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> I’m a professional babysitter, since that’s the heter
I presume you charge competitively to other babysitters. I heard one Rav in my Father’s O’H shul explaining along the same lines that he finished law school to be able to charge them more for rabonus.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI teach computers
To do things people do not want to or do not know how to do.
Also, it is less bothersome than teaching people. computers tend to follow instructions better. Sometimes it is annoying. Do what I mean, not what I say!
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI’m saying that statistics like politics are local. You are affected by statistics of your neighborhood, your community, your friends. This statistics is not published, but you can collect it from the anecdotes and personal experience. So, personal experience useful addition to the statistics you read.
November 23, 2021 1:52 pm at 1:52 pm in reply to: Is homework for our children actually important? Does it make any difference? #2032793Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantTABaum, make a list of things you want your kids to know, be able to do AND want to do it when you are not there. Check off items that you think school is helping with (verify, do not assume). Then, work on the rest at home.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> our own experiences carry very little weight o
not always true. We read “average” numbers – for the world, country, state. You should also pay attention to your community and immediate environment. Your risk is much higher if people in your shul are coughing. Same goes for how many people are vaccinated, previously infected, etc.
you do need to tie your observations with the bigger picture, of course.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantKluger, there are 2 parts here
1) vaccinated people are less likely to get infected and sick. It was 15x less likely for the original virus and right after vaccination (Phase 3 trials Nov 2020). It is less for Delta and 6 months out, probably 5x less likely.2) even at this less likely rate, those who are infected are shedding less virus (this is what a just published paper above says) and thus are less likely to transmit.
High cases among vaccinated is due to people “rewarding” themselves – I am vaccinated, reducing my risk by 5x, now I can go to Turkey, increasing my risk by 10x.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> sends a telegram in Aramaic.
might be shorter than English when paying per letter. But Chinese is even better.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantthe practical situation is tragic, I donot have an opinion on what to do, but looking at the origins:
those who said “kids make mistakes” will be ight presuming parents/teachers/community did their part instilling the right values. Were they taught halakhos of honesty and business to the same degree as shabbos and kashrus? wih pictures, tests, illustrations, rishonim, shouting, pointing possible aveiros, kicking out of school those who do not comply, ec?As said above, if people think smuggling something “innocent” “for the family” is OK, then they are prime candidates to be ewxploited for a more serious crime. This is done by mifia, KGB, etc – compromise a person with a honeypot or unpaid taxes and then you can force him to do other things.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantYserbius, what if you had $1 mln of uninsured merchandise in the store that you mortgaged your house for? you would still do nothing? just trying to see how far your attitude goes?
November 22, 2021 11:53 pm at 11:53 pm in reply to: Is homework for our children actually important? Does it make any difference? #2032505Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantTSBaum> School is school. Home is home. If the teachers want work done, …
You hired a teacher to help you fulfill the mitzva of chinuch. If you feel like you outsourced it completely, why don’t you also outsource pru u’rvu to the school. You’ll have even more time ” to relax and do other stuff.”
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGH, yes, but Hamas is mainly digging in the wrong direction – parallel to the beach instead of from sea to sea. Maybe need to mess up with their compasses.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantScheduling emails is not yet widespread. I schedule emails for the beginning of work day so that peope do not get beeps when they sleep or feel pressured to answer if they don’t, and some people presume I am working hard at 8 am … Before pareve milk was not widespread, you were supposed to keep the package on the table.
There is also an issue of asking someone to do an action, starting from reading your email, responding, or doing some activity you asked for.
The easiest case is sending to a shomer shabbos Jew in another time zone and let him deal with whatever you need.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAlso, when we compare viral load of a sick person with and without vaccine, this is AFTER they are sick. Vaccinated people are at least 5x less likely to get sick across all age categories.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantkluger > viral loads are basically the same in vaccinated and unvaccinated patients.
just the title of the paper is sufficient here:
Lower Severe Acute Respiratory Syndrome Coronavirus 2 Viral Shedding Following Coronavirus Disease 2019 Vaccination Among Healthcare Workers in Los Angeles, California
Paul C Adamson November 2021,. The median cycle threshold (Ct) value was 20.1 (IQR, 16.9–25.1) for tests done prior to the first vaccine dose, .. 24.9 (IQR, 16.4–32.4) for tests done on or within 6 days after the second dose, and 30.4 (IQR, 20.8–34.1) for tests done 7 or more days following the second dose.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantre: Sanhedrin 72a. CM 425:1 if we are clear that he does not intend to kill, we are not allowed to kill – as clearly seen in Gemora’s discussion about father/son
interestingly, Gemora is also discussing a difference between owner and a vigilante
Pesachim 2b is ganav and a similar discussion that if it is clear to you that he is not planning to kill, you also do not.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantSyag > whomever catches it from you will get their own response regardless of how yours presented.
