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  • in reply to: what is a woman #2100545

    Reb Clarence Thomas has a new book out. In excerpts he quotes his grandfather who looked at the newly constructed “projects” and remarked – they are building houses, not communities. It is not enough to wish away helping poor – you need to actually know how to achieve it. See Rambam’s priority list.

    in reply to: Visiting the Har Habayis #2100175

    Syag > Danger has criteria

    Right. I was just pondering this. We can put some numerical values on mixtures – 1/60, 1/100 and on preponderance of evidence (50%), but I am not seeing good definition of “danger” or just “this might happen”. Anyone knows?
    Gemora has a lot of discussions weighing dangers of missing out on something v. remote risk (not necessarily to health, maybe just of public confusion). On the current page – should we allow yibum under some confusing and rare circumstances when someone somewhere might see that and not realize what exactly is happening and learn halakha incorrectly. While the weights are not clear to me, what is clear that every time we can avoid risk, we should consider it seriously. Very common solution in Yevamos – do halitzah instead of yibum, something you would not do if there was no risk at all.

    As to socks – what if a shidduch date is already driving? what if she is gonna steal socks from her sister or even brother, risking lives in the upcoming fight? what about mental stress on her mother?
    So, I usually take such calls at work (btw, my kids consider calling rude, they text) – at least first 2-3 per incident.

    in reply to: Who should I give my Mayseh money to? #2100177

    Try lending money for free, Chofetz Chaim considers it a bigger mitzva.

    A couple of halachik reasons:
    – people in need of loans are more limited in their choices. You can go to multiple places asking for $20, but to get a serious loan, you can only go to people who know you or are willing to do due diligence
    – loans are often for people how are temporarily down and see a way to get back on their feet. It is a great mitzva to help thme now before they become totally ruined.

    You also have a great feeling of relief when you are finally (after some delays) get paid back, and the other person stops avoiding you. And you can lend that money again!

    If you don’t get paid, consider that you finally did what you tried to do to begin with – to give tzedokah. (just do not lend more than what you wanted to give).

    in reply to: Price Controls to Fight Inflation #2100179

    No price controls. He is simply printing money to give to those who are lacking and forcing companies to produce formula or whatever other markets his decrees destroyed.

    in reply to: Supreme Court Rules – States Can Ban Abortion #2100171

    ujm, a good question:
    most increase will be in the most restrictive states and those are very pro-Republican, so it should not dilute much. Economic migration from high tax states to the free states is a bigger threat. Maybe states can introduce taxes on new arrivals only if they vote same way as they voted before, although there are some technical problems with this approach.

    in reply to: BAN SEAFRIA. #2100153

    n0mesorah, thanks a lot. I did not know that Sefaria’s gemora is using R Steinsaltz! Woe to me for not recognizing it … I think I looked up what Seforia sources are before 2017. I don’t recall whether they had Bavli then at all. Also, they are using mathematician’s Heinrich Guggenheimer 2015 translation for Yerushalmi.

    Edited

    in reply to: January 6th Committee Hearings #2100168

    Jackk, I looked up polling about the committee:
    45% of independents approve their work and 20% of Repubs, so not much traction with Indies, but some with anti-Trump R-s.

    on hearings (literally sheni vhamishi – June 13 and 16):
    20% of Ds listened in full, 8% of Is and 5% of Rs did
    44% of Ds did not listen at all, I 68% R 75%
    they do not seem to have data on the rest of hearings

    on minute details:
    Only 40% of Dems heard nothing at all about some lady paid $60K for a short speech, 60% of R-s and I-s did not hear that.
    30% of Ds did not hear anything about a judge talking about “war on democracy”, 50% of the rest.
    30% of Ds did not hear about email asking T for a pardon, 50% of Rs and Is did not
    for comparison:
    40% of all group did not hear that some Elon M. voted R first time in his life
    only 20% ! in each group heard nothing about some doctor getting positive for Covid
    13% of Ds and Is and 10% of Rs did not hear about inflation (no car?)
    50% of all groups did not hear that border Patrol arrests on Mexican border are record high

    in reply to: what is a woman #2100158

    Answer: current Daf Yomi Seder.

    More(!) seriously, I have to answer humbly “I do not know” to the OP’s question – despite years of diligent study with a personal tutor. Even after the tutor and I introduced. B’H, several more exemplars into the world and I was zoche to observe them closely, first in vivo and then in vitro – I still cannot comprehend them. But the Seder is not over, so I am still holding hope.

    in reply to: BAN SEAFRIA. #2100154

    PI > Why do we need to ban anything? You’re a smart person!

