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  • in reply to: Why “Peysach”? #1988527
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    Uuuumein, v’Uuuumein.

    in reply to: Favorite Dips #1988526
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    For those who need to be careful about cholesterol, a good quality virgin olive oil blended with your favorite roasted vegetable and fresh herb mixes (our favorite is roasted heirloom tomatoes, leeks and eggplant with some zatar, shug and lemon juice). Roasting the veggies in an oven or grill concentrates the flavors and highlights the natural sugars. Skip the mayo since the whipped olive oil provides much of the same texture. B’taavon

    in reply to: ger rebbi vs. r’ shaul alter #1988192
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    “who really cares?”
    Well, probably tens of thousands of Ger who would be very disappointed if the referee ruled that their rebbe had been TKO’d by a relative newcomer.

    in reply to: Best way to protect tefillin. #1988174
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    Always ask questions: No ladies of the night ever tried to steal one of our kids’ science projects, much less my tuna sandwich from the cooler.

    in reply to: shiduchim #1988178
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    Some of these posts are borderline hysterical. You have a rare baas yisroel with a good parnassah on her own and also holds strictly by halacha and a “super” chassidish hashkafah and everyone (including her mom) seems to assume she won’t find her own chosson? Leave her alone and don’t make her crazy with shadchonim.

    in reply to: Sukkah roof idea #1988173
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    Rational: I was always taught to keep the succah dry because of all the work that the kids expended in making those beautiful decorations for yom tov and hanging them from the roof of the succah along with their drawings on the wall would be ruined by the rain. We never purchased decorations and in some cases, were able to retain some of the kids’ items from prior years. I’m not sure that is the inyan of keeping the succah “dry” but that was certainly our primary focus.

    in reply to: Best way to protect tefillin. #1987940
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    Chazal bring down that is is generally assur to store tefillin in a cooler in which you are also storing your lunch or your kid’s science project.

    in reply to: ger rebbi vs. r’ shaul alter #1987936
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    Is this some slow news day effort to reignite the Camp Ger broigas?? If the scorecard is for fundraising skills, than its R’Alter by a knockout. I recall he raised $15-$20 million earlier this year in an online fundraising extravaganza.

    in reply to: Sukkah roof idea #1987935
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    We’ve used a simple PVC pipe frame attached on a slight slope over the schach roof and used a rolled up tarp on a second piece of pipe attached to the “high” end of the frame so the tarp can easily be rolled up and pulled out. The entire frame and large tarp can be purchased at any Home Depot or Lowes for minimal cost. Two concerns. First, its good for light rain but don’t use it when heavy downpour is forecast since the water can “pool” and the weight will collapse your succah. Second, getting up on the ladder to roll it up or down at night and after a few glasses of wine can be a challenge
    Also, I’m sure there is some chumrah somewhere that says our entire “stay dry” strategy is apikorsus and succahs are supposed to get wet.

    in reply to: shiduchim #1987696
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    If your daughter has achieved professional success and a really good income while remaining super frum and adhering to a strict set of midos, perhaps trust that she will also be able to find her own beschert w/o shadchanus. Much hatzlacha to her.

    in reply to: OOT Kollel #1987223
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    As usual, Mod 29’s musar is well taken. Lets try again.

    Baruch haba!! (If the Mods will allow a link, a proper musical rendition of baruch haba by the Miami Boys Choir can be accessed at:

    BTW, I’ve driven through Bensalem township many times and know the name from the big water tower on U.S. 1 but never knew there was such a great kollel nearby.

    in reply to: OOT Kollel #1987195
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    Welcome. So you joined the CR an hour ago just to share the news??

    in reply to: Modern Orthodox OTD by Gender #1985919
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    According to many CR posters, by definition, an MO bochur is already OTD, so unclear if your metric is OTD by MO standards which would be total apikorsus by chareidi standards.h

    in reply to: Democrats and Far Left #1985092
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    Perhaps if we stopped supporting morally corrupt politicians like Trump , some Dems would be willing to consider voting for conservative candidates. When you put a lying, bullying, narcissistic at the top of your ticket, it makes it any easy choice.

    in reply to: Top Five Yeshivas #1984944
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    Twenty five posts later , it is clear that there is no such thing as “the best” yeshiva in the absence of an objective metric. Last time I checked, there is no equivalent to SAT scores or AP credits etc. whereby “lamdus” or “midos” can be measured. Its all the eye of the beholder and those attributes that he/she values most in a yeshiva or kollel.

