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UJM: There was a chassidishe nigun about the Hotel California in the mid-70s sung by a group called the אָדלער. The lyrics were roughly as follows:
Last thing I remember, I was
Running for the door
I had to find the passage back
To the place I was before
“Relax, ” said the night manager
“We are programmed to receive.
You can check-out any time you like,
But you can never leave! “GadolhadorahParticipantWhile the UN is blatantly anti-Israel and hypocritical, roughly two-thirds of the resolutions adopted by the U.N. Security Council in 2020 dealt with Yemen, Libya, Somalia, Cyprus etc. and NOT with Israel
I can’t post the URL link but simply google “Resolutions Adopted by the United Nations Secuity Council in 2020” and you will see the list of those resolutions by date and subject. There are several indirect resolutions targeted at EY but those were issued under the title of “The Situation in the Middle East”.October 31, 2021 7:30 pm at 7:30 pm in reply to: I don’t think parents should be telling schools what they should teach,” #2022877GadolhadorahParticipantSchool Board members are generally elected and thats where parents have their input as to the policy views of those who set instructional and curriculum guidelines. If you don’t like those norms, vote for candidates aligned with your views or send your kids to private schools. You cannot have individual parents making decisions for the school system at monthly board meetings.
GadolhadorahParticipantWelcome to the 21st century in American machashefa jurisprudence.
In the 1980s, a Federal District Court in Virginia ( Dettmer v Landon) recognized “witchcraft” as a valid and legitimate religious exercise and this was upheld by the Fourth Circuit., determining that people who practice witchcraft as a religion are entitled to the same Constitutional protections as those who follow other belief systems. At least half the states (including those intolerant dudes in Massachusetts) have offered explicit legal recognition for Wicken or Pagan practices under state constitutional guarantees for free exercise.
Bottom Line: Until moishiach arrives and reverses Dettmer, et. al.
don’t be surprised to see variations of machashefa show up in your local jurisdictionsOctober 29, 2021 1:28 pm at 1:28 pm in reply to: Metaverse, is this an accident waiting to happen #2022276GadolhadorahParticipantYes its partially a distraction, but transitioning to the Meta has been part of Zuckerberg’s /FB’s long term strategy for 2-3 years (per Q2 2018 earnings call). I doubt Congress will enact legislation requiring divesting various FB properties nor make serious changes to the section 203 immunity .
Metaverse is already here. I hope to be around in 5 years to see how the CR has evolved. Perhaps when we log in, we will all have tziniusdik avitars sitting around a table in real time responding to the latest misstatements from our esteemed colleagues with the option of “throwing” virtual brickbats when something especially outrageous is said. We might also be able to change the avitars of our colleagues to better reflect how we perceive them in real life.GadolhadorahParticipant“Sanhedrin has the right to carry out executions even on offenses that don’t normally carry capital punishment”
The last time I checked, posting hateful or threatening messages on some media websites was not something chayav misah but as you correctly noted, perhaps Sanhedrin will decide to employ extra-judicial sanctions to cleanse the internet of olam haboh from such online garbage.
GadolhadorahParticipantAnyone who can recall the ancient times (i.e. pre-Zillow and online listings) when real estate ads constituted the single largest ad revenue source for newspapers, you probably also recall the long list of adjectives used to describe various properties. A “fixer upper” might be something that failed all local building codes and “cozy” might have been a unit where you and your shver could not have fit into simultaneously, and an “industrial feel” might have indicated your only window looked out on the HVAC units and a smokestack.
Somehow, back then, we didn’t think about “fake” product descriptions or reviews since there were practical limits on how many such “fake” descriptions could be deployed in hard copy media. Today, thanks to Al Gore, such lies can be propagated instantaneously on multiple websites and slightly tweaked to make them appear form different sources.GadolhadorahParticipantThe average wage in EY (roughly $3500/month) is not materially different from those in the U.S. ($3700/month) but subsidies for housing and food vary substantially. In the U.S., frum families have more inertia and are reluctant to move far away from family and frum mosdos and infratstructure to so called OOT locations. Both the U.S. and EY suffer from severe shortages of affordable housing, especially for larger families. Multiple factors make direct comparisons difficult. The data itself is questionable given the U.S. and EY use different metrics to measure those in the work force (the demoninator in the computation of average wages and how data for those working part-time and/or those who have dropped out of the work force are normalized).
