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  • in reply to: The Eruv — Halachic Tool or Glorified Shabbos Loophole? #2445809
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    An eruv is not a kulah from the 1960s. It goes much further back – there are Gemaras that discuss it.
    Eruvin 68a brings a story where Abaye was asked why there is no eruv in his town. Many meforshim (Birkei Yosef, Chasam Sofer, Avnei Nezer, and R’ Moshe Feinstein) use this Gemara as proof that there is actually an obligation for a Rav to make an eruv where it is halachically permissible to do so.
    I don’t think people today treat them with no awareness.
    Where I live, yes, I use the eruv. Do I trust the eruv? Considering that it’s not a person, no. But I do trust the Rabbonim who oversee it!
    I don’t personally check the eruv. The local Rabbonim check it every week, and I rely on them.
    I’m not sure what chumros of the past you refer to when asking if they were discarded, so I can’t really say.
    To say that R’ Moshe was hesitant or opposed to “many” of the eruvin… I’m not sure what you refer to. Do you mean in places like Brooklyn or Manhattan? That is well known, because he felt it was not halachically permissible to make an eruv there. In places where it was permissible, he held (as I wrote above), that it was an obligation to make one. Obviously, it needed a knowledgeable Rav to oversee it, to ensure it was done correctly. But he wasn’t opposed to the idea of an Eruv.
    I’ve been told that in Elizabeth, NJ, R’ Pinchas Teitz zt”l built an eruv, but was nervous that people would forget the halachos of carrying on Shabbos. Therefore, one week each year, the eruv was taken down. It was usually done the week after Parshas Zachor – since everyone came to shul to hear Zachor, he’d be able to announce to the entire community that the following week, nobody should carry, as the Eruv would be down.

    in reply to: Endless Enmity by Rabbi Steven Pruzansky 2025 August 8 #2443232
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    Small One, what about my response to you – do you have nothing to say? I’ll copy/paste it again:
    He claimed “It is Zionism that bothers the gentiles, not Judaism.”
    Maybe he just chooses to ignore the fact that it says “Halacha B’yaduh Sh’Eysav Sone L’Yaakov”

    in reply to: Endless Enmity by Rabbi Steven Pruzansky 2025 August 8 #2442474
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    somejewiknow: you said: “I say zionism is bad because it rejects fundamentals of Yiddishkeit: moshiach, schar v’oesh, and the definition of “Klal Yisroel”.”

    Please elaborate. How does Zionism reject these things? I am a Zionist. I most definitely believe in Mashiach. I believe in schar v’onesh. I define Klal Yisroel as including all Jews, with Jews defined by Halacha, through matrilineal descent.

    in reply to: Are there any limits actually enforced by the moderators? #2441919
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    qwerty: absolutely people insult the Lubavitcher. We’re in good company – R’ Shach zt”l, who was the gadol hador. He compared the Lubavitcher to Shabtai Zvi, called him a Mashiach sheker, and also referred to him as “the madman who sits in New York and drives the whole world crazy”.

    in reply to: Endless Enmity by Rabbi Steven Pruzansky 2025 August 8 #2439383
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    Hakatan showed his ignorance – or maybe apikorsis – earlier. He claimed “It is Zionism that bothers the gentiles, not Judaism.”
    Maybe he just chooses to ignore the fact that it says “Halacha B’yaduh Sh’Eysav Sone L’Yaakov”

    in reply to: ארץ ישראל and the state #2437315
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    Small One, look at facts. Zionists brought tens of thousands of Jews out of Europe. You know who actually caused deaths? Yoel Teitelbaum. He had the opportunity to save his followers – the Zionists came and offered to get them all out. He refused, and said it was better to die than to be saved by Zionists. Yet his ruling didn’t apply to himself – he snuck out at night, abandoning his community, to go with the ZIONISTS, and was saved. Almost his entire community was killed.
    So don’t spout lies. SR had to continue to oppose Zionism even after the establishment of the State, because if he didn’t, then he was admitting to being a murderer. Only by continuing to oppose it could he maintain the fiction that it was preferable to die than to be saved by Zionists – as long as you weren’t Yoel Teitelbaum, of course.

