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  • in reply to: Favorite quote #2061720

    Mark Twain +1 I am quoting this to my teen kids all the time.

    in reply to: Here’s A Challenge: #2061719

    Democrats are good at propaganda
    Many democrats cared about their slaves and did not abuse them
    more seriously,
    left-wing democrats, like all communists, are often sincere in their desire to help poor people and get rid of evil capitalists. We should learn from their zeal.
    moderate democrats, like Joe Liberman, genuinely think and care about the country and Jewish people also.

    in reply to: Is it time to leave America #2061718

    HaKatan notices that Reform is dying and Zionism is not to justify bigger evil of Zionism. Maybe it means that Reform was wrong (more)? They led their communities to full assimilation. I would add that original Zionism is also not around. You describe it how it looks in 1930s, maybe you read some seforim from 100 years ago and did not go out much.

    in reply to: Fancy Trip Statuses #2061717

    I tihnk a lot of judgment is based on “selection bias”. As Avira is saying – A chusid travelling for a vacation and instagramming is not representative of the klal. And what Gadol sees as “changes” may simply be more mainstream community joining in.

    Goldilocks, great tips. If you need to post, do it after you are home, not before you are travelling. Crooks are scanning for this info.

    But maybe think what is important and post that – a kid with a sefer, someone helping a grandma cross the road ..

    in reply to: Fancy Trip Statuses #2061591

    Goldilocks, great tips! If you need to post those photos, do it after coming back.

    Also, please consider that school finance committee can also find those videos when you are asking for a discount.

    in reply to: Melaleuca #2061585

    Amway was popular in previous century. Is MLM still active?! When you can google it and see the scam? When there are not enough workers for so many jobs? makes no sense to me

    in reply to: question for competent lawyers and anyone else who knows law #2061578

    CTL > Federal Government said to the states if you don’t raise the drinking age to 21, we will cut off all federal highway funds to your state.

    CTL, I always wondered how this is allowed to be legal. Feds collect taxes for the enumerated powers – defense, commerce, etc. Fine. Now they are are using the power of that money to compel states to do many other things. Constitution and bill of rights were made to limit federal powers. What is the limit here? Is there anything feds can’t compel by withholding funds?

    in reply to: Is Israel heading to the 7 day workweek? #2061330

    what is wrong with blue laws? why can’t all peoples enjoy a day off? They know they will be hayav misa if they do it on Shabbos so they chose a day before or after.

    in reply to: Verifiable Hashgacha Pratis Stories #2061280

    RebE, indeed! It is better to NOT be born in Sopron, but if you are born in Sopron, better escape and count your blessings!

    Same as previously discussed comparison between Bavel and Israel – Bavlim learn how to argue and fight, but the best ones wrote a bigger Talmud.

    But we should not argue – Hashem sends every person his own challenges and one should not be jealous – not of riches, not of challenges. You were strong enough to get to Sopron , I – to some other challenges (that I chose not to advertise here).

    in reply to: Is Israel heading to the 7 day workweek? #2061249

    Amil > Why shouldn’t public transport be available to them?

    Religious zionists, or at least people sympathetic to non-religious Jews, might argue on that. What seems inconsistent that those who reject Medina, do not see value in national movements, etc – protest shabbos violations. They don’t protest in Brooklyn, what’s the difference (from their point of view)? maybe someone can explain this to me.

    in reply to: BREAKING: CDC Data Shows Boosters’ Protection Plunges After 4 Months #2061251

    charlie > But natural immunity did not provide protection against the omicron variant.

    It provided, similar to the vaccine, protection from severe outcomes in part due to T-cell immunity that is more general than antibodies and come to play after someone is infected.

