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November 30, 2011 8:26 pm at 8:26 pm in reply to: Why do ONLY seminary girls get to learn navi? #859005apushatayidParticipant
Are saying that your knowledge of Tanach is limited to the pesukim brought down in the Yeshivishe messechtos? That makes you an expert in what, 5% of tanach? 10%? If you would learn the entire shas, you would be an expert in 30%, 40%?
November 30, 2011 8:18 pm at 8:18 pm in reply to: Why do ONLY seminary girls get to learn navi? #859004apushatayidParticipantPBA, your sarcasm is duly noted.
November 30, 2011 4:35 pm at 4:35 pm in reply to: Why do ONLY seminary girls get to learn navi? #859000apushatayidParticipant“R shach said that you end up learning nach from gemara.”
That might be true if you learn the gemara like Rav Shach. When the gemara brings a passuk for any reason, how many learners today actually know what the passuk is talking about and its relevance to the gemara? How many bother to look up the passuk, its context within the perek, have an understanding of the passuk means and then try and fit it back into the gemara? When a Tanna or Amora (or even a Rishon or Achron) brings a passuk it is because they know what the passuk means already. Its application to the gemara is understood by them. Todays learners?
apushatayidParticipantIt is easier to try and change the world than to try and change yourself.
November 30, 2011 4:12 pm at 4:12 pm in reply to: A Jew should lose profit to stop a Non-Jew from sinning. #831122apushatayidParticipantToeva marriages have not extended to horses just yet.
apushatayidParticipantDownload google chrome. On the google homepage one of the things you can subscribe to is a yo mama joke. Every morning when you open your browser you will be treated to something like, yo mama so old when she was in school, she was making history, or yo mama so short, she plays handball on the curb. or yo mama so dumb, yesterday I saw her laughing and I asked her why, she held up a puzzle and told me, says here 2-4 years, I did it in 3 weeks.
apushatayidParticipantI dont know who “they” are, who stopped “it” due to tznius concerns, if you can pass a message to them, please ask them to keep an eye on the bachurim dancing at the next chasuna they attend. Please ask “them” to keep a close eye, especially during the second dance. They might consider banning the second dance with some of the gyrations performed.
November 30, 2011 6:02 am at 6:02 am in reply to: Articel on NY Post Web-site on religious Jews child abuse #832443apushatayidParticipantFor those stating Rabbonim are not doing anything, covering up etc.. Did anyone listen to Rav Oelbaum speak on this subject? Lecture can be found at torahanytime.com
November 30, 2011 1:35 am at 1:35 am in reply to: Articel on NY Post Web-site on religious Jews child abuse #832430apushatayidParticipantI think it goes hand in hand. Rav Moshe writes in a teshuva that people distort his opinion even though he is around to refute them. If someone does not have a Rav, and looks to hear what the Rav says from an outside source, then he will get a distorted message.
apushatayidParticipantIts a lot easier for a man to blame all of todays problems on women who are not dressed appropriately. This way they dont have to do any self introspection. Do they come to davening on time? Do they refrain from talking during davening? Do they daven with kavanah or do they have one eye on the siddur and one on a sefer? Do they keep to their sedarim or do they take an inordinate number of breaks? Do they drive down the street in a manner that makes you wonder if you are walking alongside the Indianapolis speedway? Why think about those and other important things when it is simple to blame it all on someone else. Since day one, when Adam used Chava as an excuse, men have been blaming women.
I was on 18th avenue today and the vast majority of Jewish women in the street were dressed appropriately, I suppose had I gone looking for the exception, I might have found it, but unlike some men, I dont go looking for it.
apushatayidParticipantHe makes some good suggestions and points, and like all suggestions not all are applicable or sensible in all situations.
apushatayidParticipantYes, but now that you let the cat out of the bag, ignorance is no longer an excuse 🙂
November 29, 2011 10:28 pm at 10:28 pm in reply to: A Jew should lose profit to stop a Non-Jew from sinning. #831115apushatayidParticipantAre they suspect of this sin today?
November 29, 2011 9:45 pm at 9:45 pm in reply to: A Jew should lose profit to stop a Non-Jew from sinning. #831112apushatayidParticipantAre non jews today suspected of this sin?