    in reply to: Rabbi Yaakov Kamenetsky and the modern State of Israel #2435467
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    R’ Chaim Vital wrote in the introduction to Etz Chaim that the oaths only lasted for 1,000 years. That time is long past, so they’re not in effect anymore.
    R’ Meir Simcha, in a letter to the Keren Hayesod, said that the oaths are only aggada, and even if they were halachically binding, the Balfour Declaration removed any issues.
    R’ Shlomo Kluger held that since the other nations persecuted the Jews unjustly, the oaths on the Jewish nation are removed. He quoted the Shulchan Aruch that says that if 2 people take an oath and one breaks it, the other one is not obligated in it any more.

    So there you have the 3 opinions that the oaths aren’t in effect anymore, and therefore Zionism doesn’t break them.

    in reply to: Three Oaths essay from Rabbi Avraham Rivlin of Kerem B’Yavneh #2435466
    DaMoshe
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    Square_Root, if you’re going to copy my posts word for word, please at least give me credit.

    in reply to: Rabbi Yaakov Kamenetsky and the modern State of Israel #2435345
    DaMoshe
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    There were some major Rabbonim who held that the oaths are NOT in force anymore. Notably, R’ Chaim Vital, R’ Meir Simcha of Dvinsk and R’ Shlomo Kluger.
    Additionally, even if they are in force, there were many Rabbonim who held that they weren’t violated – since the UN voted to establish the state, it wasn’t done via force. Also, the oath not to go up in large numbers requires more than half the Jews in the world – this is the opinion of the Shittah Mekubetzes, the Maharal, and R’ Yonasan Eybshitz. The Torah Temimah held that it only refers to when people are forced to move to Eretz Yisrael, not when they do so voluntarily.
    So don’t claim that all Rabbonim hold that they’re in effect, and that Israel violates them.

    in reply to: How are girls learning Gemorah #2434186
    DaMoshe
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    The Rambam, if I recall correctly, is in the introduction to the second chelek of Moreh Nevuchim. The Yerushalmi is at the beginning of Horayos. I’m not sure where the Riva is – I saw it quoted in a few places, but it didn’t say exactly where it’s from. It does say it’s in response to Rashi’s quoting the Sifrei, so maybe look on that posuk?
    The Ramban is on Devarim 17, and while he does say we need to listen even if it’s wrong, he qualifies that this is only for the Sanhedrin.

    in reply to: Mahar"at Avi Weiss #2434158
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    If only we’d already discussed this before… oh wait, we have! Over and over! And you just bring it up again because the day after Tisha b’Av, you go ahead and promote more hatred! What a rasha you are.

    in reply to: Mahar"at Avi Weiss #2433862
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    That’s because he is no longer with the RCA. Mainstream Modern Orthodox doesn’t view him as Orthodox anymore. He’s recognized as Conservative or worse, so nobody cares what he says or does.

    in reply to: How are girls learning Gemorah #2433618
    DaMoshe
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    I posted this a few times already, posting it again:
    The Riva says the left/right mentioned in the pasuk refers to Rabbonim telling us not to do a mitzvah such as Shofar on Shabbos, or Arba Minim on Shabbos. It only refers to a mitzvah that they are telling us NOT to do.

    The Yerushalmi says in Horios that the pasuk means only if they say right is right and left is left. If they say otherwise, you do not listen.

    There are many shitos against Rashi. Indeed, both Rambam and Ramban do not pasken like Rashi in this regard. There is a Sifre which Rashi bases it on, but again, many question the Sifre, and there are Gemoros in both bavli and Yerushalmi that say otherwise. R’ Ovadia Yosef reconciles the two views as I mentioned above – you have to confront the Rav if you think he erred. Until you confront him, you do not listen. The Yad HaMelech states that if you listen when you think he erred just because you think you have to listen, you are required to bring a korbon chatas. Only after confronting the Rav with the opposing view, and he stands by what he said, are you required to listen.