    There is value of having Jewish resources without shmutz, so that people who do not want it can confidently stay on that site. That what a smart person would do. Sefaria seems to be doing a reasonable trade-off between being an open site and limiting problems, given that only one person here was able to find something inappropriate (probably after looking for it for a long time).

    in reply to: Visiting the Har Habayis #2100132

    A bigger picture – there is always a difference how we address risks coming directly from Hashem, or indirectly from our enemies:
    David rightfully choose a plague v. a war, as there is no end to which evil people might go; We teach Torah in the face of Romans or Soviets, etc. But there is no chiyuv to do bris milah on a bleeding child to prove that we are big tzadikim. This was also addressed in some of teshuvos regarding Covid.

    Where the limits of risk are might be a subject for debate. People can indeed be affected by biases here: some because they “believe in science” and will swallow anything to show how “progressive” they are; others – because they do not trust anything “from goyim” and do not know anything themselves. Most are affected by the bias of convenience and personal finance – I don’t want to do some extras; do something my friends do not do; or that can hurt my mossad. (kiso/koso/kaaso).

    in reply to: looking for an apartment to rent in israel #2100144

    I heard Ramallah is still affordable, albeit gentrifying… I saw an article saying that locals complain that some Israeli Arabs are buying apartments on a cheap to accommodate their kids who also attend Rammalah U.

    in reply to: Supreme Court Ruling Over Gun Conrol #2100145

    Gadol, yes, we will first need to file for an order to disclose ujm’s IP.

    Maybe rather than monitoring mental and prisoner records, there should be psychological tests for empathy. Just review of social media would suffice, like in this case.

    in reply to: Supreme Court Rules – States Can Ban Abortion #2100133

    The dangerous part for liberals – in 19 years, growth of number of voters in red states. This is already happening based on ideology and has a scientific name “Roe effect”, and now it will further increase red state population, leading to changes in electoral college.

    Another question – some hope that Dems will be so outraged that they’ll drive to elections this November. (Well, given gas prices, maybe they need to be bussed). From rumors, even Trump is afraid of that. From experience, though, Rep base is showing up more for social issues, while those Dems who did not vote so far do not really care much. Maybe because Rep social agenda is positive for a normal human being, while the slogan “let’s make sure a girl in Alabama can get rid of her baby if she can’t afford to feed her” is less motivating.

    in reply to: Visiting the Har Habayis #2100131

    Avira and it’s evil at its core.

    >> When it comes to mitzvos “Hashem will forgive us”, nu nu, it’s only a mitzvah…

    We have lots of halakha of postponing bris (jaundice) or cancelling (hemophilia, empirically measured – 2 brothers dying), possibly even draft as I mentioned (Yevamos ~ 70). So, it is clear that health is a factor, the question is a matter of degree that can be rationally discussed, nothing “evil” here. The “forgive” wording is entirely mine, poorly paraphrasing the shabbos breaking rationale “live for them”.

    >> But when we have non torah based political interests…. that’s a different story.

    I understand that you see this as political on the context of pro- and anti-Zionism. Here we are trying to get into another person’s mind, so let’s try following him. In the context of people affiliated with Israel as a Jewish country, this is an issue of having an upper hand against the enemy who is a threat to Jewish lives. Lubavicher was quoting in this context a difference between fighting goyim in general and those who attack border cities – the latter requires extra protection, otherwise enemy will continue creeping in over time, like Russia in Ukraine. Har Habayit is an important place both in Jewish and non-Jewish minds, so prevailing there matters. You can continue arguing that his premise is wrong and Jews should evacuate from Israel, or you can disagree with the heshbon whether it is healthy to provoke a billion people, but – again, from that POV – it is a reasonable sevora.

    in reply to: Chaveirim, Yidden, and Lomdei Toirah, be malveh me your Oznayim #2100139

    Heram Wouk’s grandfather came to Amerika, spent some time teaching in Yiddish and after lacking students, decided to go to EY. In the airport, he told his grandson – maybe I should have learnt English, but, on first impression, it sounded very crude so I did not… Of course, he actually did not say that, please translate it back into Yeshivish Yiddish in your head.

    in reply to: Recycling #2100130

    Avira > we’re not obligated to follow the opinions of climatologists, there’s no source or mesorah for it.
    n0 > We should follow the truth.

