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☕️coffee addictParticipant
Kluger,
Yes I am, but I’m lost because I have a job and couldn’t follow that much
☕️coffee addictParticipantNot sure why my post didn’t go through so I’ll repost again
I’m glad that this has taken a mind of its own because I’m lost so my obligation to reply isn’t relevant anymore
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August 12, 2019 2:26 pm at 2:26 pm in reply to: Do you jump to conclusions in real life too? #1772926☕️coffee addictParticipantCtlawyer,
Thanks for the laugh
😂🤣😂
August 12, 2019 11:36 am at 11:36 am in reply to: Do you jump to conclusions in real life too? #1772721☕️coffee addictParticipant29,
נשים דעתן קלות
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☕️coffee addictParticipantPhilosopher and non political,
I’m sorry I haven’t been up to date I’ve been busy
One comment that caught my eye though was about women being neviot
Mind you, bilam, avimelech,and lavan also got nevuah
When I have more time (and a computer) I’ll IY”H comment better
☕️coffee addictParticipantPhilosopher,
(This at least I do know) when something has less potential energy it doesn’t have a long distance to fall so a woman even though it starts on a higher point since it’s low isn’t as low as a man it can’t reach as high as a man
Which means a woman can never be a צדיק גמור whereas a man can sue to reaching a higher point than a woman
☕️coffee addictParticipantMen expressing their feelings (and to teach your boys that you can still be a man if you do)
It was written by a female (at least in pen name)
☕️coffee addictParticipant“Coffee addict, I don’t remember where I’ve read it, but this is attributed to a tzaddik whom I’ve forgotten his name, who said that women have less mitzvos because they are on a higher spiritual plane.“
And this is what gets me upset!
That is utter BS!
If that was the case you would have a lot of women that were צדקניות which isn’t the case!
שלמה המלך , the wisest of all people said
“One of a thousand men I have found and even that I haven’t found in women”They might have less potential energy (or kinetic energy, I was never good in science) which means they won’t fall as far but a man could go higher than a women
And until you show me that he was serious and not to just stop all his girl students from pouncing on him or being depressed I won’t believe it one iota
☕️coffee addictParticipantSyag,
Just that comment specifically and this thread in general brought up a mishpacha article from a few weeks ago that got me very upset
☕️coffee addictParticipantThe problem we have is that you are trying to prove for months, perhaps even years, or for as long as I’ve been on here, is that women are inferior to men. That is a dangerous notion and not based in Judasim at all. We have specific duties as men and women and despite the fact that men are more dominant IN SPECIFIC AREAS according to halacha, it does not indicate superiority or that women are in servitude of men as we have argued previously. That is a dangerous notion to have. It is more in line with Islam…“
While you brought this up I want to say the opposite is just as true
Just because women might be better in SPECIFIC AREAS that doesn’t mean that they’re better than men
This whole notion that women don’t have to do מצוות because they have less problems to take care of vis a vis ה׳ is ludicrous.
The comment only comes about due to (what I feel is) feminism
If women and men realize what they have to take care of is due to themselves that would teach them not that one is BETTER than the other but they are different and should only worry about themselves
Sorry for the rant
☕️coffee addictParticipant“It was pointed out clearly and explicitly that the response came from your timing. You know that because you read it in at least three posts. Here’s the connection again – the problem was not with the holy words of chazal, it was with you DIGGING THRU SIX YEAR OLD THREADS SPECIFICALLY DURING THE NINE DAYS TO CAUSE DERISION.
Period.“Syag,
Why isn’t what you are doing called an inference too
August 11, 2019 3:59 pm at 3:59 pm in reply to: In honor of Tisha B'av. What you respect about… #1772286☕️coffee addictParticipantI respect the yidden that try to find the good in everybody
☕️coffee addictParticipantWow!
The women on this thread are getting all defensive here!
(And bringing in שעשיני כרצונו to boot)
☕️coffee addictParticipantLightbright
Or a cat as a rat
Or a donkey as a monkey
☕️coffee addictParticipantWow,
Bruriah came up from the grave just to knock joe
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As we’ve been saying all along דעתן קלות doesn’t mean stupid it means emotional
☕️coffee addictParticipant“If you think it’s healthy for parts of the population to go hungry because giving them a livelihood MIGHT affect the general cost of living in the country, you are a terrible person.“
If the unemployment rate is 0% that means people won’t be hungry, conversely if the unemployment is more than 0 that means that they will go hungry?