    What we really need for non-vaccinated is a way to get exposed to a light case. For example, make them come into an infected room for 2 minutes [this will avoid possible exposure for 2 hours]. Or, better, release a weakened variant (either find a natural one or engineer). Of course, FDA that had hard time understanding the value of imperfect home tests, will not approve of such “unethical” path even as it will save millions of lives.

    in reply to: Verifiable Hashgacha Pratis Stories #2061252

    common > The traffic light turned red, I stopped for the light and a car driving on the other street who had a green light did not crash

    Common, thanks for the advice! I now tried this segulah and it worked!
    First, a car behind me crashed into my car (expecting me to speed up as usual). So, I questioned the ways of Hashem … Then, insurance paid me for the total value of my junked car based on current inflated prices, my friend mechanic repaired it for close to nothing, and now I have both a car and money to pay for kids’ colleges!

    in reply to: Verifiable Hashgacha Pratis Stories #2061253

    My miracle beats yours, Reb E: Hashem made sure I never even came to Sopron!

    in reply to: NPR Is a Joke and Shouldn’t be Funded by Tax Dollars! #2061263

    Luna > funding from federal grants … only amount to about 2%

    you surely heard (or read) this on NPR, so this is reliable!

    Note that 32% of their funding comes from fees from their “member stations”. Member stations are funded in part by government funds and CPB. CPB in turn is FULLY funded by federal government. Each of these organizations are also charities, that is donations is partially subsidized by government.

    So before adding all of this up, I feel justified to declare this fact check as “mostly untrue”.

    in reply to: Stealing your neigbours cleaning lady! #2060875

    > Causing major additional expenses to families who are very tight in their budget

    On one hand, we have halakha of not competing with another Jew when he is doing business with a non-Jew. This typically applies when a non-Jewish aristocrat hires a Jewish tradesman. I am wondering whether this still holds when the power differential is reversed, In this case, we presumably talk about Jewish employers (who possibly chose not to work themselves) hiring (possibly illegal, not speaking English) workers (possibly not paying employment taxes) lacking a lot of legal protections. While we may not be obligated to care about these workers as we would for Jews, it is not clear that one _has_ to participate in this race to the bottom in order to spare expenses to others.

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    in reply to: Expose the profiteering of PCR tests #2060892

    Loshen, it sounds like encountered this singularly in one of the busiest airports of the world, and also at the height of Omicron.

    I googled right now, you can get PCR at Heathrow for 60 GBP next day and 80 same day; 4 hour! for 120. Maybe you should arrange the next day test?

    in reply to: Is it time to leave America #2060891

    HaKatan, there are many ways to skin this cat, here is a statistical one:
    12% of American Jews go to (any kind of) synagogue weekly
    25% of Israeli Jews do (32% of those who call themselves “traditional”)
    27% of Americans go to religious services weekly.

    21% of American Jews say religion is very important
    30% of Israeli Jews do, 32% of traditionals do.

    you could argue, of course, that given a more religious, and more Jewish, environment in Israel the difference should be larger.

    US also had it’s share of Jewish socialists in 1930s and even later who were fighting religion. They simply assimilated and now fight climate change instead of other Jews.

    All kiruv work is great, but the number of non-O Jews percentage wise affected by it is very small, and, I think, getting smaller.

    in reply to: Weekly Kabolas Shabbos Nap #2060888

    On the same page, there is also a cryptic notion of negative issues from (1) people who should be learning – not learning, (2) people who should not be learning – learning, (3) bad leaders ….

    this seems to go somewhat against “universal learning” ideal, although can be explained away, of course.

    in reply to: Weekly Kabolas Shabbos Nap #2060887

    The issue of “working most of the week” is not so pashut.

    Daf Yomi talks about the person who would learn one day a year (traveling/working the rest of the year) and this might be equivalent to full time learning if done properly.

    in reply to: Weekly Kabolas Shabbos Nap #2060886

    I was not thinking about overworked wives getting a law degree in addition to everything else. I was thinking about kollelmen themselves getting into law, then having 6 months annually to learn and help at home. With 2-3 wives, this can be even full time learning (we can suspend R Gershom’s decree due to urgency of the hour, as we do with other halochos).

    in reply to: Should YWN, stop copy and pasting Reuters and AP? #2060884

    jackk, in the spirit of respectful discussion, could you try to summarize the court filing in a non-partisan manner, without omitting something that is not good for your side?

