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  • in reply to: Tuition: Are We Paying Enough? #1887226
    commonsaychel
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    @Syag, its very simple, people who live in glass houses should not throw stones

    in reply to: Tuition: Are We Paying Enough? #1887188
    commonsaychel
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    @CTRebbe,
    Lets see, my sister in Real Estate in Monsey and most of the sales are in the 4-600 K range, not that high range, Lakewood is even lower, FYI there are two rebbis on my block who just renovated the houses to the tune of 300 K.
    Most of the people attending the peasch programs were not Heimishe/ Yeshishish / Chasidish.
    The clothing stores were losing ground to the online shop prior to corona,
    Just about everyone employed by a yeshiva is driving a leased car.
    I fargin the yeshiva staff but before they increase the tuition let them open the books for all to see,

    in reply to: Tuition: Are We Paying Enough? #1886953
    commonsaychel
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    @ CT rebbe:

    lease cars (or drive only new model cars)
    Most drive older models or lease mini van at the cost of buying a use car

    take vacations to Florida/EY 1-2 times per year
    hardly your average person, most are lucky to get away for a week in New Hampshire or Lake George.

    eat out 1-2 days per week
    , most will buy out a pizza pie to give mommy a break

    buy food without looking at the price
    Not the case

    take bar mitzvah boys to EY
    Far and few

    provide regular support to married children
    Agreed, whole other discussion about elite bucherim and entitlement.

    rent summer bungalows at a price comparable to what people pay today
    Most bought years ago.

    higher cleaning help as frequently as today
    most are household where both spouses work and have one or maybe twice a week.

    shop in clothing stores with prices comparable to today
    Most shop online and search or bargains,

    spend on simchas what people do today
    Not since Covid 19

    pay for housing comparable to today
    Wrong, people are move out of the main areas, Dover Twp, Jackson, Garnerville, Pearl River. Linden, etc.

    pay people others for basic maintenance, landscaping etc.
    Most pay landscapers twice a week.

    send girls to seminaries in EY for $25k+
    Not since covid 19

    pay comparable prices for sleepaway camps
    Not since covid.

    perform mitzvos requiring expensive chumros
    Hardly not evenone does it

    How about the Yeshivas opening up the books and showing what all the staff earns?

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    in reply to: Tuition: Are We Paying Enough? #1886811
    commonsaychel
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    @1, that’s bunk, 75% of yeshiva parents live paycheck to paycheck and a very simple lifestyle.
    We had a forum here two weeks ago about the expenses of the not for profits and the salary of the administrators.
    Let them show the overhead before they raise tuition,

    commonsaychel
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    your whole response was a stick gaava, I would rather take a mediocre boy whole is normal and and does not think how great he is, then take a iluy who make you worship the ground he walks on.

    commonsaychel
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    Wow, your statement reeks from gauyvah, I feel sorry from that families that there boys marry into, no wonder we have a shidduch crises with such arrogance.

    in reply to: Amazing World #1886004
    commonsaychel
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    @opinioned2, I too look at my image in the mirror a I am amazed to the beautiful sight.

    in reply to: Second Generation BT #1885827
    commonsaychel
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    @kdf007, shiychus to this discussion?

    in reply to: Why does the government give benefits to kollel yungerleit? #1885356
    commonsaychel
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    @Snitz, so get petitions, raise funds and run instead of kvetching online

    in reply to: Second Generation BT #1885312
    commonsaychel
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    @LAMother, are you saying that you disagree with Maid of CH and BTs have the same or less amounts of OTD cases?

    in reply to: Message from HaShem #1885311
    commonsaychel
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    What is the point of this whole narisher post

    in reply to: Second Generation BT #1884675
    commonsaychel
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    @ Coffee, OOT has more OTD kids of FFBs or less OTD kids of BTs?

    in reply to: Message from HaShem #1884239
    commonsaychel
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    To all those who are getting all these vision, don’t be shy, there is help out there a mere phone call away, brother I love and you will get better, meanwhile stay away from all sharp objects

    in reply to: Why does the frum world have no clout? #1884064
    commonsaychel
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    @CharlieHall,
    That issue that you raised in your comment before about tuition had been taken off the table not that Blaine amendment were ruled unconstitutional.
    PS you forgot to mention that he once hugged AvI Weiss.

