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i actually did, eclipse….
but that was a good question, honestly i tried putting iknow as my user name, but it was already taken.
the more i know, the more i realize how little ikno!
eclipse, seems like me n u are the only ones on now, we sld chat, hey mods can you make that an option? like to see which users are actively logged in at any time….
if you are looking for a program fro women, then sister to sister does help, but they have limited resources, they do the best they can but can use much more support…
and for the men, i beieve there is a program called avos al banim…. look it up…
hatzlacha, and may our father on high help all the fatherless, motherless and parentless.
nothing is impossible, the word itself says, i’m possible..
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i’m back! too tempting…… and i hope i’ll only do good stuff here…
art-of-moi, i wish i can give you my phone number, and speak to you face to face. i know what you’re going through, i’ve been there, done that. stay strong! keep your chin up! create stepping stones out of your stumbling blocks.
i teach girls your age, so i really do understand where you are coming from. you can ask the mods for my email…..
and daven, it always works!
also, keep looking out for proofs of how hashme loves you, because he’s your father too. when things go tough, straighten your back and think how your father in heaven is doing this because he truly loves you.
one little example of when i make t a point to see his love,
i was once shopping and wanted to get a new lipstick, and th mac one that i wanted was 25$ and i could not afford it at that time. (men, warning:next sentence might make you snort. )
but it was something that i really wanted and felt would make me happy. i was really upset not to get it and was upset the whole afternoon. (i was also upset because my dad is well able to afford it but chose to ignore my existence when i needed him..)
later that day, i was in another store and bought a bag of candy and when i came home, i saw it was open. so i went back to return it, and they asked to see my receipt. when i gave it to them i noticed on the back it had a coupon for a few free lipstick, the exact one that i wanted….
look for it and you’ll find so many hugs that he keeps sending you in all different ways…
and one more thing, “life is like a roller coaster, it has its ups and downs, but, its your choice to scream or enjoy the ride”
and, “i am grateful to the difficult people in my life, they have shown me how i don’t want to be”
you know what, i think i will do the same, if she can, so can i!
wow! i really admire you for what you are doing… when someone makes a sacrifice for yiddishkeit, its a huge eis ratzon, please utilize it!
you know what this reminds me of?
i was teaching my students how it will all be good when moshiach comes,and there will be techiyas hameisim, and one of my precious students asked me, “so when mshiach comes, i am just gonna be able to go over to sarah imeinu’s house and say tehillim with her?! and maybe she’ll even say, my husband is in this week’s parsha!”
and mods, i think wiy deserves a subtitle! maybe put it as, mod interpreter?
thank you wiy!
mods, if thats y u did it, hats off to you! kol hakavod for doing such an amazing job!
thank you syag, i was asking a real question, and i dont see why it had to disappear, and furthermore without an explanation! i’m sure the mods are working hard, and they are doing a great job, but i’m not a troll or a joseph, i was just speaking my mind in full honesty. please put my thread back on, and if you feel that some parts aren’t belonging in the coffee room than edit those…
thank you in advance 🙂
thank you mods…? and now can i please have an explanation?
mods, can i get a subtitle for the unneccessary agrivation i was caused in the past 24 hours? i can’t seem to find a reason for the disappearing of my very legitimate thread…. legally and halachically i deserve an explanation…:(
its the question asked every time you see a pic of anything like that happening, like seeing a man slipping off a roof. why u standing there taking pics?! maybe save his life!
its possible that this was all photo-shopped…. and yes, of course you should try to save it, because its possible that the reason you witnessed this was bec hashem wanted you to be there, see it, and do something about it…. He’s got a plan for each of us every minute!
znus and pritzus
there’s this video o ani maamin that i show to my kirv students, i forgot where i got it from google ani maamin videos…. its an amazing video that shows how this certain song was composed on the way to auschewitz, i have seen it impact my tougher students when nothing else does…
keepitcoming- it must be really frustrating for you, but remember it doesnt matter how many they set you up with, there’s one fabulous one waiting for you out there, its just a matter of time till he’ll come around…:) stay with your convictions because its something you’ll live with bezyras hashem for the rest of your life..you are completely right in being frustrated, just stay strong, and keep smiling!
goq- + 1,000,000
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rebyidd23- go shluff! don’t waste so much time! save some posts for tmrw….
the only thing that came to mind when reading this post is that light must travel faster than sound, therefore, most people appear bright til you hear them speak…:)
please no one take offense..
why dont you head a school production which is practice mainly during the day…..(talking from experience..:})
i learnt so much from my mistakes, i’m thinking of making a few more!
i switch off between my denim and black dress skirts every day…. i always hope my students dont get bored of them because i haven’t found any other ones that i like…:)
good question!
this site is becoming very lashon hora’dig… and onaaas devarim..
nothing happens by mine when i do it….