I agree that immune response is not directly proportional to the stimulus. Still, I’ve read a lot of articles about differences due to amount of exposure.
Btw, anecdotally, I now know more people who had it twice than vaccine breakthrough cases.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantKlugeryid, also why does it bother you that immunity is for 6 months? his is what the virus is and what scientists were able to create and test in one year. Next, let’s complain why a day has only 24 hours…. You need to learn to live with a reality provided by Hashem. If you have ideas how to improve it, please do.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantMaybe Israelis can connect Hamas tunnels under Gaza with the seas and Gaza will become an island?
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantRW, Israel up to Jordan is part of African tectonic plate, Jordan is part of Arabian. The easiest way to see how different plates match (and the source of original idea) is to cut Africa and South America from your map and then match them to each other. Play with the kids.
Abba: Israeli oil is not same as what Saudis have. In general, oil was mostly a curse for most countries except he most developed ones: Arabs, Iranians, Venezuela, Russia, etc.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantfor those looking to pour water from one place to another, first check with Egyptians and Kazakhs what kind of disasters his can create. We are not fully ready to emulate Hashem here.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantklugeryid > any other vaccine that requires a booster less than a year
n0 > Immunity can be as low as fifty percent with the annual shot.indeed, I think flu vaccine last for 6 months. The reason for annual shot is because flu is not circulating during summer. Possibly covid will adapt to a similar cycle. Note Southern sates had higher rates during summer, northern during winter – whenever people are more inside with closed windows.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGH > you’ve also found good excuses over the past 7 weeks to avoid dismantling
you are too neurotic, you need an excuse to DO something. You don’t need an excuse not to do something. To yourself, I mean, not to your spouse of course. I have simply scheduled dismantling the sukkah after taking air conditioning off. After 6 months, you are on a winning side, as every day is now CLOSER to sukkos.
> nothwithstanding cognitive decline, you can still remember whether it is by the front door,
Hey, I did not claim decline, I never remembered anything, but it is hard to forget something you bump into daily. Maybe your yard is too large.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantujm, what is your source hat you can kill someone who is not a threat to life, but only to property. Or maybe I misunderstood your words.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantThere are many Jews who occupy a position of politician’s in-laws. Clinton, Trump, Biden ..
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGH > high welfare dependency in certain communities are well known and politicians have refused to limit those payments
I don’t know who is using what sources, how would you know. There are bunch of yeshiva bochrim selling iphones on amazon. They might be losing on storage fees or be millionaires based on a hidden brochos.
as for using welfare sources, if you would have payments clearly going to Jewish recipients and community understands what it is for, then, I guess, you can say that the community is willing to support Torah studies and this is kosher. I doubt that this is the case, though. In most places, Jewish recipients are subsumed among larger numbers of non-Jews, and even when this is not so, a lot of government payments are coming from non-local sources, including federal.
Syag, if I remember correctly, claimed that government worker said to her that she is ok with supporting wonderful Jewish community. I think this is the same as when a store worker gives you free stuff – he is not the owner.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGershon Distenfeld – see WSJ article 2 days ago, a bond guy who also plays professional poker once in a while, donating all $300k of his earnings. supports a bunch of things, inlcuding a kew yeshiva in Teanack.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> LIVING LANAGUAGES EVOLVE OVER TIME
it was also spoken over multiple countries leading to geographic differences.
November 22, 2021 8:08 pm at 8:08 pm in reply to: Chasimas Hatalmud: How did it come about? #2032320Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantKivult, this seems to be the case that some Tannai had their own private records, but it is clear tha they were incomplete. For example, a recent daf had it hat R Akiva knew about machloket between b’Shammai and b’ Hillel but did not remember who said what.
r Ashi is considered to be of generation that organized Bavli, butI think academics find several later generations continued editing.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantBrain processes less video frames per second with age, so the time literally goes faster with time if you count in frames. This is not bad. I think this means that an experienced person does not need to look at the table 60 times per second to see that it is still there. Like you, I know that my sukkah is in the same place it was 2 months ago, I don’t need to look..
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantYou can also live near a shul or a kollel and save your living space. Soon, Jews will be last people to own the tree-made books. And even they. When I study with kids, I model reading from a book, while they are perusing online. We have encyclopedia and it is used once a week when I tell them some history nuggets and we need to look up details.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> Why is 300 or at least 1200 baud insufficient?
tircha detzibura, I can learn faster than that. I also remember wanting to upgrade to 2400
> And a bunch of paper to print what we are studying for Shabbos!
