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  • in reply to: The “New Normal” for Shul During the Yamim Noraim #1870791
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    Commonlackofsaychel: Most of the Arronites in Monsey are born with Covid19 antibodies (as distinct from the Zalmanites who generally test negative for the antibody) and are thus immune. Those who don’t have the antibody are doing their nagel vasser with a cocktail mix of HCQ with Zinc (as recommended by the Trump’s favorite doctor who recently announced he was leaving Monsey for greener pastures).

    in reply to: DeBlasio is Brilliant #1870723
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    The reality is that he looking for some way to leave office 18 months early without seeming to be slinking away with a well-deserved reputation as the greatest loser in NY political history. I checked the NYC code and State constitution and did not find any provision providing for removal of a mayor from office in the same manner as the 25th Amendment of the U.S. Constitution provides for removal of POTUS for physical or mental incapacitation. Fortunately, the late night talk show hosts will have him around to ridicule until 2022.

    in reply to: The “New Normal” for Shul During the Yamim Noraim #1870425
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    A local shul seems to have anticipated the issue and will be holding an SDM (social distanced minyan) in the gym of a local private school. Some shuls have done this previously for overflow/non-members but I think you will see more of these types of arrangements this fall in school auditoriums and other public spaces that can be leased and are appropriate for davening.

    in reply to: The “New Normal” for Shul During the Yamim Noraim #1870232
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    Though data are VERY limited, the vast majority of “older” individuals who have taken the antibody test do NOT appear to have have been infected by the virus without symptoms and thus rightfully should be concerned about future exposure (whether through davening in crowded shuls or any other venue where social distancing is not feasible). Again, its going to be very case-specific but maybe some of the larger shuls can block off seating for older daveners where perhaps every other seat is empty. A 5:30 AM “golden age/vasikim” minyan for rosh hashanah/yom kippur is not ideal but may be the only option in smaller shuls.

    in reply to: Backyard minyan politics #1869860
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    As a matter of common courtesy and separate from the question of whether its a matter of “lchatchilah” versus “bdieved”, if one is aware that w/o his participation there is no longer a minyan, one should daven at a pace consistent with the other daveners, even if its a bit faster than his usual cadence. Likewise, I don’t recall ever seeing our chazan/shaliach tzibur (or gabbai who sometimes serves as a surrogate) , look towards the varbeshe section of the shul to be certain that most of the women daveners have completed the Amidah.

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    Syag: As I said, everyone has their own risk assessment metrics. In this cases, mine are quite different from yours. You are obviously free to expose yourself and your kids to whatever risk factors (or lack thereof) your personal circumstances warrant and I wish you well.

    Uncommonsaychel: You must have real nevius. That would be exactly my plan but for a government travel ban which currently restricts entry to virtually all foreign travelers other than Australia. Hopefully, they will expand their “bubble” sometime later this summer. They seem to have a bit more seychel over there regarding social distancing, masks, etc. than the lunatics lined up on top of one another on erev shabbos last week in Las Vegas with no masks to grab a place at a slot machine. I was even impressed by their demonstration in support of the BLM movement in downtown Auckland where for the most part everyone was wearing masks and showing some distancing (in contrast to the mob scenes were see here in the U.S.)

    in reply to: Census ( brings) magefa R’L and Bracha leaves #1869151
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    Milhouse’s strategy is correct. By refusing to participate, he and his like-minded chevrah can honestly claim that ANY census-based reapportionment plan, resource allocation plan etc. is RIGGED and Flawed because certain demographic groups (e.g. right-wing, cynical, Trumpkopf loving yidden) were not counted.

    in reply to: If N.Y. doesn’t allow summer camps to open, what’s your plan? #1869123
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    My somewhat contrarian comment which confused Syag and drew concurrence from Reb Yosef was really a mix of fact and fantasy. As I’ve noted in other posts, I wouldn’t remotely consider sending my kids off to a sleep-away camp this year under the circumstances. I’m normally not that risk averse but here the risk adjusted consequences (% likelihood of infection X the mortality/morbidity outcomes) make it an easy decision for me. Responsible parents and yiddeshe mosdos (using my metrics) should be planning to find lower risk options for kids staying home this year. Nothing is “risk-free” but but the risks of sending kids to camp at this point have been well documented and the theoretical solutions offered by some camp operators, while commendable, are simply not workable.

