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  • in reply to: BY girl struggling #2259093
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Wtsp: I’m glad you’re getting the help you need from those helping you.

    You should not blame the schools, these types of issues are not discussed publicly by design. Now that you’re struggling, it may be hard for you to understand, but hopefully in a few years you’ll understand that dealing with it publicly would cause more harm than benefit.

    in reply to: BY girl struggling #2259092
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    Commonsaychel, your posts calling out every thread as troll are getting tiresome, and more importantly, in the cases you’re wrong (and there’s no way for you to know how many times you’ve been wrong) it’s likely very hurtful.

    in reply to: Can we please fix the Coffee Room? #2258496
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    The instructions given is unclear for a computer programer as myself.

    It has nothing to do with computer programming. There’s a website which archives the internet.

    in reply to: Ethics and Entenmann’s #2258501
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    Back to the OP, it’s pretty ridiculous to say it’s a problem to give a hechsher to products which most people can eat in moderation without any health risks.

    in reply to: @CTLAWYER #2258019
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Just refer to your new wife as “my wife” instead of “Mrs. CTL”.

    in reply to: @CTLAWYER #2256488
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Mazel tov!

    in reply to: Can we please fix the Coffee Room? #2254885
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    Please?

    in reply to: A Chasidus without a present Rebbe #2253004
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    the rebbe clearly said there wont be another rebbe

    If that’s true, then this is is all his fault.

    in reply to: New refrigerator #2247517
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    No, GH, not analogous.

    in reply to: Joe, I need your help here #2247513
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    The comparison of household income of Teaneck vs. Lakewood is highly flawed.

    CS made the valid point that the Lakewood firm community has spIlled over into adjacent townships.

    There are other flaws in the comparison, though, as well.

    What are the average ages of the heads of household? I would think Lakewood’s would be younger because of the constant influx from BMG bochurim who get married. Obviously, the longer people are in the workforce, the more they typically earn, so without these numbers, the comparison is unfair.

    Even more important is that Lakewood has a large population of non Jewish low income families, which (correct me if I’m wrong) isn’t the case in Teaneck.

    For the purpose of this discussion, one would need to compare frum families. Are there any statistics on that?

    in reply to: Catskill busses #2210035
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Bussted!

    in reply to: Dreaming About Listening to Music During the Three Weeks #2209404
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Refuah sheleimah, Wolf.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2204587
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    The answer to the OP is that, no, it’s not a common discussion among Litvaks.

    The simplest explanation for why it’s a popular discussion on the CR is because it’s controversial, with passionate opinions on both sides, and that’s what generates interest and responses on the CR

    in reply to: Problem with Melech HaMashiach from the Dead #2203393
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    Whether or not debunking the Rebbe being Moshiach is sinas chinom probably depends on the intent of the poster, and I don’t think it’s fair to judge someone’s intent as malicious unless it’s obvious.

    in reply to: Problem with Melech HaMashiach from the Dead #2203391
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    It may be a “only” a shtus, but it’s a dangerous and harmful one.

    Still, the OP’s tayna doesn’t work – the false moshiach is still alive, so why would he need Moshiach min hameisim as a defense? Hrs not taynaing anything after he died.

    I personally find Redleg’s tayna more compelling than the OP’s. Still more compelling is the fact that until the Rebbe’s petirah, the idea of Moshiach coming from the dead was never accepted as a mainstram position in Klal Yisroel, even in Chabad/Lubavitch. That’s why his petirah was so devastating to those who believed he was definitely Moshiach – because it totally didn’t fit the narrative. Some of those who couldn’t wrap their heads around the fact the Rebbe wasn’t Moshiach retrofit their hashkafa around his petirah, finding sources which may or may not support the notion – but at most those sources had the status of a daas yochid (bracing for comments about my screen name).

    in reply to: The most pressing issue facing the Jewish community in 2023 #2203039
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Must be whether or not there’s a Posek Hador.

    in reply to: Posek HaDor #2202676
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    DaasYochid: imitation is the best flattery.

    I didn’t know that the words imitation and mocking were synonymous.

    @DaasYochid Nope. Which is why we’re arguing about it in our free time in CR, instead of taking out ads in the Yated and posting petchkvilim to shul bulletin boards.

    See above

    in reply to: Kollel life with no parental support #2201559
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    Maybe the conmen earn more than honest people.

    Seriously, cost of living is high, even on a simple level. Most families need two incomes. This was true 20 years ago as well, maybe less so 30-40 years ago.

    in reply to: Out Of The Mailbag: Jewish Kindness #2201557
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    So? Did it wear off?

    in reply to: Posek HaDor #2201544
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Is this the most important issue facing Klal Yisroel in 2023?

    in reply to: Chabad Inspires all Jews to Yearn for Mashiach #2195251
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    What about Rav Shach

    And R’ Aharon.

    in reply to: Why BDE #2195244
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    YungermanS is correct

    Lol

    It’s a sockpuppet account. How many accounts do you have?

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2191676
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    The repulsion of all Rabbonim to the Zionist groups was because of their supplanting the Torah with Zionism.

    That’s still a huge problem. Lots of Jews, even (maybe primarily) שומרי תורה ומצוות look at the Stare of Israel as our national pride rather than exclusive the Torah.

    For example, many view the PM of Israel as a leader of our nation (and not merely pragmatically).

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2191670
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    I still have not gotten an answer from the Anti-Zionists as to what would have been wrong had they put the state in Africa, seemingly circumventing the Three Oaths.

