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    @always exactly why my kid didnt shovel the snow

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    @ bored person Afghanistan destroyed the facade of the caring old man.
    @ Reb Eliezer. 52 votes against is not “obstruction”..

    in reply to: This is what I’ve been waiting for #2053689
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    in reply to: Not thanking God #2053242
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    Since the moderator allowed the thread, I’m somewhat hopeful that he/she/they will allow my response.

    YWN is an aggregate news source. That means that they don’t employ journalists to document stories. They find content from sources that they feel are of interest to their readership and repost them on their site. I’m oversimplifying it, but my point is that YWN is directly responsible for the editorial content of their site, not necessarily for factual misrepresentations contained in outside reporting.

    But a legitimate criticism of YWN, which may be what the OP was alluding to, is that YWN engages in editorializing without stating that they are presenting an opinion or their interpretation of a piece of reporting. For example, it was never reported that the Rabbi chose not to mention G-d in his statement. It was entirely possible that he donned a tallis and recited a complete Hallel, and the reporter didn’t think it was relevant enough to his wider audience to include it in his article. YWN chose to interpret that article as reflecting poorly on Reform Jews by attaching a headline to the story that didn’t reflect the facts of the story.
    Good luck mod, I don’t envy you. Even if you discard my entire post, you’ll still have to wash your eyes out with soap.

    It ain’t about luck. I definitely didn’t approve it and will have no qualms about deleting.

    in reply to: people who become therapists usually just want haak #2052985
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    in reply to: people who become therapists usually just want haak #2052797
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    So these hospital escorts…

    in reply to: people who become therapists usually just want haak #2052502
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    Village idiot
    A funky, intimate neighborhood bar offering nightly live music, pizza, craft beers & a jukebox.

    in reply to: people who become therapists usually just want haak #2052441
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    Idly curious if mods would allow

    sounds more like a shmiras halashon issue than our issue…

    in reply to: Danger of Deer In Monsey – Traffic Accidents #2051047
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    How many people on the forum grew up in rural areas, with family and freinds who hunted or farmed?

    in reply to: Danger of Deer In Monsey – Traffic Accidents #2050686
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    Alternatively, you could address the root cause of many of the problems residents are facing: reckless over development.

    in reply to: danger in gop #2049737
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    @ ujm So you’re making a separate point that has nothing to do with what anyone else said, and can safely ignored.

    in reply to: danger in gop #2049711
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    @ ujm you totally missed my point. But “chemicals”… to the extent that everything is made from atoms and molecules, I guess. But pain thinner is commonly call a “chemical”. mRna vaccines are simply another thing that you dont fully understand.

    in reply to: danger in gop #2049554
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    Here is my own personal perspective:
    My surgeon is hoping to avoid it, but I have an issue that may require an “elective surgery “. Because of the surge on Covid cases, elective surgeries are being delayed indefinitely.
    People who argue that “all we care about is death” dont appreciate the massive strain the unvaccinated are placing on the healthcare system. And yes, the vaccinated are also contracting Covid, but the overwhelming majority of patients who are being hospitalized are unvaccinated. And once they are hospitalized with a highly contagious disease, it effects the mechanics of the entire hospital. I’ve heard talk that some healthcare systems were even planning on designating certain hospitals as Covid centers, so that the rest of the system could continue to function, but the winter surge has put paid that idea.
    So, fimor this who argue that vaccination is an issue of personal freedom, I’d respond that the others arent meant to bear the cost of your freedom.

    in reply to: danger in gop #2049010
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    It’s a pity. Alot of Trumps actual policies were pretty good. But his personal statements frequently arent coherent or reasonable. Today, the original statement he released suggesting that Bifen was fixating on 1/6 to distract the country from his own dismal performance was on the mark. The “rant” about the previous election was distracting and unnecessary.
    That being said, I’m always leery of identifying too closely with a particular president or political party. The absolutely utilitarian approach of some is too extreme for me, but the truth is that the authentic perspective of our community needs to be represented on local, state,.and national level by some one who can manage to stay out of his own way.

