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  • in reply to: 36 righteous #1946350

    Even if you meet one, you may never know, as he is surely wearing a mask.

    At least you know who does not qualify and where not to look, to quote Chernobeler

    in reply to: Sheitels from India #1946352

    >> the sefardy poskim always viewed a shaitel as a big bedieved and a tichel as lechatchila

    I looked at some images of Jews arriving from Iraq and everyone wears a kufiya, men and women.

    Off-topic question – what is with Sephardim wearing black hats? Ashkenazim would wear it, ostensibly, not to honor Polish nobles, but simply to preserve the way they were told by someone, yeshiva students were dressing before. Sephartdim seem to be wearing them for the opposite reason of behaving like a community around them, that is for the opposite reason to the community. A paradox appears to be that Sephardim are more justified in wearing black hats …

    in reply to: Is there a middle class frum family financial crisis ? #1946218

    >> Ever heard of sending to local day camps

    other option is to work/volunteer in a camp, whether local or not. Not only good for the budget, but better for the kids also. And, if you are still WFH, you can take a longer worcation with the kids yourself.

    in reply to: Problems with the Covid vaccinations #1946221

    >> “They” refers to public health officials

    Phase 3 trials were pretty transparent. Unless you suspect fraud, lots of numbers were in the reports. At this point, we have millions of people vaccinated in US, UK, Israel, EU. We don’t see all data yet, but I think we can presume if there were frequent complications, this will be known. South Africa, for example, stopped using AstraZenica, when it was shown less effective on their variant ….

    in reply to: Media “explains/justifies” Israeli law enforcement only when.. #1946216

    >> , it’s about Media hypocrisy.

    I understand your point. And I understand it bothers you because you are confronted by people who read this. I am asking to look wider at the issue.

    What is then your point on dressing differently, if you don’t want people to pay attention to your behavior. You (generalizing here, not you personally) had a chance to explain to your kids that to respect your Talmidei Chachamim and take precautions to save their lives and their Torah. Instead, you are burying those Chachamim with a half-mask at best.

    This bothers me more than what an unlearned paper might write.

    in reply to: Is there a middle class frum family financial crisis ? #1946203

    press87, other than a presumption that I am a kofer, I was not able to fully follow your text. Could you please add some commas next time? I was able to parse the last sentence, thanks for separating it. I think you are right – people who do not work are often feeling happier. We are discussing in this thread the problems of professional families that work hard, pay high tuition, and are under stress. So, the kids end up seeing distressed parents and not joy of Yiddishkeit… Quitting jobs to get tuition breaks at someone else’s expense is not the Torah answer for many.

    As I said, this is a repeat from 1930s. The joke I heard, I think from R Nosson Sherman, about a father who spends little money he earned on after-public-school Rebbe for his son. He asks his son – what he learned.
    The son says – Yitziyat Mitzraim … Moshe built a bridge over Yam Suf, then sent helicopters and bombed Egyptians.
    Father – really, this is what the Rebbe said?
    Son – no, this is my version. If I’d tell you what he said, you would never believe it ….

    in reply to: Media “explains/justifies” Israeli law enforcement only when.. #1946096

    >> if a funeral is okay in the Arab sector then what is the fuss about the ultra-Orthodox

    what is the point of being “ultra-ortho-dox” when you think you can behave like the least educated members of non-Jewish society. what is the point of going to yeshivos for several generations at someone else’s expense, if you are Honor” your teachers who just died from Covid by continue infecting more people – ratzahta vegam-yerashta?

    in reply to: Biden’s destructive rule re Houthis #1946097

    I did not hear Mr. biden speak, but from the newspaper description, he seems to be feeling like a gadol hador and starts talking accordingly giving short and clear daas, without a need to elaborate:
    paraphrasing from memory:
    “so, you will not stop sanctions on Iran right now?”
    “no”
    “but only if they stop developing nuclear weapons”
    nodded

    We used to have “Articulate” Presidents ….

    in reply to: Problems with the Covid vaccinations #1946090

    Tristate, if you have so much info, could you please provide us with some numbers. Check with ALL, or a random sample, of people you know who got seriously sick recently, and then ask then whether they had a vaccine and when. Then, we can help you get estimates of how vaccine worked.

