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March 21, 2012 4:38 am at 4:38 am in reply to: What does a girl look for in a guy? #861424
Wun Uv Meny
Eh, wasn’t talking about you.
Posted 15 minutes ago #
so I am not the only one who thinks so! LOL;)March 21, 2012 4:09 am at 4:09 am in reply to: Fathers interacting/playing with their children #861917
my pleasure;) well they say that after gil chinuch it’s mainly the fathers responsibility for the son up until then the mothers. the mother is responsible for the daughter up until she is married. but again, everyone is diff so you do what works for you!March 21, 2012 3:09 am at 3:09 am in reply to: What does a girl look for in a guy? #861422
Wun Uv Meny
Lol someone said that about me once…
Posted 6 minutes ago #
and what they said still stands;)!!! LOl!!! it’s so easy to tell, Also I don;t believe for a second that everyone else thinks you are female, no offense my friend. YOu once admitted for being the wolf, anf popa too that means you are squeek as well as a NUMBER of other ones as well!!! someone has to keep this place going…LOL!!!;)March 21, 2012 3:03 am at 3:03 am in reply to: What does a girl look for in a guy? #861421
So you are saying if a guy doesn’t know what he wants career wise he souldn;t get married until he has decided what he wants out of life.. what if this takes him until he’s in his late 30’s what happens then??? what is the psak for a girl regrds to this???;) I always was taught ben shemona esray lchupa. and that;s what I did. times have changed I see…March 21, 2012 2:59 am at 2:59 am in reply to: Fathers interacting/playing with their children #861914
depends on the person. I suggest you accept and appreciate your husband for who he is… If you have an individual concern like this take it up with a therapist. you are not going to change anything for the better by riling up a conversation regarding it here… Every person is different so pple here will not be able to give you the advice that you NEED!March 20, 2012 5:52 am at 5:52 am in reply to: Can we bring Moshiach? #864978
watch the video cry no more. it’s going around on facebook. very inspirational. i would post the link but I don’t think the mod will allow it to go through…March 20, 2012 3:08 am at 3:08 am in reply to: What does a girl look for in a guy? #861416
Why. Should a girl or guy have a plan? What’s wrong with figuring things out together???
Posted 3 hours ago #
noone answered my question…. pple these days think that if you don’t have a plan your garbage. someone can have a plan and be really hard to live with since they have to stick to thier plan. and if the other person’s plan is not compatible, whst happpens then?March 20, 2012 1:52 am at 1:52 am in reply to: What does a girl look for in a guy? #861412
most girls will not look into a smoker. asmoker says alot more about him than just pashut that. single guys just don’t smoke if you know whats good for you.March 20, 2012 1:01 am at 1:01 am in reply to: What does a girl look for in a guy? #861410
Today a girl is simply looking for a guy with pants. After all, with the crisis and age gap, she’s hoping to simply get *a* guy.
Posted 26 minutes ago #
that’s a joke???!!!!March 20, 2012 12:59 am at 12:59 am in reply to: Can we bring Moshiach? #864974
the story is very inspiring and uplifting. However there’s no way to prove that it’s actually true. Although it is true that Moshiach can come at any moment… and one should be just as excited for it without dreams like this sort.
LOL!!!March 20, 2012 12:44 am at 12:44 am in reply to: shidduchim and weight….. #906727
What’s better intelligence and average-ugly looks OR Ultra pretty, slim girl with moderate, little or no brains????
personally I’d rather the intelligence over the ultra thin pretty girl. You can’t emotionally relate to someone that you are not itellectually on par with.March 19, 2012 6:41 am at 6:41 am in reply to: Can't post today.. #861597
Because Mommy Said So
“.. and probably tomorrow too. My system is terminated,dismantled, disected. We even “pulled the plug”. Eagerly waiting for its (my) retrun to CR life, but Pesach comes first.
Oh, how I managed this one? I snuck a laptop under my covers… Uh Oh! Mommy’s coming…”
Posted 4 hours ago #
LOl, I was gonna say so post tomorow… but then I read this…. TSK TSK.. no no zeeskeit listen to you mommy like a good girl. Or I will arrange for her to take away your laptop and you won’t even even even even be-bebebe aaaallllowwwed t-ttto post the day after tomorow!!! I never learnt how to stutter probeply. cause my mommy never taught me how two. Did yours? I cannnntttt even right it writely, cause I have no india.March 19, 2012 6:41 am at 6:41 am in reply to: Can't post today.. #861598
Your making me jelous I don’t even have a computer. So I’ve never been on the YWCR in my whole liphe.March 19, 2012 5:19 am at 5:19 am in reply to: What happened to my and poppas conversation? #860790
Oh. I was driving for the last few hours.