    I did not read the filing, but I read previous documents, and I recall a bunch of serious stuff, like a university using their DARPA-provided IP data to come up with “suspicious” IPs, while one of the researchers explicitly telling all that this is not suspicious; Sussman requesting this “research”, and then taking as a “concerned citizen” to authorities, with also implications that others are aware of what was going on. this is fomr memory and early docs, so maybe you can help us get more details on this.

    in reply to: Favorite Siddur #2060880

    coffee, avira, I also did not like it when seeing other people doing it for years.
    But really works for outside – self-lightning, allows for gloves without need to turn tiny pages; if it gets damaged by drops of rain, it is a broken phone, rather than a torn siddur, maybe should move the text according to where I look or even better, where the chazan is mumbling. For shabbos, probably can be automated to a certain speed like a shabbos elevator… some joke that some people wake up by shir shel yom to ask what day is it diay, but phone siddur shows the right shir. I am not really advocating phone, just found it surprising that I changed my opinion 180 when I am using it rather than others 😉 talking about bias!

    in reply to: Warning: Do not lift the Chasan on the Table #2060879

    By the way, what’s up with tables and supersizing everything?

    Seems like _sitting_ on a chair is more traditional and safe (and Kings used to sit even in Beis Hamikdash, nobody put them on a shaky table!).

    in reply to: Warning: Do not lift the Chasan on the Table #2060878

    midwesterner, thanks for the correction!

    Yoma 22-23: first episode is when one kills another in anger (and father of the victim is trying to keep the knife tahor..). This did not lead to the prohibition as this was clearly an issue of anger after competition. Second episode that I referred to when one pushed the other was clearly during the competition and lead to banning the practice. So, it seems that Beit Din did not mind people getting competitive, just not getting physical. Btw, mussar recommends to parents who can’t hold themselves from murder (shouting at children) should use positive rewards and competitions between children. Try saying “quietly” to your spouse that the other kid two years ago did that homework easily.

    in reply to: question for competent lawyers and anyone else who knows law #2060872

    Mahybe you guys should start a “Jews for Covid” fund. What a shanda.

    in reply to: Why Biden is the president #2060870

    Both questions should be asked:
    Trump was elected because rural Americans were tired of liberals; nobody liked Hillary; and Putin could not imagine Trump winning, he just wanted to hurt Hillary before she becomes President.

    Biden was elected because suburban nice people did not like Trump’s tweets; Biden sounded nice and non-threatening (except when bullying a fat guy in Iowa); and pandemic allowed quick-thinking Dems to increase numbers of their voters by mail vote while Trump was distracted by Covid, impeachment, illegal surveillance.

    in reply to: Weekly Kabolas Shabbos Nap #2060479

    Gadol, wow … first time ever I am envious. Send this info to the kahal, this is an easy way to have kollel fully paid!

    in reply to: Favorite Siddur #2060480

    I used to be annoyed by people scrolling through their prayers. But now I also found phone siddur useful for outside minyanim… looking for shabbos edition, though.

    My favorite mahzorim are two pre-WW1 from different sides of the family, one Vilna, one Wien … good feeling that you follow your predecessors in davening. Wien one is much thinner – less piyutim and much better, thinner, paper.

    in reply to: Weekly Kabolas Shabbos Nap #2060426

    Gadol,
    I was annoyed by this guy’s insistence on inconveniencing others for relatively optional activities, that could have been re-arranged or done faster. You can see it in the opposite way that he is such a tzaddik that he would not compromise on his mental preparation for shabbos. I was raised to put obligation to others first. When I worked for companies and was expected to be in office, I only requested absolute minimum I needed and repeatedly apologized for that, rather than referring to the discrimination laws. One of my friends years ago went to further extreme in middos to make sure he is not abusing the employer: he did not inform his employer about his needs (and went without kippah) and would simply request time off when required. He was prepared to resign if refused. He was an excellent and reliable performer, so was never refused. At my company, the rules are that anyone can take off any days they want, disregarding secular calendar rules.

    in reply to: End of the mask mitzva cult? #2060424

    Syag, sorry for not being clear. I wanted to highlight that one family whom I know for a long long time – who first did not read the directions (or possibly disregarded them), and then refused to follow them when I asked them (extremely nicely). All they needed was to hop into the car and get the kid home. They had someone sitting with the rest of the kids.

