped most of his family escape right before WW2 (and was in Germany for some time before). He stayed focused on both Nazi and Soviet threats as a result, even tried to join US Army to do more math work on munitions (he was rejected because he failed an exam on discipline and re-did it several weeks after he was not eligible by age anymore)

    in reply to: Recycling #2097919

    Is shomer peshayim Hashem discussed in S’A or other sources, or is it just an asmahta for irresponsible behavior? I hope the former, and I have a bunch of questions, any sources on this?

    1) who is pashut enough. For some reason, a lot of humble people are claiming an honor when it excuses them some simple inconvenience, while same people would ask for a shishi otherwise.

    2) Is pashut about intellectual abilities or separate by area of knowledge? If R Kamenetsky claimed it, even if for a minute, reluctant to quit smoking, maybe the latter

    3) We learn from Avimelech who was not polite to Avraham starting conversation by asking about Sarah. If he were to claim he did not learn derech eretz, the answer is – Avraham was teaching about it and he had a chance to enroll. So, if someone has intellectual ability, he might not have an excuse to not find out how cholesterol works or whatever. Maybe one can claim that he is too busy with learning and chesed.

    4) Does this work when the danger also affects others, such as dangerous driving, coughing, ? Can I be pashut on behave of others? Do they also have to be pashut,, or can I endanger life of professor or a Talmid Chacham I am driving, or who might be driving near me? What if I will be protected but they will not and I become a murderer? Or will my protection convers them like a comprehensive insurance policy?

    in reply to: Recycling #2097914

    Avira > how dangerous things that are done by a large amount of people are not actually dangerous – this is based on shomer pesayim Hashem.

    Maybe this is an explanation: why is Hashem protects peshayim and, presumably, does not protect people who know better? The fact that knowledgeable people are not protected means that the danger is present and presumably a smart person would have to avoid it. BUT, how would a simple person know a difference between a true and a false danger (false positives). He can trust his senses on obvious dangers when he sees a tiger or a car damaging a victim, but what about remote dangers where connection between cause and effect are not obvious. So, if you tell a simpleton to beware these, he’ll fall prey to all kind of superstitions, rumors, environmental propaganda. His life will be consumed in avoiding black cats and plastics. He will be advised to spend his time doing maasim tovim. If every climate protester would simply bring food to the neighboring elderly, the world be better, and cooler, of. What do you think?

    in reply to: Big issue-please advise #2097910

    Just don’t take him to CatsKills!

    Most likely he is a regular Katz – Cohen Tzedek.

    in reply to: Kesuba vs Kollel #2096960

    n0, apologize, it is late tonight for me to go into the Rambam (even as the Rambam advises that best learning is at night, but who pasken like Rambam !?) – but my understanding was that Rambam thinks it is a disgrace for the Torah scholar to rely on charity, that is making other people to work instead of him. Obviously, this means that he himself thinks that his learning is more important than learning or any other mitzvos by other people, and he also causes other people to begrudge him and belittle Torah scholars.

    I understand Brisker Rav brings these 2 Rambams, and concludes that 1st Rambam is for “general audience” and the 2nd for “yehidim” like Rashbi (and, presumably, Briskers).

    Interestingly, Mishna Berurah takes an _opposite_ approach saying that we are too weak to work and learn, so if given just one choice, we should learn. chofetz Chaim himself was selling needles first and his seforim later on. I am not sure whether he has a position on using government funds, I don’t think Russian or Polish governments paid for Radin yeshiva.

    Also, to paraphrase Mishna Berurah, as he conjectures that Rambam “at his times” would agree to learning for money, I am thinking that Mishna Berurah would agree “in our times” to work for a day a week and then learn for the rest while living modestly.

    in reply to: Recycling #2096950

    Seeing spiritual causes does not take away a need to respond to physical world. Gemora is full of discussions what does or might happen in various cases and they respect knowledge of agriculture, science, etc. It is not a routine answer in Gemora to say – stop worrying about it, let Hashem take care of it.