    in reply to: If N.Y. doesn’t allow summer camps to open, what’s your plan? #1869091
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    Since so many posters here are so emotionally attached to the way life was in the alte heim and frequently invoke how simple and pure life was in those good ole days, why not simply deal with the kids before we started warehousing them for the summer months.

    in reply to: Census ( brings) magefa R’L and Bracha leaves #1868965
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    Perhaps those posters who blame “the magafah” on the census should share their revelations with the Trumpkpopf. Since his rants and tweets blaming the (Wuhand) Magafah on China have not gotten much traction,, he can float some trial balloons blaming the pandemic on the “deep state” operatives at the U.S. Census Bureau.

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    Day camps will be open, and that was announced earlier this week. Also, for parents with multiple kids at home, reminder that there are multiple mental health resources for adults available within the frum community.

    in reply to: Chasidus bans “informers” from using its facilities #1865773
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    Strange that just before scanning the latest posts on this thread, I had read an uplifting story in the news section about some guy named Gary in the Detroit community who had arranged to renovate and distribute thousands of bikes to kids in the community who had been stuck at home for 2 months and just being allowed outside. What an act of tzadakah and kindness. Here were are debating the halachic pros/cons of community members who “informed” on those who violated public health guidelines because they felt their OWN needs were more important than those of the tzibur-at-large. As noted above, I think the informers should be celebrated as heroes and the idiots who endorsed this shunning are the one to be treated as outcasts.

    in reply to: Chasidus bans “informers” from using its facilities #1865324
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    Such “informers” are actually heroes to their own neighbors, their chassidus, and the tzibur at large. Daas torah allows for such “informing” to save a life in immediate danger. Any rabbonin or askanimn who seek to punish these individuals who may have saved lives by interrupting any dangerous pandemic practices are themselves like to suffer the consequences of what they wished on others.

    in reply to: BIGGEST JEWISH DEBATE: DO YOU WASH YOUR TZITZIS??? #1865105
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    One can tell the Corona fixation is B’H beginning to wane by the titles of some of the recent CR posts. Now we can get back to normal with a focus on the shidduch crisis, WoW making a scene at the Kosel and the latest sighting of moishiach on Eastern Parkway.

    in reply to: $1200 for the Public but Trillions of Dollars for Corporations #1864853
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    In the words of the a great Anmerican, whatever is good for the Trumpkopf’s chavrusah will ultimately be good for the nation. Great Righ Wing talmeidiei chachamim and mainstream Supply Side tzadikim bring down the importance of first making sure the uber-wealthy are taken care of first and then some of the crumbs will trickle down to the poishete citizens of our society.

    in reply to: Reopening #1864298
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    Schnitzel: Lots of shops shut down today in Brooklyn, Queens and Manhattan. Notwithstanding, the opinions expressed by some in the tziur, the Sherriff’s closings were spread across both yiddeshe and goiyeshe owned small business and there was little evidence of some anti-Semitic tirade by the Mayor. The officers were doing their job and enforcing the rules. Some did stay open without any problems while others were closed for the day. I suspect that Cuomo and the Mayor have gotten the message and will begin relaxing the rules later this week for all small stores, subject to the same rules the big stores had to follow regarding percentage occupancy, social distancing, masks etc.