    in reply to: How are girls learning Gemorah #2433141
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    My daughter just got a Shas. It’s a small one, the pocket size. She goes to school in a Beis Yaakov, and they do not learn Gemara there. She said that when she learn the meforshim on Tanach, they often quote a Gemara – now she can look it up if she wants to.

    in reply to: ארץ ישראל and the state #2432431
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    somejew, you did not post any such source. It was said about one person. He never said the word Zionist. In fact, it doesn’t even say if it was said in jest or not – and it doesn’t say if he led the benching or not. If he really paskened that way, it would have been written in one of his seforim. Many poskim have said that people shouldn’t listen to what was given as a psak to someone else – the only piskei halacha meant for the public are the ones written as a teshuva meant for the public, or in a sefer.
    As for the small one’s posts, he just keeps on repeating himself. It won’t make anyone agree with him. Yes, many early Zionists did drive people away from Judaism. But that doesn’t mean that Zionism as a whole is bad. Those people were bad. There were also many Zionists who brought people closer to the Torah. Yes, there was access to the kotel long before Israel was founded. But Jewish immigration was not allowed except for in very small numbers. The learning that exists today in Israel would not exist without the state.
    You really need to differentiate between secular Zionism and religious Zionism.
    Small one, now is where you quote a few people who opposed Zionism in any form, then go on about shmad and how terrible Israel is. Actually, now you don’t have to write it – I just did it for you.

    in reply to: How are girls learning Gemorah #2425054
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    Joe: yes, I am. I haven’t yet heard a definitive argument that would convince me, but I am open to hearing it. Even those I disagree with, I can at least respect their opinion, and accept that it’s different than mine.
    I heard from R’ Bender about a time that the Satmar Rebbe wrote out a large check to support an Israeli organization, while telling the person from the organization that it was wrong to have these organizations at all. He recognized hat while he thought it was wrong, there is still good there, and was willing to give his own money towards it. HaKatan would just say it’s supporting idolatry and kick the person out.

    in reply to: How are girls learning Gemorah #2424801
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    HaKatan,
    You’re correct, it was a non-answer (although I don’t think it was pathetic).
    It was a non-answer, because as I said, its pointless to engage with you. This isn’t a discussion. In a discussion, people are open to hearing opposing viewpoints. You are not. You are simply full of hatred, and keep repeating the refrain that Zionism is idolatry. You have nothing to back up this claim, you just repeating it.
    Since you don’t really care what my opinions are, and will disagree with them even if they make perfect sense, there is no point engaging with you. So I’m done with it.

    in reply to: How are girls learning Gemorah #2424199
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    AAQ: Don’t bother engaging with Hakatan. It’s pointless. He is filled with hatred, and it blinds him from actually listening to opposing viewpoints.
    He belongs to the group that the Netziv said was responsible for the destruction of the Beis Hamikdash. Just have pity for him.

    in reply to: How are girls learning Gemorah #2424198
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    AAQ: Don’t bother engaging with Hakatan. It’s pointless. He is filled with hatred, and it blinds him from actually listening to opposing viewpoints.
    He belongs to the group that the Netziv said was responsible for the destruction of the Beis Hamikdash. Just have pity for him.

    in reply to: Israel is in Golus #2424197
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    YYA: I agree. Joseph is the ultimate troll.
    There are others, such as Hakatan, who are real haters. It’s sad.

    in reply to: Israel is in Golus #2423717
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    I read from R’ Schachter that galus refers to a lack of gilui Shechinah. Even in Eretz Yisrael now, there is no gilui Shechinah, so yes, Jews there are still in galus. When Mashiach comes, and the Shechinah comes out of hiding, the galus will be over.

    in reply to: How are girls learning Gemorah #2422721
    DaMoshe
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    There is a great article written by R’ Jachter on the topic, where he goes through both sides of the issue:
    https://www.koltorah.org/halachah/are-women-permitted-to-study-gemara-by-rabbi-howard-jachter

    in reply to: כחי ועצם ידי #2415109
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    wtsp: why is it hypocritical?