Do you know government benefits give more to people that don’t work than minimum wage jobs (through different programs)
I’m not advocating for it I’m just saying, just because someone has a minimum wage job doesn’t mean he won’t go hungry
☕️coffee addictParticipantNeville,
Really?
☕️coffee addictParticipantSam,
No I don’t, I was just wondering
And your comment that jobs will be empty was exactly what I was thinking which led to my second question
What is the optimal unemployment rate since it’s not 0
Lightbright,
So now if you take sam’s point those people not looking for work (due to feeling hopeless will get those open jobs
Possibly
☕️coffee addictParticipant“Nashim Da’tan Kalos cannot mean that the female intelligence is in any way inferior to male intelligence because it simply is not supported; “
Blackandwhite,
1) דעת isn’t the same as חכמה you’re talking about חכמה we’re talking about דעת
2) the story with ברוריה disproves you too, so women back then we’re like that (maybe you can say something changed, but if for sure was the מציות back then)
☕️coffee addictParticipantWhat’s ggwg?
☕️coffee addictParticipantMoishe,
I was replying to yitzyk, who said
“The existing NY kosher distributors will not travel 200 miles out of their way just to deliver to one store”
☕️coffee addictParticipantYitzyk,
Seasons did it
And gourmet glatt has a place in Lakewood so it’s not that much farther
☕️coffee addictParticipant“I have been taught that Noshim Daatim kalos means that men and women have different levels of concentration“
That goes against the story with bruriah
☕️coffee addictParticipantNo but it sure is trolly to have as your first post an OP
☕️coffee addictParticipantBecause I never thought that one can topple over on their right if they lean left
☕️coffee addictParticipantCsr1,
I can’t speak for aish but for cchf I can say those who don’t learn from the past are doomed to repeat it
☕️coffee addictParticipantApy,
Don’t you mean left?
☕️coffee addictParticipantI’m sorry but it’s a Gemara (and an Avraham fried song)
אין בן דוד בא אלא בנסח הדעת
The point of yiddishkeit is to do the רצון of Hashem, that is what our goal should be, משיח is only a side benefit
Moshe rabbeinu came when klal yisrael least expected it
☕️coffee addictParticipantSince I can’t find my disagreement with ubiq I’m posting it here
NYC Businesses Struggle to Keep Up After Minimum Wage Increase
August 4, 2019 2:14 pm at 2:14 pm in reply to: “Kiddush Hashem” Does Not Mean Looking Good by the Goyim #1769393☕️coffee addictParticipantUbiq,
My comment was off of your comment stating
“If I said “Eating in the sukkah does not mean sleeping in it, FYI” It would be very on topic for you to say “True, but sleeping in the sukkah is also important”
I dont think it would make sense for me to then say “There are lots of good things we are supposed to do. This thread is about eating in the sukkah, not all of the other things.”“Both eating and sleeping in the sukkah are part of the מצוה of
״תשובו כעין תדורו״
So I’m not sure why you brought that up that’s why I asked if it was a מצוהAugust 4, 2019 10:20 am at 10:20 am in reply to: “Kiddush Hashem” Does Not Mean Looking Good by the Goyim #1769270☕️coffee addictParticipantUbiq,
Is there a מצוה to look good by the גוים?
Meaning to say
Is there a מצוה to be a high ranking position in the goyishe velt?
August 2, 2019 7:10 pm at 7:10 pm in reply to: What are any issues with serving a role in Conservative Shule? #1768957☕️coffee addictParticipant“This is motzi shem ra.“
I wouldn’t be surprised if OO had more leeway this is what would have happened
“A maharat can’t be counted for a minyan?” Is what they would say
☕️coffee addictParticipantGarlic and sugar cubes
It is said that food from a פדיון הבן is like 84 fasts פד so putting the garlic or sugar in your food you get 84 fasts for each bite
August 1, 2019 8:25 pm at 8:25 pm in reply to: Tuna soup is delicious, and if you refuse to try it, you’re a coward. #1768634☕️coffee addictParticipantThe best is salmon soup!