    in reply to: Lawsuit in NJ to force the state to allow worship service #1864250
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    Well as many of you know, the Trumpkopf called a special news conference on Friday to demand that all states allow their churches and shuls be allowed to reopen IMMEDIATELY and if not, he would “OVERRULE” them. He insisted that Americans need “More prayer” and they should come out “THIS SUNDAY” (i.e. today) to exercise their rights to worship. Well, this morning a few minutes before the 10:00 AM mass at St. Johns’ Episcopal Church across Lafayette Square,, the Presidential motorcade with sirens flashing pulled out from the north portico of the White House, down the driveway to Pennsylvania avenue made a right turn on 15th Street but headed south to Virginia and showed up on time for the 10:30 AM mass (aka as tee time) at the Trump National Golf Course. Trump then proceeded to worship unmasked for 3+ hours with an occasional shoulder bump to others in his foursome. The golf Gods obviously didn’t accept his teffilos since his deacons (aka Secret Service agents) were photographed on several occasions following the Trumpkopf into the rough searching for his ill-fated drives that veered off the fairways. Never say this is not a President that leads by example on public health and spiritual issues. A tzadik gamur

    in reply to: Lakewood Yeshivos closed because of Murphy not Corona. #1864247
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    Haimy: The governor has not focused on yeshivos. All schools in New Jersey, public and private, are under the SAME rules. With few exceptions, ALLl parents want their kids back in school ASAP for the kids’ mental health and their own. Murphy has already said that schools WILL reopen in the Fall even without a vaccine. At this point, there is limited agreement what schools need to do to reopen safely and it will take some time (and $$) for the required changes in physical facilities and operating procedures.

    in reply to: Reopening #1864233
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    Syag: It all depends on how much you value a life placed at risk by accelerating the opening faster than the public health experts recommend. I have no problem with Montana or West Virginia moving quickly to reopen whatever segments of their economy remain closed. To me, the political and economic pressure to reopen NYC before the public health experts agree that its safe is reckless. The economic pain is real and gets worse every day but so was the reality of trucks line up outside the hospitals and funeral homes to hold the overflow of bodies just a month ago. Call it a “lie” if you want, but a slower reopening seems more prudent and should outweigh economic considerations.

    in reply to: Reopening #1864209
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    I missed the question mark?? So take my comment (minus the rhetorical reference to POTUS) as a response to your question. As noted, stupid decisions all around back in March that cost lives and now mean it will take a bit longer to reopen NY metro area safely. Too bad this has so quickly deteriorated into another facet of the toxicity of our politics and culture wars.

    in reply to: Reopening #1864182
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    Its not a binary decision. You can gradually reopen w/o waiting 2 years for a vaccine. Putting aside that Reb Yosef’s hero (the Trumpkopfer rebbe) has told us the vaccine will be available to everyone by the end of the year, The New York area has experienced roughly 25,000 to 30,000 deaths in the past 2 months out of a national total of about 96,000 so it would make sense we are going to be slower and more prudent about reopening. Cuomo is moving slowing after some really bad decisions back in March. The nightly hespedim here on YWN have been painful beyond belief. Clearly , you believe the economic pain should take priority over the niftarim. Some of us respectfully disagree with your priorities.

    in reply to: Minyanim Legal in New York starting tomorrow #1863809
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    Yidden don’t need the Trumpkopf to tell us that davening is “essential”, but that is NOT the issue for purposes of whether it is “safe” yet to hold minyanim in shuls that either cannot or will not undertake the necessary investments in their facilities and practices to conform the CDC and state guidelines. The comparison to opening liquor stores is beyond stupid since the latter have able to restrict the numbers of customers in a store at any time and enforce social distancing compared to a shul with dozens or even hundreds of daveners in close proximity. Most importantly, the Trumpkopf could care less about spiritual welfare. This was a political stunt for his right wing evangelical voters since he has ZERO legal authority to “override” state laws and orders. He can direct his AG to file an amicus in court cases or even bring a case in federal court but otherwise, even Republican lawyers agree his statement was a joke.

    in reply to: Covid Vaccination and School Admissions #1863201
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    While it varies from virus to virus, it takes very high rates of vaccination to achieve “herd immunity” and may also take several years to achieve that outcome. I’m not sure how this concept will be helpful for the next school year.

    in reply to: Minyanim Legal in New York starting tomorrow #1863200
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    Lowertuiition: Thank you. Perhaps we should all find some way of acknowledging our good fortune of having come through Round 1 in good health (assunming that is the case) while never losing sight of what has been lost to the tzibur in terms of the almost nightly reports here on YWN of tragedy after tragedy within the frum community .

    in reply to: Minyanim Legal in New York starting tomorrow #1863016
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    As of yesterday evening there was NO timeline published for the 5T and Long Island.

