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March 14, 2012 5:48 am at 5:48 am in reply to: Strengthening marriage #860497
What’s better for a marriage, If the guy is a working guy, is it better for the shalom bayis for the mom to be a stay at home mom, or to be a working? Personally I am a working mom, I make time for my children but I sometimes feel I don’t make enough time. Is it better to be a full time stay at home mom? experts out there, What is healthier?March 13, 2012 6:01 am at 6:01 am in reply to: CoreyToTheTroll #860816
This corey guy is not a troll!!! he starts controversial topics that interest a large amount of posters here. I don’t see anything wrong with them! what harm has he caused exactly????!!!!
Toi you owe this guy an apology. and mods, your gonna lose another poster, maybe you should be a little more cautious with what you allow through this place. corey is one of the real posters around here.. and it’s easy to tell that… corey disregard this toi guy, he’s got a record for starting these sort of things… check out his profile;)March 13, 2012 5:09 am at 5:09 am in reply to: It is d�j� vu all over again #1100590
what is it, gabi?March 13, 2012 5:08 am at 5:08 am in reply to: On a plane #938990
Mildly Retarded, Eccentric Jewish Woman
“I’m totally staying on a bunk in a hostel. Google “Alyeska hostel” and you can see where I am.
Strange little place. I didn’t tell them I’m Jewish, let alone an Orthodox rabbi. I daven in my car.”
very well, I now can arrange for someone to stalk you;)
Maybe i can help…be more specific, please, like How did you scare her off? please note as a side pointer, Baltimore is a rather small place.. like PBA hinted with his question, don’t be too specific.. there may be factors on here that will scare her further.. chas v’shalom…March 10, 2012 11:22 am at 11:22 am in reply to: Impatience #859121
You must have a good dose of israeli blood in you…;)
don’t worry, just relax. your impatiency comes from stress and anxiety as someone I think already pointed out.. have emuna everything will fall into place when it’s suposed to fall into place.. by being impatient it shows that Emuna is sth you need to work on. hashem runs the world and decides when things should happen. you are frustrated since you want it to happen when you want it. However hashem knows what’s best so take my advice and trust in Him.. In everything, even with the small things… remember all small things lead up to big things. nothing that happens is small since it’s all part in parcel of the entire picture, every little bit is important. appreciate life and embrace it with gratitude and love. If you do this you’ll go far.March 7, 2012 5:50 am at 5:50 am in reply to: Pesach is almost here! #858043
I turn my kitchen over in term vacation time. I prepare all the side dises.. charosess, kugels, cakes icecreams, etc…etc.. I turn it back over to chametz and just a few days before pesach I turn it back into pesaach mode again. I have done this before just about every year… and I find it very affective. that way it’s not an overwhelming last min job. I like everything to be perfect. evth that I prepare goes into the spare freeezer.
my house is pesach cleaned practically all year round. I just give it a good spring clean and were all good! I also like to wash my pesach things, tablecloths, tea towels, afikomen bags..etc.. mid year so that they don’t smell musty from sitting in the cupboard all year come pesach.. and I polish all the silver 3 times a year so I don’t have to worry about it so much last minute.. come seder night everything is sparkling sqeaky clean. I love it!
Wolf, I don’t want to call you a liar, g-d forbid. maybe I’m dumb!!;) I meant to say it’s unbelieveable to know various trivial matters at the drop of a hat.. Basically, Kol hakavod!March 7, 2012 3:25 am at 3:25 am in reply to: Fast well Everyone!!!! #857854
May all of klal yisrael’s tefillos be answered this purim!
…BUMP… being the fact that she was a femanist brit. she now decided brit(sk) was for her.. noone would acknowlege her wierdness there she mused.. she would just blend naturally into the crowd. everyone will just think/know she’s (a) REAl Brisker… she eagerly climbed the steps, and as she pulled the door open…she swung around to see…
Wolf, did you honestly know that a “tom” was a male cat before googling it?? Don’t tell me you knew, cause I won’t believe you;PMarch 7, 2012 1:26 am at 1:26 am in reply to: How to keep on task? #857849
BTGuy- You missed me??;) I’m flattered!!LOL;)March 7, 2012 1:25 am at 1:25 am in reply to: How to keep on task? #857848
Zeeskite, you don’t want me to post here? Why not?March 6, 2012 11:10 pm at 11:10 pm in reply to: davening from electronic device #1116380
oh and also congratulations on your first post!! 4 years with a username and no posting, how could you have resisted that??!!;)
Unless your another mod username..LOL;)March 6, 2012 11:08 pm at 11:08 pm in reply to: davening from electronic device #1116379
YOu bring up some very good points in your post.
