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  • in reply to: Shidduch Research Service #907411

    golden mom
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    the best is to ask as many people as u can and sometimes even going back to the first people u want to know how the person asks on a day to day basis how they treat people if they r loud and agressive u wanna stay away u want to dig and find out all the skeltons in the closet so there are no suprises. you want to hear frist hand what they r looking for and find out if your on the same page what they wear what they r looking for there parner to wear what the family is like what kind of background and basicly everything and anything u can find out about

    the best is to find somebody mutrial who you know who either know them personally or knows somebody whos a neighbor a classmate or davens in the same shul

    in reply to: kids with learning dissabilities in our school system #907419

    golden mom
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    send a letter to the board of ed of ur child school district explaining the problem they will evalute ur child and he/she will prob get p3 which is tuitoring from the govt in the school average a child gets is 1 hr a day 5x a wk (or more) and many schools have sb on board who can do it and gets pd by govt if not u can look for sb many frum pp have licence to do this

    in reply to: Small Business Saturday #988783

    golden mom
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    pease beware many of my friends and family ran last time to stores with the amex card since its motzei shabbos the stores r trying to fit in as many customers as possible however one big mistake some stores did was they didnt close there cc terminals before midnight so therefore it went into account as sunday and nobody got thier $25 back from those stores

    in reply to: Chasunas during the storm #901767

    golden mom
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    i know of a couple wed that was held last night they sort of rushed them so it was over earlier one i heard started @2:30 in afternoom instead of the reg 6/7

    in reply to: Will Yeshivas in Brooklyn be open tomorrow? #902093

    golden mom
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    tomorrow the girls school also have whoever has varsity buses they will not be runing only privte/yeshiva buses will be runing

    in reply to: Treatment of non jews #900201

    golden mom
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    im coming in the middle of st so i hope my comment is not totally of but

    who hid many children and familys during the war who helped smuggle over the boarders who snuck in food under the resuems noises there r good ones and bad ones

    and the story i read a couple of months ago and still have chills going up and down my spin from of a man in germany who used to great is neighbor every morning with respect well yrs later when he was lined up and they were making the famous desion of who will go to the right and who will go to the left this man recognized his neighbor after so many yrs and said to him good morning like he always did (which was out of line and he could have been shoot on spot for doing) and the soilder looked him in the face and had to send him to ‘LIFE’

    so we nener know that kind word… could save our life

    in reply to: Difficult questions about grandparents #899670

    golden mom
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    To litvish kiras yoel I would love to have the source of where in the torah it says a women has to cover their hair I been trying to find it for yrs it only alludes to it does not say outright the halacha

    And back on topic what is worse is when granparents apear to be “frum” and then kids have questions why the do things that r not so frum or don’t follow the halacha. And “we learned the halacha in school”… So go explain that it is soo much harder.

    in reply to: Whats an effective space heater thats energy-efficient (money saver)? #899643

    golden mom
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    Be very careful one feature u must look for is if it gets knocked over it turns off or if it gets covered ie w blanket or clothes it also turns off and not chas vedsalom starts a fire

    in reply to: Do you have separate glasses for dairy? #900542

    golden mom
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    I only use plastic cups and we throw out after each use so then yes I would use sep cups for milchig and fleishig lol


    golden mom
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    And what’s an A+ its not a resturant???


    golden mom
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    Free advertising again????????????

    in reply to: Separate seating at Weddings #1037952

    golden mom
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    All “sumorgs” are for ladies ie the kallah is there by the men “the mens tish” they also have food and hot food no body gaurds stand outside the ladies room forbiding men to come in it is not per se mixed but by litvish or modern men the men seem to trickle into the smorg (by the ladies side) and that is y u think it is a mixed smorg

    As far as mixed seating I personally was involved w sb that wanted no hall in boro park would accomidate and I think one is willi was they had to go out a little to get accomidated

    in reply to: Streimel color #899355

    golden mom
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    Like all hair including sheitel it changes color from the sun. And ps most of the strimels u see r not “real” fur too expensive and too hard to maintain if sb has a real one they only wear to simchas the other one which is called “the rain streimel” is worn every wk

    in reply to: Separate seating at Weddings #1037917

    golden mom
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    Most “frum” halls today will not allow mixed seating @ a wed so u would be really limiting ur self were u can make a simcha but I did see by a few simchas were they had sep seating w a michitzah and then they had like 2 mixed tables all the way in coner like for work mates or the like who wouldn’t know what to do on a sep table


    golden mom
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    I find that in bp cuz there is always construction going on it gives the mice someplace to live and when they get hungry they come to the neighbors to eat (cuz an empty house has no food) when my neighbor was gutting and rebuilding oh was I infested I was scared to walk into my kitchen didn’t wanna make anything on my counters anyway I called on time exterminator who mouse proffed the whole house from basement all the way up and then work on catching they family that had to way to get out it took some time but was well woth it I blei ayan hara have not seen anything for years!!! And there has been plenty more contruction on my block. His # is 7184372767 and he is a frum yid

    in reply to: **Use only a reliable Car Service!!** #894968

    golden mom
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    at least they admitted they have it some people would not even addmit that i left my camera in a frum store which has camera all over there store they wouldnt give me the time of day and didnt care one bit

    in reply to: sheitel-wearers, any advice in choosing wig for chemo patient? #894263

    golden mom
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    Sorry to hear about ur mom may she have a speedy recovery