    For those who are going back for their first davening b’tzibur since March, will you bench gomel during your first Aliyah?

    in reply to: Covid Vaccination and School Admissions #1862682
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    The question is more nuanced than the measles vaccine issue since in the latter case, there is perhaps a higher likelihood of peer-to-peer infection and spread with serious consequences for other children.. In the current situation, one area of concern may be spread among kids who themselves are asymptomatic and don’t suffer serious consequences from the virus but might spread it to others in the family at greater risk. However, the same risk would prevail even if the kids went outside to play with their friends or went to shul on shabbos.

    in reply to: Post Corona: The New Frum Community #1862544
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    I agree with MOST of your points regarding yidden leaving the NYC metro area ard relocating to less densely populated areas with a higher quality of life. When I left years ago there were certain challenges but others followed and we now have a thriving community. Depending on your mesorah and hashkafah, you may want to consider one of over a dozen smaller metro areas noted in the above posts rather than going “off the grid”. Yes, technology has made it easier to escape the city, but its hard to do virtual mikvah, and “remote hakofos and ” shalosh sa’udos.with a crowd of yidden. Physical activities and interactions are part of yiddeshkeit. .

    in reply to: What is EY doing in fighting Covi-19 that NYC can learn from” #1861895
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    Well, we now have a chidush: 70% of the cases in EY were traced directly to travelers returning to EY, a large percentage of which were from the NYC metro area.
    Memo to file: In case of a future pandemic, close the airports earlier to flights from NY
    Follow up Memo to file: Make aliyah now and be safer in case of a future pandemic.

    in reply to: Who (decides who) gets to be “mainstream?” #1861811
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    “I knew one that finished the whole Seder Noshim Gemoroh 70 times in Shanghai besides for before and after..”

    ????

    in reply to: Crorona Shidduch Dating #1861808
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    The only WaWa in our area has a great view of the CostCo parking lot. Lots of smoothies listed on the menu. As far as dating venues, whatever works in your area in terms of privacy, ambience and travel proximity.

    in reply to: Which cities in the US will have summer camp open? #1861780
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    As of now, the earliest that rentals of bungalows, hotels etc. could be rented in NYS under Cuomo’s phased reopening plan wold be sometime in early to mid July, assuming there are no unforseen spikes in mortality/hospitalization rates. Those who open earlier risk loss of their occupancy permits and I suspect the local towns would be vigilant in monitoring any violations considering how opposed they have been to ANY opening. That would still allow for 6 or 7 weeks of vacation, assuming there are some who want to leave the city.

    in reply to: Which cities in the US will have summer camp open? #1861683
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    Just speaking to a friend on the difficult choices implied by the OP and perhaps staying at home would be equally risky. The kids will still be out on the streets of Brooklyn coming home each day with potential issues and the data show that infants have low infection rates although this new Corona-related syndrome is worrisome.
    Sad that we even have to deal with this Hobbesian choice.
    To Sariray: much naches and good health with the baby and the whole family whatever choice you make.

    in reply to: a heartwarming story about a porch minyan #1861682
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    Aychel: Thank you for sharing.

    in reply to: Who (decides who) gets to be “mainstream?” #1861648
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    I would think that CR posters are clearly on the cutting edge of what is “mainstream” as evidenced by the near total consensus here on most religious, cultural and political issues.