    Avira, an interesting point re: species. But as we established that R Hirsh is not infallible, we would need a better source. Say Rhinoceri (sp?) are big enough to be seen on satellite imagery. It would not be impossible to search whole earth images for them (if not found – should we presume that they live in someone’s basement?).

    in reply to: Kollelim Are Sprouting Like Mushrooms #2096944

    Even within the camp that supports using Zionist money for Torah learning, Rav Schach advised against accepting 100% funding from Begin government, warning that there will be a time when someone like Lieberman will “want his money back” and the system needs to be able to survive that. Why “frum” people do not listen to gedolim, I don’t know.

    But the expression may be a hidden brocha, like this is a brocha of being like fish, or better to be like reed than like cedar (Yevamos). Mushrooms grow everywhere, often stay together, require water (Torah) and not a lot of government support.

    in reply to: Kesuba vs Kollel #2096939

    Syag,
    it is not just my interpretation. It is a minority opinion, but with Rambam, RebE, and a majority opinion in Bavli on “my side” v. Rashbi and a lot of modern poskim, we should give both sides some respectful hearing.

    in reply to: teen baalos teshuvahs? #2096937

    reach out to Oorah and sign up for their summer camp ASAP, you’ll enjoy it and hopefully find friends there.

    in reply to: Issues 2022 #2096935

    Vot dezision? Throw the bums out.

    in reply to: Opulence Worshippers #2096929

    People need to make sure they can handle what they choose. I often see working people (doctors, lawyers, and other simple professions) who come both to hashkoma minyan and at 9pm to learn at kollel, and also there are people who live holy lives of learning and teaching and whose heads are worrying about where they can earn money to support their families. I don’t know percentages, but one should evaluate his own (and family) tolerances and be realistic in their lifestyle choices.

    In theory, in modern world, one can spend 4 years to learn a good profession and then work 1 day a week (or 2 hours a day, if you prefer) and have a great learning life. I never met anyone following such an obviously correct way. R Lebowitz says that one YU student suggested a similar idea – be a lawyer full time until 40 and then retire, and Rav advised against that.

    in reply to: Give the coffee room freedom #2096924

    > “A person’s brain isn’t fully developed until he’s 25, cut him some slack

    This is not an insult, or a joke, but a medical fact. your frontal cortex continues developing executive functions, and the more you organize your thoughts, the better it will develop! (this is one of the reasons of draft being for younger men who are mature physically, but do not value themselves yet).

    It would be an insult to say the opposite that your brain will not develop further ….

    PS I also want to express my appreciation to the mods, who are always great at censoring others and are also the sole readers of the majority of my posts!

    in reply to: Kesuba vs Kollel #2096925

    Syag > You must really love money or just be soo hung up on these thriving kollelites

    I oresume this is for me. You are right – I am really concerned for the honor of Torah. I have no ill will to those who thrive in kollel. As they say, “my best friends went to kollel” and I learned a lot from my local Roshei kollel and some of the youngelites.

    in reply to: Kesuba vs Kollel #2096911

    n0 > The first passage may seem like studying instead of working is idleness.

    I don’t understand this as “idleness”, but as not being proper to charge for it. Does Rambam paskens somewhere that a rich person can not sit and learn!? In fact, he himself learned while he was supported by his brother, and went “into professions” when he had to.

    in reply to: Kesuba vs Kollel #2096918

    Obviously, it is OK for a person to go to learn and for his wife to support that. Starting from R Akiva …

    I think Yabia is asking what is the social background here. If a girl is pressured into the arrangement in some way, or if she later changes her mind but is reluctant to speak out – does the husband have sensitivity to notice or the kollel a way to find out. Otherwise, this is similar to why we do not accept gamblers as eidim – because they “steal” as their opponents do not have full mind in accepting possible loss. Similarly, someone using pressure system to keep the wife “agreeing” may be guilty of theft from her.

    Also, anyone claiming that wife can be satisfied by illicit funds, whether taken from in-laws, unreported income, or inappropriately obtained SNAP is really adding to the abuse of the lady – she does not have to be forced to be part of such aveiros (if they happen)

    in reply to: Kesuba vs Kollel #2096915

    Shmili > It’s a chiyuv on every yid to learn

    I agree that one should learn even he does not get much (I guess, I have a personal bias here!), but the question here is can he do it at someone else’s expense.

    in reply to: Kesuba vs Kollel #2096905

    RebE > Rambam in Hilchas Talmud Torah says that the support he lives on is theft and he is ashaming the Torah.