    in reply to: Kollel life with no parental support #2047422
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    @ amom
    We didn’t receuve financial support from our families because they couldn’t afford it. That doesnt mean they didnt support us is other ways. Or that others who received financial support from their parents were necessarily better off. Please enjoy the fulfillment and נחת of having household revolving around Torah for as long as you can.

    in reply to: “Frum” therapist #2046318
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    The פסק doesn’t differentiate between a psychiatrist or a psychologist in stating that a מין or כופר (atheist or non religious) should not be consulted. Interestingly, he states that possibly, if they are a respected professional, the parents of the patient can rely on his word that he wont discuss matters related to religion or faith with the child. But if possibly, a “frum” psychiatrist should be found.
    I’m not a huge fan of being מדייק in the אגרות משה; its widely accepted that they were heavily edited by his grandchildren.
    However, it appears that the situation that ר’ משה זצ”ל was referring to was a parent seeking care for their child. In that situation, the parent is able to advocate for the child and hopefully moniter the care they are receiving. Less meaningfully, while in the body of the תשובה he refers to both psychiatrists and psychologists, but in the actual ruling that allows treatment by a non religous practitioner who will respect parental boundaries, he only mentions psychiatrists, and states that a שומר תירה would be preferable if s suitable one can be found.
    I would be curious as to what his opinion would have been of adults seeing a psychologist or psychiatrist independently, and whether he would have insisted on using a “frum” therapist with limited training instead of a board certified psychiatrist.

    in reply to: “Frum” therapist #2046267
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    @ שתיקה Since you are familiar with what was a totally said, please provide מראה מקום.

    in reply to: “Frum” therapist #2046225
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    @ no
    Not popular?
    Insinuated awfulness?
    Please move in to the Baba Sali post, they are missing your thoughtful insights.

    in reply to: America’s teacher salaries #2046151
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    @ Romain
    Sorry, just needed a minute to catch my breath.
    I suspect even in א”י, its more expensive to live in some places than others.
    In the US, poverty level for a family of 4 is around $2200 / month. That is for a typical family, not including the increase costs for kosher food, yeshiva tuition, etc.
    This also doesnt include healthcare, childcare, a d Kollel subsidies and other benifits that y’all take hand over fist in Israel.
    So comparing the 2 is laughable.
    Also, I literally dream of the day when teachers go into the business for the money. I think חינוך overall would greatly benifit from professionals who appreciate the value of their work. For the most part though most teachers in the US do if for the “מצוה”, which dilutes the market.

    in reply to: America’s teacher salaries #2046119
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    @ ct
    He means per month.
    Sorry, I’m still giggling.

    in reply to: “Frum” therapist #2046112
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    @ little
    My question was “Why”. Your answer is “because they want to help people”. How trite.
    I didnt ask about bad apples or how your best freinds sister in law is allowed to have a Dear Rochi column in Mishpocha magazine.
    If the moderator allows, Ill rephrase the question (or hell do it for me).
    In the wake of Defund the Police, officers are retiring in droves a d academies are having trouble recruiting.
    Given the perception of licenced and accredited clinical psychology as not being a “frum” profession, for whatever reason rocks your boat, how can we encourage qualified frum people to go into this field.
    By the way, Ik neither malicious nor ignorant, but you are quite Ill mannered.

    in reply to: America’s teacher salaries #2046100
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    Cost of living.
    Free markets.
    I’d say more, but I’m laughing too hard.

    in reply to: “Frum” therapist #2046044
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    @ little I know.
    Ignorance is fostered by questioning motives instead of engaging in dialogue.
    Furthermore, you haven’t addressed the issue I raised, so I wonder why you bothered to respond.
    You dont find alot of Orthodox veterinarians, because sterilizing animals is problematic. Similarly, there are few examples of religous film or television stars. Or airplane pilots. While it would be possible to navigate the נסיונות involved in הלכה a d צניעות, few choose to do so.

    in reply to: “Frum” therapist #2046045
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    @ yeshishivishrocstar
    My response would get me permanently banned.