    I would not recommend a synthedic it is not neccesarily cheaper and it depenitly gives a un hair look

    Go for a semi costum (costum out of box) in bklyn u can get them from 275 and up it gets washed and cut to ur liking and doesn’t have a high mantance to it and it will look real and make ur mom feel good not like she’s wearing a mom on her head. Good luck

    in reply to: Jew Must Die Rather Than Change His Customs #887998

    golden mom
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    people change their minhagim everyday

    so people shouldnt marry sb that has diffrent minhagim then he grew up w?

    people pick and choose what minhagim they wanna keep like for exaple by a wed ull be by one wed with chassish, litvish, sefradik and yekkish minhagim all in one!?

    in reply to: Inexpensive Family Vacations #888058

    golden mom
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    pennsylvania soo much to do and there r minyanim and kosher food

    in reply to: Is it bad to say 'guys' when referring to girls? #886821

    golden mom
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    i had a teacher in high school who said it was not proper to even say guys about a male

    in reply to: Symbolism of Badeken #886521

    golden mom
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    besides what was said above that when rivka came off the camel she covered her face with a veil

    we also learn by yaakov that when he thought his futhure father in law would trick him he made up a sign with rachel who later gave it to her sister he wouldnt know till after the chuppa was over that it was rachel because her face was covered thats y he made up the sign with her

    in reply to: BUYING SEGULOS #884929

    golden mom
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    a yekke wouldnt understand a brocho from a rebbe either so when u ask a rebbe for a brocho and give him some $ r u buying a brocho too come on!

    in reply to: Gluten Free Challah Recipe #880030

    golden mom
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    just subsitite the reg flour for whatever “other” kind of flour you want to use however u will have to play around with the water till u get the right consistancy

    in reply to: Why Are Men More Intelligent Than Women? #1138421

    golden mom
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    i love coffe : thanx for writting that

    y do u think most girls take an older guy not one her age cuz an older guy would be practically on her intel level one her age would be to low to be able to live w and have a normal conversation

    in reply to: Hat during meals #880069

    golden mom
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    pp hold that you are supposed to have your head double covered esp during benching and kiddush and its a meal of royality so we dress accordingly im sure there is st brought down y u dress w hat and jacket sb can look up

    in reply to: PONY SHEITEL #880103

    golden mom
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    i saw ad for pony shitels on sale by irene wigs in bp

    in reply to: Early Shabbos #1145406

    golden mom
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    the best way to figure out what time you could make early shabbos is find out in all the local shuls what time is the earliest minyan and go to it

    in reply to: SLEEVE SURGERY #919787

    golden mom
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    from my understanding it is very dangerous you do loose alot of weight but can gain it back because there is not adjustments like the band.

    the band if something happens and is undetected a person can die

    the band is the easiest and the safest of all of them and your stomach doesnt have a chance to strech out cuz you can keep on doing adjustments

    in reply to: descriptions on shidduch resume? #879594

    golden mom
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    a few resumes that came my way the info describing the person was in third person which makes it sound that a parent or friend might have written it and therefore doesnt come accross as too hauty

    in reply to: How to clean Tzizzis STRINGS #878485

    golden mom
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    i buy washable and just throw it in regular and 99% of the time it doesnt knot or loosen

    in reply to: Fighting NYC Red Light Camera Ticket #878071

    golden mom
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    i know sb that said there was an sirens behind her so she had to move out of the way cant prove it

    in reply to: Simchas Chosson V'kallah #878414

    golden mom
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    firstly 147 around here if u dont sit for the meal u dont give a gift

    secondly b”h with simchas all the time who can sit by meals you go about 10 or if u can by bediken say ur mazel tovs and go

    it has to be somebody so close to sit by a meal

    and think about prices today u cant have everybody ditting by the meal u would go broke!

    in reply to: Candle holders bursting ? #877636

    golden mom
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    I had it once but considering how many yrs I’m using it…

    My husband said it cuz u gotta make sure the wick is in the miDdle and is not touching the glass who knows