    This was brought before. CR consensus is that we don’t pasken like Rambam, and – in this case – all the great people are meikel by definition. If you are so super-frum and follow this Rambam, I am with you.

    in reply to: Kesuba vs Kollel #2096904

    Little Frogie > How do you know what the words in the Kesuba mean?

    lots of great posts here. I presume Yabia went to cheder and then continues learning at night after coming from work (if not WFH) and helping his wife put the kids to sleep, like all erliche yidden. What is strange here?

    in reply to: Recycling #2096903

    Yehudis, we don’t always know where to go from common sense. Need humility and bitachon. See Europeans who put their trust in wind and sun, and became hostages to Putin. Not only their 20th century did not teach them humility, they still do not admit their errors and continue their self-righteous behavior. So, if we change our lives in pursuit of some lofty goals, we need to make sure that these goals do not lead to corruption. If you make goals simple – be honest, help others a little, and then pursue your own interest, people will do that. If you lure them tofar-awy goals, you never know where tish will lead.

    in reply to: Recycling #2096902

    Avira > Which species have gone extinct? The mabul eliminated some, but rav hirsch writes that it’s impossible to make a species extinct afterwards.

    Here are some species that might have gone extinct mostly after R Hirsch. Let me know if you saw one lately in Brooklyn. Talking about species, R Hirsch also did not expect that Germans can behave as they did …

    Dodo
    Great Auk
    Stellers Sea Cow
    Tasmanian Tiger
    Passenger Pigeon
    Pyrenean Ibex
    Baiji White Dolphin
    West African Black Rhinoceros

    in reply to: BAN SEAFRIA. #2096901

    common > look at the signs of acher and R Meir that really one shouldn’t learn Torah from apikorsim

    due to my sins, I could not see to which post this relates, but this is an interesting topics in itself. Rambam seemingly ignores Gemora’s permission for “gedolim” to learn from “acherim”. Some (Rav Shach?) explain that he felt that in his times, there were no gedolim any more (sic!), others – that he is writing general advice or talking about public teaching. This is interesting in light of Rambam obviously learning (maybe not torah but Chochma only) from “Acherim”, at least Muslim and Greek ones.

    Clearly, R Meir’s situation is pretty exceptional. I do not see this mentioned, but he apparently started ldearning from Acher before Acher went OTD. So, there is an issue of attachment and all Torah that he already learned.

    R Soloveichik has a talk in 1991 about Acher and how he is a complicated personality who misunderstood himself

    repaired

    in reply to: BAN SEAFRIA. #2096890

    Interesting point is that someone found a funny page by using google pointing to sefaria.

    One possible reason: google will highlight something “popular” and we know what “rov” is interested in … I would guess that X-rated pages from Yevamos are highly rated by Google, whether they have a difficult tosfos or not.

    Another: google is following your history. So, if it learned that you are young, male, not very much, and maybe, G-d forbid, ever tried to avoid your parents’ filters – google will lead you where you want. This is like Hashem usually does – if you insist on your way, he’ll let you.

    Bottom line – try using internet responsibly and then google will learn your interests and become better to you.

    in reply to: כח דהתירה עדיף #2096884

    It is right to be conservative in using new things.

    Moses Mendelsohn was very enthusiastic about new things, others – opposed. Is it intrinsically bad to read Chumash in High German? So, many people read ArtScroll now (ok, it may be High Yinglish), but at the time, it directly assisted assimilation.

    Founder of Chabad opposed Napoleon and supported the Czar with spies, in part because of fear of modernity; others, including Chaim Volozhin – disagreed, even if they saw that Czar is likely to survive. Maybe a closer case, but still.

    Still, sometimes one needs to act boldly in view of external changes. See Rabban Gamliel, writing of the Mishna, etc. Claiming that “power of meikel” is mis-understood by serious opponents is as credible as to claim that Chasam Sofer was talking about grain when he re-prohibited “chadash”.

    in reply to: WWRAS-What would R’ Aharon zt”l say? #2095926

    n0> You have the wrong person.

