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February 15, 2015 2:00 pm at 2:00 pm in reply to: How and why should I respect a parent that doesn't deserve respect? #1061082☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant
Actually, my post did address that. The way to address how one feels (or at least a way) is to act the part. Hachitzonius m’orer es hap’nimius.
If one shows respect, with sincerity, one ends up feeling respect.
February 15, 2015 10:09 am at 10:09 am in reply to: How Much Below the Knee Should a Skirt be? #1059927☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWhy wouldn’t putting out treif candies for the purpose of the janitor eating them (but knowing that your friend might) equally be lifnei iver?
Can you propose a case where intent makes a nafka mina whether or not a violation occurred?
(Also, why would it be second to last?) 🙂
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantBump! (Are we bumping every two minutes?)
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI didn’t even notice that you changed your layout.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantYou are the only one, and since I don’t know who you are, I will probably continue with the filibustering and useless greetings unless you tell me that you don’t have unlimited the next time we speak.
(If you don’t have unlimited internet, I’m sorry for responding.)
February 15, 2015 2:31 am at 2:31 am in reply to: How and why should I respect a parent that doesn't deserve respect? #1061069☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantHow: by showing the respect which the halachah demands.
Why: as FNY said, because the Torah commands us.
Yes, easier said than done.
February 15, 2015 2:22 am at 2:22 am in reply to: How Much Below the Knee Should a Skirt be? #1059925☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWhy do you assume that lifnei iver depends on intent?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantHis malpractice insurance will probably go up.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantGo to the land office and sublease it for $10, the same way he leased it from you.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantDo you have $10? You can lease it back for 99 years.
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February 13, 2015 4:00 pm at 4:00 pm in reply to: shidduchim: what's all this about middos? #1093673☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIf you they’ve got cars without enough wheels in their inventory, and you know people who bought such cars and couldn’t drive, you’d make sure to ask for a car with four wheels.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIt depends on various factors, including the guy’s maturity level.
February 13, 2015 2:18 am at 2:18 am in reply to: How to Deal with a Request for a Shidduch Picture #1136555☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant(I mean your grandchildren are adorable, not the mods.)
February 13, 2015 2:05 am at 2:05 am in reply to: How to Deal with a Request for a Shidduch Picture #1136554☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantShtusim, that’s a great idea! Oomis, can you send a picture of your granddaughter through the mods? I’m sure they’re all adorable.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSure they did.
As the paytan says: ??? ?? ??? ??? ??? ??? ???. Only someone on such a lofty level could do so.
February 12, 2015 5:38 pm at 5:38 pm in reply to: February–a senior HS girl's favorite month #1060373☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantPopa, you didn’t enjoy and grow from your year in BJJ?
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/seminary-replys#post-511379
February 12, 2015 5:31 pm at 5:31 pm in reply to: How Much Below the Knee Should a Skirt be? #1059909☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantPrecisely.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantYabmus/Yevamos
yeyasher kochacha/shkoyach
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantBecause the Rebbe wore that type of hat.
Why can’t it be both?
February 12, 2015 1:07 pm at 1:07 pm in reply to: How Much Below the Knee Should a Skirt be? #1059907☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantDoes an honest person get a free pass for pritzus?
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February 12, 2015 3:21 am at 3:21 am in reply to: Seizing retail merchandise after being shortchanged #1136916☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThat’s not your item either. You gave, for example, a $20 bill for $15 worth of merchandise, so the store owner owes you $5, but there’s not one particular $5 bill which is yours.
☕ DaasYochid ☕Participantgood foos
Ah, p’tcha.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantI’m surprised at you popa. Since when do you consider the type of shul which insists on equality to be “‘??? ?”?
Also, “esnan mezonos”? Even I would have a hard time coming up with such a groan inducing pun.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWhat about thing two?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantNu…
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIt’s a boycott because it’s organized, and even people who would otherwise but it are supposed to not buy it.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantFlatbusher, that’s a boich sevara. In other words, whether your sevara is right depends on each person’s boich.
February 11, 2015 9:14 pm at 9:14 pm in reply to: Seizing retail merchandise after being shortchanged #1136911☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantYes. See the gemara I quoted.
February 11, 2015 7:47 pm at 7:47 pm in reply to: Seizing retail merchandise after being shortchanged #1136909☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantUbiquitin, there’s a difference between taking your own item and taking something as compensation for a different item.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSo you buy into the lavish kiddushes.
