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hey momm! Guess we have something in common. The water thing happened 2 me 2! I love- like momm said, dont just let things be. Tell her how she is acting. That might help her realize for herself if something is wrong. Many times ppl from the inside cant really see it if something is up. Or- talk to her mother. like this u r giving ur concerns over to someone with a closer eye but it could seem like ur simply commenting on how things r doing with the 2 of u..
iluv- Ur post jumped out at me bec that girl used to be me. Im divorced now bh. It could be 4 a totally normall reason but u r her close friend and u know her. If u feel concern dont just ignore it. Thats not what real friends do.
Wow middle path Im impressed. Where did u get all ur knowledge about how woman need (ahem. need) to b treated? I thought guys were supposed to b clueless like that.
Dating in the rain is so fun! I get to wear my cute rain gear. Dating shouldnt b this little bubble with perfect little outings and perfect hair. It should be getting to know a real person in real life situations. Does she put her hair in a pony with a smile or does she freak out and cancell the date? Does he bring along an umbrella for her or make her walk an extra 4 blocks in the wet mist? Something to think about.. Also- ppl- seriously? U can get engaged to someone who doesnt compliment u or show he likes u?? really??
Im petrified of getting old. Dunno why. Maybe its cuz I like my teeth. bpt- that was really cute.
Can I hijac this thread?
What Can I do with a very nice used watch? besides sell on ebay cuz I dunno how 2 do that… 🙂
observan and princess I just read the last 2 letters posted and I think they r lovely. I think u should send them. They show so much care love and concern, and that can really do wonders for a person a need. Even if they r not interested in ur words, showing u care can really help a person get through rough patches and do alot of good
Mr. 80, that was a good way to describe it. I feel the same way. I cant stop thinking about it. I wonder if the family knows about it or gave permission
If I heard someone is making one penny off of it, I would throw up. I saw it said a “portion” of proceeds r goin 2 Leiby Kletzky fund.
DY- LOL! Good one! (How do u think of ur lines?)
correction- Im so sorry for the pain u r in. I can relate 2 the the feeling of being “in so much pain that they feel like they will explode” What I did then was I put on music, sneakers and I ran. It helped tremendously. I felt like I actually did explode, and everything left me, and allowed me to cope. Music always offers me alot of comfort. While Gd is there- the support of having people is vitall. Find ppl who have been through similar situations and reach out to them. A mentor is good, but someone who has been there is better. Take it one day at a time (or one hour at a time..) and live “for today.”
I found it to be incredibly creepy.
“but is it bad to go into something knowing there is already an issue no matter how insignificant”
Rabbi G-when u find a someone with zero downsides let me know.
Untill then, Im goin to laugh that u think it is possible to find a perfect girl with zero issues no matter how insignificant.
Btw- funny story- I know someone who’s wife has a really awkward name. (hes sefardic- her name is yiddish) everytime he gets a brachah at shul 4 her (and ther married 20+ years now) He calls her “Ishti” She fuuuuumes..lol
dz- little kids arent capable of sitting for so long.. certainly not by adult conversation. Theres a reason Preschool only has 20 minute MAXIMUM circle time..
Snitching is snitching and I hate when ppl run to do it without making an effort to help the person first. (Is it even Loshon Horah? It could possibly be avoided..) Sure its more comfortable 4 u to speak with the director, but if u were in her position u would WISH someone spoke 2 u first. If ur really concerned u gotta speak 2 spazy first.
P- yeah thats nuts.. Most adults I know cant stay at the table too long b4 escaping to the couch or the bathroom with the Mishpachah.. 🙂
sms- seriously.. Sum JAPy females who wer so desperate 4 ther night in shining armor and male attention.. but it was below them to ask 4 it in other ways.. (sigh..nebach.. singles..
cookie- nice. I would get a male to pick up the phone and pretend hes a cop..
P- So u see no point 2 a parent makin an effort to include his kids at the shabbos table?
English songs r a good idea. Especially the Parsha/Shabos/Yom Tov songs they learn by Morah. Do motions like in girls camps! (So fun- I still crack up from them..)
I get the most randome air freshners possible. Other then that I dont like doin anything else.
Some girls I know were bored one night so they purposely locked ther keys in the car and called Chaverim..