It went away. :’-(
poof!March 19, 2012 4:47 am at 4:47 am in reply to: 5 year old haircuts #861112
“When I first saw the name of this thread, my immediate thought was, Wow, they waited five years to get a haircut???”
Posted 20 minutes ago #
you should know some pple do that for boys … since they believe that gil chinuch is at 5, they just can’t part with thier kids hair and as a result their kids turn out like sissies…nebachMarch 19, 2012 4:08 am at 4:08 am in reply to: Telemarketers… #1036131
If your payed on a commission basis, it’s not worth it. But if your payed by the hour or if you cut a deal for the amount of phonecalls then it’s well worth it. as long as it’s good pay why ever not??March 19, 2012 4:05 am at 4:05 am in reply to: Househusband #871304
“But it’s ok for frum women to work in male professions outside the home.”
LOL!!!March 19, 2012 3:14 am at 3:14 am in reply to: CoreyToTheTroll #860846
Mods- the Joke’s finished, we can now close this thread.March 19, 2012 2:32 am at 2:32 am in reply to: Shidduch Problem from a 14 yr. old #863019
He could have certain issues that is preventing his mindset of regarding merriage as a priority in life… He made need help in this area. It might even be damaging to the girl and himself if they do marry at this particular stage…
Or prehaps he just want to be financially stable before contemplating this at all…March 19, 2012 1:18 am at 1:18 am in reply to: CoreyToTheTroll #860844
Posted 13 hours ago #
meaning the entire thread??? that’s a good way to cop out;)!!!March 18, 2012 10:35 pm at 10:35 pm in reply to: MO wanna-bes #861213
These people’s kids will not end up “messed up” because they dont know how to fit in modern orthodox communities.
nO YOU DIDNN’T GET MY POINT, i was saying these pple that make the groisse jump from being irreligious to a chasssid/altra yeshivish thier kids don;t fit in, as a result they go searching, and they don’t belong in either sect. some of which become MO wanna be’s, but they lack the education and that particular upbringing that the rest of the MO’s posess as a result they are not accepted in either sect. If you read my second post there’s a solution to this crisis.March 18, 2012 10:28 pm at 10:28 pm in reply to: On a plane #939018
midwesterner told me via email that he believes me. Surprisingly, he didn’t ask to come along next time.
I intend to do a similar trip next year also at around this time, unless mashiach has come in which case we will go to switzerland which is closer to israel.
POOF!!! Another lie;)March 16, 2012 4:48 am at 4:48 am in reply to: bracha via text? #860569
yentingyenta- I’ve mentioned before that I know who you are.. I’m not sure if you caught on though… If you want to post anything confidential I would strongly advise you to change your username…
Happy Birthday again;)
& have a good shabbos.March 16, 2012 4:44 am at 4:44 am in reply to: CoreyToTheTroll #860837
I didn’t create coreytothecup and my wife didn’t create it either. we BOTH do not post from that username. If for whatever reason you believe coreytothecup belongs to us, it means it’s definitely someone within our wifi area range, and someone we know! be careful!! What you are doing is wrong in more ways than one. You owe this guy an apology for exposing his identity (to a certain extent)..Not to mention the great shame you put him through with no substantial evidence…-It’s meant to be a FRUM anonymous forum…. no?
Have a good shabbos.March 16, 2012 2:52 am at 2:52 am in reply to: On a plane #939004
If it is true it practically replaces an event diary..How cool;)March 16, 2012 2:34 am at 2:34 am in reply to: Beshow vs. Dating #1050507
The Wolf (who is waiting for more to ask me why I’m so bitter about this)
Posted 1 day ago #
are you;)?March 16, 2012 2:26 am at 2:26 am in reply to: Interstate rides #860242
it’s in bold, you can’t miss it;)March 16, 2012 2:26 am at 2:26 am in reply to: Is smoking mutar? #954556
I don’t think rav eliyashev is a cr member
Posted 1 hour ago #
maybe he is;)March 16, 2012 2:24 am at 2:24 am in reply to: Who Invented The Internet? #860611
Brings color to the CR!