    in reply to: How are girls learning Gemorah #2415108
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    Sara Schenirer learned Gemara daily.
    There was a thread about this a while back, where a lot of opinions on both sides were posted. Joseph, as usual, is full of garbage, and is ignoring anything that doesn’t match his own twisted views.

    in reply to: כחי ועצם ידי #2414153
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    wtsp: wrong. I can support the State of Israel, without supporting the apikorsis of many of its founders. I can want the state to exist because it is OUR land, which Hashem promised to us – and it has nothing to do with proving anything to the world.
    You are arguing about semantics. You claim that the beliefs define the label. I disagree. I think that the state of Israel is the incarnation of the state until Mashiach comes – and only then will it truly be Eretz Yisrael. That doesn’t mean I can’t support it until that day.

    in reply to: כחי ועצם ידי #2412742
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    wtsp: so since we have to give thanks to Hashem for the victories that He gave to the Israeli army, are you in favor of saying Hallel on Yom Ha’atzmaut and Yom Yerushalaim, as many religious Zionists do? That is giving thanks to Hashem, and recognizing that the victories came from Him.

    in reply to: כחי ועצם ידי #2412114
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    Small One, you are not convincing anyone. You, just like the Satmar Rebbe, are blinded by your hatred for Israel. You are not thinking rationally. The Satmar Rebbe was so blinded by hatred that it caused the deaths of almost all his followers in Europe. This is what you want to glorify?
    You can keep posting your twisted views here, but as I said, you’re not convincing anyone. If I had to guess, most people here just view you as a pathetic hypocrite.

    in reply to: כחי ועצם ידי #2411224
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    First off, not all the Israeli agree with the OP. There were so many videos shared of IDF soldiers davening, learning, and more. They 100% believe that we need Hashem’s help in all this.
    But now I think of some of the posts from one of the leading haters on this site, HaKatan, He loves to claim that there was nothing miraculous about Israel’s victory in the Six Day War, and it shouldn’t be celebrated. Clearly, he’s the one who doesn’t believe in Hashem’s involvement. He believes that it’s all about the natural strength, and that’s what should be recognized.
    What an apikores.

    in reply to: YU vs the Greater Yeshiva World #2407227
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    So they’re just using the “No true Scotsman” argument.
    Claim RIETS hasn’t produced any Gedolim. When some are named, claim, “Well, they’re from RIETS, so they can’t be a Gadol!”

    in reply to: YU vs the Greater Yeshiva World #2406716
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    Joe, now you’re just flat-out lying.
    R’ Hershel Schachter, R’ Mordechai Willig, and R’ Aharon Soloveichik are a few that immediately come to mind.

    in reply to: Rabbi Yaakov Kamenetsky and the modern State of Israel #2402213
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    HaKatan: Ben Hecht didn’t read the history when he wrote Perfidy. Researchers have shown that numerous things he claimed as facts were flat out untrue. As chiefshmerel wrote, Hecht had an agenda, to attack Ben Gurion, and he did so by going through Kastner.

    You also completely ignored my other post, and just kept on attacking Zionists as a whole, without differentiating between the secular and the religious. They are not the same. Get that through your thick skull.

    As for the Six Day War, the fact that R’ Yaakov said Hallel Hagadol means that he recognized it as a good thing. All the other excuses (whether it’s Satmar claiming it was from the Satan, or claiming that the CIA knew it would happen) don’t matter. Besides, even if the CIA claimed it would happen – do you deny that everything is Ratzon Hashem?

    People say that R’ Kook zt”l was blinded by his love for Eretz Yisrael, and made incorrect choices because of it. I say that the Satmar Rav was blinded by his hatred, and made bad choices because of it.

    in reply to: Rabbi Yaakov Kamenetsky and the modern State of Israel #2401208
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    HaKatan, 2 points.
    First, you just keep repeating yourself like a broken record, without listening to what others say. Nobody here is arguing that the secular Zionists were not good people. Personally, I agree with you about that part. Did they cause the Holocaust? I doubt it. Did they possibly contribute to many deaths? Yes. That doesn’t mean that Zionism as a whole, especially religious Zionism, is wrong.