GadolhadorahParticipantAm I the only one, or are some of these new thread topics becoming increasingly bizarre…..I guess I shouldn’t have complained about the 108th variation of the “shidduch crisis” or the biweekly gevalt alerts by our favorite misogynist bemoaning the “tzinius spéciale du jour”.
GadolhadorahParticipantTwo clowns, only one (Adams) perhaps slighly less dysfunctional than the other. Its mind-numbing that with 20 million residents, these are the abysmal choices given NY voters.
GadolhadorahParticipantFarbycoff: Someone who uses what are commonly considered as pejorative or derogatory “nicknames” probably shouldn’t be a magid shiur or is in need of some sensitivity training by the rosh yeshiva. Its not a matter of “political correctness” or being governed by “liberal” or goiyeshe “norms”…its common sense that we shouldn’t characterize people by their physical attributes, positive or negative. What would you say if a bochur called his tall rebbe “Strech” or an obese rebbe “the groise reb”??
GadolhadorahParticipantDY: I told you so! Double standard. Next thing you know, someone will say its OK for chassidim to move back the odometer on a used minivan sold to a misnaged. Nothing is sacred anymore.
GadolhadorahParticipant“Have you taken a look at the amount of fat, i.e. oil, that is in these “healthy” chips?”
Yes, I absolutely have looked and they are relatively “healthier” than regular potato chips. For a typical 1 oz serving (which seems to be the standard metric even though most of us grab more) the Terra Chips have roughly half the saturated a total fat of regular kettle potato chips and also have lower sugar and sodium percentages depending on which brand of potato chips you are comparing.
The BEST (aka healthiest) alternative would be making your own veggie chips at hope in an air fryer. I’ve tried making them a few times and they are OK but not as good as the Terra Chips.GadolhadorahParticipantBut of course some of regulars will paskin that its “OK” if the relevant products are made/sold by goyim and the readership of the review will be primarily “eno yehudi”.
A lie is a lie and deception is deception.GadolhadorahParticipantPerhaps in the interests of “equal time” we should have a parallel thread on why do some frum people abuse their fellow citizens in EY (aka Peleg hafganos and other disruptive demonstration which became an almost weekly reality in Yerushalayim and make life miserable for poishete Israelis just trying to get to work, take their kids to school, etc).
Much of what is invoked in the OP has little to do with targeting frum citizens and more reflective of EY’s dysfunctional political systemGadolhadorahParticipantRE. Thanks. Will review the article.
Apparently, the KofK announced yesterday that, “the product has had a change in its kashrus standard” and that effective October 26, 2021 “Due to various considerations, Terra Chips is no longer certified Bishul Yisroel”.
Is this going to become a trend? I read recently (I think on YWN) that several Rabbonim had also raised questions regarding the “bishul yehudi’ workarounds used in most kosher restaurants.GadolhadorahParticipantDidn’t the hashgacha (Kof-K?) first arrange some type of workaround on the bishul akum issue with the chip producer than affirmed their hechsher even after that workaround was no longer being used at the production facilities?
P.S. They are really great snacks for those who want something healthy…really low sugar and for a snack food, low sodium too.October 27, 2021 11:30 am at 11:30 am in reply to: DONT YOU HAVE ANYTHING ELSE TO TALK ABOUT? #2021356GadolhadorahParticipantSyag: We know there are a few misguided and borderline misogynistic trolls who somehow get their thrills by finding some “new” outrage regarding women’s dress, women learning XYZ, women’s role in the home, pseudo-feminism reflected in hashkafah etc. etc. Some even find humor in jokes about “beating” their wives, etc. Sadly, that mindset is too pervasive in society as a whole, and not specific to our communities.The Mods do a reasonably good job of filtering that garbage and cannot really require posters to act like “adults” allowing for the fact that recently many are not. There is a reasonably wide range of hashkafah reflected here in the CR, notwithstanding the efforts of self-styled tzinius police to throttle anything that conflict with their “tzinius outrage of the week” narrative.