if you get an iphone you can get a lot of jewish apps so you dont have to waste time
Posted 3 hours ago #
can you give some ideas?? what sorta apps? I’ve got kol haloshon, davening -(chol;), bentching without retzei, tefilas haderech, what else would you recomend?March 16, 2012 2:20 am at 2:20 am in reply to: bracha via text? #860562
you can only give a bracha on the night of your birthday? I thought that the entire birthday she can give brachos!March 16, 2012 2:12 am at 2:12 am in reply to: CoreyToTheTroll #860835
corey, all the posters that are against you in this thread is one “mod” that has a bunch of usernames. nebach he thinks everyone else does the same thing as him. Let him believe what he wants to believe.. Your doing the right thing, so there’s nothing to worry about. everyone likes your threads, why do you think there are so many posts on them;) mod, I really wish this thread would be deleted it’s really not right what you are doing.
corey- and by the way you made a mistake, L”H is true moitzie shem rah is L”H that is not true…-choose which one fits the context for what you mentioned above;)March 16, 2012 1:14 am at 1:14 am in reply to: Beshow vs. Dating #1050505
“wolf- purple people are bad.”
Posted 1 hour ago #
because black and blue make purple?March 16, 2012 1:12 am at 1:12 am in reply to: Is smoking mutar? #954553
ASSUR. “venishmartem laod venafshosiechem” It is harmful to your body!March 15, 2012 5:39 am at 5:39 am in reply to: Strengthening marriage #860509
Thankyou Nechomo, commonsense, and everyone else..
NO, thank g-d my hubs is not demanding.
commonsense- I know that a house wifes job is much harder than working a full time job. I just feel that the money wouldn’t belong to both of us, if I didn’t work alittle for it as well, and that is the only reason why I work, My husband understands this..
“If you would not feel bad buying things for the children with his money, why should you feel bad spending it on things you need? “-that’s a good question. I don’t know how to answer it.
Maybe I need therapy for this.. You guys are telling me it aint normal…March 15, 2012 5:04 am at 5:04 am in reply to: Colored Shirts #985660
“more_2- uummm….. only bjj and maybe hadar have that policy- sry to ruin your point”
Posted 2 hours ago #
don’t worry it doesn’t ruin my point. not all yeshivas have the white shirt policy either;) it’s just that more yeshivas have a white shirt policy than seminaries having a blue shirt policy makes no difference how many of each. it’s just a point that there is a uniform for the girls too. You can also compare the yeshivos to working in walmart l’havdil l’havdolos, why can’t you wear your own clothes if you work there, why do you have to adhere to the uniform..March 15, 2012 4:56 am at 4:56 am in reply to: Colored Shirts #985659
“optimus prime: The only reason for this mesorah is because color clothing wasnt so common then. So i think it is time for an update on this mesorah. There is no halacha of having to wear boring clothing. Maybe I will wear white oants and a black shirt tomorrow to yeshiva, that will really throw them off.”
Posted 1 hour ago #
good point, all the pictures are black and white from that timeframe how do you know your great great and a few more greats pos. grand father didn’t wear a pink hat with an orange feather?LOL;)March 15, 2012 3:38 am at 3:38 am in reply to: shadchanim for learning boys #860432
I know plenty of them. give me a call.March 15, 2012 3:35 am at 3:35 am in reply to: Weight Loss for a Child #860063
buy him a personal gym equipment for himself. desidnate a particular room for it. make him proud and motivated to achieve rather than making him feel like a nebbach.
take him out for qaulity father and son time. Make him feel special and worthy. take him bowling, rollerblading, iceskating, bike riding… there are numerous fun outlets that will actively make him fit. buy him a good branded pair of runners, t-shirt and shorts for his work out. he won’t want to disapoint you after all that effort. in the end he will feel better abuout it himself and will be eager to do it on his own without you encouraging it. at this particular stage they are going through a large growth spirt and it is likely if the food habbits are not funneled in the right way it can cause a major impact on the weight. encourage healthy eating for the entire family, not just him. remember you all need it!March 15, 2012 2:25 am at 2:25 am in reply to: Colored Shirts #985655
“How come so many seminaries have the blue shirt policy??? No Halacha just a uniform… Would you rather them have a tank top policy???”
are you comparing boys not wearing white shirts to girls wearing tank tops?