    B’ Ezrat Hashem., I think in about a month it will be possible to analyze Israeli statistics and see effects of vaccine.

    in reply to: Purim #1946087

    I hoped someone will explain to me why you are holding for daas Torah, instead you are claiming that it is just same as existed before. I do have to apologize to my teacher, for causing lashon hara thrown at him. I did not follow Ch Haim that one should not praise someone who is not 100% accepted tzadik as someone will contradict. Still, how someone can claim that daas Torah is included in traditional respect of chachamim and send a Holocaust survivor to China at the same time is beyond my understanding. But I digressed.

    Maybe we can try to define what Daas Torah stands for … I would appreciate if you look at these references that others refer as suggesting using advice of others but still relying on sechel and mitzvot:
    Gra, Mishley 16:4
    Ruach Chaim Avos 2:7
    Ha’amek Davar, Deut. 29:8
    Netziv on Koheles 8:1
    Iggeret Hakodesh of Baal HaTanya, Chap. 22.

    in reply to: Is there a middle class frum family financial crisis ? #1946076

    I see that economic issues are often solved but the expense of more important things….

    Parents are exhausted and unhappy trying tp earn to pay for everything and children are not seeing Judaism as a happy thing … this is a repeat of how things were in this country in 1930s, albeit at a higher standard of living.

    One solution for exhausted parents – send kids to an online school (public are available in many states, except where teachers unions block them – NY, NJ.., and there are inexpensive private), and then hire teachers to teach Jewish subjects to a small group of kids, or teach yourself. Now you have free time and can enjoy learning with your kids

    in reply to: Is it ok to buy lottery tickets? #1945782

    >> If you want me to go fully bderech teva, then Most businesses do not succeed

    This is exactly what I am saying – start a business and then daven.

    >> in chinuch and have no heter to leave

    Not sure why you are complaining then? Hashem wants you doing chinuch, he’ll take care of your cousins some other way… Ironically, seems like some people in chinuch spend more time thinking about money than people in some professions who spend their free time learning … A friend said that when he asked his son’s Rebbe to do more for the kid, the guy said – how can you expect me to spend some much on the kids when I am thinking how to feed my family and extra work I can do.

    >> Hiring them when they are all over

    there is lot of business that is done remotely. Sell on internet and let them run customer service. Let them teach/tutor some of your students remotely.

    in reply to: Purim #1945576

    >> “asay lechoh rav”

    thanks, that’s in the Mishna, my Rav knows that. “Daas Torah” (DT) is not the same and, as I mentioned, is no in the Gemorah. (if you think it is the same, you are doing DT wrong!).

    I did not double-check Encyclopedia Talmudit myself, relying on what the Rav said, on his “daas Torah”, if you wish 🙂

    So, seems like I am stuck in this paradox – my DT says there is no DT .. So, if I follow his DT, it is not binding. If I don’t follow his DT, then I am not following on his DT …

    PS if you are afraid you are doing it wrong – here is material that might help fix your DT:
    Wiki quotes Rav Shafran (pro) who admits taht the phrase is new but refers to other related concepts and Rav Nahum Rabinowitz Z”L against. Amazon has a 460 page book by Daniel Eidensohn of Daas Torah Hebrew sources ….

    in reply to: Two Frum Community Problems Solved with One Approach #1945577

    I recall R Shimshon Hirsh married someone older and explained that he has too much to do and needs help right now, not when the wife grows up.

    in reply to: Purim #1945275

    >> ask the own daas torah

    this is a legit shailah, but what do I do in general?

    My “daas Torah” does not believe in “daas Torah” (and points out to Encyclopedia Talmudit that the concept is not in the Gemorah)?

    in reply to: Media “explains/justifies” Israeli law enforcement only when.. #1945274

    >> realize hypocrisy

    So, we agree on facts. Maybe Hashem sent us AP to help deal with our problems.

    In a similar case, Rav Shach writes that Arab hostility was helpful to early Zionists. Without it, they would go to University of Beirut and assimilated.

    in reply to: Biden announces restoration of U.S. relations and aid to Palestinians #1945271

    Shalom,
    I did not research Ford-Morgenthau, but overlooking Poland’s faults in 1920s to stand to Soviets makes a lot of sense to me. There were a lot of very sincere Jewish politicians who were fighting Polish and Baltic governments disregarding Soviet/German threats. If you have specific problems with M report, please tell us. I think the report is somewhere online.