    I agree with both! We have great mesorah from Gemora that we should use sevorah to make decisions. Sometimes, you can experiment yourself, others – consult experts. In all cases, you need to be critical of what experts are saying and strive for truth. Of course, one should listen to gedolim here – who know halocha and either studied science themselves or can consult sufficient authorities.
    Edited. Leave it to the rabbeim to decide who is qualified to pasken.

     

     

    in reply to: Supreme Court Rules – States Can Ban Abortion #2100129

    > Roe vs Wade has been overturned.

    Roe was overturned. Wade – won.

    For those concerned, this is not a gezirat malchut, the issue the being returned to the democratic process, like many other issues in this country. Most states have reasonable laws for most issues lately (excepting slavery 160 years ago). CA is not (yet) arresting people for owning businesses, and AL is not arresing people reading Das Kapital. So, they will figure out this also, hopefully. some states might be pushing for extreme positions now, because of political stagnation, but will do some accommodations later. At the end, each state will get what their voters deserve, and those who really really do not like the result – they can easily move. Just be grateful for all these painless freedom options that this great country provides.

    in reply to: Visiting the Har Habayis #2099802

    Avira, a good question about difference between metzitza and har habayit. I presume that the thinking is that danger is allowed when there is a reason. On metzitza, one can say that H’ will be also concerned about baby’s health and will forgive skipping this tradition. Gemora says that one Rav will postpone bris due to draft from wind, so it is not too outrageous to be concerned about remote threat to a baby. On the other hand, one might claim that going to Har Habyit has a value in strengthening Jewish presence in Yerushalaim, etc rather than danger. I understand that this is questionable, and that nonsense for you, but this is a disagreement on political judgment rather than halakha.

    Looking at metzitza issue from recent knowledge, Aguda’s response that “driving is more dangerous” seems to be true. On the other hand, cases of post-bris herpes is still reported in press once in a while over the years. Maybe someone wants to compute numbers to compare with covid danger per person, assuming say 10 herpes cases per NYC (of course, cases may be under-reported).

    We can also conclude that, similarly to Covid, it is possible that R Tendler with his understanding of builogy and statistics understands the danger and thus osers, while a community of people who do not study that may rely on “shomer peshayim”, as they do for Covid.

    in reply to: Big issue-please advise #2099838

    He might be shogeg when he is a cat, but maybe he was mazid in becoming a cat?! Or at least shogeq karov l’mazid! He shold have guarded himself from thinking he is cat before it became too late.

    in reply to: Issues 2022 #2099839

    anon, it is Trump’s fault. He appointed Powell. Biden was not expected to do better, say thank you that he resisted appointing a diversity socialist that his team wanted.

    in reply to: Cell phone service Upstate #2099681

    RebE > Someone got lost in the winter without cell phone connection

    Many years ago, I observed thousands, even millions, of people roaming around NYC without cell phone connection, totally lost – some wandered around and, ironically, even talked to each other – as if one lost person can help another lost person! Kids think I am exaggerating as usual.. If you also saw that, please confirm.

    in reply to: GAS PRICES #2099688

    Apparently even after all blunders, there are still things that administration can do, but does not:
    1) Biden.. dangled the possibility of at least temporarily waiving the Jones Act, . that says only American-flagged ships can carry fuel and other goods between U.S. ports. The industry would likely jump at that, but there’s doubt that the administration could overcome union opposition to doing so

    2) Industry ..requesting faster permitting times for pipelines and easier access to public lands for drilling — .. administration is unlikely to acquiesce. In fact, the Interior Department in January is expected to propose new rules that would raise the royalty rates companies pay to produce oil on federal land.

    in reply to: Big issue-please advise #2099689

    this is a CATastrophe!

    If he destroyed your couch, you can still sue him in Beis Din. Beis din will then have to assert whether he is an Adam or a Behama (and who the responsible owner is who will pay for shen & regel then).

    I am not sure what the beis din going to say if they are given both a bris certificate and a vet immunization record.

    in reply to: Israeli Parenting style vs the US. #2099684

    Gadol, thanks for explaining this old adage: of course, it means that the person should always go “up” – when he leaves the house and when he comes back! To remind yourself of this practice, you should always leave the house from the basement so that then you go “up”, and then come back to the first floor (or whatever is the top floor when you live on a terrace).

    in reply to: Who should I give my Mayseh money to? #2099678

    Give it to someone who you know does a good job at whatever he is doing. Giving funds to institutions may or may not be efficient, but also does not just provide an opportunity but also increases someone’s power and you are responsible for that.