    How do you know that you don’t have the “wrong” person!? It is possible that multiple people complained about fundraising duties.

    in reply to: Flag Parade and Our Jewish Values #2095860

    With understandable opposition to ideological Zionists, was there a specific point on insisting that they do not go to EY? Same people will lead irreligious life in other countries and be a cause of trouble for those communities.

    There could be a purist view that we want to keep EY populated by tzadikim only, and the rest can go to South America, but I don’t think this was a majority view. So, otherwise, we have an issue of Torah v. modern ideologies, but no specific reason to object Zionist settling davka in EY.

    in reply to: Flag Parade and Our Jewish Values #2095857

    In 1967, Rav Shapiro Z’L went to Israel to assist in the war effort. I guess, actions say more than words. He also stopped at the Titus Arch and tried to marvel at the depiction of “Judaea Capta” contrasting the reality of the victorious Israel (despite the prohibition of not going under that arch).

    in reply to: WWRAS-What would R’ Aharon zt”l say? #2095855

    I also presume that R Aharon would welcome advent of, at least, email and Zello. He wondered what was his punishment that he spent so much time travelling to fundraise for the Yeshiva and attributed it to possibly not being sensitive enough towards his students.

    in reply to: WWRAS-What would R’ Aharon zt”l say? #2095853

    Gadol > gadolei yisroel in the Alte Heim during the late 1800s looking ahead.

    I don’t recall a source, probably a British rov, someone was musing about Jews picking up various valuable midos from each country in galus. For America, he mentioned – scale, ability to create institutions that scale in size amazingly, from McDonalds and MSFT to Yeshivos …

    Without denying these successes of Torah institutions in America, we can’t be complacent just with numbers without worrying about middos and haskafos. R’Akiva’s mega-hevrusos were somehow less deserving than the four high quality students.

    in reply to: Slavery — The Torah True Way (with Reb HaLeiVi) #2095845

    Avira, while I agree that sometimes “modern” movements create bad ideas that we should not follow, still we can’t deny that humanity is creating useful things and ideas sometimes. I understand that one might be careful with internet, music, cars, or COVID vaccine. But I wonder whether we need to insist on things like slavery. We already use many social norms that the world adopted – one-wife-only marriages, elections, corporations, welfare, summer vacations, two-day weekend …

    in reply to: Politics #2095846

    coffee > But to believe your party is ה׳s gift to humanity and the other party’s as the worst thing in the world?

    Taht is avoda zora and lack of sechel and historical knowledge … We can obviously observe sonaei Isroel like commies and Nazis, but the rest – you never know …

    I like Larry Summers explanation of predicting inflation or recession: economy is lkie a skidding car with driver trying to control it. You don’t know l’hathila whether it is going to fall in the left or right, or survive in the middle. Same is true with politics: a country can end up on hard right or hard left, or stay in the middle. We can help by not over-reacting, same as in skidding, and, of course, davening for Hashem to give leaders chochma.

    in reply to: Commemoration of the 20th of Sivan #2095776

    others who were elected in Sejm:
    Alexander Zusia Friedman, R Rabbi Yosef Nechemya Kornitzer of Kraków, Leib Mincberg. So, we have 5 out of 6-7 that probably served in Sejms. R Mordechai Dubin served in Latvia.

    in reply to: Commemoration of the 20th of Sivan #2095775

    Last par typo: 1928, not 1922

    in reply to: Commemoration of the 20th of Sivan #2095774

    Polish 1922 elections: 35 Jews (10%, about percentage of Jews in general population), of which 6 Agudas Isroel, incl R Shapiro. Apparently, he worked on his Polish a lot, not just Daf Yomi, while serving in Seim.

