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  • in reply to: chinuch and discipline nowadays #2011025
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    Little I know’s vert is right on point as to positive motivation and role modeling being a much more effective behavioral tool than punishment. Where the latter might occasionally be required, for a segment of the tzibur who DO allow for limited internet access, I would suspect that restricting that access might be the single greatest motivator. Certainly more so than physical “assault”.

    in reply to: Short Skirts #2010972
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    Thank you to our resident scholars for so elegantly explaining the finer points of how the chumrah police will enforce their vision of tzinius for bnos yisroel.

    in reply to: Yiddishkeit Issues #2010955
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    I you are referring to R’ Zacharia Wallerstein, he is with a highly regarded group called Ohr Na’avah which operates in a number of areas in the U.S. and among many services, provides mentoring for OTDs etc.

    in reply to: Simchas Torah asifa with a real ruach #2010904
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    RebE. At least until rosh chodesh Adar when we are obligated to ramp up the simcha meter to at least the levels posted during the yom tovim.

    in reply to: Leave of Absence #2010897
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    CT Lawyer: Also, a big yasher koach to your state on having the LOWEST covid infection rate in the U.S. and the second lowest hospitalization rate (kudos to Vermont). Obviously, you and the locals are doing something right. Want to share the formula?
    BTW. The Connecticut economy is growing like gangbusters so these great public health outcomes has not been achieved by locking down the economy.

    in reply to: Out of Town – Chassidish community options? #2010873
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    Syag: Also, there have been some significant price spikes in certain OOT locations over the past year or two. Ulster and Sullivan counties, for example up as much as 25 percent in a year but that may not be in local areas where the Chassidish enclaves are located. Conversely, Baltimore prices have remained fairly steady

    in reply to: Out of Town – Chassidish community options? #2010866
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    Syag: Fairly clear. I know several frum families (not Chassidsh) who decided to move out of the NYC metro area to more rural parts of NY/NJ/Conn during Covid. Also, some smaller yeshivos seemed to handle Covid better than larger ones and were able to maintain in-person instruction. Lots of tumult over the past 18 months that may or may not affect relocation decisions Nothing more profound.

    in reply to: Out of Town – Chassidish community options? #2010836
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    MB10: Not sure why you bumped this thread but a lot may have changed in 18 months of Covid. I would get get an update as to how well a community functioned, what type of instruction did the local yeshivos provide during period they were closed for in-person classes, did the community engage in the type of public health protocols you are comfortable with etc. Some old information may be dated. On the other hand, many felt that Covid increased their desire to relocate to areas with lower population density and more flexibility to raise a family in the event of a future public health crisis.

    in reply to: Short Skirts #2010832
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    So they have something to contribute to the Tzinius Broigas which is ranked as No. 2 on the CR thread rankings, only to the Shiduch Crisis, with variations of Trump Derangement Syndrome and Techeles coming at a close tie for third. Fish and game wardens drive around with pickup trucks with long rulers built into the truck hatch for measuring the allowable catch. The Taliban and Revolutionary Guard “morals police” walk around with walking sticks/batons with metric measurements for measuring skirt lengths Maybe UJM and some of his really ehrliche chevrah can buy some of these essential tools on ebay so they are equipped to administer arbah makos to those pritzusdike women they confirm are in violation (perhaps with a few cm safe harbor leeway like the police use when ticketing for speeding violations)

    in reply to: Leave of Absence #2010739
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    CTLawyer: Ignore DovidBT. He is still suffering from (political) myopia that may be beyond the skills of even the most gifted ophthalmologist.
    A belated shanah tovah.

    in reply to: Oregon Farm grows wheat for matzoh #2010741
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    CS: Thats why I noted that the areas to the east of the I-5 corridor are a world apart from the Seattle Portland metro areas and some of the coastal areas. Several of the college campuses in those areas are hotbeds of BDS. In fact, there is an effort underway in the eastern part of the state of Washington to secede and form a NEW state called Liberty. Part of their manifesto reads as follows:

    “A group of coastal elites, one that detests our very way of life, dominates the political system of Washington state. These people view individual political and religous freedoms as just another problem getting in the way of executing their radical social and economic agenda, an agenda that is fundamentally at odds with how we in Eastern Washington desire to live….”
    We’ve also traveled extensively in the PNW and entirely agree that outside of Idaho I’ve never encountered a hint of the type of anti-semitism you apparently encountered in the Whitefish/Kalispell area of Montana which I’ve heard is also the home turf for some white supremacy groups (which typically espouse anti-semitic tropes).
    When visiting a fish hatchery near Bonneville Dam on the Columbia River, we met a frum young guy wearing a kipah (more MO than yeshivish) who was working on a business startup for an organic/kosher salmon jerky production facility to be based somewhere in the region. I’m not sure exactly what he was expecting to learn from spending time with the federal fisheries biologists but he said he was treated with incredible respect and interest from those he met with throughout the region. While I think the jerky market is already saturated with several good products with good hashgacha, I was impressed by his enthusiasm and positive reception from the locals.

    in reply to: Oregon Farm grows wheat for matzoh #2010717
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    As AZ probably knows better than anyone, this farm is located in the far northeast corner of Oregon, bordered by Washington and Idaho. For those unfamiliar, the politics of this area are about as far to the right end of the spectrum as Portland and Seattle are to the left and this particular county voted 2:1 for Trump. I suspect there is a real fascination and respect for guys who show up every year in Wallowa in Chassidish lvush with such a fanatical focus on the nuts and bolts of Pesach wheat production and this positive vibe was reflected in the Oregonian article. (Lets forget about the fact that some of the nation’s most well-credentialed anti-semitim are located across the state line Idaho.)

    in reply to: Short Skirts #2009847
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    “Would you find it objectionable if women critiqued a behavior of certain groups of men who were acting incorrectly in public?”

    No, but in reality, womens’ complaints about the appearance or behavior of men are typically met with either total silence, dismissed out of hand or rationalized as not technically being problematic under halacha. In their relations and interactions with women, these ehrliche yidden are always living under self-styled chumrahs but in relation to their own behavior as perceived by women, it is mega kulahs that govern.

    in reply to: hoshanos ineptness #2009848
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    Also, perhaps a subject for a separate thread, are the armed “assassins” flailing around with their lulavim while circling the bimah and poking the poor shlep nearby in the eye. This is not a joke and I’ve seen it happen several times over the years. When you a doing hakofos, the lulav should always be held in a 100 percent vertical, upright position. NO WAVING DURING HAKOFOS.

    in reply to: Sleeping in the sukkah #2009850
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    How do so many of these threads get hijacked for the vile purpose of opening a new battle line in the Chabad-Litvish wars?

    in reply to: Maricopa county audit #2009845
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    Apparently these clowns found a bunch of anecdotal glitches (most of which are either technicalities or not fully documented) but concluded that in aggregate, they would not have affected the outcome. The Trumpkopf has already declared vindication, moved on to Texas where he won by a large margin and demanding selective audits in Texas counties where he claims “everyone knows there was fraud” since he should have won by “much bigger margins”. The Repubicans in Texas are so terrified of losing support of the Trumkopfs that they will likely go along and do Arizona 2.0 but find even bigger clowns than the Cyber Ninjas (since everything is bigger in Texas).

    in reply to: NYC Chol HaMoed Trip Warning #2009840
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    Just about every newspaper and media outlet have been highlighting the vaccination rules for weeks and running stories about incidents where individuals had objected to the new requirements. For many of those that deliberately avoid reading newspapers (print or online) or watching TV, they are also unlikely to see notices on museum websites. However, I’ve checked several of the top museums (MET, Natural History and MOMA) and all have the warning about the Covid Vaccination requirement as a condition of entry. For example the Jewish Museum website has the following alert:

    “In accordance with government regulations and health guidance, visitors must reserve timed tickets and observe additional policies as part of their visit. Read the guidelines on this page to ensure a safe and enjoyable visit. In compliance with the New York City mandate, proof of vaccination is required for all visitors 12 and older. ”

    The rules on the NYC Department of Health Website are clear and unambiguous and cover virtually all restaurants, bars, museums, indoor entertainment/cultural venues etc.

    in reply to: hoshanos ineptness #2009705
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    There is a considerable body of academic research as to how to most effectively integrate individuals moving at different speeds by providing “acceleration” and “deceleration” lanes, metering entry into the moving traffic etc. No reason we couldn’t adopt the same concepts into hakofos with perhaps a slow lane for the older members of the shul moving clockwise around the bimah/guy holding the sefer torah and counterclockwise for the more nimble daveners moving at a higher RPM. There could also be a rest area where truly ehrliche yidden can daven with real kavanah while standing still. Obviously, the biggest tzadikim (aka the guys with the loudest “UUMeeeins” who back into you when they complete their shmoneh esreh) may require a special hakofos area

    in reply to: hoshanos ineptness #2009427
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    Participant: I’ll have to admit I read your post several times and still have no clue as to what the inner meaning of your profound thought might convey about squaring the circle of life.
    A gutten moed.

    in reply to: Jewish RocketMan #2009419
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    CS: Thanks for pointing out that he walked to neilah. Also great to know that his Ayniklakh have gone OTD (Bibi’s Derech that is) and are frum.

