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  • in reply to: Owning a Dog #922230
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    Any personal experience with workarounds for neutering a pet? It’s assur min haTorah to neuter an animal (see yesterday’s daf), but I’m wondering if you can temporarily sell it to a non-Jew or something like that. (Of course, I’d ask a posek, but I’m wondering about others’ experience.)

    in reply to: Carmex vs. Vaseline #921298
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    JWAG Oy: Apply it behind your burqa.

    in reply to: SHIDDUCH CONCERN #923237
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    Just Want A Good Oy — If you’re worried about how you’ll feel when you’re folding his socks, you have two workarounds. Either send them out or have him fold his own socks.

    in reply to: Owning a Dog #922227
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    t613613t: I would never trust a dog with a gun.

    On a serious note, dogs can be therapeutic. I never wanted a dog, but one fell into our laps (in a manner of speaking), and it’s having a beneficial effect on some family dynamics.

    in reply to: Gastritis #925205
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    mercury, do you still take Nexium? Most insurances in the U.S. don’t cover it these days — they claim Prilosec does the job (which it doesn’t).

    in reply to: Tax Increase #920372
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    Unless your friend is over 65, I think you mean Medicaid, not Medicare.

    in reply to: Tax Increase #920369
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    The payroll tax is stam regressive — you don’t pay it for income earned over some limit (somewhere north of $100K). I’ve heard almost nothing about eliminating this limit.

    I agree that from the perspective of growth, the end of the payroll tax holiday is a bad idea, but how do you solve the Social Security problem otherwise? Make the retirement age 80?

    in reply to: Grocery Shopping on a tight budget #920186
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    rebdoniel, are you saying Birdseye broccoli doesn’t have bugs?

    in reply to: Having kids while having a history of genetic disorder #924805
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    em0616, do you know for sure they used Dor Yeshorim?

    My understanding (which may be out of date) is that most cases of Tay Sachs these days are among non-Jews (especially Cajuns).

    in reply to: Tax Increase #920365
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    As akuperma points out, this is the end of a two-year payroll tax holiday, not an increase as such. There’s an article on the Forbes website (“Dear America: Your Higher Payroll Taxes Are Not The Result Of A Tax Increase”) that explains it nicely. Before you blame Obama, consider that the end of the payroll tax cut was not one of this issues of debate during the Fiscal Cliff negotiations — both parties supported it. Neither party thought it wise to continue the payroll tax holiday — it’s hard to run around like Chicken Little saying that Social Security is going broke while simultaneously saying that we should continue paying less money into the system.

    For those of us who are self-employed, the tax goes up double (since we’re paying both the employer’s and employee’s contribution).

    in reply to: Find connection between Pidyon Haben and….. #919846
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    Is protexia anything like dyslexia?

    in reply to: will you marry me? #919771
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    I hate to be a stick in the mud, but all this planning of a cute proposal strikes me as being shtuss. After a few dates, my wife and I simply had a mature discussion about getting married. No bended knee, no ring, we just decided that we wanted to do it. That was 25+ years ago.

    in reply to: Grocery Shopping on a tight budget #920181
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    There’s lots of good shopping in Queens.

    Seasons often has meat at very reasonable prices and sometimes has incredible bargains on other things (they had cholov yisrael milk for 99 cents the other week). Main Glatt has very good prices on chicken bones for soup (as low as 39 cents in recent weeks). Aron’s Kissena Farms sometimes has good sale prices. You can check their websites to see if it’s worth the trip. You can sign up for emails from Seasons.

    Do you have a deep freeze? I think you can get a chest freezer for less than $200. Then you can stock up on meats when they’re on sale. You can also bake challah in large quantities (if you use 6 pounds of flour, you get the mitzvah of taking challah with a bracha, and you’ll have challah for a few weeks for less than you’d pay for two store-bought challahs).

    Fruits and vegetables are a little more challenging in Queens. There’s nothing like the Brooklyn stores 3 Guys and Circus Fruits. There’s a store on Main Street near Valley National Bank that sometimes has bargains (they also sell allegedly kosher meat, but I’m not sure whose hashgacha, and it looks very unappetizing). Kissena Farms has had some good fruit and veggie prices, somewhat reminiscent of the pre-Arons days when the place was a dump, but they had bargain prices on produce.

    in reply to: I just bought meat #920655
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    It’s Affordable Glatt, with OU hashgacha. It’s cheaper than Tevya’s Ranch. I’ve bought some of their meat and there was more waste on it than on other brands. Anybody know what country it comes from?

    in reply to: Grocery Shopping on a tight budget #920179
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    The OP doesn’t say where he or she lives, so it’s kind of hard to tell what to recommend. I think the warehouse membership places like Costco and BJ’s are overrated. For most items, you can do better by shopping sales at supermarkets. For the rest, I don’t think it’s worth the membership fee.