However I would like to know why on earth you would put your real name here on an Anonymous forum…
If you are trying to re-connect with someone you think you might know, keep in mind that people should be weary of impersonation. You could be impersonating someone in order to find out who a particular poster is.. I am not saying you are I am just bringing it up for the naive ones out there that might not nes understand the dangers… -All I am saying is CAUTION!!March 6, 2012 12:12 pm at 12:12 pm in reply to: Tuition – How much do you pay? #858164
“More_2, Your comment is irrelevant because you did not answer the original question. “-
a coffee room is not a question answer forum, it’s a discussion, not a dictation.. I’m sure most people will agree with that. my comment is not irrelevant as it fits into the topic that you have brought up. If you choose to disagree with my opinions that is fine, but to say it’s irrelevant makes no sense… sorry.March 5, 2012 4:02 am at 4:02 am in reply to: Tuition – How much do you pay? #858157
writersoul-where did I say people don’t try to pay full tuition? I said that people that have a number of kids in school it is impossible for them to even think aboout paying full tuition. I also said kol hakavod to those that are capable of paying full fees, because majority unfortunately cannot. Also the focus shouldn’t be on where is the cheapest school, since pricing can always be worked out and negotiated farely so that it’s a win win situation for both the school and the parents. being frum yidden, the focus should be on where is the best place for your children where are they going to be educated the best.March 4, 2012 8:42 pm at 8:42 pm in reply to: Please Disregard… #857336
how can I disregard sth you asked me to disregard?;)March 4, 2012 4:25 am at 4:25 am in reply to: Following Your Parents Instructions #857115
Member”We are taught in halacha various orders of who to follow first. Like father before mother (unless divorced), parents before wife, husband before parents, etc. “
so if my husband has to listen to his parents before his wife what about his wife listening to her inlaws before her hubs cause she can’t listen to her parents before her hub?;)
contact ou job website..
Wishing you much ,mazel and hatzlocha in this endeavour.March 2, 2012 5:23 am at 5:23 am in reply to: Tuition – How much do you pay? #858138
EarlyBird- “The reason why tuition is so much cheaper in chassidishe schools is because it is a chassidus, and the chassidim all chip in to keep the school running. They don’t get all funding from tuition.”
that’s very commmendable! I’m impressed by that achdus.
“you seem to have quite a lot to say about the chassidishe education… I wonder if you ever dealt with someone who was educated in these schools.”
plenty of them. on the side I deal with alot of kids at risk, majority coming from chassidishe backgrounds…
“I myself went to a chassidishe school and I think my english is at least slightly better than yours, from what I can tell by your writing style.”
Your right, my writing style Here in the CR is def not up to par, however by saying that your writing style is better than mine, is absolute arrogance. yiddishkiet is about recognising your faults and building upon them, not denying it and sweaping it under the carpet, like various other aspects are within your relm. i’ve got nothing against you I’m just putting my views out there on the table feel free to disagree, I don’t have a problem with that. However I do have a problem with arrogance, and I will not tollerate it!
“Our children are sheltered from negative influences, not from education. They can read and write English, they know Math, Science, History, etc. just as well as any other school. Most chassidishe schools take all regents and they get good grades compared to other schools.”
Even though those types of schools offer those subjects, majority of them have show no interest in it and I know there is a lrge % of thm tht barely excell in them!, as a result they resort to habbbbits that are not healthy and sometimes unfortunately illegal! they hold that everything outside the yiddishe velt is garbbbbage and that these subjects are only taken because it is required by the state. Again that is NOT yiddishkiet!March 2, 2012 3:48 am at 3:48 am in reply to: some things i learned to appreciate #861266
No One Mourns The Wicked- “Not many people understand the true difference between sympathy and empathy..”
In the medical field that’s one of the first things they teach you. You have to empathize with patients, not sympathize. Sympathy will actually cause burn-out much quicker!