    No kidding. The reason for deletions of comments sometimes has a lot more to do with the expected responses than the post itself. Good catch – appreciated.

    in reply to: My Poasts/Comments are not getting Approved. #2045988
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    I dont have anything nice to say.

    in reply to: Silence #2045338
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    @ Philosopher
    To be clear, we aren’t talking about לשון הרע, we are talking out whether there is a obligation to be דן לכף זכות when there are allegations of some kind of a use?
    Simple answer is that דן לכף זכות is normally applied to interpersonal relationships, not criminal conduct.

    in reply to: Silence #2045322
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    I assumed this was a other silly post about a commen skape goat (the only problem we have is לשון הרע? Isnt there a whole 5th שולחן ערוך of בין אדם לחבירו, before we even approach בין אדם למקום?!).
    But somehow the thread morphed into (another) critique of silience about a sexual a use (because other kinds of use don’t matter? Or arent salacious enough?).
    Here’s an novel idea: speech is good. Sharing ideas a d perspectives is good. Talking to your neighbor, your coworker, the guy who sits next to you every day at מנחה, is tangibly, objectively, good. The more you talk, the more you learn, the better you can emphasize, a d understand, the better the world will be.

    in reply to: Teachers salaries #2045316
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    Reb E, the links can’t replace your own glittering insights, spoken in your own irreplaceable vernacular.

    in reply to: Teachers salaries #2045272
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    Well, שתיקה, if you read the posts than you know that I feal the being honest about an issue is more productive than platitudes.
    But I understand the criticism that I havent offered anything consgructive. However I’ll have to preface it with some more hard truths.
    The current model relies on בעלי בתים with business experience to support מחנחים in administering מוסדות. The suggestion that בעלי בתים are somehow leaching the system is ludicrous. Simply put, Kollel doesnt teach anyone how to manage multi million dollar budgets, navigate government programs, or supply the contacts to support the kind of philanthropy a typical girls school needs to stay afloat. Hiring a CEO would cost hundreds of thousands of dollars, but most of these בעלי בתים do it for free. The assumption that if some דעת תורה was in control to stop the בעלי בתים from siphoning off funds then teachers salaries would be increased is much more offensive then my “tone”.
    That being said, בעלי בתים are treating teachers like employees. And right now, they have the advantage. Most teachers who choose to teach למידי קודש are dedicated to חינוך, and arent going to just leave and teach in public school or find a job in the public sector. And if one does leave, there is a line of seminary girls willing to take their place.
    A subsidy isnt going to change that.
    These schools rely on donors who are very interested in how their money is spent. They are willing to spend $120,000 to attract a big name to be the “dean” of the school. They arent willing to spend more than the going rate to attract a teacher that is completely fungible.
    You either need to change how מיסדות are run, to be less if a community institution and more like a “prep school”, that focuses on the values of parents, with the attendant higher tuitions, or it gets to the point where teachers are no longer willing to work for the מצוה, and are willing to stick up for themselves.

    in reply to: where to you live #2041506
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    Reason y’all are seeing bears in your backyard in Rockland is because over of… thoughtless… underdevelopment.

    in reply to: shidduch probability #2039354
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    Have you ready the recent article about the Arab who was able to find a shiduch in NYC? Joking aside, there is someone for everyone.

    in reply to: Ani semitism in the sky #2039149
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    Good question. Fir the sake of the exercise, let’s stick with a favorable verdict, either jury or bench trial.

    in reply to: Ani semitism in the sky #2039113
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    Question isnt whether experienced travelers have experienced antisemitism. It’s hypothetically, what would be a clear case of anti semitism.
    Personally I feel that there is a “woke” crowd of kids with disposable income who are venturing out into the big wide world, and are finding anti semites at every inconvenience because Mommy never said “No”.
    But I accept that my generation may have been too accommodating, since we experienced actual antisemitism and wanted to avoid causing more.

    in reply to: Ani semitism in the sky #2039004
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    “Jewish last name” is to deep a rabbit hole. Perhaps a different thread devoted to what constitutes a “Jewish name”?

    in reply to: Talis Bag to be Placed on the Floor #2038488
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    Had the issue when I was a בחור. Did not have room in my carryon, figured Id have my טלית and תפילין as a personal item. Stewardess came along, the flight was fully booked, and they needed every bit of space in the overhead compartment. Tried putting it on my lap, was told it had to go under the seat for safety reasons.
    So I out it under the seat in front of me. Wasnt comfortable doing it, but understood that a) the תפלין weren’t directly on the floor b) Hadnt placed it there ti be disrespectful, but in order to place them in an appropriate place. c) that I’d tried to place a personal items in the overhead compartment that is really for carry on luggage.
    Since then I’d always leave room in my carryon for my טלית and תפילין.