Save the trees! If you have good memory, you can learn by heart what you learned during the week. If you do not, you can continue learning the same small sefer again and again, like I do.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI think dead sea/Jordan is a remarkable place – it is actually a boundary between African plate and Saudi one. So, Israel is part of Africa and totally different land from Jordan. This might explain why Arabs are (un)luck to have oil, and Israel not.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantThere is a fascinating discussion there about rain being on par with giving of Torah, etc. I think what Gemorah is saying that natural sustenance that Hashem provides is no less miraculous than big events, and we need to pay attention and be grateful and study them. Appropriately, this is followed by a scientific discussion where the rain is being formed.
November 22, 2021 6:05 pm at 6:05 pm in reply to: Is homework for our children actually important? Does it make any difference? #2032298Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantToday’s WSJ has an op-ed bya Chinese guy. He says his kid is shocked by the lack of both work and homework in American schools.
One down side of the homework is that it sucks parents into devoting time encouraging/ pleading/ monitoring doing homework instead of influencing their kids directly. So, parents become teaching assistants, enjoyment is taken out of learning. I got sucked in early into thst, took me some time to realize. try to see what the kid is not learning rather than what he does, and try to enrich him with that.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantcurrently, people get benefits before investing. You get house first and then pay mortgage instead of saving first as Gemora and Rambam recommend. So, it is possible to satisfy both opinions: marry early if a person is on the way to earn a living, whether a good solid job, like a plumber, or an uncertain one, as a lawyer. Those who reach the age without preparing to support the family are either relying on the emergency measure from 80 years ago, as mentioned above, or plan to marry someone who will agree to life in poverty, whic is a heilecke ting to do, or expect to live at someone else’s expense (hopefully freely giving in-laws and donors rather than unwitting taxpayers)
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantjackk > How many other people were killed during the Kenosha protests ?
What I am saying is that the jury decided that he had a reasonable fear for his life. That is, those other guys possibly were a real threat to him. This is similar to halakha when someone digs into your house at night, you can presume that he is ready to kill you if needed to avoid arrest. Thee was a lot of property damage and when someone tried to stop them, they did not stop.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantujm> if someone (other than your parent etc) breaks into your house
in the dark, I believe. Otherwise, you can safely retreat. In this case, one might argue that he is defending whole community law & order so retreat was not an option (similar in halakha when a border city is attacked is different from regular robbery)
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> for under $80, now it is $13 a month which is $156 yearly.
that’s as fast as the price of gas.
November 21, 2021 11:46 pm at 11:46 pm in reply to: Is homework for our children actually important? Does it make any difference? #2031707Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantHazora is important for all subjects. Material goes away without it, whether kodesh or secular. Where hazora is happening is immaterial. Preferably, hazora is active – not just writing pages of boring material, but discussing, learning how to use material that you learned.
School leacture/homework approach was good when it was needed, but current technology, I think, calls for opposite. Currently, everyone goes to his little school for a lecture, and then reviews on his own. Lectures should be listened online or via recording from best teachers, and then local teachers
should help in active review. That is, you first do homework by listening material and then you go to school to discuss with the teacher. This is happening in some places with large lectures and then small seminars – both in good colleges and probably Talmud time academies (with metargumans).While we are waiting for this system to come back, parents should make sure that homework is something that activates knowledge rather than repeats the material. Someone from Brisk mentions that his father was asking him questions while walking about anything around – houses, bricks, just to make a kid think actively. Avira probably knows who it was.
November 21, 2021 11:38 pm at 11:38 pm in reply to: What seforim does every Frum house need? #2031698Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant2400 baud modem and sefaria
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI did not follow it closely, but it seems if the jury decision is reasonable, this is essentially a statement that those rioters were potential murderers en masse – that is, if KR acted in self-defense, he had a reasonable fear for his life three times. So, the other side is upset and the story might not be over and whatever happened today may the next part of it.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantRe: CDC recommendations.
CDC/FDA seem to be totally unprepared for the modern information warfare. They have virus specialists who are trained to follow conservative pathways to approved products. Then, they make public policy decisions based seemingly on their intuition. I never saw any public policy or psychology experts involved. It is not just early in the pandemic (like do not wear masks to not confuse people), or even not early in new tenure (Walensky declaring in spring that it is almost over). I listened to FDA discussion between gov personnel and questions they were asking advisory panel. It was pathetic, there was no preparation, FDA was pulling ideas out of their sleeve, they obviously never talked to these doctors in advance. At the same time, advisory panel took their job seriously and delivered reasonable results. There are lots of “leaks” and now books complaining how Trump/Warp speed “overrruled” CDC – and rightfully so, in my opinion.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantRW, please tell us what is your source for all this information. We gave you numbers and references several times and you continue stating absolute statements like “It wasn’t effective against delta variant”. Please specify what it means and what is the source for your data.
November 20, 2021 9:11 pm at 9:11 pm in reply to: When will all Yidden finally have Achdus? #2031095Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantSyag> all different kinds of opinions and speakers, even if it is heretical or apikorsus,
where did you get it, I am not sure.> laud the Rambam’s secular knowledge because you think it is proof you should go out and do the same.