    in reply to: Woke Towns #1984753
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    Without a doubt, Lakewood. The BMG guys are always on top of the most cutting edge chumrahs and kulahs.

    in reply to: Top Five Yeshivas #1983853
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    Since when is the “acceptance rate” of a yeshiva a good metric of the quality of the lamdus?? Perhaps use the top five in terms of the highest tuition as a better quality metric or alternatively, which ones have the most frequent mentions in the CR.

    in reply to: Taking bets re Israel’s government #1983651
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    The past several years and 4 elections later, some still cling to the notion that the Israeli political system will yield a “representative” government coalition. It is a dysfunctional system that empowers individuals who can gain short-term notoriety and media attention along with small block voting constituencies who can extort the larger pluralistic parties to “join” a coalition while continuing to threaten to bring down the government unless they are paid more and more for their “support”.

    in reply to: Outdoor Minyan still going. #1983447
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    “These arguments for the outside minyanim are plainly absurd, A Jew davens in shul..”
    So Moishe Rabeinu and the entire dor hamidbor were all a bunch of misguided yidden and held outside minyanim for 40 years?? Does hashem really care weather you are standing behind a shtender in a wood paneled beis medrash or in a tent or under the stars???

    in reply to: Taking bets re Israel’s government #1982642
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    I’m not saying they “should” have a common goal to rid the country of Netanyahu. Indeed, I suspect the new coalition will share may of his policies just as Biden has continued Trump’s policies on certain issues such as trade, etc. The reality is that all of these parties want power in a post-Bibi world and ultimately refused to sit in a government with him. As I indicated, Likud on several occasions had the opportunity to oust Netanyahu as head of the party but each time he outmaneuvered his opponents.

    in reply to: Taking bets re Israel’s government #1982630
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    “How long do you think the government will last?”

    As long as it takes to prosecute, convict and put Netanyahu in a jail cell since their common hatred of Bibi is the glue that holds this coalition together. Likud and the religious parties had years to rid the country of Netanyahu and form a right-wing coalition but each time the egos of the various party leaders and the outrageous demands of the religious parties allowed Netanyahu to retain power. Now they are paying the price for their intransigence.

    in reply to: The 5% Prime Minister #1981532
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    As others have noted, the egos of likud and religious party leadership are the primary reason that this is happening. There should have been a consensus alternative to Netanyahu over the past several years, but he successfully played one faction against another, lied or reneged on all his commitments and used Trump as a role model to gain leverage. They deserve what they are getting.

    in reply to: Best shabbos leftovers #1981518
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    grilled salmon used in a Sunday morning breakfast omlette with fresh herbs and onion. Much tastier and healthier option than salted lox.

    in reply to: Gerbil advice #1978704
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    Gerbils are NOT part of a yiddeshe hashkafah. Nowhere do you hear about anyone in the Alte Heim keeping a pet gerbil. Perhaps a goat or a few chickens?

    in reply to: President Biden the new Regan #1978117
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    They named an airport after Reagan and an Amtrak station after Biden. That should tell you all you need to know.

    in reply to: Favorite herring flavors? #1977377
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    Participant: I would respectfully submit that if you contemplate a big chunk of oily Matjas on a slice of dark pumpernickel shmeared with schmaltz as your idea of “excitement”, than the dreariness is a reflection of what you see in the mirror. True excitement is a bluefin and yellowtail tuna inside out sushi roll with brown rice and nori with only a small dab of wasabi. It is also more consistent with Mesorah whose prime directive for personal behavior and nutrition is u’shmartem es nafshosechem.

    in reply to: Favorite herring flavors? #1977366
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    “While some of the new types/flavors are tasty, I must make a Macha’ah because they are not part of the Mesorah”

    Sorry, but herring is not part of our “Mesorah” simply because it was a poor man’s “fish” in parts of the alte heim.

    in reply to: Nice Guys Finish First #1974680
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    Acharon, Acharon chaviv!!

    in reply to: Thank Biden for the Gas Shortage #1973430
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    Lakewhut: Are you intentionally trolling or just uninformed. Keystone would not have been ready until 2023-24 and would have delivered Canadian tar sand crude to refineries in the midwest and upper plains. It would have ZERO affect on deliverability of gasoline, diesel and other distillate products along in the mid-Atlantic /east coast states served by Colonial (which will be on line this weekend). If you want to give thanks, call the Trumpkopf and his cronies who twice resisted making gas pipelines subject to mandatory cyber and reliability standards.

