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  • in reply to: Bochurim on YWN #2076402
    ujm
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    In the early days of the coffee room it was chock full of young maidelech. (Check the decade old threads.)

    in reply to: Gruesome Evidence Points to War Crimes in Ukraine #2076276
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    Avram, your last comment is legally incorrect. The ICC is an international agreement only binding upon its signatories. Its rules, statues and agreements are not international law or binding upon any non-signatories. That’s a legal fact that isn’t under dispute.

    The ICC has no jurisdiction to indict or request extradition of any parties or state nationals, that committed any gruesome acts outside any jurisdiction not party to the ICC.

    in reply to: Is there any difference between a religion and a cult? #2076268
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    Avira,

    Rav Avrohom Pam ZTVK”L signed a letter supporting R. Helbrans, YBL”C Rav Dovid Schustel Shlit”a made a parlor meeting in his house supporting R. Helbrans. So did the Bobover Rebbe, the Skulener Rebbe, the Melbourner, and twenty other Gedolei Yisroel come out in support of him.

    in reply to: Gruesome Evidence Points to War Crimes in Ukraine #2076264
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    Avram, Russia is not party to the Rome Statute of the ICC and its rules are not international law binding upon non-signatories.

    in reply to: OMNI vs Metrocard #2076212
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    Any credit card with the contactless feature (it’ll have that wireless symbol on your card), which is almost any card issued these days, can be used to pay the bus/subway OMNI system, without anything else. No smartphone or special card needed.

    in reply to: Where do Israeli Charedim vacation? #2076145
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    I live in Meah Shearim part of the year.

    in reply to: shidduch prospects #2076092
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    “I think you’ve been reading too many magazines.”

    Probably AMI and Mishpacha.

    in reply to: Gruesome Evidence Points to War Crimes in Ukraine #2076054
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    Avira, your point is valid. But, unless I missed it, I didn’t see anyone saying Ukrainian citizens aren’t suffering.

    in reply to: shidduch prospects #2076055
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    Avira, well said.

    in reply to: OMNI vs Metrocard #2076056
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    I’m still using tokens to pay for the subway. Don’t know much about these newfangled stuff like MetroCards.

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2076010
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    Ari, you’d benefit from having your father strange a shidduch for you with a girl’s father. Once the two fathers agree, you’d meet the girl. After the meeting and both agreeing, they set a wedding date for you.

    in reply to: Where do Israeli Charedim vacation? #2076012
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    Israeli chareidim don’t vacation. They use their money wisely. For the essentials. They don’t have much more than that, nor do they wish or need more than that.

    in reply to: Gruesome Evidence Points to War Crimes in Ukraine #2075564
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    Avira, what about Russian Yidden?

    in reply to: shidduch prospects #2075563
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    No.

    in reply to: Is there any difference between a religion and a cult? #2075562
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    Christianity is a cult. It’s founder, who claimed to be g-d, was a cult leader. It’s claims are as absurd as they get.

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2075387
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    “I don’t recall the name of the Rov”

    Rabbi Steven Pruzansky.

    in reply to: Gruesome Evidence Points to War Crimes in Ukraine #2075386
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    Good luck trying to get Russia to extradite Putin to the ICC.

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2075043
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    The divorce rate in Frum communities where the parents are less (or not) involved in the Shidduch research and selection is significantly higher than in the communities where the parents are more involved.

    in reply to: Hours before attack: venomous headline in Haaretz #2074966
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    Marxist: The Zionists collaborated with the Nazis. For example, Rudolf Kastner with Adolf Eichmann.

    in reply to: BACK PEYOS OR FRONT PEYOS? #2074926
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    TS Baum, the Arizal is saying that they shouldn’t be longer than the beard; and if they are longer than the beard, then you should cut them to be less long than past the beard. But he writes to not to cut them before the point that they reach the beard.

    in reply to: Mods? Mods? #2074924
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    Mods, Did my new thread entitled Keitzad Merakdim come through on Erev Shabbos?

    don’t see it anywhere

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2074815
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    Dr. Pepper, you are the kindest, most gentle, sensitive and thoughtful poster on this forum. By a wide margin. That’s without even speaking of your superior intelligence. (No offense intended towards squeak.) I’m very confident that telling a poster that he’s bitter (or worse) isn’t something you’ve previously directly said to anyone here. And doubtlessly you’ve had ample opportunities in the well over a decade you’ve graced us with your special presence.

    If I’m wrong about the above I’ll eat my words. But I know that I am not.

    All that said, addressing a person’s bitterness isn’t necessarily a negative. Indeed it can be helpful in assisting your interlocutor address that very issue that you’ve identified to him. Also note that while it was strong and sharp comparative to your previous comments, in the grand scheme of conversations it certainly was far from being a harsh comment. I merely noticed that it was outside the typical tone of a comment coming from yourself.

    Ah Gut Shabbos and ah Gutten Chodesh!

    in reply to: How much hand shmurah matzah should I buy? #2074774
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    Godol: Are you agreeing with me again? I must say that it seems to start becoming a trend with you.

    in reply to: Lubavitch – Mitzvah Tantz? #2074757
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    Millhouse: But is it unheard of for a Lubavitcher to attend a non-Lubavitch chasuna? (i.e. I’m not referring specifically to Lubavitch.)

    By the way, in Lubavitch the Kallah doesn’t go to the men’s section for Keitzad Merakdim?