I am not saying everyone should. And I would think if Rambam would think that he should be the last Jewish person to learn science, he would say so. Please provide a citation. I would not be surprised that he would define some limitations, I would be interested to learn specifically.
I do not want to get into personalities, but I am not sure what is your issue w/ R Steinsaltz. I never heard anything inappropriate from him, and I saw with my own eyes totally non-modern yeshivish and Chassidish Rabonim (including at least one from your town) either sitting at the same table or participating in worthy initiatives started by R Steinsaltz.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantRW > vaccines will take at least 2 years but suddenly we have 4 vaccines in less than a year,
I think this demonstrates total infantilization of the population, Jewish included. We are fortunate to live in a country that did not have major upheaval for a long time, everyone is used of having government and businesses to provide consistent service and information. When there is a pandemic, someone is supposed to tell us when and how vaccines will be provided. This is total denial of Hashem’s power over the world and total ingratitude to those people – scientists, Trump’s Warp speed team – who worked to try to save you from this magefah. All you care about inconsistencies in what they told you.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantgood news – Austria is not doing a lockdown on unvaxxed only, they are switching to locking everyone!
Also, you need to appreciate the difference between a culture that is based on obedience is different from USA that is based on personal freedom. Those people would not cross the road on red light if there is nobody around. And we know that they follow the leaders even in most immoral endeavors …
So, in general, I prefer American independent spirit, but there is a place for everything. “Middos” mean “measures” – they need to be applied appropriately.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantklugeryid, thanks, you presented a logical argument that I can follow. I would still be interested in a source of the facts you claim, but can reply regardless
>> But it doesn’t prevent you from getting covid ??
Vaccines reduce rate of infection and transmission, just not to the same degree as hospitalization
Most clusters seem to be based on an unvaxxed person to a group of vaxxed and not much after that. I did not hear about big vaxxed clusters (other than a case of Provincetown where thousands of people packed into bars for several days)>> they can infect grandma.
absolutely true. again, vaccine reduces a chance of this happening and reduces amount of transmitted virus giving grandma a chance to survive. I think anyone who is in regular contact with older people should be up on their vaxes and boosters, including kids. Among many Talmidei Chachamim who passed from Covid, I was particular struck by petirah of R Dr Twersky. He has medical background, so we can presume that he understood the danger, but he was in a wheelchair and at mercy of people around him. I saw the video of the funeral … sad.>> Kids: it might be dangerous for them, and kids are basically safe from covid
If your kids are in an institution with lots of people, bad ventilation, and uncareful community, your kid has a high chance of getting COVID. Then, the question is – what is more risk in a long term: a novel vaccine or a novel virus. Vaccine was at least designed by people who love life and tested as much as possible, while virus came either from a bat or from military scientists. Also, vaccine generates mostly a “fake” response, while virus actually destroys internal organs.If your kids are not exposed to the virus, then it is a different issue. I would also test kids for antibodies before giving vaccine.
November 19, 2021 12:52 pm at 12:52 pm in reply to: When will all Yidden finally have Achdus? #2030881Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantSyag > One day he said something a bit off. Later he did it again .. He was “un acknowledged”.
This is good as long as you define “a bit off”. A typical “off” (from today’s Taanis Daf) would be a talmid chacham whose middos are not appropriate, who is not doing what they are preaching, rough on people, etc. On the other hand, some people define “off” as a thought process departing from accepted in their community. In the latter case, there is some benefit of listening to a T’Ch of a different approach just to appreciate different aspects of Torah, even if you do not plan to subscribe to his views. But maybe you get enough of this medicine here.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGadol > Studies on benefits for those already infected seem to suggest some benefits
I think it is clear that at least one vaccine is beneficial for anyone who is suitable to learn Kabbalah or does not spend their time building up their muscles. I suspect this covers all of us.
I am not sure how to deal with the excessive requirements of “full vax” for those who were sick once or twice. Is this policy excessive or is it “lo plug” to make sure everyone gets something, or maybe policy makers are afraid of providing wrong incentives? Imagine if a certified sickness would let you get on a plane or into the stadium? Imagine how many idiots will actually go out of their way to get sick quickly. Virus parties …
Maybe we should have such virus parties for remaining anti-vaxxers and natural immuners after new drugs are available: expose them in a controlled environment for 15 minutes instead of waiting until they meet their virus for 5 hours somewhere. If they had previous immunity, they would be protected, no problem. So, instead of weekly PCR tests – weekly 15 minutes in a room with aerosoled COVID.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantEvery Jew is a celelbrity. Especially if you “look Jewish” or “dress Jewish”. People are looking at you and judging Jewish people/Torah/Hashem accordingly. Not my words.
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