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  • in reply to: Women who drink on a date #770936
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    We’re not discussing soft drinks.

    My apologies then.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Yeshivah guy ordering beer on a date #770551
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    I don’t believe in alcohol.

    Every time you say that, a bottle of Red Bull loses it’s wings.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Did I Harm A Child? #771583
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    Be careful Wolf, step on a crack break your mother’s back!

    Sadly, I’ve done that. To date my mother has had over a dozen back surgeries. 🙁

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Whats with the off-the-derech teens?!?! #779507
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    Can’t know for sure what Fetter meant, but most likely, it was just a figure of speech

    I find “crime against humanity” to be a very strange “figure of speech.” There are plenty of ways you can say that you believe single parenthood is wrong without using the phrase “crimes against humanity” – a phrase normally reserved for the worst of crimes (genocide and the like).

    The Wolf

    in reply to: The Jewish/Chasidic Bloc Vote #770040
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    The reasons the Jewish “bloc vote” is so successful is several-fold:

    Was this in response to something, or did you suddenly decide to pontificate on the virtues of bloc voting?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Did I Harm A Child? #771579
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    tongue (or typing fingers) in cheek as a social experiment to see how many people would take this seriously.

    No.

    Look, there are people here who make the point that there is spiritual significance to everything we do. “There is no reshus,” these people will say, “there is only required and forbidden.”

    If that’s the case, and there is spiritual significance to even our smallest actions, then perhaps there was significance to this action of mine. And if there was, perhaps there is some atonement that needs to be done for it.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: What are the halachic ramifications #862159
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    What is the halocha on eating chometz DURING THE YEAR, that was possibly not sold over Pesach?

    Is it halachically ‘inedible’?

    Chametz that was in the possession of a Jew over Pesach may not be consumed after Pesach.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Women who drink on a date #770925
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    I don’t know. Eeees and I drank on every date that we went on… both before and after we were married.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Yeshivah guy ordering beer on a date #770520
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    Wolf do u like to use the doubling cube?

    Yes.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Good Deeds Done For A Solely Selfish Purpose… #769591
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    she metoch shelolisma Boh lishma.” (It’s good to learn Torah and do Mitzvos without the proper intention, because even so eventually you’ll come to do them with the proper intention.) Your OP is a classic example.

    On the contrary. Since the hypothetical person in the OP is going to die, he’ll likely never reach the stage of Lishmah. The ma’amar Chazal that you quote makes it sound like the only reason that shelo lishma is good is because it will lead to lishmah. That will not, however, happen here.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: presidential candidates #769851
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    in reply to: WHAT'S THE RUSH?!?!? #769575
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    its b/c if you go out with a person a very long time.. then you will automatically find something wrong with him/her and break it off b/c you want the “perfect” one

    As someone who dated for a long time, I can tell you that this is NOT universally true.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Yeshivah guy ordering beer on a date #770497
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    What’s backgammon have to do with going to a bar?

    I guess you’ve never played backgammon.

    It’s a good thing you’re not a lawyer.

    What difference does it make? Can I be sent to Hell for eternity twice?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Yeshivah guy ordering beer on a date #770494
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    A Frum person should never be in a bar.

    I guess I’m not frum since I was playing backgammon the other day and was sent to the bar.

    Just another sign that I’m going to hell in the afterlife.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Did I Harm A Child? #771572
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    Chumros, chumros! Stop with those chumros already! This is why kids go OTD!;-)

    I wasn’t imposing any chumra on anyone. I wasn’t even suggesting that anyone else feel about this the way that I might have felt.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Did I Harm A Child? #771570
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    Then you’re up the creek. Maybe fast for 40 days, and have only a slice of bread with one cup of water at night.

    Thank you for the suggestion.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Did I Harm A Child? #771568
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    Was her name written in Hebrew?

    No, but why should it matter? If someone does not know Hebrew, is there anything wrong with writing “Haman” or “Amalek” in English on the bottom of your shoe?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Did I Harm A Child? #771563
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    No. You assisted in the erasure of one of her bad midos – destroying others’ property.