    Re: when you say “our doctors”, maybe you can say what your doctors say specifically.

    My questions about psak is generally towards people’s public behaviors, not medical decisions. Usually directed at people who bring mysterious quotes from websites, not you. I am pretty sure those are not from their doctors.

    in reply to: BREAKING: CDC Data Shows Boosters’ Protection Plunges After 4 Months #2060401

    ujm> exact wording of the New York Times headline

    you would not consider “you have as much integrity as NYT headline writers” a compliment, would you?
    but it worked to attach attention 🙂

    in reply to: Warning: Do not lift the Chasan on the Table #2060421

    > chasan lost his balance.

    RebE, maybe add safety grips attached to the table? Maybe this procedure is a moshal for the upcoming married life – treated as a King, but turbulence ahead? So, chasanim need to learn how to keep their balance.

    in reply to: Expose the profiteering of PCR tests #2060419

    Gadol, “did not enter” until recently, while Europe was able to figure it out. This is food for thought for you about difference between gov lead by a businessman or by a politician. Biden made an announcement about test availability in the middle of omicron surge and they started arriving shortly after the crisis seems to pass. the insurance approach (again, only from Jan 2022) is cumbersome and is not a very good incentive. The goal is to have low-informational population to use these tests when they need them. It got to be simple, not with a promise of filling out forms later.

    in reply to: BREAKING: CDC Data Shows Boosters’ Protection Plunges After 4 Months #2060400

    rw > fact that CDC deleted from their own website the info of how long vaccines are tested (10-15 years)

    I looked at the original article with these words. They list all steps in vaccine development, and the value of Warp Speed was able to compress all of them. The site says that the final phase 3 trial takes about 60K people, and Pfizer had 44K – close enough. As this is the final step proving efficacy and and safety, there is no reason to worry about quality of previous steps. Just tells you how fast research can happen when government gets out of the way.

    in reply to: End of the mask mitzva cult? #2060372

    Syag > long term damage,

    I trust you know more of what is happening with kids in schools. There is a “recover” trial run by NIH to look at long covid, including in kids. I don’t know how to weigh these risks against each other.

    in reply to: End of the mask mitzva cult? #2060360

    Syag > vaccine did not do anything to prevent transmission

    factual correction: vaccine does reduce transmission, although less than severe disease – especially for variants. 7x reduction for the famous Phase 3 trials was for transmission. Event in question was pre-Delta. I don’t plan to discuss details of organizer motivation, as well as others. I just brought a minor detail that struck me as totally oblivious – you are told of the rules, it would take 15 minutes to comply, and you refuse. Pre-covid, this would be boorish behavior that would just end up with extra shnitsel consumed. Start appreciating all the gemorahs discussing a thought put into every act done correctly – drinking reviis with 2, not 1, not 3, gulps. If you learn to be careful with every action, then you can easily adjust to ever-changing reality.

    in reply to: Warning: Do not lift the Chasan on the Table #2060357

    RebE > One must weigh the risk

    Match the weight of the chatan to the maximal allowed for the table?

    in reply to: Warning: Do not lift the Chasan on the Table #2060356

    Gadol, tru, if I recall correctly, the methods employed by T’Ch might have involved risk to them (other than in carrying kallah) rather than to the chatan.

    in reply to: End of the mask mitzva cult? #2060322

    RW > It’s one thing to wear a mask which may help, it’s another thing to wear a useless symbolic cloth.

    what is your conclusion? Are you wearing a better mask?