    For example, providing funds for educational purposes either directly to parents or to outstanding teachers, wherever they will be teaching, might be better than giving funds to institutions.

    in reply to: Visiting the Har Habayis #2099665

    Syag > You admit you are lacking information but your response is to tell me to do research.

    to recap: I did my research – have read a number of works and heard references from others that all lead to the conclusion that the Rav is a Talmid Chacham. You and others are dismissing him based on some unclear references/rumors/opinions that claim that his views are not just something you do not agree, but unacceptable. I am pointing out that the picture of such a dysfunctional Feinstein family does not make sense and should make you ask yourself a question.

    Btw, some introductions mention that a number of Igeres Moshes are addressed to R Tendler. Can someone summarize what topics are in their conversation and how is R Moshe addressing R Tendler?

    in reply to: Issues 2022 #2099672

    > said, “No, inflation was high before the war in Ukraine broke out”.

    why do we need expert opinions when we have facts? Just look up inflation plot and dates when war started.

    in reply to: January 6th Committee Hearings #2099667

    Jackk, thanks, this is mind boggling stuff. Is this still prime-time TV or on C-span? How many people are watching (besides you).

    in reply to: Visiting the Har Habayis #2099502

    tp clarify, I meant his works on Torah & Science, not on pure science. I think hespedim are online. Maybe it is on you to find R Reuven’s hesped and see whether he says what you say.

    in reply to: Visiting the Har Habayis #2099490

    Syag,
    I am not familiar w/ R Tendler’s declarations that are “against Torah”. I am not fully familiar with all he said and did over years, I read some of his science-related work and it was reasonable. He was R Moshe’s s-i-l and not put in herem by him, as far as I know. A quick search shows that R Reuven Feinstein spoke at R Tendler’s levaya. All of this just has to give you a pause before proceeding, but I see no acknowledgement.

    in reply to: Visiting the Har Habayis #2099489

    ujm, as I said, these 2 versions seem to compliment each other, not contradict. I heard it from someone who was learning together w/ R Tendler in his later years and heard it directly from him.

    in reply to: Visiting the Har Habayis #2099453

    ujm, you can refer to physicists on the issues of physics, but if you look at relationship between science and Torah, you would obviously start with someone who is bokeh in both.

    in reply to: Visiting the Har Habayis #2099455

    Avira > Rav Tendler was also not a talmid of MTJ – he was in YU.

    You are continue disparaging R Moshe. Now, he did not even read the shidduch resume. Could you please stop.

    in reply to: Issues 2022 #2099457

    > In April, the U.S. Department of Energy announced that it has awarded contracts for all of the initial 30 million barrels it put up for sale as part of President Biden’s historic Strategic Petroleum Reserve Release.

    Very creative. Every Dem’s solution (to the problems they created) is to spend down something. Why not encourage people to work/ to produce? Why not encourage domestic oil & gas production at the same time as all green energy and deal with Russia first and global warming second?

    in reply to: Visiting the Har Habayis #2099452

    ujm, we discussed this shidduch story here. In the 2nd hand version I heard, possibly she approached him for “help with chemistry”, if I remember correctly. This does not contradict tht he was coming there for a reason, of course 🙂 Apparently, after they already met, R Moshe approached his Beit din haver R Tendler Senior and he approached the son. My deduction was that Miss Feinstein hinted that to her father somehow …

    Whatever it is, Avira who does not seem have researched this topic seems to be stuck in the stira that R Tendler is a Zionist and R Moshe is not, therefore some great tragedy might have occurred. Is it maybe possible that R Moshe was OK with a S-I-L that holds different opinions from the Rav himself?!

    in reply to: January 6th Committee Hearings #2099458

    jackk, thanks for the updates! Breathtaking. I hope the gingermint was obtained and DNA analysis done. Do keep us updated if something else important happens.

    in reply to: Visiting the Har Habayis #2099451

    Syag > You seem to have this point of gravitating towards rabbis who step over the line

    This might be a bias of the discussion here. Not many people here disrespect Rashi, so I don’t really need to comment on this. And when I quote, say, R Twersky, you don’t object, so you don’t notice that. When I quote someone I know personally, I have a fair mixture of those who have a more traditional or more modern derech. For your benefit, I mention person’s derech sometimes.