    Double coupons can be worthwhile, but you’ve still got to be selective. King Kullen is the only store in the NY area that I know of that doubles dollar coupons (other stores only go up to 99 cents), but their prices are usually so high that it’s not worth it. I can sometimes get coupons on eBay and make a killing. For example, I got 20 $1 coupons on cereals that I use for $1.35 on eBay. Waldbaum’s had those cereals on sale for $2, so I got 20 boxes for a total of $21.35.

    in reply to: Questions on Jewish Status/Identity #918834
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    rebdoniel — Please take this not as an attack, but as a serious question. You’ve said elsewhere that you’re a ger (of sorts, if I remember correctly). You advise the OP to stay away from chareidim because (you say) they like to invalidate valid gerus. So why are you here, on what professes to be a chareidi website?

    in reply to: "Dating Early" Kol Koreh- Who's missing? #918320
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    torah613613torah, what exactly is the “broken engagement crisis?” It seems to me that broken engagements are vastly better than divorces.

    in reply to: Where to buy organic apples for a decent price in Brooklyn? #917455
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    Properly composted cow or horse manure doesn’t cause outbreaks of anything or attract insects.

    I have a vegetable garden and I don’t use pesticides. I’m not an organic-only type, but I happen to use organic fertilizer (not manure; stuff like blood meal and bone meal).

    That said, I think organic is a rip off. The prices are way out of line. I can’t imagine that it’s possible for someone who’s serious about tolaim to buy certain kinds of organic vegetables (e.g. broccoli).

    in reply to: Recipes for the seriously poor #1030165
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    While quinoa is yummy and nutritious, there’s no way it’s cheap, at least compared to other grains. The lowest I’ve seen it is close to $4 a pound.

    in reply to: Making it financially with less #917272
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    Since when are Twizzlers of any persuasion a necessity?

    in reply to: Recipes for the seriously poor #1030154
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    Check out Depression Cooking on Youtube. A very old woman named Clara gives recipes that her family used during the depression. We just had her “Poor Man’s Dinner” tonight (cut up hot dogs with potatoes, onions, and tomato sauce).

    in reply to: Making it financially with less #917216
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    shinina, I don’t know where you get the idea that insurance costs more for an old car. Liability should be roughly the same and if it’s old, it’s probably not worth it to have collision or comprehensive.

    in reply to: Fruits and vegetables that SHOULDN'T be refrigerated #915604
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    Nechomah, you’re wrong about tomatoes. Refrigerating them compromises the flavor. Supermarket tomatoes have no flavor anyway, so it doesn’t much matter, but if you refrigerate a real tomato, you’ll turn it into a supermarket tomato.

    in reply to: anyone else have this problem?? #915302
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    Not to be confused with the kind of boots that boots wielding women wield.

    in reply to: Can Batsheva Name her child Elisheva? #915229
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    I’ve heard of Yonah as a girl’s name in America — once.

    in reply to: trip to Israel through Amsterdam #915348
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    Lakewood Ir Hakodesh? I smell a troll.

    in reply to: Jews protesting against a job fair! How low will they fall? #915780
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    Inquiring minds want to know why Shmendrick is posting in the Coffee Room instead of learning Torah.

    in reply to: Kashrus observance #914629
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    So the question remains: why don’t DDs in Brooklyn have a mainstream hashgacha?

    in reply to: every principal a 22 #914719
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    akuperma, the OP’s use of 22 is probably meant to echo the old JDL slogan, “Every Jew a 22.” It’s much catchier than “Every principal a 22.” I recommend “Every principal should be invincible.” Were there any Jews on the planet Krypton?

    in reply to: A bit bothered by some advertisements in frum publications #1009237
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    I think it’s inappropriate for frum people to flaunt their wealth, simply because it elicits anti-semitism. Nevertheless, if it’s helpful for one’s business, I think it’s OK. So aHeiligeYid can wear an expensive watch, and someone who drives around clients can own a Lexus.

    in reply to: Stay away from GE aplliance #914571
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    When making a major purchase, I ask the people who repair them. My car mechanic recommends Toyota, my appliance guy recommends Maytag or Whirlpool (same manufacturer) for washers and dryers. YMMV for other appliances — I’ve had no problems with Hotpoint (GE) ranges.

    in reply to: Any suggestions for a new chumrah #1089072
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    If you spell it “quale” you may deserve to die. Quayle would spell it “potatoe.”