October 26, 2021 11:26 pm at 11:26 pm in reply to: Bargaining for a Lower Price: Proper or Improper? #2021118GadolhadorahParticipant“Financial advisors recommend to always try to negotiate a better price than offered, proposed or listed”
Except, of course, when dealing with the financial advisor managing your investment portfolio, where virtually all certified financial advisors and planners charge a FIXED percentage fee based on the size of your portfolio. They don’t typically “negotiate” a fee with each new client based on their haggling skills.
GadolhadorahParticipantGreat news. We should all stay well and hopefully be rid of this magefah sooner rather than later.
GadolhadorahParticipantAnd when someone has no clue as to the meaning of a particular acronym, even after consulting their grandchildren, we are left with:
TEKU….תשבי יתרץ קושיות ובעיותOctober 26, 2021 5:04 pm at 5:04 pm in reply to: Bargaining for a Lower Price: Proper or Improper? #2021035GadolhadorahParticipantAAQ: Well said. All other factors equal, which is rarely the case, we obviously would go with the Jewish physician. In today’s world, we unfortunately have to arbitrage between a physician’s expertise and whether he/she accepts your insurance and real world stuff like that.
GadolhadorahParticipantWith the advent of computers, a growing portion of ALL music (including what is referenced here as ‘yiddeshe” music is derived from riffs on prior songs and melodies versus something that has organically evolved from someone “hearing” a nigun in their mind, sitting down at a piano and putting notes to that melody. I won’t argue whether computers have “neshamas” but most of the top Jewish musicians will acknowledge their work has some roots in prior work.
October 26, 2021 12:44 pm at 12:44 pm in reply to: Bargaining for a Lower Price: Proper or Improper? #2020872GadolhadorahParticipantWhat’s the commercial custom for a computer technician or for a plumber
Minhag hamokom as well as the size of the business. You can probably “negotiate” with a solo practitioner to assist in setting up your home wifi network or replacing screen on your iphone (perhaps by bundling several other repairs) but if you call the Geek Squad from Best Buy, there is a fixed price and no negotiating.
GadolhadorahParticipant“A cure for all “mental ailments” is available for free in the CR….”
Although some days, you come away with some new meshugaas not yet diagnosed by the American Psychological Association. A possible cure for my TDS (2022 ICD-10-CM Diagnosis Code F43.2) has just entered Stage 1 clinical trials and will not be available until 2024 at the earliest.
GadolhadorahParticipant“Klal Yisroel doesn’t follow feminist trends”
UJM: Come on, at least show some originality in your trolls……..if my daughter was marrying into your family, I’d probably just refer to you as P.O. Box -1. Your continuing effort to affirm your creds as the CR’s resident misogynist require occasional flashes of creative content.
October 26, 2021 10:26 am at 10:26 am in reply to: Bargaining for a Lower Price: Proper or Improper? #2020843GadolhadorahParticipantVery good point as to asking about capping your cost exposure on medical to insurance reimbursement but in some cases you have to go out of network to find the best doctor for your specific procedure. Also, while some may prefer to find a “heimesh proctologist” or “plumber” (preferably not in the same practice group) not all of us live in yid-centric urban areas where there are multiple options. A “heimish” doctor may not be the best choice for your particular situation.
October 25, 2021 7:39 pm at 7:39 pm in reply to: Bargaining for a Lower Price: Proper or Improper? #2020690GadolhadorahParticipantYaakov Doe: So its assur to insult a goyeshe doctor by asking him to cut the price on your colonoscopy or asking a goyeshe plumber to discount the replacement of your hot water heater but somehow OK to do so when the service provider is a Yid? Where do chazal bring down the inyan of insulting yidden but not goyim?
GadolhadorahParticipantShimon: What yiddeshe taam is there in a genre of music wherein every song seems to be a riff on “the love of my life ran off with another woman and stole our only tractor and prize cow”
GadolhadorahParticipantUse another term but “reading the room” means situational awareness. Both halacha and common sense dictate listening to what the aveilim and others already engaged in conversation are saying before you speak. In some cases there may not be much being said and to break the silence you have to offer your words of nechama with great care and sensitivity to how those words are received.