    in reply to: Which cities in the US will have summer camp open? #1861647
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    As Goldiolicks notes, the OP make zero sense and may be a troll. No rational yiddeshe parents would remotely consider bringing home a new baby in these times to a home where there are five mobile petri dishes (aka ‘boys”) returning to that home every afternoon after a day of rolling around with dozens of other boys from other families. Unless you are going to test all the campers daily or require them to wear masks and socially distance, you are literally putting the life of the newborn at risk. Perhaps they are planning for mother and baby to be “quarantined” from the rest of the family but otherwise, the concept is beyond crazy.

    in reply to: Crorona Shidduch Dating #1861504
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    NoMesorah: You are correct….they are now called “smoothies” and cost 3X as much…..still not an ideal place to meet your beschert but out in the boonies, they may have outdoor areas as you say. Just bring lots of hand-sanitzer to wipe down the benches and tables (and your own food if the local WaWa doesn’t have a good hashgacha).

    in reply to: Our Stupid President Trump #1861297
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    JJ: No one is suggesting that we would have had substantial fatalities even if the Trumpkopf had done everything right, which obviously he had not. However, had he taken the warnings earlier, initiated widespread testing using foreign tests available back in late January rather than allowing CDC to mess around for weeks trying to develop their own test and blocked flights from Europe (where apparently the US strain of the virus appears to have originated) at the same time he blocked flights from China, the number of deaths might be much lower. As Trump would say, “who knows”.

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    in reply to: Crorona Shidduch Dating #1861296
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    A Baas Yisroel should not be going to a “WAWA” to meet her beschert. Someday, you’ll be telling the eyniklach that, “Zeyde met Totty during the big 2020 magayfah over a Slurpee at the WAWA”…..I think not.

    in reply to: Crorona Shidduch Dating #1861061
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    HIE: If you can find a beach near a lysol production plant….lots of sunlight, open space and hopefully industrial fumes.
    To return to a serious note, I would have suggested a park but with a sunny day with springtime temperatures, the parks have gotten worse than 13th avenue erev shabbos. If there is a park area where you can find two benches with some separation, that might be a start. If you live outside the big cities which still have social distancing and restaurant closures, perhaps it would be less difficult to find somewhere to hang out for an hour or two without crowding. Much hatzlacha.

    in reply to: Crorona Shidduch Dating #1860993
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    For a change, I’ll come down on the side of Beis Josef. He is correct that the fathers should simply come together, work out a mutually acceptable arrangement for their children to marry and present it to them as a fait acompli’. If they refuse to consummate the deal, they will have to move out of the basement, find a JOB, earn a parnassah and rent their own apartments. This was a proven strategy for clearing out the basement prior to the Pandemic and hopefully will have the same efficacy again once we return to normal. The success rate is obviously a function of finding the most dysfunctional beschert for your son or daughter and insisting that its your way or the highway. You might also offer to pay for the moving van if you are really feeling guilty .

    in reply to: Has trump finally snapped? #1860990
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    Do any of these tests also provide any measure of “hinged” versus “unhinged”??

    in reply to: chicken #1860694
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    One common mistake made by rookies: Always remove the plastic bag containing the neck and innards from inside the cavity before placing the chicken in the hot oven. This will generally improve the taste and texture no matter what recipe you are using. B’Taavon!!

    in reply to: Dr Vadimir “Zev” Zelenko being investigated #1860669
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    Perhaps the best contrarian indicator of the likely efficacy of the Zelenko Cocktail is that the Fox News evening lineup of Trumpkopf sycophants have dropped their nightly drumbeat for this drug and shifted to a combination of anti-Fauci rhetoric and “ObamaGate”. But not to worry for our tin foil kippa types. The Fox News Wannabe Network (aka One America News) still has their nightly infomercials for hydroxychloroquine with doctors they find in yennavelt who also claim 100 percent cure rates. Some promote 800 numbers, website hyping their special formulation of the drug and if you are among the first 100 callers, you will get “FREE ZINC” with your order.