Posted 10 hours ago #
No One Mourns The Wicked
Health: They teach the same in the Psych field 🙂
Posted 9 hours ago #”
LOL;) so perhaps she’s a Psych student and not a nursing student… and perhaps I may happen to know you! LOl, there are times when i THINK I know the entire coffee room!!!March 2, 2012 3:27 am at 3:27 am in reply to: Tuition – How much do you pay? #858134
“3800 for Chassidish Girls School in Brooklyn, including transportation, registration, and building fund.”
unbelievable, sounds like a public school tuition to me.. I can understand why…LOL since what exactly are you paying for? I hear chassidic schools are babysitting services, and the learning there can easily be mastered in the hoime. the 3800 you are paying is basically feeding the belly’s of the unqaulified teachers that are passing illitraacy onto the next generation. sth has to be done about it. narrowmindedness is NOT yiddishkiet! ok in the shtetlech back in Europe when the pple were not associated with the outside world that was oone thing they could afford to be sheltered, however in our day and age, children have to be aware of the spiritual dangers out there and how to deal with them in a manner that is acceptable. I’m not saying you have to copy the Umas haolom I am saying you pple have to realise that your children are suffering in the ‘underground’ and doing all sorts of illegal things since they are smacked up and putched into the chassidishe relm of meshugassem. and they can’t cope outside the cave that their ‘shittos’ have created. And I repete;- That is NOT yiddishkiet!!
I wouldn’t even pay 2 bucks for an education like that! the almighty has given alot of these people inteligent minds and they waste it with thier meshugassim!!! shame where some of the world’s come to!!!! people are blinded by the wrong things!!March 2, 2012 2:22 am at 2:22 am in reply to: chosson + kallah + FB #862433
Just curious, nowadays Is it normal to befriend a date on FB in the frum velt?? In my days it was absolutely ASSUR!!March 2, 2012 1:22 am at 1:22 am in reply to: Anger Control Issue #857108
You need to exercise and be around different people. your frustrations at every day issues are caused by being cooped up. you will notice when you start doing this your frustrations will melt away. your frustration could also be a form of letting out depression, you need to have other outlets available to get rid of the agravation/depression from your system.March 1, 2012 6:34 am at 6:34 am in reply to: Leap Day – February 29 #856676
Does anyone know anyone that was born on the 29th Feburary?March 1, 2012 6:31 am at 6:31 am in reply to: At-Home Haircuts #856986
Black hat, I’m sorry if I hurt you, I just didn’t think you were for real…March 1, 2012 6:05 am at 6:05 am in reply to: Mitzvah to Offer Overweight Person a Car Ride? #856743
“azoiv ta’zoiv imo” help them with their load! 😉March 1, 2012 6:03 am at 6:03 am in reply to: Yeshayah nun tes – yalkut shimoni -tuf tzadik tes #856873
translation?March 1, 2012 5:20 am at 5:20 am in reply to: Yeshayah nun tes – yalkut shimoni -tuf tzadik tes #856871
NOW??!!!!February 29, 2012 8:06 am at 8:06 am in reply to: Lakewood Mail Fraud #856615
We can’t offer any suggestions without you explaining to us exactly what happened.February 29, 2012 5:49 am at 5:49 am in reply to: Kissing A Tzadik's Hand #1135094
Wun Uv Meny
more: Is Sushe not a litvish name?
Posted 2 weeks ago #
if you pronounce it “Soshe” it is, and if you pronounce it “Sushe”:- You are a chassidish-convert that converted from litvishianity.February 29, 2012 5:30 am at 5:30 am in reply to: Is It Okay To Change A Minhag? #856880
If it’s a minhag that requires a yerida to go along with it, I would strongly veto it. like your example above for instance, 3 hours is not as machmir as 6 hours. However you are best of consulting your familiar local orthodox Rabbi in rgrds to this matter.