Posted 24 minutes ago #
no I am saying would the boys rather have a tank top policy, than a white shirt policy, personally, if it was up to me I’d rather have a white shirt than a tanktop.. I am comparing the blueshirt uniform policy with the seminary girls to the white shirt Uniform of the yeshiva boys.March 15, 2012 2:18 am at 2:18 am in reply to: Colored Shirts #985654
how about some colored kippas;) with disney characters for each sect. donald duck will be for satmar. mickeymouse will be for vidgnitz, minimouse will be for belz, etc, etc.. 😉 the ladies should wear colored wigs. pink, purple, bright green, orange, rainbow colored… why stick to a normal hair color…lol;) women should wear nose rings the Imohos wore them.. so should they..;) no? the reason is is because nose rings nowadays are accepted upon the lower class goyim therefore a bas yisrael doesn’t do that nowadays. dressing formally adds to kovod hatorah. white shirts are formal attire. it’s become minhag hamokom in most yeshivishe sectors around the globe. for that reason alone it should be adhered to.March 15, 2012 2:04 am at 2:04 am in reply to: Beshow vs. Dating #1050479
did I say 4-5/1-2 years is the way to go? maybe read my posts alittle more closely before commenting like this…
“The fact is they don’t work and are much worse than dating, or beshowing, much less. You’ll NEVER REALLY get to know a person until you are married to them. Even if you dated them 5 years beforehand.”
this was covered in an earlier post of mine;) refer to post number 3-
“ok you can say you only get to know the person after your married. However I’d say you see alot more through dating than you would see on a Beshow. I also think it’s important for a potential couple to discuss thier views and plans for THIER future rather than have the parents decide what’s best for them. talking things through avoids Alot more resentment later on.”March 15, 2012 1:13 am at 1:13 am in reply to: Beshow vs. Dating #1050475
smartcookie, you’ve got a point. however I’m talking about the later stages where they are up to the 9th or tenth date they have the advantage of discussing the future together and working things through that would be detrimental later on if not discussed prior… i’m not saying that the dater covers eth before marriage, My husband and I left out a few detailed discussions before we commitment, that is normal, but the amount that the chassidim just accept and live with, without asking questions…can chas v’shalom build up resentment later on down the track.. You can say they are born into and it’s just like accepting a new brother or sister, however on this angle there is more than afew cons to this way.. They do say however that the percentage of divorces in the chassidishe oilom is far beyond less than the litvishe one. there is also no “shidduch crisis” in the chassidishe world..:) maybe there is a strong method to thier madness. maybe they are right and we are wrong..LOL;)but they do say however the amount of HAPPY litvishe marriages outweighs the chassidim by far! communication is one of the main key factors to a successful marriage. the chassidim don’t get much of that prior to marriage, so it’s no wonder… On a date you make decisions together. the chassidishe way is all in theory, however it’s gotta be l’masse in order to know for sure if it will work. On a litvishe date you decide together where you will be spending the time, etc.. you choose conversations. and you see l’maase how well you are able to communicate! i’m not bashing either way I’m just stating fact.March 14, 2012 11:39 pm at 11:39 pm in reply to: Homoepathic & Naturapathic Medicine #860961
“Does anyone else agree or disagree with “dd”? “
Posted 21 hours ago #
MFostal- dd’s explanation wasn’t good enough? why is that?March 14, 2012 11:33 pm at 11:33 pm in reply to: Taking Control of Your Life #859675
Get a stable contractual job. have a steady routine. have plenty of exercise outlets. Keep your house sparkling clean, that will help you think better and you will have much more clarity as a result. Wish you much hatzlocha in this!
depending on how much you ate the night before… If you overstuffed yourself the night before it will be detrimental to your weight;)
A fibre breakfast is good, since it gives you energy and digests really well, so you don’t have to carry around a heavy stormach the rest of the day..March 14, 2012 11:22 pm at 11:22 pm in reply to: Beshow vs. Dating #1050472
dating, because you get a better idea of who and what they are. on a beshow, they are all stiff since usually the both sets of parents are sitting in the next room listening to every word!
ok you can say you only get to know the person after your married. However I’d say you see alot more through dating than you would see on a Beshow. I also think it’s important for a potential couple to discuss thier views and plans for THIER future rather than have the parents decide what’s best for them. talking things through avoids Alot more resentment later on.
I also think the boy/girl has to be mature enough to handle things. parents should teach thier children at an early age how to think for themselves.. How to be an individual etc… alot of parents make the mistake of having thier children relive thier lives… Never ever force a “child” Dater/Beshower into sth out of peerpreasure or age..etc… that will only be detrimental to the “child”.March 14, 2012 11:04 pm at 11:04 pm in reply to: Sports teams and Hashem #1028353
chafetz chaim troll who dreys us a cup-
“Is there an issur to daven that a certain sports team should win? and does hashem listen to bakashos like that??”
Posted 3 months ago #
hashem listens to all bakoshos, no matter the flavour;)
just curious what benifits would you attain from davening for a certain sports team to win?- assuming your tefilos are answered of course.March 14, 2012 6:45 am at 6:45 am in reply to: CoreyToTheTroll #860826
SaysMe, you’re a smart guy.