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  • in reply to: Getting Wealthy from Mechalel Shabbos- What Happens? #1087867

    chesedname
    Participant

    Here is how it works.

    One of two things will happen.

    1) He will lose his money, have a car crash, etc. basically anything bad that happens to regular people, and everyone will say, this is because he worked on Shabbos!

    2) Nothing bad will happen, and people will say you can’t question the ways of Hashem.

    So if it’s bad we know why, if nothing bad happens how can we know all of hashem’s calculations.

    in reply to: Rejection from yeshivos/school for no tuition #1031566

    chesedname
    Participant

    I don’t believe that any school threw a child out for not paying tuition!

    unless you know it first hand, don’t believe it either.

    in reply to: How do I contact Rabbi Bablul the mekubal? #1030972

    chesedname
    Participant

    there is a rabbi milstein in flatbush, i can get u in, but not sure how to do that without emailing u or u to me?

    in reply to: Moshiach Rumors? #1074789

    chesedname
    Participant

    The Rav in Radin asked the Chofetz Chaim if “he’ll be alive when Moshiach comes”, he said “no” and “neither will you” (speaking to the Rav) “but Moshiach is born and alive now, as we speak”!!

    in reply to: Where to get cheap but good white shirts in Brooklyn #995017

    chesedname
    Participant

    I only buy from Yidden, so I don’t know about some of the stores mentioned.

    In Brooklyn the cheapest by far is HATS PLUS 1368 Coney Island Ave

    Don’t confuse it with a very expensive store on the same block.

    welcome back

    in reply to: double standards in the workplace #720647

    chesedname
    Participant

    yeshivaguy1 ?

    Peanut Butter ?

    in reply to: what would you do #718687

    chesedname
    Participant

    post it on YWN

    in reply to: Inappropriate Opposite Gender Interactions in the Workplace #1075598

    chesedname
    Participant

    I have many workers and never really had a problem.

    although i once posed this question to a rav and he said “I don’t know”

    question, male and female have to finish project together, working together in office is yichud, going to starbucks, or dinner, highly inappropriate. what does he do?

    in reply to: Mother-In-Law #720215

    chesedname
    Participant

    I feel like the mods are my-in-laws

    I know they love me, but have a hard time showing it.

    they’ll come around 🙂

    in reply to: Dina D'Malchusa Dina #887761

    chesedname
    Participant

    blueprints

    we had a thread on coping music, there are many ways to do it. not everything that’s allowed should be done.

    in reply to: Dina D'Malchusa Dina #887760

    chesedname
    Participant

    myfriend

    if these is copied from somewhere, you NEED to post the source.

    in reply to: If you decided to stop visiting the Coffeeroom…? #721461

    chesedname
    Participant

    Depends on why i left.

    If blocked or had enough with the filtering process. I would open competing site, where the advertising is free, and the coffee room is 10x better.

    Once YWN is out of business, they’ll realize, WE are the little engine that REALLY runs the business.

    If i realized that I need a life, i would just stop reading the posts here, and not say a word. or maybe reveal ALL my names, lol joke, i only have one.

    in reply to: Android vs. iPhone vs. Windows Phone 7 #737846

    chesedname
    Participant

    Anyone know the difference between all the Android phones?

    Not comparing to iphone, now.

    in reply to: Significance of 40 Days? #717219

    chesedname
    Participant

    it takes 40 hours for posts to be approved lol

    and 40 seconds for a fight to start.

    in reply to: What's Your Pet Peeve? #982701

    chesedname
    Participant

    mod 80

    as a person who donates the tissues, you’re right that always bothers me

    you’re quote “when people take two or three pieces of kleenex, at one time”

    what bothers me as well, when mods are posting while there are posts waiting to be approved, or emails to be answered 🙂 lol joking

    in reply to: Suggestions to Improve YWN #1225441

    chesedname
    Participant

    When did the mods start reading the suggestions?? 🙂

    2 points for a good answer.

    in reply to: Suggestions to Improve YWN #1225437

    chesedname
    Participant

    I know no one is listening, but here is another suggestion.