    in reply to: Why does the frum world have no clout? #1883196
    commonsaychel
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    @Huju, not worthy of a response, i don’t respond to anti-Semites black or white

    in reply to: Message from HaShem #1883120
    commonsaychel
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    He should seek out his local mental health professional ASAP, there has not been a Novi in 2000 years

    in reply to: Why does the frum world have no clout? #1883061
    commonsaychel
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    @huju, try saying that about your fellow blacks

    in reply to: Amazing World #1882553
    commonsaychel
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    @wolfish, I have a picture of a wolf pack walking on a riverbank in the Lamar Valley of Yellowstone, sight was awesome

    in reply to: Lets stop driving #1882221
    commonsaychel
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    @2330, neh, a rat can burrow its way into the ditch and the rat may have the plague and it can bite you and you may die, the food can spoil and you can die of food poisoning, the ditch may collapse if not shored properly, and you have to social distance in the ditch.

    in reply to: systematic/institutional racism is a myth #1881891
    commonsaychel
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    @n0m after you get your first full time job I will answer you.

    in reply to: Lets stop driving #1881886
    commonsaychel
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    @n0m, check the state websites

    in reply to: systematic/institutional racism is a myth #1881687
    commonsaychel
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    I can tell you that reverse racism exist in NYC, if your a white male you have no chance at getting a job if your competing against a less qualified minority.

    in reply to: If N.Y. doesn’t allow summer camps to open, what’s your plan? #1881434
    commonsaychel
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    NYS put out a memo closing all loopholes that camps were operating under, I knew it was a matter of time, there are people who work for NYS who are equally has smart as the camp directors, now there can only be day camps in NYS.

    in reply to: H-a-s-h-e-m H-e-l-p M-e F-i-n-d A S-h-i-d-d-u-c-h-!-! #1881247
    commonsaychel
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    @bsharg2, 40 days after the vlad, Hashem said plony le bas plony, stop spouting idiotic statements of what Hashem want us to do, you not a Navi

    in reply to: Why does the frum world have no clout? #1881246
    commonsaychel
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    @bshrage2, and what does this have to do with the diminished clout of the Frum community?

    in reply to: Amazing World #1881139
    commonsaychel
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    @ Sam Klein, My best vacation was in Yellowstone National Park, where do to the parks nature there are no cell towers other then the service villages that are about 60 miles apart, so unless your on a satellite phone you get no cell reception, I was able to immerse myself into this awesome place Hashem created with being distracted by my phone.

    in reply to: Amazing World #1881076
    commonsaychel
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    I think sunrise over the Grand Canyon and Sunset over Pacific on Big Sur were probably the most amazing views that I have seen, but waking up in a meadow in Ouray Colorado surrounded by 14000 ft. mountain ranks pretty up there too

    in reply to: systematic/institutional racism #1881039
    commonsaychel
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    Having worked in both corporate America and government service and i can tell you that if you black and female competing against a more qualified white male, the black female gets the job.

    in reply to: Is there still carona in the frum world? #1880750
    commonsaychel
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    @2015 Alcohol causes drunk driving, so lay off the bottle

    in reply to: Is there still carona in the frum world? #1880727
    commonsaychel
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    @CTL,
    How many deaths did the Nutmeg State have since Monday, Zero
    How many fatal car crashes did the Nutmeg State since Monday- 23
    How many people admitted to the hospital in CT. for Covid 19 since Monday? 20
    How many people admitted to the hospital in CT as a result of car crashes, 300.
    Did you stop driving your car?

    in reply to: If N.Y. doesn’t allow summer camps to open, what’s your plan? #1880613
    commonsaychel
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    @n0m, a lot of thing can happen between now and next summer, Corona can be over, Moshiach can come, you can be married, Iran and Israel will make peace and climate change will stop.

    in reply to: If N.Y. doesn’t allow summer camps to open, what’s your plan? #1880607
    commonsaychel
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    @godal, I was in the Catskills on July 4th weekend and almost all sleepaway camps converted into day camp, city day camps are full, sleep away camps are operating in PA. MA. VT. and NH.
    BH frum people are resourceful for the most part, we managed to have Weddings, Bar Mitzvahs Etc., make peasch on our own, so on and so forth we can manage to keep our kids busy thru this summer.
    I plan to take my kids /grandkids for a week to a region that I always drove by and never knew how nice it was, North Central PA.

    in reply to: Is there still carona in the frum world? #1880504
    commonsaychel
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    @Godol Life has been back to normal for the past 2 months in most of the frum world, yet where is the spike? why wait till the fall? why no spike now?
    is this Chicken Little and the sky s falling?