    in reply to: FYI young Israel of Deerfield beach letter #1860634
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    noMesorah: Yes, 100 percent. A shul (as represented by its Rav and Board) have discretion as to the criteria they will use for selecting those for a kavod. Just as they many choose not to give a kavod to a davener who is a known machalel shabbos or is alleged to have committed domestic abuse, they may choose not to give a kavod to these members who publicly defied the psak of the Rav. End of story. My personal opinion is that they could revoke their membership and deny them entry to the shul, but they chose a lesser form of discipline. A shul is not a democracy and the Psak of a rav regarding public behavior is not a “suggestion”.

    in reply to: What is EY doing in fighting Covi-19 that NYC can learn from” #1860481
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    YehudaYona: Again, you prove that one can prove just about any point with the same set of statistics. Sadly, the Corona Virus data on infections, hospitalizations, intubations, and deaths have been weaponized by both sides as just another battle in the political and culture wars.

    in reply to: FYI young Israel of Deerfield beach letter #1860478
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    The Rogue Minyanmachers are 100 percent entitled to participate in their own minyan contrary to the psak of the Rav of this shul. Likewise, the Rav (with support from the Board of the Shul) is entitled to exclude them from any kavod in that shul. Since they obviously disagree with the Rav, perhaps make their rouge minyan permanent.
    Actions have consequences.

    in reply to: what will post covid-19 look like? #1860087
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    As usual, Charlie hit the nail on the head. Our future lives in big cities for the foreseeable future will be driven by the “Fauci Factor” as explained at today’s Senate hearing on the “reopening. With an effective vaccine (as shown through RCTs and observational metrics) the “fear factor” will still exist but likely at a sufficiently de minimus level that we won’t fear a gutten shabbos handshake or touching the bimah when we get aliyos or wiping down the Eitz Chayim with Purel before doing hagbah. Without a vaccine, we will still venture out but many of us will be highly risk averse in our social and phsical interactions with people and things.

    in reply to: Chinese Lab Origination of Wuhan Coronavirus #1860075
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    The three top experts on the Trumpkopf’s Virus Task Force testified today before a Senate Committee whose Republicans wanted to hype his “Reopen Parade”. Instead, they calmly and professionally refuted his lies about “having prevailed”, the virus “will be gone”, the reopening is a “great success” etc. Once they are off the 5:00 PM nightly “news conference” stage with him, they find their voices and integrity. When Senators asked the director of CDC as to when the detailed “ropening guidelines would be publicly released” he slinked down in his chair and nearly disappeared off the computer screen (Note: He was testifying remotely because he was exposed to the virus at the White House) . Even the Republicans noted that the reopening would move more quickly if businesses had some guidelines to rely upon to insulate themselves from litigation. Instead, he mumbled something about “soon” but would not give a timeline for fear of angering the Trumpkopf. Perhaps they are tired of walking like the clowns at the end of the Circus Parade leaning up after the Elephants.
    Ultimately, the question is how many lives is the Trumpkopf willing to lose to push up the stock market before the election. There is plenty of blame to go around on all sides, but this mindless rush to “reopen at any cost” is contrary to his own guidelines. (17 of the 23 states that have begun to reopen did NOT meet the President’s own criteria of 2 weeks of declining infection rates etc. but the Trumpkopf mindlessly cheers them on).

    in reply to: Camps in Catskills #1859875
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    With over 100 young children now having been identified as possibly suffering from this new CV-19 related syndrome that may lag 4-6 weeks after initial exposure/infection to the virus, the public health officials now have an additional complication in their decision about the safety and risk of opening summer camps. Parents too will be concerned about the ability of current monitoring/testing/diagnostic protocols to assure that asymptomatic carriers are not inadvertently allowed to come into contact with their kids.
    There is no easy answer here and whatever decision Cuomo and the state health authorities make, there will be an immediate and loud pushback.

    in reply to: Remote Work and Vanishing Personal Time #1859868
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    Akuperma: Well stated and right on point. The changes will be gradual but even the frum velt will gradually recognize and embrace (with limitations) the opportunities offered by new technology. They will do so incrementally but the genie (R’L) is out of the bag.

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