    CLOSE THIS SITE DOWN EVERY WEEK FOR 24 HOURS!!!!

    mods can pick the 24 hours, but ppl should have a time out, and maybe go back to dealing with live humans or learning, or even working.

    We do this…..every Shabbos. We hope you too shut your computer then, and enjoy Shabbos as we do!

    in reply to: What I Learned From My Troubled Teen #718494

    chesedname
    Participant

    eclipse

    When things calm down, re-read WIY post. He meant no harm or disrespect to you.

    he wrote

    “Id like to add to what tzippi said.”

    so far agreeing with a nice comment

    “NEVER let her hear you ever voice a complaint against Hashem Chas Veshalom”

    his point, if parents tell kids make a bracha and don’t forget hashem loves us, and 2 minutes later, i have no money for pesach, why am i jewish? the kids always hear the last part.

    “that will instantly undo so much of the growth and change that any therapist…will accomplish with her.”

    he means IF and only IF you would complain, which he didn’t say you do, it would undo the work of the therapist, and you’re work on her as well.

    on a side note reb moshe said the reason ppl weren’t frum after ww2 was for this reason, they got fired, came home and by the shabbos table complained it’s hard to be a jew.

    He meant well, re-read it and tell me what you think.

    all the best!

    in reply to: Rebbi Smacking Kids #719515

    chesedname
    Participant

    Heter???

    It’s up to the parents, to allow or not allow. I think most don’t allow it today.

    in reply to: yiddish #717282

    chesedname
    Participant

    SimpleKindaMan

    I know you said online, but feldheim has a new book with basic yiddish words translated to english

    in reply to: Girls' Taste in Dating Process #717104

    chesedname
    Participant

    memo

    so what WAS wrong with him?

    in reply to: Suggestions to Improve YWN #1225434

    chesedname
    Participant

    WIY

    do you realize you’re talking to yourself lol

    all seriousness, i wonder if anyone is looking at these suggestions.

    in reply to: Regarding calling people by nicknames #719801

    chesedname
    Participant

    The halacha on nicknames, is talking about things like bozo, klutz etc.. (i know someone whose off the derech now, his nickname was bozo, he happened to be a very nice guy, it just stuck with him)

    which if the name sticks even if the person says they don’t mind, they do, the person that started it will have a lot of explaining to do upstairs (or down)

    it was never about avi or if you call a loved one darling etc..

    in reply to: How do I know what gender I'm speaking to? #717152

    chesedname
    Participant

    SJSinNYC

    I might be 🙂

    in reply to: Girls Paying For Dates #716794

    chesedname
    Participant

    What i love, is when a wife spends big money (on her husbands credit card of course) and says look how much i spent on you, what are you buying me??

    Poor chap gets 2 fat bills, and the wife thinks she’s a big giver.

    in reply to: How do I know what gender I'm speaking to? #717149

    chesedname
    Participant

    I have a trick that has never failed.

    If the poster is right, they’re male. If wrong they’re Female.

    (thank G-D no one knows who i am, so i know i won’t get hurt 🙂

    in reply to: Davening – Do we really know the translation??? #717625

    chesedname
    Participant

    If someone can’t translate davening (I know many can’t) call your elementary school, and ask for your parents tuition back.

    This is the first and most important thing they should be teaching!!

    in reply to: Girls' Taste in Dating Process #717075

    chesedname
    Participant

    I may be off base here, but this is what i think is needed.

    Skip the dates, cars, open door close door, hotels, etc..

    Take here to YWN Coffee room, show her some posts, ask her what do you think of this person, how about this person? one of those will be you, if she likes his thoughts, hashkafa, etc.. get married, if not move on. She’ll be the moderator from Hello

    in reply to: CR Discussions: Halachic or Non-Halachic Discussions? #922018

    chesedname
    Participant
    in reply to: Over moderation #760858

    chesedname
    Participant

    charliehall

    “If I don’t like it I am free to start my own competing site.”