G’luck!February 29, 2012 5:05 am at 5:05 am in reply to: guilt in saying no. #856400
Thanks Coffee Addict;)February 29, 2012 1:43 am at 1:43 am in reply to: nefesh chaya #858928
I think Mrs Jacobowitz is incharge of this new one. what type of girls will be going there?February 29, 2012 1:32 am at 1:32 am in reply to: Gedolei Poskim to Ask Very Serious Shailos #856651
How cool! 😉February 29, 2012 1:31 am at 1:31 am in reply to: guilt in saying no. #856395
you should have said no after 2 dates then, If you had 12 dates and then sadly let them down that is what I would say leading them on. also if you found out negative info before dating the girl or guy, just don’t date them full stop who’s time are you trying to waste and who’s ego are you trying to build? A secind chance is understandable but a 12th chance is leading them on..February 28, 2012 10:48 am at 10:48 am in reply to: Shidduch and faith #854304
thanks google translate;) you always do much better than me in these short uf chings;)February 28, 2012 9:28 am at 9:28 am in reply to: The YWN Coffee Room Welcome Wagon #1064466
Welcome iYid. 🙂February 28, 2012 8:41 am at 8:41 am in reply to: A Conversation With Hashem… #856508
antikfira, Do I know you?February 28, 2012 8:19 am at 8:19 am in reply to: Baked stuff #857868
Give it to the Goitte. Even if you trust the hechsher of the person that has given it to you, you still don’t know if it is recycled goods or not… better safe than sorry.February 28, 2012 7:03 am at 7:03 am in reply to: guilt in saying no. #856388
Yiddishe Zach, Your pofile doesn’t come up on YWN… can you post the link to your profile.
thanks.February 28, 2012 6:50 am at 6:50 am in reply to: guilt in saying no. #856387
If your not interested, no reason to go further. you made the right decision by ending it where you felt you had to end it. I have dealt with a number of shidduchim. I’m no proffessional shadchan however I can tell you after saying no to an interested party, I cannot tell you how many times this has happened time and time again. sth better has come up for them. and they are very greatful the last one ended. It’s natural for both parties to feel pulled on both ends -in different ways, of course. however that being said whatever is meant to be is absolutely meant for the best! If you daven to hashem for clarity you can’t go wrong -have confidence in your emunah and you won’t go wrong. don’t know if you got that last line.. but I hope it helps.
Hatzlocha Raba. may your personal redemtion be upon you bekorov! AMEN!February 28, 2012 6:32 am at 6:32 am in reply to: Shidduch and faith #854301
“Poseach es yodecha umatzbiya lechol chai ratzon.”
I give all singles a bracha, If you say this pasuk in your tefilos with tremendous concerntration. I give you a bracha that whatever you are asking for will be granted.
What you want will be what you need and what you need will be what you want. Amen! BEKOROV BY ALL OF KLAL YISRAEL!!!!!
All singles, will stand under the chupa this year, no more suffering and no depair, happiness and glowing will eminate to and froing. ad meah vee’srim together with your spouse, in harmony unity and as Nechomo pointed out, CLARITY!!! so in short to end my rant Brachos and hatzlochas by one and all!!! AMEN!! may you all be zoche to be united with your zivug bekorov!! If I was by the kossel in this point in time, I would deposit this letter written bellow. I am instead putting it out to the oilom, in order to get a gevaldige koach hatefilla from the klal may we pearce the gates of heaven and may we all be heard and and answered what we need!
dear hashem, I hate seeing singles by weddings!!!!! these lost lonely soals. so cold and frigid. A sense of happiness is displayed, but deep down they NEED thier own. unite them together. unite them all. I’m begging You Hashem. I plead with my all. PLease hashem Please!!!! Only You Master of all, Master of everything can help. noone can lift a finger unless Hashem decides.February 28, 2012 3:16 am at 3:16 am in reply to: where can I buy by the case? #854373
I think pomemgranite has an online store.February 28, 2012 3:14 am at 3:14 am in reply to: Cellphones in Shul #856426
this post is an absolute bizayon in and of it’s self……February 27, 2012 6:27 am at 6:27 am in reply to: Latest to Arrive and Earliest to Leave Minyan #854245
‘Latest to Arrive and Earliest to Leave Minyan’
I’d say it’s anti social.
GeshmakMan- What does ‘LIFO’ mean?
You might need a specific type of gell for troll hair;)
howz the haircut taking off? update us please.February 23, 2012 11:35 pm at 11:35 pm in reply to: Mother in Law MM #853503
I’m desperate for an idea for Mishloach Manot for my mil who lives out of town.
preferably not edible stuff, just an idea of what to send for purim. we are a young couple without children.
<if there is such a topic already, please give me the link, Thanks>
theres no topic for it, that’s why you just created it! LOL;)