    I highly doubt that drawing with colored chalk on the sidewalk is harming it in any way or form — and certainly not destroying it.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Did I Harm A Child? #771562
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    shows our disdain for him

    That was my point. Was it inadvertently showing my disdain for her?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Did I Harm A Child? #771561
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    Just give an apology to be on the safe side.

    And what if the harm was more than a simple apology could solve?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Information Verification is Vital BEFORE Dating #769520
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    Has a ger in their family?

    Why is this a potential negative?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: A Rainbow! #769727
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    We all know that a rainbow represents Hashem’s will to destroy the world, but will not due to his promise after the Mabul to bring a rainbow instead.

    Does that mean that HaShem is always threatening to destroy the world at Niagara Falls (since there is always a rainbow there when the sun is shining)?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: yichus in shidduchim #769717
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    Wolf: The definition of a Talmid Chochom isn’t a matter of opinion on which you can disagree.

    OK, so I’m a kofer with a differing opinion.

    The Gemorah enumerates the attributes of a Talmid Chochom. These include not being the last to enter the Beis HaMedrash, not talking to a woman in the street, etc.

    I guess I’m definitely not a Talmid Chochom then. I hold the door open for people and purposely go in last. I also talk to my wife in the street. Just further proof that I’m the lowest of the low.

    The opening sentence says a Talmid Chochom is modest, humble, endures justice, avoids wrongdoing, etc.

    Definitely not me, as we’ve observed.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Good Deeds Done For A Solely Selfish Purpose… #769589
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    It’s hard to believe that the person in your scenario, dying and doing as many mitzvos as possible, doesn’t truly regret his sins.

    You really can’t see how a person could be doing mitzvos for a completely selfish reason?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Good Deeds Done For A Solely Selfish Purpose… #769584
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    A person can do teshuva on his deathbed, and become a tzadik, even after a lifetime of evil.

    Of course. Thank you for answering the question I didn’t ask. 🙂

    Presumably, if one does teshuva, they *regret* the evil they did. In my scenario, the person doesn’t truly regret the evil (no more than the thief “regrets” being caught).

    The Wolf

    in reply to: yichus in shidduchim #769715
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    yichus up the wazoo

    Nominated for best line of the day.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: All eyes on u #769763
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    How can you “feel” a stare?

    How do you “feel” kedushah? (Or, the lack of it when I’m around)

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Whats with the off-the-derech teens?!?! #779490
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    I can’t know what was on Fetter Shmelka’s mind, but what I hope he meant (and I would agree, but not phrased the same way) is women who, by choice, turn their back on the needs of their children (so they can shop, go to tzedoko parties, pursue a carrear, even though $ is not the issue), they (and their partner husbands) have done their kids a huge dis-service.

    WADR, there is a BIG difference between “a huge dis-service” and a “crime against humanity.” People generally don’t get executed for the former.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Baby Boy Bigger Brocho than Girl #769391
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    Someone mentioned to me a Gemorah that says when a couple’s first child is a boy (b’chor), it is signifies the wife loves her husband. Does anyone know the parameters of this Gemorah?

    Where is this Gemara?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: yichus in shidduchim #769712
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    OTOH a talmid chochom does by definition need to be a tzadik. A rasha who knows kol HaTorah kula is no “talmid chochom”.

    I disagree. Were I more learned, I would be the classic example of a talmid chochom who is not a tzaddik. Someone can be learned and choose not to observe what he learns.

    The Wolf

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    Ultimately, it varies from person to person. For some people, a chavrusa would undoubtedly be better. For me, personally, I find that learning alone is most productive.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: yichus in shidduchim #769709
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    A Bas Talmid Chochom, by definition, is yichus.

    A Tzadik, by definition, has more zchusim than a non-tzadik.

    A Talmid Chochom does not, by definition, have to be tzadik. Nor does a tzadik, by definition, have to be a talmid chochom.

    And, of course, by definition, I am neither.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: wedding dresses and walking down the aisle #770297
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    I have long been amazed that we even have women at weddings at all. After all, she doesn’t really need to be there. K’ddushin can be done via a sh’liach. Nisuin requires no more than two witnesses and doesn’t need to involve any more than a car trip from her parents’ home to the chosson’s home.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Whats with the off-the-derech teens?!?! #779484
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    Children without a full-time mother is a crime against humanity. There is no replacement for a mother; and a child needs a mother full-time. The consequences of them lacking this, is all too apparent.