    There is a book published in 1960s in Israel by surviving Jewish politicians from Latvia who admit and lament their errors. One episode – USSR, Germany, all minority parties used League of Nations Charter to criticize those governments on their treatment of minorities. (League created these states after WW1). When Nazis came to power, some Jewish organization tried to go to the League, and the response was – sorry, we do not have German Jews registered as a minority, so we are not going to protect them.

    in reply to: boycott amazon? #1945081

    >> many local businesses that are surviving the lockdown, Pandemic restriction by selling on Amazon

    Indeed so. Note that amazon is not “getting rich” at the consumer expense. They are “non profit” last time I checked. Their riches come from investors who volunteer to give them money to expand their business.

    in reply to: “Big Tech”: Too much power? #1945080

    The same as a nation deserves the leaders she elects, she also deserves the media it chooses to use.
    Hashem sent us printing press, public libraries, telegraph, telephone, Morse code, radio. Americans decided to watch ABC and CNN.
    Hashem then sent PCs, AOL, HTTP, FTP, USENET, AltaVista. We can now share GBs of information with millions of people in seconds. Can you imagine what Moshe Rabeinu would do with that?! Americans decided that they’ll get news from Twitter and FB.

    So, is it Twitter fault that people prefer being entertained?

    in reply to: Two Frum Community Problems Solved with One Approach #1945076

    Could the speakers clarify the levels here, as it is hard to follow

    what is considered “money”? Parents
    1. can get extra $10K for several years?
    2. pay for downpayment for $500K apartment? (i.e. $100K)?
    3. Being able to support growing family at $100K/year ad 120?

    what is considered “yichus”?
    direct descendant of Melech David? R’ Kotler? minor yeshiva?
    Could you afford a risk if father’s students do not wear masks? Could you get a life insurance on him?

    in reply to: Biden announces restoration of U.S. relations and aid to Palestinians #1944959

    >> Pogroms in Poland

    According to Wiki, President Wilson sent the commission to help clear up Jewish-Polish relations in order to strengthen Polish role against Soviets. At the same time, both Germany and USSR spent remaining time until they started WW2 accusing all newly created Eastern European countries of oppressing minorities (Jews, Germans, Russians, and others) – while totally destroying Jewish communities themselves. With that perspective, Morgenthau Sr performed great

    in reply to: COVID vaccinations in New York #1944956

    >> but Biden would have done that [Embassy] too

    Charlie, it is ironic that you – “with evidence” – accuse others of coming up with unfounded theories, and immediately post seemingly deluded ideas (“without evidence”). If you reflect on that a little, maybe you’ll become more understanding of others who do the same.

    in reply to: Media “explains/justifies” Israeli law enforcement only when.. #1944663

    Jews are always in the spotlight. There is nothing new here.
    Hashem wants the Jews to be an example to other nations. So, just act appropriately and enjoy the spotlight.

    Rav Salanter, I think, said that apikoires in Paris is due to insufficient diligence in the Litivishe yeshiva. I don’t know how he’ll respond to current situation

    in reply to: Is it ok to buy lottery tickets? #1944662

    >> I’d love to have the ability

    Try starting a business? and, then, daven for it to succeed. Or, just hire the cousins.

    in reply to: Purim #1944520

    USPS?
    How about Amazon One Hour delivery? You can drink and order same day. I know this clashes with another thread.

    in reply to: why is there such a cover up about these problems? #1944487

    My Gemorah suggests using stones

    in reply to: Media “explains/justifies” Israeli law enforcement only when.. #1944486

    >> why he does not ask about Al-Aqsa,

    Do you tremble (haredi) about the next Yom Ki Purim:
    ashamnu?! bagadnu?! gazalnu?! look what the OTHER guy did FIRST

    in reply to: Purim #1944485

    How do you know Haman from Mordechai if they are both in a mask?!

    in reply to: Purim #1944484

    As I referred above, I hope you still have 2 friends around you, then USPS for your remote relatives does not deter you from the mitzvah, and spend the rest on people who need help.

