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I don’t think I ever met you….;) I’m glad life is treating you well now… Remember everyone has ups and downs your not alone!

Toi, I believe this poster is legitimate. Not everyone has time on their hands to post daily… It seems to me he needs answers and doesn’t want to post personal stories for fear of being figured out.. Colored shirts, eating at people’s houses with teens, hatzola, yeshivish learning navi, etc are Personal circumstantial experiences which requires questions he needs answers to. but he has worded it in a generic way, he wants to hear what people’s opinions are on things that there are no exact right or wrong answers to in the Jewish world or there is but they have been covered up so heavily by the oilom that many hold that it’s mutter. I don’t see him storing up the crowd, rather people who post should be more considerate with there words concerning different views that they may have… And if one is giggling with friends, who cares??! As long as they are happy. With so much Tzara in the world we need more of that! If you’ve made someone’s day by writing a saggy comment or whatever, I’d turn it around and say Kol hakavod!! 😉 if this is the case with him let him post and be merry!!

I know what it is…lol!!! I wanted to hear the specific circumstance was..lol;)

So popa you are telling me that toi is another mod username… I’m a married guy. Thank g-d I don’t dorm anymore! Lol!!! Why in the world would you make a connection like that?? Because I stuck up for the guy?- that you felt had to be put to shame! Hes done nothing wrong… I don’t understand why you would want to lose another legitamate poster. Especially one that creates threads that interest a vast majority here…

This guy starts threads, purposely on controversial subjects. He gets them rolling and checks in every month or so to see where they’re holding. I’m not one to shy away from controversy, so his threads don’t really bother me, but I can’t imagine that no-one else here realized this, and they’re still taking him seriously. Sheesh!

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What’s there not to take seriously??? They are Mainly controversial topics… I didn’t see anything wrong with the guy until he started mouthing uncontrolably at all of us for sticking up for his rights.

Corey your exploding at the wrong people. Watch it. One thing to be angry at the OP, that what he said is not right, but to blast all of us posters who stuck up for you, is um wrong…

Perhaps the user princess eagle should comment here her subtitle is flying high…;) lol

Oomis, what is jmo stnd for??

Yummy cupcake- Tape recordings???? Are you forreal????!!!! Get with the times, my friend:-)

I would suggest if you do choose to write to her, that it shouldn’t be via text. Nor. Email but rather snail mail on a nice piece of stationary. Thus way it is alot more personal. I wish you the best of hatzlocha in this… If I can be of any more help, please let me know! This letter will show a good dose of maturity on your part. I’d Also say it’s a good way to impress a girl..;)

Be more specific, would love to help.. Maybe you can speak to a mutual friend .. And have them smooth things through… You want to give over the impression that you are a wonderful guy and that Misunderstandings can happen. how’s the best way to get this acros? I can’t advise unless like I said you are alot more specific… Hatzlocha !!! O hope all goes well!!!

If the parents care enough about education inwhich they should you can get an education anywhere I suppose. However majority in those circles do not. I think that’s where it boils down to and that’s where the gripes fall on the education system where in reality it’s really the parents that veto it and rather ignorance. Thats most probably why you have some intellectual types coming out of those chassidish school systems, I’ve yet to come across one. I am awaiting the day that I do. So that my perception of them can turn around a full circle.

Seeallsides: No need to worry about my qualifications. I’m def nt worried about it snd so you shouldn’t either!

All I can say is by dealing with alot of young adults From within those sects I am rather grateful for what I’ve got, BH!

Missed it all… Happy Purim though. drink plenty and don’t stop!!! Until your wife says so;p!!!

Lightly brush egg yoke over the chicken before adding the sauce, it usually works..

G’luck;)

CA, do you have his office number?

Blackhat, would you allow your mother to gell your recent haircut done by the barber?;) I suspect it was frizzy based on how the Barber cut it!

Go for it! Purim is like Yom Kippur since the holiness and kedusha of the day is the same. They say just like you have to give tzedoka to anyone that puts out their hand so to, hashem will give you whatever you ask for it’s a day for a tremendous koach hatefilla, the getting drunk and having a grand time is the distractions of what the day is all about! It’s a very short day, use it to it’s maximum potential!!! Don’t let the yetzer harah override where your focuses should be!!!

A freilichin Purim everyone! L’chaim!!

A friend of mine was telling me that they have alter bachurs, single men from time to time, usually they have families over though. She said that awhile ago her husband brought a bachur home that needed a place. Her husband had to ask the bachur to leave in a polite way of course when he started making convo with her daughters!!!

Personally I’m not against guys talking to girls, however talking and conversing are two different things!!

It could have been out of naivety, however I’d say people should train their sons what is nes talk and what is unnecessary talk. For example in the work place, it is vital, but stum at the sbs table is an entirely different story!! I was disappointed when I heard this..

Ca, I thought he doesn’t talk on the phone at all. I guess if you’ve done it personally, I’ve got a new way how to speak to him directly, thanx for that!

Yidisha Zach, are you a guy or a girl?

Some of you are not such holy dudes!!! Disappointing I’d say… Shemona essray takes a few mins, the ambulance takes a few mins, no difference! There is a one above and if you always are doing the RIGHT thing, you cannot possibly go wrong! Think about it, it’s the altimate emes! You can’t interior shemone esray no matter what the situation is ! Stick to that principal and hashem will take care of you!!

Yehuda w, depending on how great you are your bracha might come true, who knows…

Btw;- I would strongly advise you not to have your real name up here…

Im not sure about the rabbanim you have mentioned here, however I know that with r’ kemminetzky, you have to go into see him he doesnt have a telephone in his house. Although you can speak with one of the sons or daughters over the phone and they pass on the message.

Yiddishe Zach, I kind of don’t understand your guilt, you gave it a fair chance, it’s not like you said no, before even going out. So theres no reason to feel guilty, it’s simply not meant to be. You can’t eat yourself away at it. You’ve made your decision and theres no going back. I’m sure the rejected party has moved on so can you there is No reason to feel bad!

I would not tell my children they may never watch tv.

And I suppose you also would not tell them not to eat tarfus or turn on a light on Shabbos. You would kind of hope they would just keep these on their own.

They will be very confused human beings. With no sense of direction and belonging. Individualism is nice, but to an extent… A child has to be not told but I would use the term taught the difference between right and wrong. Religious or nonreligious they need a sense of ethics, I’m not even talking about religion, do you want them to grow up in the gutters??? Come to your senses buddy! Be mature. Your comment kindda reminds me what I used to tell my parents when I was I kid I used to say ta and ma if you make me eat that tuna fish sandwich, I will let my kids eat candies all day long I’ll buy them buckets and bucket of em! Think about what your saying over here. If you dnt feel it’s right for them it’s your responsibility to give that message over to them!!!