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August 1, 2019 8:25 pm at 8:25 pm in reply to: 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 – 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 x 0 = ? #1768618☕️coffee addictParticipantRight ubiq
Pemdas working from left to right
☕️coffee addictParticipant“The lifeguards are not trained to deal with so many kids at once, many of whom don’t even know how to swim.“
That’s the problem, camps should teach kids how to swim before taking them to a water park
☕️coffee addictParticipant“From the time I was 8 I would take the train from New Haven to Penn Station at least once a month and have lunch or dinner out with them. I got to try most of the Manhattan kosher restaurants that operated below the park between the early 1960s and dating days. All my grandparents lived in NYC and I was exposed to dining the outer boros as well.“
So the reason you went to those restaurants was because you had experience with them
My quote was “Nobody knows the quality of the restaurant that isn’t in the neighborhood” and in reference to your comment you were “in the neighborhood” because you were used to it when you were a kid
In general brooklyners wouldn’t go out to queens when they have countless restaurants in the area (save for if they happen to be in queens and need to get a bite to eat, but that’s the exception and not the rule)
I’m sorry I generalized when I said nobody, what I meant was people don’t usually
July 30, 2019 10:12 pm at 10:12 pm in reply to: President Donald Trump, Oheiv Yisroel Par Excellence #1767570☕️coffee addictParticipantNon political,
No I didn’t 😁
Did I say all people that live in Baltimore hate trump? Those that do are baltimorons the rest are baltimorians
July 30, 2019 6:41 pm at 6:41 pm in reply to: President Donald Trump, Oheiv Yisroel Par Excellence #1767516☕️coffee addictParticipantKatanhadorah,
Exactly, because baltomorons hate trump and are RACISTS (there I said it!)
Would it be racist to say the same thing with Obama in Texas?
☕️coffee addictParticipantCtl,
How did you choose that restaurant over the myriad of other restaurants?
☕️coffee addictParticipantPractical,
Have you been following or just read the first post?
☕️coffee addictParticipant“my chosson is a wonderful man, his name is Joseph, he’s 46 and has been living in his mother’s basement, but he’s very with it and plans to learn in kollel for 6.43 years, and then become a CEO of finance company.
“😂🤣😂🤣😭🤣😂
July 26, 2019 1:19 pm at 1:19 pm in reply to: Can a husband bring down his wife (take her farther from Hashem)? #1765752☕️coffee addictParticipantRedleg and syag,
I understand lightbrite’s original question as “we all know a woman can change a man but can a man make a woman less Frum or more Frum
A question which I think wasn’t answered
☕️coffee addictParticipantDevny
Mazel Tov
May you build a bayis neeman btrollvilleJuly 26, 2019 8:13 am at 8:13 am in reply to: Does going off and staying off the derech = Another gilgul in this world #1765618☕️coffee addictParticipantAll 613?
Hashem doesn’t count mitzvos that one has חרטה on
☕️coffee addictParticipantNobody knows the quality of the restaurant that isn’t in the neighborhood and doesn’t want to go to a restaurant that is subpar
As to your questions about hotel lobbies
Yes to both questions
July 25, 2019 10:00 pm at 10:00 pm in reply to: Can a husband bring down his wife (take her farther from Hashem)? #1765540☕️coffee addictParticipantSorry misunderstood the question 😐
July 25, 2019 9:52 pm at 9:52 pm in reply to: Why are those behind this site over on ona’at devarim? #1765528☕️coffee addictParticipantJuly 25, 2019 9:38 pm at 9:38 pm in reply to: Can a husband bring down his wife (take her farther from Hashem)? #1765509☕️coffee addictParticipantMy humble opinion
Yes!
A wife is called an עזר כנגדו
the wife has the power to grow her husband and the same power can destroy him and she is really כנגדו because if he wants to grow and she doesn’t want him to she will be כנגדו and he won’t be successful
Examples are קרח , אחאב, and lehavdil און בן פלס
☕️coffee addictParticipantYehuda,
I’ll answer you
Normal people go out to eat in a restaurant with their family and they can see what ho’w going out on a date if the unmarried guy and girl are sitting with each other
Normal people don’t go to a hotel in the neighborhood if they’re from that neighborhood
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