    That’s y they make holders for the holders the look nice and if it bursts its concelled it has like a silver look to it they sell tjem in hardware stores

    in reply to: Baking class, course or job #877786

    golden mom
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    There is a school that adv every wk in the hamodia also in bp on 16th ave peppermile adv classes for baking and cooking and then there are private pp who do it u can open up the jewish phone book a lot advertise like necha klitnick who is very good

    Good luck

    in reply to: Coat over Kittel #877688

    golden mom
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    A chosen wears a kittel because it is a yom kipper for the chosen and kallah however he puts a coat on top to hid the kittel from the public so as not to put the yom kipper on them it is a personal yom kipper (the daven mincha yom kipper)..

    in reply to: Mixed Dancing??? #873855

    golden mom
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    well solve all problems if he gets married in any frum hall they will not allow it so just convince him to get married in a frum hall and after he puts money down he wont be able to back out lol

    in reply to: bedtimes for buchrim #872884

    golden mom
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    and then the sneak out of the house when you go to sleep and drag race on 13th ave

    in reply to: Life After Your 10th Child #872809

    golden mom
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    nechama all girls bring boys so with their husband iyh there will be a minyan

    thewaddingduck so funny there was an article recently about hanooch teller and how he has a house full bli ayan hara and i was thinking i was in sem yrs ago and he had already i think 13 and they must be all married by now so now u answered my question canana hara his wife is an amazing person

    in reply to: Joining Hatzalah #873014

    golden mom
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    2scents i agree i am nervous to put what i know here so instead i will give a brocha that all the hatzolah memebers out there be zoche to be doing this for the right reasons and be zoche to be a sleach of Hashem and be able to help all those who need their assistance

    in reply to: Joining Hatzalah #873005

    golden mom
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    it is very hard to join hatzolah from what i hear alot of politics who knows but i see in bp a new vol amb opened up all those who couldnt get into hatzolah but wanted to help community

    in reply to: Mmmmm #970857

    golden mom
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    omg that sounds amazing did the melt or say whole but soft

    in reply to: working the night shift #875147

    golden mom
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    shabbos is very hard cuz everybody goes to sleep after the sueda and ur wide awake atleast u can sleep after the meal all afternoon but if ur not working motzei shabbos its very hard cuz ur up all night again

    the “days’ off are hard too cuz ur jet lag

    in reply to: Mishpacha article reg. drinking #870449

    golden mom
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    haifagirl: hu??

    in reply to: Interesting yet enticing shidduch resumes, with questions….. #869940

    golden mom
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    maybe they have two streams i also thought it was for pp starting off but somebody from a good frum family just told me their sibling is there to i didnt want to ask any questions but it seemed strange to me too do maybe it has to leavels now look into it dont just say no cuz of this

    and yaff80 until ur in the parsha i think u should keep quite

    in reply to: Mishpacha article reg. drinking #870440

    golden mom
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    I was very disapointed with the article I was hoping it would touch more on the married men there r unfortantly too many men getting stoned fri night what kind of example r they showing there kids and what r they showing towards their wife the once a wk I’m home to help and be around the family I get stoned I did like what the rav said that these boys think they will stop onces they r married. I was always wondering y nb said anything to these pp and he said how aparents and wifes can’t say anything nobody will listhen. It has become a very big problem in the community. And I’m glad it was addressed

    in reply to: Bicycle Helmets! #881462

    golden mom
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    anyone know if a store to buy kids helmets that are under $50

    in reply to: Mens Dress Shirts #869624

    golden mom
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    u can have shirts custom made there are plenty of places that do it for u and im sure they will do any kind of bottons for u like for example shirt sleeves and ben barber both in bp

    in reply to: Lighting Extra Shabbos Lichts #959182

    golden mom
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    first i wanna say there are plenty of people who light only 2 candles even if they have kids and i always learned that candles u follow ur mother not ur husband

    and to answer the question when pp add candles besides for kids is alot of pp started lighting oil and then the confussion starts so they light two oil then one for each kid then two candles for shomer and zocher which if u ask most rabbenim dont agree to add the 2 candles on top so we can add and add and add

    in reply to: Help! Have Gallstones; Can I Avoid Gallbladder Removal?? #925566

    golden mom
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    it is very dangerous to not take care of gal stones they leave the gal blatter and attack other organs i know somebody personally who never took care of it eventally the pain went away but yrs later it came bk in the form of cancer and it was too late to do anything at that point

    and somebody else who it was not diagnosed right away it left her gal blatter and did get stuck in the bil duck and effected other organs she was very sick

    in reply to: Bar Mitzvah idea – save money and way better #851315

    golden mom
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    Hu what did u say the bar mitzvah is for the boy well not according to most yeshivas around here who don’t allow boys at the bar mitzvah at all the rebbe doesn’t even show and menahel shows to say mazel tov and to check that non of the boys r actually there

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