    Don’t forget quesadillas.

    in reply to: every principal a 22 #914710
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    jewish source, why do you think a principal, who spends most of his time in his office or in meetings, and most likely has no firearms training, would make a good security guard? On the positive side, no kid would dare misbehave.

    in reply to: Chanukah Presents for Rebbes #913118
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    PBA, is it a good thing to be a successful bank robber? How about a successful troll?

    in reply to: Snow Chains #911884
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    Putting latkes under your tires will probably make traction even worse due to the lubricating properties of the oil.

    in reply to: Maoz Tzur Tunes #913284
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    I don’t have any evidence, but I think Farrocks is wrong. It certainly sounds like a church tune. Somebody should ask Velvel Pasternak.

    in reply to: Rebbes Affectionate with Children #1055864
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    Sorry, Wikipedia doesn’t meet the standard of “basic research.”

    Of course, none of this discussion of abuse has anything to do with the original topic. I see nothing wrong with a teacher showing physical affection for a child (pat on the shoulder, maybe even a hug), but only in the presence of another adult and only if it’s clear the child will benefit from it. To make it contemporary, suppose a child’s house has been destroyed by a hurricane. He comes to school, obviously very upset. He needs comforting. If he has a good relationship with a teacher, the teacher is an obvious person to comfort him. For some kids, some physical contact is the most effective method of comforting him.

    yehudayona
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    iced, there are many cases of defendants taking the stand in which it was their own testimony that convinced the jury of their guilt. I sat on such a jury once.

    I know nothing about this case other than what I read here. It seems to me that unless you’re privy to all the testimony that the jury hears, you’re in no position to judge. Reading about it in the paper is not the same as being in the courtroom. I totally agree with nishtdayngesheft about the accuracy of the media.

    in reply to: kosher alarm clock: what's kosher about it? #912144
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    I don’t have a kosher alarm clock so I don’t know how they work. I do have a travel alarm clock that I use for Shabbos. It beeps (not very loudly) for one minute and then is silent. It remains set from day to day. If a kosher alarm clock works like this, I don’t see your problem.

    in reply to: Not wearing a tie at Mincha on Shabbos #944915
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    It might depend on when you daven mincha. In some backwaters, they have such a problem getting a mincha minyan that they shlep out davening in the morning and have an elaborate kiddush in order to daven mincha before people go home for lunch. This would eliminate the cholent stain theory (unless they serve cholent at the shul kiddush) and the nap theory (unless the drasha is sleep-inducing).

    in reply to: Do People Shrink With Age? #911333
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    Tzaddiq says ears and noses don’t shrink. They actually grow, especially politicians’ noses.

    in reply to: Rebbes Affectionate with Children #1055833
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    Wolf: So it is OK to use corporal punishment in college.

    in reply to: Og`s offspring – are they "Bnei Noach"? #911775
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    Perhaps professional basketball players are Bnai Og.

    yehudayona
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    “One thing we know for sure, until now, the victims and their families suffered w a y more than the perps.”

    In cases where the kid is lying, the roles are reversed: the kid is the perp, and the person alleged to be a molester is the victim. The problem with forums like this is that too many people assume that all accusers are telling the truth.

    in reply to: Rebbes Affectionate with Children #1055826
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    I was once tutoring first graders in a yeshiva. In the beginning, they gave me a little room whose door I kept open. A little later I was told I would have to work with them in the hall (apparently one of the mothers objected to her kid being in a room with me). One day one of these kids climbed up on my lap. I was rather startled.

    in reply to: Giyoress or Not? #913579
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    Health, you wrote “You should learn that there is a Chiyuv of Danning s/o L’caf Zecus.” I think that’s pretty ironic.

    in reply to: Legalized Narcotics #911156
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    Morphine is a narcotic that has always been legal for medical use. So what did NJ do? Washington allows people to buy small quantities of marijuana from state-regulated shops (none of which exist yet).

    in reply to: Robert Moses #910499
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    in reply to: High Holiday Davening #910627
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    147, it has nothing to do with intelligence or which nusach is “the best.” My paternal grandfather was from Lithuania, so I daven Ashkenaz.

    in reply to: Hat brim #911240
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    I have been told that a sombrero is an ohel. Therefore I don’t wear a sombrero on Shabbos or Shabbat.

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