    > imagine it stopping a microscope virus

    Virus does not travel by itself, it attaches to small particles. Masks have not only mechanical filters, but also electrostatic that attracts those particles. A bigger problem is gaps even with proper masking, kal vhomer with half-worn.

    But behavior and environment are probably more important. If you don’t stay long in poorly ventilated rooms with other people, you’ll reduce your risk and probably severity in case of getting it. If you lock yourself in a closed room and windows with a large group singing nigunim, N95 might not help.

    in reply to: End of the mask mitzva cult? #2060320

    Avram, baalas simcha was very nervous overall, and justifiably knowing where she is. She arranged this at a safest, largest, multi-room place with other precautions and this was at the lowest pre-delta level. We came to support and help her as much/little as we could. Don’t regret coming, but can’t un-see people who were showing kavod to a friend by endangering her. I don’t know, of course, who knew how much. On a positive side, one antivaxxer did comply in order to attend. So, “simcha mandates” might work.

    in reply to: Weekly Kabolas Shabbos Nap #2060312

    ujm, I agree on this hiluk.
    For those who both work and learn during the week – what would be the order? Still, kabolos shabbos nap may be only appropriate for those who can’t ease up before shabbos – medical residents and workaholics.

    I once heard from a youngster that he interviewed with a company (law or finance, I think) that had a hutzpah to deny his request to leave for shabbos by noon (during summer), so that he could take a shower, cook, and otherwise refresh himself before shabbos … Admirable or not?

    in reply to: BREAKING: CDC Data Shows Boosters’ Protection Plunges After 4 Months #2060299

    UJM, thanks for the reference. They compute ER visit and hospitalization reductions of 2 and 3 doses separately for Delta and Omicron periods comparing with unvaccinated. This is done for all mRNA vaccines after correcting for patient and virus prevalence parameters, so looks pretty solid.

    Bottom line: 4x reduction in hospitalization at about 5 months and, presumably, higher for deaths (in all data, reduction increases with severity – from infection to ER to hospitalization to deaths).

    Here is my summary from their Table 2 on hospitalization:
    months <2 2-3 4 >=4 >= 5
    Delta 2 doses 17x 11x 10x 5.5
    Omicron 2 doses 3.5 3 2.5 2
    Delta 3 doses 25x 14x 4x
    Omicron 3 doses 11x 8x 4.5x

    One question I have on such research is not taking “natural immunity” into account when counting “unvaccinated”. As they would be already more likely to be infected than those with vaccines, this might underestimate the estimate of the vaccine. I do not see this mentioned in the article.

    in reply to: Expose the profiteering of PCR tests #2060292

    Loshen, most people here seem to be Colonials, and we are way behind Europe in free testing. My understanding is that in many places, like Cyprus and others, these tests are all over the place, free or very cheap. At the tax-payers cost, of course. In the case of the airport, would they let you bring your own test that you can pre-order or do they force you to take and pay to a specific company? If the latter, this is not right, and, at minimum, they should have an open bid for the job. That said, it may be that the bid will end up with a high price – possibly, they need to rent a place, train people, send urgently to the lab to ensure quick turn-around, maybe using more robust or multiple tests.

    Should airport tests be free? Maybe not. Most flyers are either vacationing or doing business, so they should pay for it, not taxpayers.

    in reply to: Warning: Do not lift the Chasan on the Table #2060286

    A Rav told me that he advises hasanim to break the glass with the heel to avoid a trauma.

    We have numerous cases in Gemorah when a practice was called off due to freak cases that happened.
    For example, a cohen breaking a leg when running to get avodah. Apparently, they did not wait for the second case.