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    The wording of this thread is borderline irresponsible. It was mentioned weeks ago when the issue of infertility, miscarriage etc. initially surfaced and dismissed by OB/GYN experts from both the U.S. and EY. Rates of miscarriage were NOT statistically different between vaccinated/non-vaccinated pregnant mothers after cohort groups were normalized for other risk factors.

    in reply to: Jewish RocketMan #2009134
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    For the last time, this was a thread regarding a major news item that happened to involve a yid and yom kippur. All four have achieved great success in secular matters. This was a light hearted reference that although I wished them all a safe trip, I would hope events would result in his having a Sandy Kaufax moment and delaying the launch until after Yom Kippur.) (I’m sure most CR readers are intimately familiar with the 1965 world series but for the few who may have forgotten, in 1965, Sandy Koufax decided at the last minute not to pitch in Game One of the World Series because it was Yom Kippur and instead Don Drysdale pitched for the LA Dodgers, and he gave up seven runs in 2 innings).
    No one in “glorifying” Issacman’s decision to launch on shabbos, nor was I promoting kafirah by noting that the R’SO allowed their flight to be safely completed. And YES, I am fully respectful of the achievements a yid may achieve both in spiritual and secular matters. While these are totally separate and not mutually exclusive, each of us has our own metrics. Those who achieve success in both, certainly warrant kudos.
    I also note that at the same time we are having this exchange, segments of the frum media are running stories with photos of a former chazar-eating, mechallel shabbos, yarmulkaless politician current being tried for felonies showing up at the kosel with a kipah for kol nidre as if this was some big kiddush hashem (since he was NOT also smoking one of the expensive cigars he was accused of having illegally accepted).

    in reply to: Jewish RocketMan #2009073
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    Common Saychel: Sorry you are having a bad day (or days)…no one was “praising” a chilul hashem or whatever else you seem to be fixated on.

    I suspect 99 percent of CR readers understood exactly what I was saying…aka There are 4 quite extraordinary individuals, each who has accomplished a lot more in their lives than your or I might aspire to and one happens to be non-observant yid. I wished him and the others a “safe flight” while simultaneously expressing the hope their launch would have been delayed until after a tkiah gadolah. Well, happily for all, it was tzeischem lasholom v’boachem lasholom and they returned to earth safely motzi shabbos. Hashgacha paratis aside, the ribbono shel olam was willing to overlook their flight schedule (as best we can tell for now).

    in reply to: Jewish RocketMan #2008649
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    And why can he not daven while orbiting the Earth?

    Mizrach while in orbit is always the same??

    in reply to: Bagels in Middletown NY? #2008600
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    “But who knows where and when they were baked….”

    Totally agree. C’v they might have been baked in Willy, BP or even Monsey. They also might be frozen chometz sh’avr alov h’pesach or even worse….

    in reply to: Bagels in Middletown NY? #2008212
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    You’re probably have to drive 30-45 minutes north or south to find intelligent life with hashgacha that also makes a decent bagel. From yenavelt (where you are located) probably agnostic whether you drive to Liberty/South Fallsburg or Monsey for your bagel.
    P.S. Either way go for an everything bagel with light cream cheese. Best of all worlds.

    in reply to: COVID Vaccine and Fertility #2008199
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    There have been no double blind clinical trials conducted that would show that those who believe and spread the constantly changing conspiracy theories about the risks of vaccination are also likely to incur higher rates of mortality and morbidity by foregoing proven medical interventions but that is a logical and intuitive expectation even without a peer reviewed study.

    in reply to: Sleeping in the sukkah #2008197
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    Rav Gevornlik, Zl, has paskind that if your sukkah is cantilevered out a distance of greater than arbah amos from the edge of your upper floor apartment deck (even if supported from below by some rented scaffolding), BOTH husband and wife should not sleep in such a structure and spend only as much time inside as necessary to be yotzeh the mitzvah for one to be permitted to say the bracha of “leishev baSukkah” and swallow the minimum of a kibeitza of food.