    My personal derech is to learn Torah from anyone who knows it well, whatever his derech is. And I am offended, in turn, by people who disparage someone just because they happen to disagree with them. I saw enough of Talmidei Chachamim on all sides of politics who do not behave like this.

    in reply to: GAS PRICES #2099075

    This is very enlightening threat: economy is a complicated subject and it is possible to come up with lots of technical explanations that support you – look at oil production, disregarding economy growth, etc. You may be basing your position on reading some biased sources that come up with these funny numbers. Given complexities, look at the big picture: Dems discourage oil industry in multiple ways. Thus, when prices are so high, it is partially their fault. You cam justifiably claim that it was a rational policy to, say, close all coal & gas in Germany and it “only” fell apart because of unpredictable Russians. Merkel still refuses to admit her fault, saying “at least I tried”. The answer is simple: if you put priority on possible near-term dangers, you will do all possible to mitigate possible harm. If you don’t, it is your fault. It is probably easier to see on the above German case that is being ridiculous, but situation in US is similar.

    in reply to: Gedolim #2099103

    > Moetzes itself chooses which new Rabbonim to invite i

    Moetzes selects moetzes, but they are gedolim because they have followers. Moetzes does not have a mechanism to enforce their opinions other than moral authority.

    in reply to: RECESSION 2022 #2099074

    As Reagan zogt: recession is when your neighbor loses his job, depression – when you lose it, and recovery – when Jimmy Carter loses his. He was right then, he is right now.

    We do have an option of either recession (if rates will be raised high) or inflation (if not), or none if they will be raised “just right”, or both …. The actual result is in part depends on controls that Feds and others apply, so a prediction is based on your understanding of their actions. Larry Summers brings a good analogy: a car that started skidding may fall off left shoulder or right, depending which way the wheel will be turned in panic. Presumably, the more inflation goes up, the more Fed will be trying, so the chances of ending with recession are higher than getting Weimar-type hyperinflation.

    in reply to: Visiting the Har Habayis #2099072

    Avira, exactly, you have a proof that R Moshe raised great children who presumably chose great spouses. People, even gedolim, can disagree. Stop bad-mouthing those who happen not to agree with you.

    in reply to: Gedolim #2099047

    RebE, indeed Yiftach is your answer: it is not who learns the most, or runs a bigger tisch, but who can solve the problems of that generation

    in reply to: Cell phone service Upstate #2099045

    Instead of direct call that requires good connection, use voice messages such as WhatsApp

    in reply to: Visiting the Har Habayis #2099036

    This is repeated ridiculous motzi shem ra on r Moshe. You are claiming that r Moshe got himself an inappropriate chatan out of all numerous humble students he had. You are disparaging either his own judgment or his parental abilities. Given that his sons became hoshuve rabonim, I don’t see a reason to think his daughter is different.

    in reply to: Gedolim #2098706

    Your assessment is a vote in an indirect election system. One vote can be wrong, but overall will of people will be better: if they are not neviim, they are bnei neviim

    in reply to: GAS PRICES #2098705

    For dem defenders: Biden said that he will shut down oli industry. Now, you are saying government has no role, it is all markets. So, either he, and you, lied then, or you are lying now.

    The government has a role in setting up fair markets and when it doesn’t, things go wrong.

    in reply to: Gedolim #2098401

    Yabia > Who decides who is and isn’t s Gadol?

    You do: you ask a shaila of your Rav, and your Rav when he is not sure asks another Rav; people at the top of this shailararchy are the poskim. You are always free to ask a different Rav, or your Rav can ask a different one.

    Note that your questions also determine the subject that the poskim are writing about – l’havdil the same way as the topic author in CR determines what the rest are kibittzing about

    in reply to: January 6th Committee Hearings #2098402

    jackk, thanks for doing the holy work of watching it for us and summarizing here the most mesmerizing episodes. Truly appreciate it!

    in reply to: Visiting the Har Habayis #2098340

    Moses Montefiore was aware of the ban, and tried to abide by it – he was in a fully closed box, carried around by the Muslims. He was still pelted in the best knesset and said that he won’t do it again. This was in 1855, at the end Crimean war with British having an upper hand. in 1856, Ottomans formally allowed Temple Visits (with individually paid for tickets). Baron Rotschild went up several times despite being admonished by Rabbis, including R Kook. Theodore Hertzl did not go in respect to the ban.

    in reply to: Visiting the Har Habayis #2098318

    I understand there are other issues here beyond the machloket:

    1) where is prohibited area. It seems that modern archaeology can rule out some areas not being in the mikdash. Just make sure those who make determination are not motivated by politics. I did not see charedi poskim addressing this issue, do they? maybe they do not think that current archeology reached definite conclusions.

    2) political implications aggravating not just the locals, but a billion of Muslims worldwide. This seems the main factor for the negative psak … Position to ignore that billion is definitely political and , while understandable, is very risky and should not be in hands of some crazies who can’t even get to Knesset on their own.

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