    commonsaychel
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    Lower 1000% agreed

    in reply to: If N.Y. doesn’t allow summer camps to open, what’s your plan? #1880345
    commonsaychel
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    Lower: Ispo Facto by not issuing a TRO the season is effectively over, now you have discovery, testimony, briefs and motions, working at a fast pace with a RJI you can expect a ruling in mid August.
    so its over.

    in reply to: Is there still carona in the frum world? #1880313
    commonsaychel
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    @CTL,
    You just proved my point, you and your daughter live OUTSIDE the main frum population, she went on a business trip OUTSIDE the frum area, she got exposed OUTSIDE the frum area.
    So sorry to take the wind out of your sails the frum areas in NY/ NJ are not experiencing a new wave.

    I have been to Monsey, BP, Flatbush, Williamsburg, Lakewood and Sullivan County in the past month and life has returned to normal with minimal social distancing , in fact outside the frum areas in NY the protests had minimal social distancing, yet no spike. In fact there are 500% more people injured from car crashes this month in NY/NJ then were ill with Covid 19.
    If you would bring proof in a court of law that one isolated case that occurred outside main frum area is proof that the frum community is experiencing a new wave you would be laughed out of the court.

    in reply to: If N.Y. doesn’t allow summer camps to open, what’s your plan? #1880228
    commonsaychel
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    Judge ruled sleepaway camps cant open

    in reply to: Shidduchim – Divorced Homes #1880117
    commonsaychel
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    Dear n0m,
    the worst is a bucher who has no intentions of getting married giving advice on shidduchim

    in reply to: Frum non profit organizations disclosing financials. #1879117
    commonsaychel
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    @catch, so if its such a point of pride why doesn’t the various tzidoka organizations print on the promotional brochures our CEO does such a great job we pay him 250 K a year plus his mortgage and car lease

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1879103
    commonsaychel
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    @syag, no the topic of this forum was Bostock v Clayton County and the supreme court ruling, not the torahdiker stand on gays

    in reply to: The Real Problem #1879095
    commonsaychel
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    I Just flew out on a short business trip and guess what, the flight attendant was a gay man, I know because I was seated near the galley and he was talking about his boyfriend to the other flight attendants.
    The person who took my order coffee shop in the airport was a trans.
    and guess what? I survived and so will you

    in reply to: Frum non profit organizations disclosing financials. #1879083
    commonsaychel
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    @ Syag, no, just to see where Dollar is going

    in reply to: Frum non profit organizations disclosing financials. #1879064
    commonsaychel
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    @syag, the donations of $1000 and up I personally know the tzvek, [ kerem yisomim, person lost a job] or the organization has no salaried people such as Kupat Ezra in Monsey. The rest are easy to find out with 2 minutes of a read of a return. Yes I check it out same way I check out product reviews and TripAdvisor reviews other then a person coming to shul who I give a Dollar or Five.
    PS read some 990 forms on some of the place you will find it very informative.

    in reply to: Jeffrey Epstein – part 2 #1878996
    commonsaychel
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    she better not be place on suicide watch

    in reply to: Frum non profit organizations disclosing financials. #1878992
    commonsaychel
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    @catch yourself,
    The big difference is that if someone is a CEO at Southwest airlines / Walmart / Pepsi, the CEO salary and benefit package is set by the Board of Directors who are elected by the shareholders.
    When I have Camp Simcha/ Tomchai Shabbos/ Masbia/ Hatzolah/ Project Yes etc.etc. hitting me up for donations I am a shareholder by donating the money and I am entitled to know if the CEO is earning a six figure salary and high end car lease on my chesbon.

    in reply to: Shidduchim – Divorced Homes #1878814
    commonsaychel
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    @n0m
    Reason #3, then you better be prepared to die single, no one ever solved that issue.

    in reply to: Frum non profit organizations disclosing financials. #1878668
    commonsaychel
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    Sickening, I read what some guys are making at non profits and I wanted to throw up

    in reply to: help for cholent #1878573
    commonsaychel
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    Take out is the best substitute for home made cholent.

    in reply to: Shidduchim – Divorced Homes #1878576
    commonsaychel
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    @n0m, why don’t you date her? this maybe the first YWN shidduch

    in reply to: Frum non profit organizations disclosing financials. #1878313
    commonsaychel
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    You got to the IRS.gov website and look up the 990

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