No, the ones I have to pay for are simple. I enjoy a good lavish kiddush, though, as long as someone else is footing the bill.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantAnything less than what I serve when I make a kiddush is cheap, and anything more is ostentatious.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThat’s why I don’t eat the salads – to leave room for my wife’s cholent.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantNo! I want my cholent! You can keep the salads, though.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWho saw the Mishpacha article on the boycott? There were several interesting points, including one hat store employee’s take that Borsalino can’t charge less based on their production costs in Italy.
Also, someone claimed that Pierre Cardin House has been working on a fedora for the frum community, and Pesach time in E.Y. and Sukkos time in the U.S. will begin selling a very high quality hat at a lower cost than Borsalino.
February 11, 2015 3:05 pm at 3:05 pm in reply to: "Distance Your Path from It" � The Dangers of Academic Study #1141235☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantDaMoshe, statistics from whichever organization compiled them aren’t really relevant to our community, where there’s a lot of networking, and employers understand that lack of a degree is often not due to any lack of competence, but side reasons, such as occupation in yeshiva or reluctance to be in a college environment.
February 11, 2015 12:14 pm at 12:14 pm in reply to: Seizing retail merchandise after being shortchanged #1136902☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThat’s why I quoted the Gemara.
February 11, 2015 6:10 am at 6:10 am in reply to: How to Deal with a Request for a Shidduch Picture #1136549☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantThe Talmud says those who marry for money will have unworthy children. Money should not be any consideration in a shidduch.
See ??”? ???”? ??’ ?”? who says it’s fine, as long as she’s not ????? ??.
http://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=44286&st=&pgnum=58&hilite=
This $400k dollar marriage startup, were you joking?
Yeah, I know, sounds very cheap for such a metzuyan, but as I explained, his father is wealthy.
As for the son of a Rosh Yeshiva, well… so what. You don’t know what favour a simple unassuming man has in the regard of Heaven.
Right, so since we have no idea either way, we might as go for kavod.
And I have seen women in mini pants asking when a meat dinner is because she had pizza for lunch.
I can assure you, that was NOT my great granddaughter!
The best to look for is not necessarily education but middos – does he offer hospitality, does he have anger inside him or is he quick to forgive?
Of course that’s also important! If you’d have read the entire thread, you’d have noticed that I mentioned that he has good middos. After all, what would people say if our great granddaughter married someone who didn’t?
And what’s this RUBBISH about showing off a pic to the family?!
Yes, we’re also against it, that’s why we sent the wrong picture. Tee hee.
And of course you give the dating man a pic of the lady. They swap pics of each other. That’s normal.
It may be normal for you, but it’s unacceptable in my family. Such superficiality! What do you think the Chofetz Chaim would say about that? Feh.
February 11, 2015 4:35 am at 4:35 am in reply to: Seizing retail merchandise after being shortchanged #1136899☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantAlso, :????? ?
?? ???? ????? ??? ???? ??? ??? ????? ?? ????? ?? ????? ???? ??? ??? ????? ????? ????? ?? ?? ??? ?? ???? ????? ????? ??? ????? ?? ?????? ??? ??? ??? ?????? ???????? ???? ??? ?? ???? ??”? ????? ???? ??? ???? ??? ??? ?? ???? ??? ????? ??? ???? ???? ???? ??? ??? ???? ?? ??? ???? ?? ????? ??????? ??? ??? ?? ?? ???? ?? ???? ????? ?? ?? ???? ??? ????? ???? ??? ????? ????? ????? ??? ???? ???? ????? ???? ??? ??? ?????? ??? ??????? ??? ???? ????? ??? ??? ???? ???? ????? ????? ????? ??? ??????? ???? ?????
February 11, 2015 4:26 am at 4:26 am in reply to: Seizing retail merchandise after being shortchanged #1136898☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantSo you’re asking is it muttar to be in jail?
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWhy do you think it’s considered maalin?
The point with melamdim seems to be that it won’t cause more learning, as it does for talmidim.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantWell, if they charge $1200 in dues, I sure hope they have services for your dog, so that you and your wife can daven with proper concentration.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantNo, it’s not behind beis haknesses, and a person’s own tuition obligation does come first because it’s his own chov, and his own family.
You can’t switch from Torah to beis haknesses because Torah is more important, but the other way, you can.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantAhavas Chessed.
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantChapter 20: 4, from the Shittah M’kubetzes in Kesobos 49.
☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant???? ??? (I’ll try to find the precise ?”? later).
So, supporting Torah is a higher form of tzedakah, but for some reason, you think only one form (for children) has kedimah.
☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant259: 2 (really, the very one you quoted as well).
☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantAlso, you’re aware, I’m sure, that supporting ???? in any form (including kollel) is an exception to ?? ????? ???? ?????.
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