    This is a great year to learn your priorities and separate d’Oraitos from heimishe minhagim. And learning to be meikil. If you learned in a yeshiva where they only teach the easy way – how to be machmir, you may want to call them and demand a free class on who to be meikil.

    in reply to: boycott amazon? #1944483

    Internet is (so far) not censored in US of A. Trump and anyone else are able to create a website or maybe even a mailing list. The fact that the country depends on Twitter to focus voter attention is sad.

    in reply to: Biden announces restoration of U.S. relations and aid to Palestinians #1944482

    >> pulling back the same wonderful cabinet

    there is a p0ositive here: if they have some wisdom, they know what did not work! They might first use “lessons learned” in how to fight their biggest enemy – Republicans, but BEzrat Hashem, they also see positive changes in foreign policy. Other than position on Iran, they seem to indicate that they’ll keep many of successful Trump’s policy, adding more “cooperation” to enhance taste – pressing Germany on Russian pipelines, tariffs on China, (real) defense restructuring towards Asia

    in reply to: Purim #1944172

    >> shaloch manos.

    R Schechter reminded that this is a good year to follow Rambam on spending more on poor than on friends

    >> Sponsored content is NOT news

    Are Jews allowed to post non-truths as advertisement? Is there a “puffery” exemption in halakhah?!

    in reply to: Purim #1944114

    asme person posted:
    >> 1 half of 1 % of Rav Chaim knowledge
    >> each of the Rabbonim who where nifter were well into the 90s

    I am not sure how you can at the same time value opinions of Talmidei Hahamim and disregard their lives. I can’t imagine who are people surrounding Talmidei Hahamim that lead to this. I can’t imagine R Twersky ZT’L being not careful himself.

    in reply to: COVID vaccinations in New York #1944112

    Charlie, you are right. Another observation – US and UK are ahead of EU due to earlier pre-payments. A couple of factories in Europe have production problems, while US & UK are working fine. EU is trying to force companies to send UK vaccines to EU. One of the explanations – earlier payments allowed more time to fix manufacturing problems.

    @Sam,
    I think Hashem is telling us that we are taking too much for granted our days, and we should spend some time inside with our families, learn to appreciate them, talk to your spouses and kids, take them for walks, learn with them, model for them how to act calmly in difficult circumstances. This might be a first serious adverse event in this country after WW2. Several generations expecting daily great service.

    I agree that many are not hearing the message and complaining about the service – schools are not opening, governor does not allow seudas mitzva, scientists are not clear about vaccine efficiency …

    I still do not get it: why is everyone so much against doing mitzva of teaching their own children on their own, or in small groups? You davka need to cram thousands of kids in one building, exponentially increasing pandemic propagation in your own community?

    Get 5 families together, and one of parents, or a hired person, could teach the group in one of your apartments. You have seforim, internet, food, electricity – you are in better conditions than Volozhin yeshiva was

    Start discussing how to organize teaching – for those who can do it, rather than lamenting the situation. You can not daven for help if you are not doing your part.

    in reply to: Biden announces restoration of U.S. relations and aid to Palestinians #1943255

    In other news, Mr. Biden

    – reversed Suleimani assassination as unlawful with the help of a mekubal

    – restored diplomatic relations with ISIS and send an ambassador to Raqqah. The embassy is under construction given the disaster that previous administration “literally left us nothing and nobody to work with at Raqqah”.

    – the new ambassador will not refer to IS as “Islamic” though. We did not decide yet what the new meaning of “IS” is

    – all progressive House members are told that they’ll be send as an ambassador to Raqqah if they do not behave

    in reply to: corona diy tests #1943252

    maybe not for home tests, but there are also batch tests that amkes testing much cheaper. You combine multiple people’s specimen together and dig further only if at least one is positive. Chinese use that and FDA finally approved some recently

    in reply to: Is being “eco-friendly” a value that means something to you? #1943130

    I recall Melech David was asked whether he prefers a natural disaster – pandemic, climate change, or the war. He preferred the natural punishment as there is no limit to human cruelty once it is unleashed.