November 29, 2011 9:35 pm at 9:35 pm in reply to: Articel on NY Post Web-site on religious Jews child abuse #832422apushatayidParticipantyitayningwut, what you say about Rabbonim is true. However, much of what is claimed in the name of Rabbonim comes from self declared “askanim” who are the political element you mentioned. I think a lot of cynicism about “Rabbonim” (and not just about this topic) is that most people have never heard a gadol declare anything, but have heard plenty from self declared mouthpieces whether in the press or elsewhere. That stems from another sorry state of affairs, many people do not have a Rav to call upon and ask or discuss anything and are left trying to sort out what “rabbonim” might have said from newspapers, the blogosphere or from someone at a kiddush in shul.
apushatayidParticipantGAW. Even if it wasnt clear, the question wasnt directed to you per se. My comment was address to those whose comments were behind your statement.
November 29, 2011 8:59 pm at 8:59 pm in reply to: Articel on NY Post Web-site on religious Jews child abuse #832420apushatayidParticipantDid anyone listen to the lecture from Rav Oelbaum on this topic?
apushatayidParticipantPoints well taken. Question. If you disagree with the hashkafos taught by the school/seminary why are you (or your children) in that school?
apushatayidParticipantTell him to go home.
apushatayidParticipantI doubt the teacher has an ulterior motive. The teacher is probably repeating what she asked her own husband or rav.
November 29, 2011 3:48 pm at 3:48 pm in reply to: Articel on NY Post Web-site on religious Jews child abuse #832409apushatayidParticipantRav Noach Isaac Oelbaum Shlit’a of Kew Gardens Hills gave a lecture back in January titled “Guidlines for Mesira Regarding Child Abuse”. You can listen to the lecture online, or download it and listen wherever and whenever. You can find this lecture on torahanytime.com (search under speaker for Rav Oelbaum and scroll back towards January 2011. Lecture was given sometime in early January. It is an easy listen. His English is impeccable.
apushatayidParticipantask your father to ask the family rav. or call him yourself. or call the rebbetzin and ask her to ask the rav. or have your mother call the rebbetzin. lots of options. asking here, probably one of the worst options.
November 29, 2011 4:49 am at 4:49 am in reply to: WHAT'S THE PERCENTAGE OF TRUTH THAT PASSES THROUGH THIS PLACE.. #830716apushatayidParticipantPeople are reading too many spy novels.
November 28, 2011 8:58 pm at 8:58 pm in reply to: Eating at peoples houses with teenage daughters? #984067apushatayidParticipantActually, if one would read the subject of the thread it seems to imply eating alone with the teenaged daughter of someone else, but I dont think the poor writing skills confused anyone.
Unless the girl is 19 how many teenagers are in shidduchim? Is this thread about chassidim or communities where 16 and 17 year old girls are in shidduchim? why assume this is an issue of those in shidduchim. I guess I am guilty of assuming that the OP was addressing a scenario where a family has say a 15 yr old daughter and they invite a 17 yr old boy (or something similar).
Again, to those who stated that it is OK for a Rav or Rebbe to invite male guests with their teenaged daughters at the table and not OK for someone else to do the same, they simply failed to explain the difference, at least to me.
November 28, 2011 8:46 pm at 8:46 pm in reply to: Articel on NY Post Web-site on religious Jews child abuse #832392apushatayidParticipantSay what you want about the content of the article. The accompanying photo (a chassidishe man davening at the kosel – or a darn good mock up of the scene) leaves me wondering what the photo has to do with the story and if the author has an overall agenda against the orthodox community in general, and chassidim in particular.
apushatayidParticipant“if R Gifter said it we can, too;”
If you hold yourself to be on the level of Rav Gifter, then I guess it is OK for you to say that. What’s next, a post from you calling Rav Yonasan Eibesitz some choice adjectives, for after all, if the Yaavetz could, so could you.
November 25, 2011 3:49 pm at 3:49 pm in reply to: Eating at peoples houses with teenage daughters? #984046apushatayidParticipant“There is a difference between yiras hachait, and yiras haonesh.”
You are implying that the only yira people have is for their Rabbeim and the onesh that would come if they tick off the Rebbe.
Many people also have yiras shamayim, are endowed with seichel and know when it is and is not appropriate and under what circumstances situations such as being discussed are avoided and not avoided.
November 24, 2011 7:55 pm at 7:55 pm in reply to: Why do ONLY seminary girls get to learn navi? #858986apushatayidParticipant“Look! Someone collected all of the pesukim in Shas into one book.”
If I’m not mistaken, the Sasregener Rebbe Shlita put together such a sefer. He explains the passuk so it makes some sense why the gemara quoted where it does.