    In 1922, 65% of Jews voted for minority parties, in 1928 – only 33%, 49% for Pilsudski’s block, 7% for Communists. 44% of Orthodox Xians voted for Commies. 16% of majority Catholics voted for Pilsudsky, 45% for left, 15% for right, 4% for Commies

    in reply to: Slavery — The Torah True Way (with Reb HaLeiVi) #2095721

    I don’t know about chazal, but the Author of Chumash and Navi is clearly limiting slavery among Jews themselves in various ways. Thus, slavery, is not an ideal state for a human being. We have a brocha for that. It seems like a good reason, that if you live in a country that is reasonably good to you, you would not want bad things for them. In our days, most things that slaves used to do, free market, machines and computers can accomplish. So, it is hard to make a case that some human being need to be enslaved to facilitate your Torah learning – beyond those who work in the fields to grow coffee, then those who transport it from overseas, then package it, send it to you and send you a coffee maker. If you really need someone to press a button to brew the coffee, your wife might do it for you.

    in reply to: Flag Parade and Our Jewish Values #2095720

    As to attitudes to EY, someone asked Satmar Rov when he was leaving EY – who should I now give my kvitelach? The Rov said – go to any shul, see a person who puts a tefillin and has numbers etched under the tefillin; you can give your kvitel to that person.

    in reply to: Flag Parade and Our Jewish Values #2095716

    Keep in perspective that early 1900s to say 1950-70s, this was an ideological struggle – whether Jewish population will follow some of the Rabbis or follow some secular movements, whether Zionism, Bundism, or Communism. People had strong opinions about that. When you are trying to protect your community from the infectious ideology, you are not going to give them slack for still using Hebrew rather than Polish and Russian. In a long term, those who followed Zionists, fared better, both physically and spiritually, than those who followed other socialist movements.

    Later on, it is more of an issue of interaction between different communities. If someone is leaving observance in our days, it is not because of Zionism, but of general secularism and of their teacher’s failures. So, we don’t need to re-fight those old wars.

    in reply to: WWRAS-What would R’ Aharon zt”l say? #2095710

    My guess, R Aharon would be looking at google maps, planning a remote location for a place where Torah learning can happen without distractions. Maybe WV or KY.

    As an insight into his thinking, one prominent South American Rav was thinking about moving to Israel. He asked R Aharon and he replied: I think the Jews in your country still need you. Maybe later, we will both go to EY … When many years later, that Rav finally decided to move, he encountered R Aharon’s levaya joining him on the flight from Paris to TLV and recalled that conversation.

    in reply to: Commemoration of the 20th of Sivan #2095708

    Ukrainian Kozaks did not succeed in that rebellion – their strategy was to “partner” with Russians against the Poles, but Russians had other ideas and annexed the area. Eastern Ukraine (this is where Kozaks were) is paying for that strategic mistake now.

    in reply to: Commemoration of the 20th of Sivan #2095705

    Of course, there was anti-Semitism in Poland, but it has to be put in the context of alternatives – Prussia, Russia …. Jews willingly moved to Poland when invited as described above. Jews had their own government – Vaad Arba Artzot that was a pretty powerful entity for some time and declined in parallel to the Polish state itself. Poland fell behind economically – while other countries industrialized, Poland was charging them high prices for (in large part, Ukrainian) wheat, but this wokred only for some time. Politically, Seim had a 1 vote veto power leading to worse filibusters than US Senate, especially when Russians were able to buy off a couple of members. After Poland/Lita was divided by Germany/Austro-Hungary/Russia in 17xx-s, Jews mostly supported Polish rebellions against Russia. The short period of independence in 1920-39 had lots of stuff happening with both Polish and Jewish nationalism, socialism, and external attacks by Germany and USSR. A lot of Jews complained, but also a lot were pretty pro-Polish. When religious Jews in Warsaw saw planes over the city, they were sure, like all Poles, that these are mighty Polish planes on the way to repel German army. So, the bombs were a complete surprise. Turns out, Poles (and Jews) took years after WW1 to fight against each other while maintaining cavalry, and Germany and USSR were building tanks and planes together.

    in reply to: Politics #2095696

    Politics determines how the world is run and also, i nsome places, is expression of our common will. Both are clearly of Hashem’s interest. We know more about ancient kings from Tanach than from any other source.

    in reply to: Herzog’s column #2095616

    Avira, you are right that Zionists have their Jewishness at the center of their agenda, while other non-religious Jews did not. Still, many Bundists, Socialists considered themselves Jewish. Also, even many German Jews who converted did this out of convenience and felt some affinity to Jews and often married other Jewish converts. From Henrich Heine to Fritz Haber, they experienced their Jewish affinity at times of trouble.