GadolhadorahParticipantPhilospher: But tell us what you really think!
On a serious note, there is clearly mega “over-diagnosis” in the seemingly endless stream of new four digit insruance codes established by the national associations representing psychologists and psychiatrists but your statement is a bit overbroad as well. Indeed, I would submit one can get analyzed and cured here in the CR for much less than the cost of an hour on an uncomfortable couch in a wood-paneled room with an oriental rug on the floor and someone chiming in every 10 or 12 minutes asking you “how do you feel about that”?GadolhadorahParticipantWithout regards to the names of any particular CR posters, in any of these circumstances, once you arrive “read the room”, get a feel for the mood, the people there at that time, the substance and tone of the ongoing conversation and use COMMON SENSE. Spend a few minutes listening to the conversation before ASKING QUESTIONS or trying to direct the conversation in another direction. As one poster above noted, most important, lead with positive memories of the niftar, and if possible, recall some special anecdote about your personal interaction with him/her that will provide nechama to the aveilim.
GadolhadorahParticipantA member of the family who is a psychologist doing counseling in the NY metro area, including many professionals n the frum tzibur, found that her practice surged during the pandemic. That itself was not surprising given all the new stress points in people’s daily lives. However, she felt that the quasi-anonymity provided by virtual therapy (she stopped seeing clients in her office) was also a big factor in making it easier to seek help. The same trend has been observed in the secular community in general. Unclear if the trend will continue long-term but for now, its hard to even find qualified professional help for those who have decided to confront their ghosts.
October 25, 2021 9:21 am at 9:21 am in reply to: Bargaining for a Lower Price: Proper or Improper? #2020482GadolhadorahParticipantNinty percent of the time, you will know when its ok and when not. Generally, such haggling is ok when you are dealing with the sale of high margin goods/services where the seller has sufficiient headroom to offer a discount and still make a profit. In some venues, bargaining is expected and the initial price quoted is deliberately excessive with the intent of eliciting a counteroffer. At the other extreme are low margin products in local food markets where the margins are extremely low (a few percent in grocery markets) so there really is no room to haggle except in special situations (defects, overly-ripe, near the pull date etc). where its perfectly ok to ask if the merchant will take a lower price. Likewise, as someone noted, its unfair to ask an employee of a service provider who comes out to fix your freezer or HVAC for a discount from the price you were quoted since most of the time they have fixed prices per job established by their company. Its ok to ask if they offer discounts for seniors, military veterans or some other affinity group but otherwise, we don’t bargain over the price to fix the A/C on a 100 degree day. Do your price shopping on line or when you call potential service providers, not after they arrive.
GadolhadorahParticipantI’m not sure that saving a few thousand NIS is a good reason for your brother to marry your sister-in-aw, unless of course, they had already decided to marry, even if you are Isamaelim. Friday weddings save money? Perhaps because there is much less demand to rent simcha halls erev shabbos and the caterer has lots of left over Chulent and other delites from Thursday evening along with other leftover food they are offering at a steal.
GadolhadorahParticipantI don’t think listening to modernishe Jewish singers is a major contributing factor in the causation of defection from Torah….
Quite to the contrary. So called “moderinishe” jewish music probably has kept some frum kids from going OTD. In my generation, Carlebach’s concerts were considered borderline apikorsus. There is a spectrum of what might today be considered “modernishe” music from the MBDs Avram Frieds , Shumulel Lemmersetc, towards the Lipa Shmeltzers and Matisyahus to some rappers whose stuff is really hard to take for more than a few minutes. However, forcing today’s kids to listen or classical chazzanus might be considered the equivalent of forcing goiyeshe teens to listen to Barry Manilow and Frank Sinatra. (Some may even recall when the Baltimore police installed speakers at locations known for drug-dealing and played 24×7 Manilow and Wayne Newton to discourage dealers from congregating)
GadolhadorahParticipant“The Shulchan Aruch in EH says a person should be beaten if he doesn’t get married by then. Beis Din can force Reuven to marry Dina if they are refusing to marry by the age ..”