    Maybe there were close calls before with cohanim pushing each other? For many dangerous events, close calls are a good predictor. For example, number of sudden stops when driving is a good predictor of someone who might end in an accident. So, think of close calls and correct your middos accordingly.

    in reply to: Danger of Talking on Cellphone When Driving!! #2060191

    re: comparison of US v. others. You have a good point, although European countries by now have their own poor immigrant populations. US does have other advantages though – more personal transportation, larger houses, more disperse communities. Some of US advantages may work against public safety, though – air conditioning, and, most of all, distrust of government. I did not look a lot on research of comparing countries, but one that I saw claims that level of trust and unity, both government and society in general, is predictive of safety. Maybe it is simply a proxy for lack of minorities. Anyway, as any middah, this distrust of authority is generally helpful, but needs to be controlled. As we say about tefillin: the head one is divided, the arm is not: when it is time to act, there is a need for unity.

    in reply to: Danger of Talking on Cellphone When Driving!! #2060190

    re: mandates. here is my thinking:
    Private businesses should be able to have mandates legally. Should they do that? Businesses with a lot of low-level personnel, like hotels, should first do small-scale incentives: pay for vaccination, make non-vaxxed pay for weekly tests, transfer them to positions were they don’t interact with public. For businesses requiring skilled personnel, I personally would not trust judgment of those who do not vaccinate or mask and will use this as a good excuse to fire them.

    Public/medical: should be able to mandate where it is materially affects public safety: nurses, teachers. firefighters may sleep at the fire station unvaxed if they prefer. Again, weekly or twice weekly testing might be enough. Maybe let these teachers teach online and for sure disclose their status to parents, whatever HIPPA says.

    In all cases, if it can be shown at some point, or at some location, that being unvaxed does not affect safety anymore (low transmission level, high immunity, mild variant), no mandate required. I would not be hiring them though and so I presume many others for the lack of judgment.

    in reply to: Danger of Talking on Cellphone When Driving!! #2060184

    Avram, I’ll try to answer your questions after clarify what I think is more of a priority: us doing the right thing.

    Most people somehow focus on “edgy” questions that pit people one against the other working against shalom, leading to break-up of societal norms. Recall how during BLM, Russians embedded into social media to advocate BOTH for and against BLM, just making sure there will be two demonstrations fighting each other. Same with other topics. For example,
    – did you check how long are windows open in your kids’ school? if they don’t want to lose heat – did you offer to pay for extra heat?
    – what is CO2 level after a couple of hours of kids there (proxy measurement for ventilation)
    – if you have/know someone in nursing home, did you check all safety precautions there – open windows, nurses wearing masks correctly?

    in reply to: Expose the profiteering of PCR tests #2060064

    again, open another lab. Or someone else will.

    in reply to: End of the mask mitzva cult? #2060042

    Syag,
    here are a couple of citations.

    1) risk of death was approximately 60% lower among Omicron cases compared to Delta
    75% reduction in the risk of hospital admission among those 60 to 69 years old
    SARS-CoV-2 variants of concern and variants under investigation in England, UK Health Security Agency, Feb 11, 2022

    2) Hospitalization rate by Delta 2x higher than Alpha
    Hospital admission and emergency care attendance risk for SARS-CoV-2 delta (B.1.617.2) compared with alpha (B.1.1.7) variants of concern: a cohort study. Lancet, VOLUME 22, ISSUE 1, P35-42, JANUARY 01, 2022
    this and other articles are saying that post-hospitalization outcomes for Delta and Alpha are similar.

    From these, my statement needs to be corrected:
    omicron hospitalization is 80% of Alpha, death rates 50% of alpha. this is for unvaccinated apples-to-apples comparison. I also suspect that these numbers may be skewed due to Omicron cases possibly having previous infections. I did not see whether this was controlled for in the paper.

    in reply to: “I work in property management” #2060009

    I mean that honest work requires time and effort contrary to the op view. Specifically, from my limited experience, you need to deal with renters destroying their sewage systems, keeping pipes frozen, parking illegally, not paying rent, and worse. Plus managing plumbers and electricians making sure they come on time and drill the right apartment. If you are smart, you can eventually get reliable workers, dependable tenants, and then do what the op suggests

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