    If “The State” would have been a “Jewish” country which didn’t follow the Torah, the issue of redefining Jewish nationhood as something other than a nation which follows the Torah would still be there. עיין ספר בעיות הזמן מר’ ראובן גרוזובזקי זצ”ל.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2190723
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    Also, how does Zionism not violate the core MO halacha of “thou shalt not do anything that bugs the goyim?”

    Still waiting for an answer

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2190707
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Neville, yes, the attack was unprovoked.

    It was provoked by the declaration of Israel’s independence

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2190705
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    The rulers of the area agreed to the land being a Jewish homeland.

    The Arabs aren’t considered אומות העולם??

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2190140
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    I was generally using the Yad Moshe (then posting hebrewbooks links).

    Also Google. Obviously you can’t trust “Rabbi Google”, but many of the topics discussed on the CR are of aside enough appeal that there are articles elsewhere about them, and some of the better ones have mareh m’komos which you can look up yourself.

    in reply to: Angels no, electricity yes? #2190138
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    How is relying on the lenient opinions regarding electricity a bizayon haTorah?

    The two issues are unrelated, I don’t understand why you think there’s a contradiction.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2190133
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    NCB, I shouldn’t have said the word “precisely”, which was imprecise. As I recall, I was generally using the Yad Moshe (then posting hebrewbooks links).

    Not sure anyone literally says that medinah money is assur b’hana’ah, it’s just a (pretty understandable) shittah not to take it.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189999
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Could it be that your seemingly encyclopedic knowledge of the Igros Moshe can be explained away by being tech savvy to know how to search for stuff on Hebrewbooks?

    Precisely

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189994
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    Why should money from the Zionists be assur when usually issurei hanaah doesn’t transfer to money (with the exception of avodah zara)?

    The more serious answer is that those who forbade taking money from the government wanted to distance themselves from the Zionists.

    It’s hard to argue that they were wrong, as nowadays we see such a large portion of ostensibly Chareidi Yidden who are now quasi Zionists.

    in reply to: Artificial Intelligence vs G-d #2189991
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    Basically, I think Hashem runs the world

    A lot of unpleasant things have happened to humanity, as part of Hashem’s plan.

    When there’s an imminent threat, we are scared (and we daven to Him for a yeshua); we don’t dismiss it.

    That being said, I don’t know if AI is an imminent threat.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189989
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    this is a ridiculous take

    It is. The other approach, saying the 3 Shavuos for some reason aren’t binding, is the more common answer (which I don’t get either, since it definitely bugs the goyim)

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189985
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    Also, how does Zionism not violate the core MO halacha of “thou shalt not do anything that bugs the goyim?”

    Waiting for an answer

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189984
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Why should money from the Zionists be assur when usually issurei hanaah doesn’t transfer to money (with the exception of avodah zara)?

    Seems like you answered your own question.

    🦆

    in reply to: music lag ba’omer night or not?? #2189362
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    Aveirah, the S”A doesn’t mention it. What else do you want?

    He wants you to recognize that the fact that the Shu”a doesn’t mention it doesn’t mean it’s not assur to listen to music during sefirah.

    in reply to: music lag ba’omer night or not?? #2189080
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    @Meno, מחבר ספר שו”ת יח”ת?

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2188720
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Of course I remember you. And you’re posts are memorable because you’re one of the people that actually knows how to do the real quotey thing that requires HTML markup.

    Also because his posts are intelligent and well written and always courteous.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2188715
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    You used to regularly come into halacha discussion threads with a bunch of sources backing up what you said

    That’s true, but does not mean I have encyclopedic knowledge of the Igros Moshe.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2188354
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Neville,

    Thank you for the compliments (although extremely overdone, and especially the Igros Moshe part which is simply untrue).
    (I still do some occasional lurking and even an occasional post here and there. I happened to see your name here so opened the thread.)

    Nice to “see” you.

    in reply to: What are your thoughts about Kennedy?? #2184197
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Coffee Addict,

    “Agnes Treuren, an officer in the Dutch Consulate in New York, insisted that both pronunciations were emphatically wrong. “It is ‘Fon Weig,’ with the last syllable pronounced like leg or beg,” she said”

    From an old NYT article

    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Of course not

    in reply to: How much does a shadchan charge? #2174463
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    I heard it’s $1500 per side now.

    in reply to: Teen Violence in Lakewood #2174462
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Ooooh, if we’re just gonna make stuff up about other Jews, can I join too

    Yes.

    I’m anxiously awaiting

    in reply to: How much does a shadchan charge? #2173463
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    He seems pretty bitter. Nebach

    in reply to: Teen Violence in Lakewood #2172833
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    It’s fun to blame whatever hashkafa we already don’t like, but I think it fails us when trying to understand the root causes.

    Hit the nail on the head.

    Examples in this thread of anti-Torah bias:

    Blaming the community approach in a community which doesn’t have a higher prevalence

    The ludicrous assumption that the troubled kids who haven’t connected with Torah would have connected with secular studies

    The lack of recognition that there are definitely programs inside and outside of Lakewood which deal with boys who haven’t connected with Torah

    in reply to: Have Seminaries outlived their purpose? #2157989
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Avirah, you are conflating teaching a woman Torah shebaal peh with her learning it on her own.

    Bottom line is that if she’s learning it properly, it’s a mitzvah, but not a chiyuv.

    in reply to: Shidduchim Between Litvish Girls and Chasidish Boys #2157823
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    @daas-yochid Getting a job or education is called “twiddling thumbs” now? Are bachurim sitting in the freezer or Eretz Yisroel just being mevatel Torah until they get married?

    Of course not. Hence my question to Ari.

    in reply to: Shidduchim Between Litvish Girls and Chasidish Boys #2157350
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    Ari, are you implying that girls are sitting around twiddling their thumbs until they get married?

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