    20th century illustrates it well with two WWs, communists and Nazis. There were lots of “useful idiots” in USA and Western Europe who would protest every Western action against Commies, but not other way around ….

    I don’t think anything changed much – if we can decrease advances of Russia/China/Iran/Norks and leave more dirty air to our children, that’s Ok. So, if we can have Canadian oil instead of Russian, this is OK. If you want to reduce pollution in a smart way, you can, for exanple, put a tariff on everything China is producing using energy from dirty coal and slave labor in North Korea. Just keep your priorities straight.

    in reply to: Parash Hamon #1943131

    RebE, thanks for the explanation, a gut vort

    in reply to: Joe Biden is not my president #1943125

    >> Mathematically impossible?

    what 3×3 meant to say – “statistically impossible”

    the reason for this misconception – you can come up with 1000s of different patterns which counties are important – since 1980, or maybe since 1890, or 1089 – and then focus on the pattern where current election is “statistically impossible”

    a better way is to fix prediction rules before the election and then check them after.

    another way is to construct multiple predictions and then use machine learning and cluster analysis to see if this one is different from others

    in reply to: Parash Hamon #1942862

    REbE >> There is a minhag to put out for shabbos bread crumbs for the birds

    this is a nice minhag, but looks like we are emulating Dasan & Aviram?! Hope you did not mean the way political arguments are happening here …

    in reply to: Biden Appointee Confirmations #1942817

    Charlie >> The exception was Trade Representative Robert Lighthizer, who took 16 weeks, but that didn’t matter

    Of note, Lighthizer was involved in very significant activities re: China, but it’s ok by you

    in reply to: vaccine PR #1942692

    se2015 >> your cynicism about Biden

    my cynicism about him? I am talking about HIS cynicism about us!

    pretending everything went wrong before to then claim the success that is already trending. This is on par with “killing parents and asking mercy as an orphan”. I am not saying they have nothing to do – there is a lot – but they are starting every conversation with denigrating previous team. If they do it when data is obvious, I am afraid what other things they might distort later on.

    Just to make sure we understand current trends:
    US daily vaccine administrated is above 1 mln for 2 weeks already.
    this week – last 3 days at 1.4 mln average (possibly Pfizer started counting 20% extra though)
    moving average – 30% increase weekly
    US administered 2.5x times more than EU – and 1/3 of the whole world vaccines
    EU has urgent meetings with both of their only providers who have production problems and sold early batches to others .. US does not so far

    in reply to: vaccine PR #1942441

    se2015,
    First good news – Mr Biden read this thread and raised his target to 1.5 mln!

    re: To maintain that pace, you’d have to ..

    this is an opposite case: production is increasing, not decreasing. Do they not teach time series and linear correlations in yeshivot any more?!

    Clarifying re:Fauci – indeed, he debunked anonymously sourced Dem story that there were “no plans”. But it is still being quoted by liberal outlets. An example of lashon hara and difficulty of taking it back ..

    in reply to: Supreme Court Dismisses Case Creating a Laughter #1942438

    indeed, strange, why is it “moot”
    not knowing anything about it, my guess is either:
    1) court just wants to get rid of this craziness

    2) it is a political issue:
    what is the punishment for the emulents? prison? probably, not. Impeachment?

    so, Court thinks that any extra impeachment is … moot … tiyuvta Pelosi tiyuvta

    in reply to: vaccine PR #1942114

    se2015 >> manufacturing 4.5 million doses a week at close to max capacity,

    Again, companies signed up for deliveries. It is complicated, multiple subs are involved. They may under-deliver if something bad happens, of course. The point we were discussing that all of this was prepared by the previous administration (that covered more riskier earlier steps – funding multiple vaccines and manufacturing processes) – and there is no reason for the current guys to lie that they “were given no plans”.

    in reply to: Biden’s Foreign Policy #1941963

    >> greater commitment and awareness in the fight against terrorism

    While, I think it is arguable where and when we need to send troops in, a good joke going around the internets:

    <b> Biden To Reestablish Diplomatic Relations With ISIS </b>

    in reply to: Amen, Awomen #1941962

    >> President Biden appointed Dr.

    so, not Amen, not Awomen? Aperson?

    I would stick with the “doctor”, hope the mother is happy.

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