There were some issues with Shabbos locks in Brooklyn recently.. Many houses were broken into on Shabbos..
Sum ppl have a problem called codependency.. Find out what it is 2 make sure u dont have it cuz its a pretty serious thing……
Wow- wolf- ur so polite im so impressed 🙂
neveeeeeer I hate spending money on food (cept ice cream)
Cmon Wolf.. Wer talkin about Shani, Shevy, and Chaim Yankel bein all chummy chummy..
bortez- WOW- Thank u so much 4 sharing that. U just gave me so much chizuk when I really needed it 🙂
I actually remember feeling that way once. I was in such an awfull mood it was dangerous. However it was in an ice cream store so obviously when I left the salesperson got a very bright smile from me 🙂
Middle Path- Dont say no one. I was married to a guy who had all the external things worked out PERFECTLY. His family seemed beautifull. There was not one bump. Then I realized there was something rotten inside of him. If you have such good character then u r very very lucky and ur zivug is going 2b very very lucky because that is EVERYTHING that counts. Many ppl simply lose sight of that. (and somne ppl are shallow..) Yes, Fam is important but I would take a guy with top notch middos and a scary fam in a heartbeat rather then be stuck with just all around average/nothin speacial..
I just got 2 of those today: ” You look so young!!” (huh?? Im barely out of my teens)
“He needs a girl exactly like u just with a cooler personality” (when I started laughing the person was like- what did I say??)
I think it is correct to use some kind of title when talking with ur friends so as a reminder that ur not all chummy chummys.. However one thing i noticed- Many newlywedish girls have only HIM on ther mind and when having a convo with Single friends.. “My Husband said somethin funny, and My Husband thought I was nuts, and My Husband took the string beans ,and then My Husband drank the lemonjuice, and My Husband and I went shopping, and I went to My Husband…” It can be a little insensitve and really grate on another (especially single) person’s nerves. Just like u wouldnt talk 2 a childless mother about “My baby, baby, baby…” it would be nicer to say “I took Chavy to the playground..”
Everyone: Go bikeriding. U can never be as carefree and relaxed as u r when ur single. Enjoy what u have even though its hard to see the gifts of singledom.
I dont think so.. But I wear almost no black in summer so I cant imagine bein stuck w that color on my nails..
Haqer- lol!! So cute
I heard of that Shaila and I heard its tot Assur (because it is assur to have a child with a Jewish male with perfect Yichus who is not ur husband…)
If it is really possible to do without violating issurim, I think it is a nice idea for the mother. For the child I dont know..
And 4 sum reason no one can figure out who the winner is.
wow am u just read and posted my mind 🙂
I was about to say just that
In as in physically in.
Men who will learn r different and can enjoy the 4th floor.. 😉
minyan gal- wow thats an interesting way of cleanup! I gotta try that!
And in the basement r the men who r in Kollel.
If ur looking 4 good dinner ideas, an oven usually works and bakes better. Also hope ur taking into consideration cleanup which is not too easy on a G.F.
Whadyu mean- OP is never empty after dark from my point of view.. Theres always Jewish Joggers, old ppl who sit and stare, parkers, ppl on ther cell phones.. I feel very secure to take a walk down OP at night (even though its probly not the smartest thing 2 do..)
Hi Chaim! How r u today?
Maybe u should greet them with a smile first. Be warm to THEM and break up any discomfort. If u r a friendly, polite, warm person u will probably b surrounded by ppl bein friendly, warm, polite back.
“im not new but since you are let me clue you in- we try our best to spell things correctly here.”
Ok, Morah
” it can be addicting even on Kosher sites… “
True. But you don’t go to gehenom for broswing/ downloading 1500+ cc cookie recipes
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bpt that was the funniest line on the whole thread. Thanks 4 the laugh!
Ppl dont flatter urselves by calling yelling/potching “chinuch”
Yelling is never chinuch.
PotchING is never chinuch
Your right I should not project my experience onto the rest of the world. But I would like to argue about the toes. Its not that simple. Most ppl are born with ten toes. Most ppl are also born with crooked teeth or imperfect eyesight or large noses or bad breath. Why should it bother someone so much to hear about it? Why do we need to run after these ppl who talk about ther unusually large feet and say SSSSHHH dont say that- most ppl dont have that! I disagree, and where is that getting anyone?