147- heaven should help those that cant be with their father, because he is abusive, should never have to be with him even one minute in their life. you must be saying this statement out of shelteredness. unfortunately today’s crazy court system has no clue how to care about the children involved, when it comes to custody. read up on all the stories that happen when an abusive father or mother have visitation…. how, many of them kill, molest, and damage their own kids..
such as…..?
art-of-moi, you have to stop being so worried , it’ll all be good!
when moshiach comes all silliness will fall aside, and i dont think its fair to knock each sect….
if you wanna look at the big and bad parts, it will be…. focus on the beauty and the good people in it.
and dont look at the news…lol!
eclipse, you back?
i forgot the exact details, but there’s a story that a rav asked a boy where he learnt and he said ner yisroel. and then he quickly added not the bt one , im not a baal tshuva. and his rav asked him, why not?
please do not be embarrassed….. whatever works for you. you should never be embarrassed when doing the right thing in hashem eyes.
i didnt mean it that you can’t argue….
this quote was meant as a chizuk for after someone was niftar…. when Hashem decides to end something, we may not have questions. we have to realize its all for the best.
if you can argue with idols, then obviously then they have no power, so why would u be even tempted to worship something that has no power/ where would that get you?
here’s something thats a garuantee to make you smile or groan…..
they’re openng a new sem for girls the same type as the boys that go to BMG, like a girl’s version….
and they’re calling it OMG!
the rabeinu yona says that before a person is born, hashem asks him if he accepts his life challenges, and the person has a full choice, and the gan eden for such a person is undescribable… so we all chose our lives, they may be tough but it was our choice…
another sharp line heard from a chashuva person,
“where hashem puts a period, we don’t put a question mark”
as a teacher, i tell you that its impossible that your teacher means it in the bad way, but as a still hurting student, i can fully empathize with you…. i went through a lot of hard times in the school system, so now on the other side of the desk, i try my utmost to truly care for each and every student to my maximum ability.
but, i would also tell you that there are many great teachers that really do care about their students… find one of those and explain to them how you feel. and if its not a teacher, it can be any role model that you trust.
and, perhaps, maybe there is something that you can change that will make it easier for you to feel differently about your teachers…
reb doniel, u have a spelling mistake, you wrote kocha- its wrong! it sounds a little too jewish… big bad problem… you have to write kokha/koha… its a hesed to keep to the same things throughout so that people can understand them..
country yossi’s best
thank you sharp!
p.s. sarah schneirer was divorced, so reb doniel, if she would have had children from that failed marriage, would they have also had mental issues?
yitzchakm- what about the stigma is true?! that hashem sent them int this world through parents that didnt stay married?! how is that bad to them?!
reb doniel- thank you for your deepest wishes, and its the same hard to make a “regular” shidduch ,than to make lieke wht you said a special shidduch……
and for the post befire that one, since you are so experienced, i challenge you to meet me and diagnose me with even one mental illness…. go ahead!
and here-to-help, you are so right, my struggles have made me, not borken me, i know so many people coming from single-parent homes that are such wonderful sensitive individuals who care about people so much more than those who have never known the feeling of rejection..
just a little thing i wanted to point out….. hashem is the master shadchan and he specializes in all shidduchim….
Everyone’s home is a little broken. In some the breaks are just a little more visible than in others.- great line!
Children from broken homes do not deserve shidduchim.- secular frummy for your sake, i hope you were being sarcastic!
are you marrying the family, or the girl/boy? look how yitzchak married rivka despite having lavan as a brother and besual as a fatehr…. people have to stop being so narrow minded! yes, my parents are divorced and we are a very happy single parent family. i feel that i am so much more capable of being a better wife and mom now that i’ve seen the flip side. i am not going into marriage with illusions of fairy tales like some others who havent tasted hardship are. i’m going equipped with the right guidance and tools how not to repeat the mistakes of those who have hurt me and my mom……
“i thank the difficult people in my life, for they have shown me who i don’t want to be.”
“i love those who are in my life and make it amazing, and i thank those who have left my life, and made it even more fantastic!”
why is someone for a broken home a different breed?
lost1970, you sound like a jack of all trades, is there anything u dont do?