Do you really think anyone will respond any more to your seemingly endless obsession and trolling with this meshugaas? In the real world, young men and women marry when they feel ready and after discussions with their parents and Rav and could are less about such arbitrary deadlines. I think the batei din are more likely to impose beatings on the next misogynistic fanatic who posts a new thread about the “shidduch crisis” than issue a psak that Reuven and Dina must show up at some simcha hall by date certain.
GadolhadorahParticipantBaltimore mayven is correct regarding Maryland statute. For an individual who is 15 YO, marriage IS permitted but only with parental consent AND a physician’s certification regarding pregnancy.
GadolhadorahParticipant“New York’s minimum age for marriage was 14 until four years ago…”
UJM: Are you lamenting it being raised to 18, should have been maintained at 14 or reduced to 12?
GadolhadorahParticipantIts not “censorship”….its correctly referred to as “asymetric moderation”. Be careful of AsyMOD299, i hear he’s ruthless.
GadolhadorahParticipant“In New York, New Jersey and many states they can’t legally marry at 16 even if they want to”
Transfer to Ner Yisroel in Baltimore….a beis yaakov girl in Maryland can marry at 15 YOGadolhadorahParticipantSyag: Whose being “funny”…..that was a really serious comment. The YWN coffee room is actually one of the best political websites around where there are really smart people (yourself included on most occasions) with whom one can engage in civil debate. You too often see non-existant ghosts and impute motivation that isn’t there. I don’t think anyone in the CR “immerses themselves” in the garbage on other sites and thats one of the reasons we are here. Nor is anyone trashing your “prudishness”.
GadolhadorahParticipantSyag: Totally agree. Thats why we are here in the sheltered world of the CR protected by the ever-vigilant Mods from all that scary stuff
GadolhadorahParticipantWe definitely need another social media site with no moderation. Trump’s former chief spokesperson, Jason Miller, started such a site called “Gettr” several months ago but had a falling out with the Trumpkopf who wanted nearly total $$ control for lending his name. Gettr has become a total cesspool for porno and racist and anti-semitic commentary given its no moderation policies.
If you were smart, you would have bought stock in the new publicly traded venture when the market opened this morning after shachris. You would have increased your investment by 350% by mincha and another 50 percent by maariv (in after-hours trading) as of 7:15 PMGadolhadorahParticipantI don’t think most of the otherwise “liberal” posters “support” WOW in terms of endorsing their actions. My own views have always been that the sometimes violent and illegal efforts to disrupt their monthly activities at the plaza near the kotel creates a circus atmosphere that gives them more publicity than they otherwise warrant.
GadolhadorahParticipantWhy would it work for the beavers but not for the Litvish? Borselino by Attica (model no. 238) is a 100 percent beaver felt hat which should keep its shape even in the rain.
GadolhadorahParticipantAs I just noted in the news page, the Republicans used the same type of arcane political gamesmanship to control the agenda and messaging when they had the majority. Its business as usual in D.C. and nothing has changed. As of today, one Republican Senator is blocking even debate on the confirmation of 17 nominees for high level Administration appointments in the State Department and related national security positions because he has “policy” objections to a European pipeline matter. In another House Committee, Republicans simply walk out to block a quorum w/o providing a coherent policy rationale.
GadolhadorahParticipantThere is an emerging consensus that some of these anti-viral drugs should be administered on a prophylactic basis to a small subset of the immune compromised (aka those on chemo etc.) since they either are not able to be vaccinated OR any vaccination is unlikely to yield sufficient antibody response to provide meaningful protection against covid. Will probably have to be limited to the most immune compromised since hospitals are still ill-equipped to handle widespread infusions of APPROVED drugs like Regeneron etc.
GadolhadorahParticipantCould one of our more erudite posters share the substance and takeaways of the Gemorah in Yavamos on this issue?
GadolhadorahParticipantActually, it was WW II, where in 1940 and early 1941, Italian planes bombed British forces primarily in Haifa but also in Tel Aviv and and several strikes in Jaffa. There were also a few bombings by German forces in that time frame but at a much smaller scale.
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