    in reply to: Should I buy my chavrusa a fancy cheescake for shavuos? #1972990
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    What is a “fancy” cheesecake?? Is it made from cream cheese derived from a special cholov yisroel from cows who are known for being machmir on every inyan of kashrus?

    in reply to: Thank Biden for Helping Hamas #1972691
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    Lakewhut: Get some help. If you cannot see the stupidity and recklessness on both sides, not sure you have a clue of whats happening. The inept Palestinian “leadership” is exploiting every misstep by the right wingers in the Israeli political circus who want to use this unrest to stoke fears and keep Netanyahu in power. For a change, Biden has pushed back on the lefty Dems who have been demanding he “send a message” to Israel and kept the U.S. out of it.

    in reply to: Summer Travel 2021 #1970410
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    Flew back yesterday from a weekend in the metro Denver area. Everyone on the plane wore masks…no drama, no screaming at the flight attendants etc. Normal people trying to make the best of the situation. I suspect that given the ages of the passengers and flight origination, a large percentage were vaccinated but no one said, “I don’t need to wear a mask because i have both shots”. Nice to have a 3 hour flight that almost seemed “normal”.

    in reply to: Anyone else waiting for Tax Refund longer then usual? #1970406
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    Filing electronically with simple returns (income only perhaps with small 1099 income) should be fast since process is now automated. Anything else (aka paper returns, complex itemized deductions or deductions exceeding certain range, substantial cap gains or business expense deductions for Schedule C, etc.) almost certain to take several months.

    in reply to: Anyone else waiting for Tax Refund longer then usual? #1969982
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    The IRS has said that there could be lengthy delays in issuing refunds this year due to both physical limitations resulting from most of its Staff working remotely under Federal covid restrictions and the huge increase in workload resulting from distribution of two rounds of relief checks enacted by Congress. They are giving priority to the emergency covid relief checks and processing normal refunds as fast as they can. In congressional testimony 2 weeks ago, the IRS acknowledged there were still millions of pending refunds from the 2019 tax year and the backlog is growing. They also said that fewer than 5 percent of telephone inquiries were being answered. I found the automated online inquiry system on the IRS website to be of little help in getting actual status information.

    in reply to: Why do yeshivos give off or end early on Lag Baomer #1969769
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    There are many parents who are incredibly thankful that some Roshei Yeshiva like Rav Edelstein issued an issur against their talmidim going to Meron and insisted they stay in school and continue learning.

    in reply to: Where can I buy a kosher Zohar? #1968859
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    “…its comical how all the 45- year old CR users basically just sit on their computers waiting for a bochur to write something trollish and then attack the bochur for it”
    Actually, its considerably more comical to believe all the CR “gotcha” posters are 45 yo…..those youngsters are too busy to be bashing yungerleit for trolling. Its the more geriatric posters who are generally the most self-righteous, pompous and and judgemental

    in reply to: Democrats & Treason #1968858
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    ” …anyone in Obama’s administration should be investigated!”

    Sorry your “Health is diminishing quickly. First, there is no evidence the assertion from the Iranian minister is accurate, and both Kerry and those who attended the relevant meetings have denied the accuracy of the report. Second, there were over 4,000 political appointees in the Obama administration so investigating them all will provide full employment for several hundred lawyers that Biden can hire at DOJ. Overall, one of your less enlightened suggestions but good entertainment for a slow news day.

    in reply to: Where can I buy a kosher Zohar? #1968412
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    I will leave it to the heilege CR poskim as to whether there is an age limit or other reason for restrictions on the reading/studying of Zohar in ANY language. If you have concluded you want to do so, the Pritzker editions translated by Daniel Matt are considered among the best English translations along with those published Tisby, although the latter is less complete than the Pritzker publications. BOTH are available on Amazon.

    in reply to: Maricopa county audit #1968285
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    The PillowAmoretz has just come out with Trumpkopf II, a sequel to his Trumpkopf I documentary running on OAN proving beyond doubt that secret satellite lasers controlled by George Soros from an underground bunker in Chelm manipulated the voting machines in the key swing states. There are a whole bunch of right wing nutcases making a fortune pushing these conspiracy theories and fundraising for Republican primary challenges.

    in reply to: Maricopa county audit #1967587
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    The “forensic audit” is a joke but allows some Arizona Senate wingnuts to establish their Trumpkopf bona fides in a political world where Republican Primaries are essentially contests over who is the Trumpiest Trumpkopf.