    I’m curious… if children without a mother is a crime against humanity (a VERY strong term), would you advocate removing children from a father-only household to be adopted by a frum, loving couple? If not, why would you allow this crime to continue to be perpetrated against them?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Anyone see these rediculous "Doomsday" Ads in Subway? #770019
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    For what it’s worth, Mayor Bloomberg has announced that if the world ends tomorrow, alternate side parking is suspended.

    (No, seriously, he did say it.)

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Jean skirts #768831
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    And according to at least one poster who works in the industry, denim fashion is designed for znus.

    If denim is, then certainly lingerie is. Are you positing that the use of lingerie is forbidden as well?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Share Your Worst Date Ever! #777969
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    I really don’t mean to engage in schadenfreude, but every time I read a thread like this, I thank God that He never allowed me to go on a bad date. Even the date I described on the first page of this thread was, in fact, a good and enjoyable date (albeit one where nothing went as planned).

    The Wolf

    in reply to: What's Your Favorite Board Game? #768359
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    sure ill fix it right now

    Wrong word. The one you want is “board.”

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Great story! #974930
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    I find it very hard to believe that Rav Shteinman did not know what steak and/or ice cream are.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: sheitel vs hair #768442
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    thank you wolf

    i appreciate the correction

    i try to be makpid on capitalization

    You’re welcome. I’m sorry to be a pain about it (I know it’s far from the first time I’ve corrected someone on these boards regarding this matter), but it’s a pet peeve of mine.

    Also, you didn’t have to leave my post up. I would have been fine with you simply correcting your post and deleting mine.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Anyone see these rediculous "Doomsday" Ads in Subway? #769990
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    See, those silly Mayans had nothing to worry about. The world’s going to end a full seven months before their calendar runs out.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: nose jobs #768408
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    but thats not what you said

    Fair enough. Point noted.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: nose jobs #768406
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    the poster categorized the Tshuva as such, not necessarily R Moshe, tz’l.

    i would look at the Tshuva myself before disagreeing with R Moshe, tzl

    Then I was disagreeing with the poster, not R. Moshe. And, I suppose, depending on who the poster is, that, too, could indicate that I’m a mental midget or an apikorus.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: sheitel vs hair #768433
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    commander!

    Commander.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: nose jobs #768404
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    cosmetic surgery, including nose jobs and weight loss surgery.

    I don’t know that I’d categorize weight loss surgery as “cosmetic.”

    (Yeah, I know… I’m a mental midget for disagreeing with R. Moshe, I’m an apikorus for even thinking that I might have a valid point…”)

    The Wolf

    in reply to: problems with Yeshivas #768093
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    Yes, the zman is from Rosh Chodesh Iyar until the Yom Tovim.

    In that case, I offer my apologies. I did not know that. My intent was not to insult anyone or offer impractical advice.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: problems with Yeshivas #768091
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    Wolf: It’s not just one month. Chasidish Yeshivas have this zman until after Sukkos.This is getting really out of hand

    Really? Chassidic yeshivas go through the summer until Sukkos?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: shidduch issue #768061
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    so do you think a child should take care of their shidduchim on their own? we are talking about a young girl right out of school not someone a little older

    Assuming that she’s truly mature enough and ready to get married, then yes.

    And that does not mean that she has to cut her parents (or other respected figures) out of the process. She can certainly (and I would encourage her to) turn to them for advice, recommendations and suggestions. But if she’s truly mature enough to get married and knows what she wants in a spouse, then why not?

    The Wolf

    in reply to: COVERAGE OF NITUREI KARTA #768274
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    Sometimes I subscribe to the “Give ’em enough rope…” methodology of dealing with stupidity.

    The Wolf

    in reply to: Dr. Bo's type diet #772070
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    i put the apostrophe in after your first post

    That would explain why my mind missed it. 🙂

    The Wolf

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