    in reply to: Let’s Say Republicans Win the Midterm Elections? #2095509

    Opinions change quickly sometimes. Whole of Europe were disgusted with Poland for their supposedly anti-democratic policies for some time. Lately, Poland is trying to drag Old Europe along to fight for democracy. Also, Poland is totally frustrated with Hungary

    The Madame speaker went for a day to give a speech at Brown, can’t leave a husband for a day without a drunken accident!

    in reply to: The solution to the shidduch crisis in one easy step! #2095500

    mentsch > Don’t marry that optional second wife and instead use your extra time and energy to learn.

    If you have 2 boys and 2 (or maybe even one) girl, then you fulfilled minimal pru urvu by both B Hillel and Shammai. If you went thru Tanach and Daf Yomi, you fulfilled minimal learning requirement. Now, you can choose which mitzva you want to do b’hiddur according to your preferences.

    You can also marry a seminary graduate and learn Halocha with her, and a Stern graduate as the 3rd wife and learn Gemora with her.

    in reply to: Herzog’s column #2095499

    A good question, whether Rambam would live in Tel Aviv … On one hand, he suggests emigration and even desert if you are in a bad community (as Chazon Ish quotes him); on the other hand, he moved several times himself: from crazy kind of Muslims in Spain to Fes, a place of the first dual-track school (medrasa/university); then to Mitzrayim under Muslims with who he interacted daily, and with Karaims. None of these places had perfect communities at the time, and he did not go to Sahara. Maybe, he was satisfied by having some community in the location? So, he might be able to find a minyan in Tel-Aviv or even in Bnei Braq (if he were to accept modern psak allowing shanda of taking some else’s money). Need to look more into this.

    in reply to: Herzog’s column #2095498

    Avira > Dovid hamelech fought for Hashem. Zionists fight against Him

    Ok, this makes sense. But before you were assigning guilt by association: chilonim are wrong, thus R Kook is wrong by associatign with them; Reformim are wrong, thus oilam does not need tikkun, etc, etc. The problem with this approach is that it takes you on a subjective route – you can easily accuse anyone you don’t like by association: MO are associated with Bible criticism; scientists with college parties; baalei tzedoka with communism; baalei batim with heartless capitalism; anti-zionists with anti-semites; Torah scholars with Nazarenes; etc, etc. You can choose any of the above just based on your own biases: some choose part of that list; others – the other part and none will be wiser.

    in reply to: January 6th Committee Hearings #2095497

    For those who hope to convince the other side that there is fire behind these smoke signals, you are confronted with powerful psychological barriers: there were so many promising leads that most convincible people in the middle checked out already. We all worried about pings @ Alpha bank and read Mueller thriller, including footnotes (and I am skipping 100 stories in between). Most turned out to be untrue provocations or just disappeared from public view. Turns out Mueller could not even see that his sources were paid by Hillary and making “typos” on affidavits. This is not unusual for American politics, just more intense and one-sided with Trump. So, my free advise is to stop trying throwing more accusation and just wake us up in case you found something material. I am frankly shocked – shocked – that none of the unseemly claims about T were not proven yet. Given his middos and type of business he was involved in, there should be something. Look harder.

    in reply to: Driving a Tesla on Shabbos #2095241

    > always a matter of an appearance of Chillul Shabbos in public.

    just drive by shinui – backwards, pushing gas with your hands, and steering with your feet

    in reply to: N95 masks with exhalation valves #2095199

    Avram
    >> FIRST ARE THESE COMMERCIAL OR MEDICAL? COMMERCIAL ARE NOT THE RIGHT ONES.”
    > Why not?

    My understanding is that medical standards call for different filtration. Masks include special materials, such as electrostatic layer. I did not study this in depth. Look it up.

    Overall, I agree that it looks like there are enough cases where wearing a valve makes sense. Maybe worth to revisit the original message. Tzarich Iyun.

Viewing 50 posts - 5,351 through 5,400 (of 9,102 total)