    in reply to: Seeking recommendations for sleepover camp for 10th-grade boy #1967292
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    “There is no actual halacha that says one must send children to a sleep-away camp….”
    Actually, it is a minhag many follow dating back to the alte heim. Chazal bring down the inyan of sending yiddeshe kinderlach to summer camp as part of the machlokes as to whether Orlando or Miami is the preferred venue for the Pesach sedorim.again in late August.

    in reply to: Coworking space in Brooklyn #1967146
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    Mag868; Just think of happy hour as a pre-shabbos kiddush club. Seriously, though, he “environment” at these spaces changes fairly frequently and what may seem “kosher” now, could change quickly with a few departures/arrivals. The spaces operated by a national firm called “We Work” are all over the NYC metro area and you should be able to find one near your location. They are clean, well-equipped, closely monitored for noisy and disruptive individuals and generally provided a positive work environment. I have used them in several cities, pre-pandemic, and was very impressed.

    in reply to: Seeking recommendations for sleepover camp for 10th-grade boy #1967154
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    BP27’s advice is right on point. Unless your bochur is very “social” and makes friends easily, he will be much happier going where he knows at least a few other campers. After getting a few suggestions along those lines, perhaps check with his rebbe regarding any red flags on the ruach of the camp.

    in reply to: Summer Travel 2021 #1967065
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    Summer travel to Canadian tourist sites is iffy right now. Border crossings limited to “essential” travel with very few waivers. May be relaxed as more vaccinations are completed but right now, they are still in full scale shutdowns in major cities. State department just updated its travel advisories and about 85 percent of top 100 destinations are still effectively blocked or strongly discouraged. We were considering Malta and Cyprus but those were open and then limited and now open again so we decided to stay home until next Fall. Travel insurance seems very confusing right now on Covid related closings.

    in reply to: everything bad is due to the trumpkopf #1965950
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    First, I will waive my intellectual property rights to the term “Trumpkopf” since I may have been among the first to use that honorific for #45, although I cannot establish that with certainty. Also, after the January 6th events at the Capital, I publicly disclaimed future reference to he who shall not be named. Having thus made the appropriate disclaimers, every incoming President is entitled to blame his predecessor for the ills of the nation and any adverse developments.
    Also, TDS is no longer a reimburseable medical insurance diagnostic code under the the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM) used by insurers for reimbursement of mental illness.

    in reply to: Is English the new Yiddish? #1965590
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    “Some of the Chassidishe yeshivas intentionally keep their students functionally illiterate in order to deter them from going off the derech”

    I hope what you are saying is incorrect, but if true, keeping students functionally illiterate is no guarantee they won’t go OTD… More likely , it will guarantee they will be unable to earn a parnassah or find a kallah who has any aspirations for a normal life. In fact, it is more likely than not to make them unable to function in society and ultimately lead them to go OTD

    in reply to: Only Gitten #1965381
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    With all respect, a “website” for announcing gitten is either a bad joke or a solution in search of a non-existent problem. If a couple decide to separate or divorce, it is THEIR personal decision to be shared with those THEY feel should know at a time of their choice. In the secular world, one or both parties actually send out “announcements” of their “singledom” to selected friends and family with new contact information, the names they are going by, etc. The fact that someone feels embarrassed by assuming a couple is together when they have separated is the least important factor compared to the desire of most divorcing couples to keep it private.

    in reply to: Is English the new Yiddish? #1965073
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    UJM: I disagree with your implied position that yeshiva bochurim cannot become proficient in BOTH languages, albeit using yiddish for limudei kodesh. To argue otherwise, is to advocate functional illiteracy that will complicate their ability to earn a parnassah and engage in the world as it is. They will not be living in the Alte Heim, as much as some may yearn for what were NOT “the good ole days of yiddeshkeit”.

    in reply to: Is English the new Yiddish? #1964927
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    “[speaking adequate English] is not the case in some Chassidishe yeshivos, but I think that’s a conscious decision they’ve made.
    Not clear. Are you saying the chassideshe yeshivos deliberately make a decision to retain teachers who cannot communicate well in English?? Why would they “consciously” make such a decision, which would obviously be dysfunctional for their students who live in a world where English language skills are generally a prerequisite to a parnassah.

    in reply to: Saying Inappropriate Tehillim #1964230
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    Can anyone identify an instance where where chazal bring down that someone was punished or suffered bad outcomes for either saying tehillim at the “wrong time” or reciting the “wrong perek” at the right time? Seems like the you cannot go wrong with saying a kapital tehillim anytime, anywhere or for any reason.

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