    in reply to: Utopihen Duck Eggs #2037697
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    @ gadol. The basic idea is that all raptors arent kosher. The way the bird grips a wire is characteristic of the way birds of prey “grab” their prey.
    I’m not sure what characteristics youd be comfortable using to determine who is Jewish, but the suggestion is an excellent segue to Willie Wonka.
    I do appreciate the irony of the mist famous creation of the author Rohl Daul, who could be charitably described as a casual British antisemitic, being played by Jewish actors.
    As for the Uncle Moshe controversy, I dont have a problem with there being multiple Mickeys roaming Disney World.

    in reply to: Utopihen Duck Eggs #2037556
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    And that’s how we ended up with 2 Jewish Willie Wonkas.

    in reply to: Utopihen Duck Eggs #2037511
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    @ gadol All of the kosher chickens sold come from a coupme corporate poultry farms that have been determined to be reliable. So I dint think every duck would need a Covid test; someone just needs to man up and say that the supplier is reliable.

    in reply to: Shelo Asani Isha #2037493
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    Here’s a better question. Men were made first, then women were taken from men and formed into women.
    So shouldnt the ברכות be the opposite? Since men were the “original model”, should they say “who made me according to His will”? And women, who weren’t made in the original form and likeness, should nevertheless give thanks that they were made, even though it wasnt as a man?

    in reply to: What is the issur in flying on shabbos #2037294
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    @ Romain Every head of lettuce needs to be checked for bugs.
    That level of שנאה for an entire class of people can only come from זערעו של אמלק.

    in reply to: Utopihen Duck Eggs #2037203
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    @ human Thank you so much for correcting my phones autocorrect. Please Google American Pekin for the breed of duck that are commonly sold as kosher.
    Spoke with OU, say that the Khaki Cambell was presented to רבנים including R’ Belski and accepted as kosher. Even though it has a “dark” beak, since it isnt completely black it’s still fine.
    But still an issue regarding how can we be sure all of the eggs come from the kosher breed without a reliable השגחה.
    Spoke with משגיח @ the store. Claims he is going to look into it.

    in reply to: Abortion Case #2037001
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    I dont know.
    See how easy that was?

    in reply to: What is the issur in flying on shabbos #2036103
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    @ Shimon Nodel. I’m sure you are a very thoughtful. It’s important to state that your post was not.. At the very least, provide sources that a government action broadly applied regardless of religous observance qualified as a שמ”ד. I’m also curious how you reconcile your suggestion that a religious person should shoot his way out of Ben Gurien Airport with the diction that one should be מחלל שבת to save a life.

    in reply to: Unvaccinated Lockdowns #2030617
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    The lack of support for mental health treatment in the frum community is a true epidemic. How Austria chooses to respond to Covid is their business.

    in reply to: Bein hazmanim struggles #2030400
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    A program can not replace being home.

    in reply to: Where Klal Yisroel will be in 100 years from now #2029040
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    Definitive answer can be found in the works of מורינו הרב יוסי טוב.

    in reply to: Post Covid Effects #2028061
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    Depends on your age. First children 5 – 16, anywhere from 4 to 12 weeks. First a Beis Midrash bochur… you need to speak with your ראש הישיבה immediately.

    in reply to: When will all Yidden finally have Achdus? #2027055
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    I’m humbled. I thought I had the monopoly on sarcasm and cynicism.

    in reply to: PSA to the posters who have gotten all their posts deleted… #2027031
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    I’d appreciate a dedicated thread to discuss YWN articles that use inflammatory and / or unfair language regarding public figures or issues.

    in reply to: Klal Yisroel Needs an Official Central Yichus Registry #2026468
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    @uperma Good point. A registry would kill any chance of fundraising, political collaboration, or proateletizing outside of the “frum” community. In other words it would break Lakewood, Chabad, and Satmar in one stroke.
    But I still think the opportunity for anti semites to use it out ways the potential rewards.

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