    Get the wrong (or right) person upset, and that’s exactly what will happen.

    in reply to: CR Discussions: Halachic or Non-Halachic Discussions? #922012

    chesedname
    Participant

    oomis1105

    it’s healthy otherwise it would be bitul torah

    in reply to: CR Discussions: Halachic or Non-Halachic Discussions? #922010

    chesedname
    Participant

    aries2756

    I was busy so sorry for the late response.

    truth be told Trying my best did a great job and didn’t leave much for me to add, so I’ll keep it short.

    what i eat is based on the Rambam and hence the torah, do i sometimes sneak in a steak, yes! I’m not perfect.

    what i wear is also the torah, why don’t we wear pink suits? not yeshivas? what does that mean? means the torah frowns upon them, so we don’t wear them.

    in reply to: iPhone vs Blackberry #1063407

    chesedname
    Participant

    There are many different droid phones, what is the difference between them?

    in reply to: Maybe I Should Compensate The Store Owner…? #727113

    chesedname
    Participant

    wolf

    this is a non issue.

    the only thing you should do is buy gift certificates in our screen name. that would be cool, hi I’m WolfishMusings here for my free cone lol

    in reply to: Over moderation #760855

    chesedname
    Participant

    They’re humans (i assume) and have moods, so if in one type of mood, the post will go through. Another type, post is denied, account suspended, etc..

    in reply to: CR Discussions: Halachic or Non-Halachic Discussions? #922006

    chesedname
    Participant

    Every decision is either halacha OR Hashkafa.

    As a Jew it has to be one or the other.

    in reply to: Anger Management #716807

    chesedname
    Participant

    WIY

    Thanks a million, I happen to have Haseir Kaas Milibecha, as I’ve mentoioned before I learn mussar every day, this will be the next sefer I learn.

    Thanks again!

    in reply to: This thread is for WolfishMusings (specifically) #716336

    chesedname
    Participant

    yitayningwut

    Where does the Abrabanel say that?

    I always had a ‘problem’ understanding what Reuven did.

    in reply to: This thread is for WolfishMusings (specifically) #716335

    chesedname
    Participant

    Wolf

    The Kav Hayashar says clearly, don’t argue with chesedname, show him some respect, and all will be good. 🙂

    in reply to: Naming A Child After Someone With Weird Name #1121112

    chesedname
    Participant

    2 names, one hencha one whatever, call her the whatever

    in reply to: Shaitle Fraud Chillul Hashem Video: Sha'ar haTumah haChamishim #718081

    chesedname
    Participant

    First and foremost, why didn’t Heidi (heidihud123) use this version on her attempt to defend herself on YouTube?

    is there a rebuttal on youtube?

    in reply to: This Shabbos… #716249

    chesedname
    Participant

    wolf

    don’t tease me, what did i win???

    in reply to: This Shabbos… #716246

    chesedname
    Participant

    Avram in MD

    He does it for the reaction.

    in reply to: Is Machismo kosher? #715532

    chesedname
    Participant

    I think it’s assur

    truly yours,

    popa_bar_abba

    in reply to: Using a Non-Kosher Microwave #715718

    chesedname
    Participant

    Helpful

    i didn’t say it wasn’t ok.

    there are many times where you can be makel on something but it’s better not to be.

    why use a treif microwave latchila?? buy a kosher one.

    of course when you have NO choice like traveling, you do what you have to.

    in reply to: On A Much 'Light' Er Note #717694

    chesedname
    Participant

    eclipse

    and i thought it was only now, that you had too much time on your hands

    in reply to: Using a Non-Kosher Microwave #715716

    chesedname
    Participant

    the halacha is to double wrap the food.

    I would NOT use a treif microwave on a daily basis! buy a kosher one, or figure something else out. it’s OK to use the heter when traveling, vacation, flying, etc.. but on a daily basis?

    in reply to: Why not Obama? #715180

    chesedname
    Participant

    ilovetohock

    please explain?

    wasn’t yosef a king?

    it says that before moshiach comes a slave will be a ruler. so another sign moshiach is on the way!

    in reply to: Timeshares #715087

    chesedname
    Participant

    as a rule of thumb, stay away!

    there are always exceptions to every rule.

    in reply to: Gan Eden & Gehenim #1097943

    chesedname
    Participant

    wolf

    this is the second time i agreed with you recently, wow 🙂

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