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2074726
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    Dr. Pepper, I must say that, firstly, your most recent comment is absolutely on target, appropriate and correct. But more pointedly I I feel compelled to note that this comment is the strongest, sharpest and most stinging comment I’ve ever seen you post in all your 13+ years of posting to this site — and I’ve certainly read the vast majority of what you’ve written here.

    Again, justifiably so.

    in reply to: How much hand shmurah matzah should I buy? #2074641
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    Warm up the Matzahs long after Pesach, and will feel and taste very fresh.

    in reply to: How much hand shmurah matzah should I buy? #2074639
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    Warm up the Matzahs long after Pesach, and will feel and taste very fresh.

    in reply to: How much hand shmurah matzah should I buy? #2074640
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    Warm up the Matzahs long after Pesach, and will feel and taste very fresh.

    in reply to: Lubavitch – Mitzvah Tantz? #2074638
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    Leiby Wasser: You never saw a contingent of women come from the women’s section into the men’s section with the Kallah for Keitzad Merakdim?

    And have you, ever, heard anyone insist everyone must have a Mitzvah Tantz, even if it was never their Minhag?

    in reply to: BACK PEYOS OR FRONT PEYOS? #2074636
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    The famous picture drawing of the Baal HaTanya seems to show big Peyos. More than the typical Lubavitcher today.

    in reply to: Hours before attack: venomous headline in Haaretz #2074635
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    Haaretz is the Zionist version of Der Sturmer.

    in reply to: BACK PEYOS OR FRONT PEYOS? #2074637
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    The famous picture drawing of the Baal HaTanya seems to show big Peyos. More than the typical Lubavitcher today.

    in reply to: Hours before attack: venomous headline in Haaretz #2074634
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    Haaretz is the Zionist version of Der Sturmer.

    in reply to: Daylight Savings time #2074410
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    Wolf: Are these the kinds of jokes you share during laining? (One of your admitted aveiras is constantly talking during laining.)

    P.S. Still waiting for your response in the King Charles and Queen Camilla thread.

    in reply to: Lubavitch – Mitzvah Tantz? #2074304
    ujm
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    And Keitzad Merakdim, when they bring the Kallah into the men’s section (and in the not so Frum circles dozens of other women slip into the men’s section with the Kallah) is more Tzniusdik??

    in reply to: Washing on Pizza #2074023
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    @ujm
    “Everyone must have a Rov.”

    “Source?”

    Pirkei Avos. Common sense. And that’s how Klal Yisroel has always acted for thousands of years.

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2073967
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    Ari: Because then you might become smitten with infatuation before finding out the match is inappropriate due to background reasons.

    in reply to: Lubavitch – Mitzvah Tantz? #2073958
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    Reb Eliezer, what is a “macarena” dance?

    in reply to: Washing on Pizza #2073938
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    “Not everyone has a Rav. (I am not saying the OP doesn’t necessarily, just that there are people that don’t)”

    Everyone must have a Rov.

    If one doesn’t have one he would act the same way he would if he had no pair of pants.

    in reply to: Washing on Pizza #2073940
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    *should

    in reply to: Lubavitch – Mitzvah Tantz? #2073614
    ujm
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    Are you asking about currently or regarding prewar Lubavitch?

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2073553
    ujm
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    The Kallah’s family providing the Choson a dowry is a very strong Yiddishe minhag from ancient times through modern times that is well established and proper.

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2073528
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    follick2, You’re declaring that 3,000+ years of how our Yiddishe Zaidas and Bubbes made shidduchim, starting from Avrohom Avinu for Yitzchok Avinu all the way through European Ashkenaz, Eretz Yisroel, the Sefardic communities, Teimanim as well as all sectors of Klal Yisroel all got it wrong and, finally, after 3,000 years you figured out the right way to change things?

    in reply to: BACK PEYOS OR FRONT PEYOS? #2073443
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    Avira, which comment is your last one responding to?

    in reply to: Washing on Pizza #2073352
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    Basing it on the number of slices can be misleading because one pizza stores single slice is equal in size to another store’s two slices.

    in reply to: BACK PEYOS OR FRONT PEYOS? #2073194
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    Yitz17: Read the full thread. All Litvishe Yidden used to have long Peyos hanging down from the sides of their faces; and not behind their ears.

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2073207
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    It has always been the Yiddishe way, for millennium, for the parents to make the shidduch decisions.

    The kids making these decisions, to the extent it even happens (hopefully not too extensive), is a purely American thing without precedent in Jewish history.

    Of course the boy and girl must agree to marry each other, that’s always been the case, but virtually everything up to that point always has, and should, go through the parents and shadchanim.

    in reply to: BACK PEYOS OR FRONT PEYOS? #2072582
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    abooseinak: The Chasidim didn’t get it from the Teimanim. As was pointed out, all Ashkenazim used to have such Peyos even long before Chasidim existed. When the Goyim started forcing Jews to abandon having such Peyos most non-Chasidim didn’t resist those antisemitic decree whereas most Chasidim did resist and persisted in continuing to maintain such long Peyos hanging from the sides.

    in reply to: Ideas wanted on how to find a chavrusa #2072394
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    commonsaychel: It would be easier for you to point out every poster who is not a troll rather than informing us all everytime of everyone who is.

    in reply to: BACK PEYOS OR FRONT PEYOS? #2072391
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    When/why did the Sefardim stop letting their Peyos hang from the sides of their faces? They weren’t subject to the Russian bans against Peyos and Jewish dress.

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