    in reply to: COVID Vaccine and Fertility #2007942
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    Given the demonstrated efficacy of the vaccine, especially in the context of materially reducing the risk of hospitalization and death in the unlikely event of a breakthrough infection, pikuach nefesh trumps (excuse the term) paru u’ravu 100 percent of the time.

    in reply to: Please explain Ivermectin #2007658
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    BDE. Just in case anyone is interested, Veronica Wolski, a leading Invermectin promoter, also known for hanging “Ax the Vax” signs on highway overpasses, died several hours ago of Covid-related illness in a Chicago hospital. When not publishing in veterinary journals about the miracle Covid drug, Wolski spent much of her time tweeting verts for Qanon about Trump battling a cabal of Democratic pedophiles. Trumpkopfs, including their favorite attorney Lin Wood, showed their appreciation by flooding the hospital’s ICU demanding that she be treated with Ivermectin while on her deathbed. You just can’t make up this stuff. About 2 hours later, the YWN News page posted a story about the death of one EY’s leading anti-vaxers, Chai Shaulian, from Covid. He too was tweeting on his deathbed about the evils of vaccination programs.

    in reply to: Effectiveness of the Covid Vaccine #2007639
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    All the studies released thusfar, both in the U.S. and EY, seem to confirm that those vaccinated have materially lower rates of infection, hospitalization and death than those unvaccinated. The rates and intensityof side-effects, albeit based on very short-term results, also clearly support the notion that risks are lower with vaccination. No one claims the vaccine totally prevents Covid but the few studies of breakthrough cases show that the large percentage of those infected were either asymptomatic or had only mild symptoms.
    For those CR participants still in denial, hoping not to see your photo with a candle in the background on the News page.g

    in reply to: Hagbah Fails #2007479
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    Probably the single most important decision for the gabbai when deciding to whom to give a kavod. If the gabbai insults some ehrliche member of the shul by giving him chamishi rather than shishi, worse case scenario is that one guy gives you a dirty look when you she’nadar him “ba’ad beis hakneses”. If the gabbai screws up in deciding who gets hagbah, the entire olam may be remembering him fondly for the next 40 days.

    in reply to: Hagbah Fails #2007426
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    Twisted sounds like a real Hagbah Mayvin….everything he says is intuitive and logical but many of us never really stopped to think about the nuts and bolts of what would otherwise seem to be a simple act but fraught with catastrophic outcomes in the hands of an amateur.

    in reply to: Hagbah Fails #2007284
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    Several “near-drops” but never hit the floor. Typically, its a “newbie” attending a simcha given hagbah by a well-meaning gabbai. They forget (or never knew) that for a heavier sefer you need to bend the knees a bit to provide the needed upward lift and instead try to do it entirely with their wrists and arms. There was always the baal koreh/gabbai/maftir immediately nearby to lend a steady and helping hand.

    in reply to: Car Repair courses needed in Lakewood #2007283
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    AAQ. Yes, its a pre-Covid trend but Covid has really created a separate “shortage” issue, especially among those who would trade in their leased vehicles every 3-5 years because they wanted a new model car. Those new or late model cars simply aren’t readily available because of chip shortages and other supply change issues. . However, I doubt any of those “new” car buyers would know how to open their hoods, much less change their oil or air filter.

    in reply to: Shorts #2007242
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    Then k’v we should stand when typing a post addressed to either the CR Mods or the CR poskim, and of course, always do so in long pants.

    in reply to: Where is the line between halacha and dinas dimalchusa #2006974
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    “some hold that the reasoning is that since the king owns everything, we’re only able to use the land and resources as oer his directives. This would make [dinas dimalchusa] not apply nowadays”

    Well, the way things are going in D.C., if you just wait a while, the “King” (aka “the government”) will soon own everything again so dinas demalchusa will again be the rule. See the House Democratic Ways and Means Committee Tax proposal released evev shabbos

    in reply to: Shorts #2006972
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    “The answer depends on who you are…”
    So if you are a really in shape and woke member of the CR working from your bedroom between Purim and Succos you can wear shorts betweeen Zoom calls with the camera focused from your shoulders up?? Sounds OK

    in reply to: Teshuva Brings Meshiach #2006956
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    Thanks to the CR Rebbe for a beautiful vert for motzi Shabbos Shuvah

    in reply to: Where is the line between halacha and dinas dimalchusa #2006717
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    There is NO BRIGHT LINE. As your LRP when in doubt but otherwise, follow the rules set out for all, even if you think others are violating those rules. We know that Yidden will always be held up to a higher standard and anti-semites will exploit our mistakes to hype their sterotypes. Absent a mandate that would result in a yid forciblyviolating certain laws regarding idolatry, murder and adultery et. al, we should always seek to conform with civil laws, especially those seemingly designed to protect public health. Where is the “line”? Well, personally, I would violate civil laws on eating treifus, foregoing milah etc. but that is personal.