November 24, 2011 7:35 pm at 7:35 pm in reply to: Eating at peoples houses with teenage daughters? #984036apushatayidParticipant“You would sit there literally afraid to turn your head away from him.”
I have a neighbor whose guests feel the same way. That he is about 6′ 5″ probably has a lot to do with it.
apushatayidParticipantI’m having macaroni and cheese, just dont tell pat robertson.
apushatayidParticipantThe Fedora is a must have fashion accessory this season. “Celebrities” such as Beyonce have been wearing them.
November 24, 2011 6:02 pm at 6:02 pm in reply to: What is the hashkafa at Rabbi Chate's Yeshiva? #841143apushatayidParticipantIs there a rule that says if someone claims the hashkafa of a yeshiva is hellenism it must be accepted at face value?
November 24, 2011 6:00 pm at 6:00 pm in reply to: Eating at peoples houses with teenage daughters? #984029apushatayidParticipantYour grasping at straws here.
apushatayidParticipantI think they are showing solidarity with the NBA Players Union.
November 24, 2011 4:44 pm at 4:44 pm in reply to: Eating at peoples houses with teenage daughters? #984024apushatayidParticipant“No where in my post did it say anything about eating at the RY’s or Rebbi’s house.”
Are their teenaged daughters somehow different?
apushatayidParticipant“and if R Mordche Gifter Ztl called him that i can too.”
Actually, no you cant. You are not R’ Gifter.
apushatayidParticipantModerators must be camped out somewhere for a black friday sale.
apushatayidParticipantBoro Park, even in the worst traffic is less than a 15 minute walk 🙂
I am a big fan of traveling less whenever possible.
apushatayidParticipant“Years ago, when my husband was there, guys wore color shirts at Mirrer. They’d probably be kicked out now.”
No the wont. They would probably would point out the leaky faucet and stuffed toilet. (thats a joke).
November 24, 2011 12:19 pm at 12:19 pm in reply to: What is the hashkafa at Rabbi Chate's Yeshiva? #841140apushatayidParticipanthashkafa rule number 1. spell his name correctly
rule number 2. ignore personal attacks and invective from anonymous bloggers.
November 24, 2011 2:28 am at 2:28 am in reply to: Why do ONLY seminary girls get to learn navi? #858981apushatayidParticipantThere is an over emphasis on Tanach in girls schools because being able to write a 77 page essay comparing and contrasting the understanding of the Ralbag, Rashi and Sforno in sefer yirmiyahu will give one the ability to be a better wife and mother. Guys don’t have a need to be a better wife and mother, hence, no emphasis on Tanach in yeshivos.
apushatayidParticipantI don’t like Lakewood because it is 90 minutes from Brooklyn. If it was closer, I might go more often.
November 24, 2011 1:58 am at 1:58 am in reply to: Eating at peoples houses with teenage daughters? #984013apushatayidParticipant“Yes, RY and Rabbeim will not let bochurim go to places that have tennage girls”
Interesting….I was an invited guest at the home of my RY and many Rabbeim, all who had teenaged daughters present at the table.
As for young couples inviting each other…my Rabbeim stressed the importance of the different families in the kollel to be close and encouraged the families to invite each other for meals.
I suppose individual circumstances vary and each family/couple must use their seichel when inviting company.
(Perhaps things were different when I was a teenager/newly married 15-20 years ago.)
apushatayidParticipantAs a matter of practicality, sewing might be a better subject to teach girls than “an in depth look at how 17 classicalmeforshei tanach analyze sefer iyov” and then ask the girls to write a 42 page essay summarizing the 17 opinions and to contrast it with how these same miforshim understand the 1st perek in sefer chabakuk.
apushatayidParticipantPerhaps Gefen is an OB?
apushatayidParticipantCorey Perry is not taking Anaheim to the cup anytime soon.
apushatayidParticipantI guarantee the Rambam did not learn American history.
apushatayidParticipantThere are fingers to point all around. At females who dress in a way they know they shouldn’t. At the husbands and fathers who allow their wives and daughters to dress a certain way, and the frum storekeepers who stock and sell clothing they know they should not. The same is true of males who dress in a way that they should not, but the thread seems to focus on specific females, so will leave the males for a separate thread.
November 23, 2011 7:35 pm at 7:35 pm in reply to: Eating at peoples houses with teenage daughters? #983994apushatayidParticipantWhat is the connection between teenagers and shidduchim? Are you advocating something new?
apushatayidParticipantWell, since the troll and his alter ego are gone….
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