    in reply to: Shorts #2006714
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    Even though the issue is not “reciprocal”, the visuals for most women in the case of frum guys walking down 13th Avenue in Brooklyn, Clifton Avenue in Lakewood or Main St. in Monsey in shorts and long socks are unlikely to promote illicit thoughts or pritzsus. In fact, just the opposite. There is a time and place for most things and Commons Saychel should suffice.

    in reply to: Car Repair courses needed in Lakewood #2006702
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    Another factor is that we are holding on to cars for longer periods these days. If any of you have gone shopping for a new or slightly used (recent model year) car, the prices have gone through the roof based on both supply and demand issues. Due to the chip shortage and other supply chain issues, manufacturers are unable to deliver a a sufficient number of”new” cars to their dealers, with waiting times of up to 6-9 months for popular models. As more people are unwilling to use buses and subways, demand for used cars has also spiked with prices up as much as 30-40 percent since COVID. Holding on to your old car means having to do some basic repairs yourself, if you know how (which in most cases, I don’t).

    in reply to: Shorts #2006623
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    Ask your LRP but I would submit its an obvious issue of tzinius for women and probably for most adult males (putting aside the fact that after a certain age, most yidden look better in long pants, tzinius concerns notwithstanding).

    in reply to: Time to start davening Rosh HaShsnah morning #2006363
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    Good sign….these were nicest few days (weather-wise) we have seen for outdoor minyanim in the past several months.

    in reply to: Car Repair courses needed in Lakewood #2005900
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    “GHD, don’t be such a fein-schmecker and simply buy an older car…”

    UJM: The “older” Maseratis cost a lot more than the newer ones, and for an ehrliche fein-schmecker such as myself, they lack that “new car schmeck”.

    in reply to: Car Repair courses needed in Lakewood #2005784
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    Most new cars are designed in such a way that the most common repairs and trouble-shooting we used to be able to do ourselves are nearly impossible. Between the reliance on computer chips for diagnostics and difficulty of reaching certain parts under the hood or need for special tools, you are almost forced to go to a dealer or independent repair firm to handle what should be simple repairs.

    in reply to: Please explain Ivermectin #2005420
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    Joe Rogan just announced he is postponing his “Clown Tour” (no joke…tickets went on sale last week) because he was diagnosed with Covid. If you believe in contrarian indicators, he is on something that looks like a variation of the Zelenko protocol with Zinc, Trump antibodies and this horse medication

    in reply to: Comedian in Chief #2005414
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    AAQ makes a number of good points. I’m less convinced that any combination of interim steps would have been effective and only would have deferred the inevitable chaos. Trump kept talking about honoring our commitments to those who assisted U.S. troops and diplomats while essentially gutting the State Department and HHS offices responsible for processing the special visas for those Afghans. Biden obviously moved at a glacial pace to restore those capabilities while either deliberately or naively ignoring the accelerating collapse of the Afghan military and government. However, given the facts on the ground once the Taliban took control, the generals agreed that once Kabul was lost, they needed to get out asap, which is what they did with incredible success (125,000 airlifted out) withsurprisingly minimal casualties (notwithstanding the tragic deaths of 13 heroes last week). We should have left Afghanistan 10 years ago and another week, month or year would only have resulted in greater losses.

    in reply to: wearing a yamulka in a professional setting #2005408
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    Whether its a “minhag’, required by halacha, or a self-imposed chumrah, the reality is that the younger generation seems more comfortable with openly declaring their yiddishkeit than many of their parents and grandparents. I’m most impressed by the large number of kids with kipahs on college campuses where the leftist and anti-Israel agendas of many faculty and students seems to equate wearing a kipah with support for the policies of EY. I’d assume a yeshivish bochur would always wear a hat or kipah as a matter of course. When a MO bochur wears one in in venues that are not always the most “friendly” I’m especially impressed.

    in reply to: Please explain Ivermectin #2005184
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    Like the Zelenko protocols (don’t forget the Zinc)( and the Trumpkopf clorRX, this snake oil miracle drug is straight from the horse’s mouth into your veins.

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