    Second, if you’re going to talk about causing deaths, then let’s discuss the Satmar Rebbe, R’ Yoelish. He had a chance to save his kehilla in Europe – the Zionists offered to get them out, and bring them to Eretz Yisrael. He refused to allow them to speak in the town, saying that it was better to die than to collaborate with Zionists. Yet, he snuck out, at night, without telling anyone, to be saved by a Zionist. He abandoned his followers. Almost all of them were killed by the Nazis. He did exactly what he told his followers not to do, and did so in a cowardly fashion, sneaking out when nobody would see him.

    in reply to: Rabbi Yaakov Kamenetsky and the modern State of Israel #2401193
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    Written by R’ Dovid Landesman, who was learning in Torah Vadaas during the Six Day War:

    And then we heard the broadcast that will remain in my mind forever. Michael Elkins, the correspondent for the BBC and Newsweek, imbedded with the paratroopers led by Motta Gur, announced: “the IDF has captured the Temple Mount.” We heard his live broadcast of Rav Goren blowing shofar, of Motta Gur’s static filled message to his command post, “haKotel b’yadeunu, haKotel b’yadenu.” We heard singing, yes singing which turned out to be the soldiers themselves. Elkins described that most incredible and improbable scene: paratroopers, in the midst of battle, rushing toward a wall of stone, oblivious to the dangers around them, to the snipers and enemy soldiers, spontaneously breaking into song and dance. Elkins began to cry on the air, and we listening in Flatbush cried with him.

    For as long as I live, I will never forget the expression on Rav Yaakov’s face or the sparkle in Rav Schorr’s eyes. It was as if the burden of history had been lifted from them. Rav Yaakov ran into the beis midrash and gave a bang on the amud. There was immediate silence and he said “shehechiyanu” – I do not remember if it was with shem and malchus. He then began to recite Hodu with tears streaming down his cheeks.

    in reply to: Rabbi Yaakov Kamenetsky and the modern State of Israel #2401057
    DaMoshe
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    Let’s also not forget that during the Six Day War, when the IDF took control of the Har Habayis, R’ Yaakov Kaminetsky said Hallel in Torah Vadaas.

    in reply to: The infamous club at YU – gone? #2397141
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    It looks like the newest version of the club has now been shut down.
    This is a direct contradiction to Joe who claimed that YU would never stand up to this group, and shows that posters such as myself, who trusted the Roshei Yeshiva to do the right thing, were correct.
    The Roshei Yeshiva had put strict guidelines in place for the club, and they were violated. The Roshei Yeshiva wasted no time in shutting them down.

    DaMoshe
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    Many of the opponents of Zionism lived before the State of Israel was established. Some changed their views after it was established. They still opposed the secularists, but the idea of Zionism and having a Jewish state was separate.
    There is a letter written by Professor Zvi Yehuda, who was a student of the Chazon Ish. In the letter (written to his daughter, and published in Tradition, Summer 1979 Issue 18.1), he writes about the conversation he personally had with the Chazon Ish regarding Israel after its founding. He says the Chazon Ish davened for the success of the State. He also says that when asked if Israel could be leading towards Mashiach coming, the Chazon Ish did not dismiss the idea – he simply said that it was too early to say, and time would tell.
    R’ Isser Zalman Meltzer was a member of Chovevei Zion before the State was founded. He, along with R’ Moshe Mordechai Epstein, even helped to found a city in Israel (then part of the Ottoman Empire).

    The fact is, the Satmar Rav was a daas yachid in his views on Israel – he opposed a state in any form, even if it would be under religious leadership. Most Rabbonim opposed Zionism because it was run by secular Jews, who were anti-religion. Religious Zionists also oppose this, and would prefer that Israel be run according to halachah. However, almost all now recognize that once the state was founded, it is better to participate with it, and try to improve things for the frum Jews.

    People like Hakatan and Joseph keep referring to the early Zionists and the harm they did. Nobody is arguing against that! Religious Zionists also mourn the fact that they did that. But they don’t allow it to change their views on having a Jewish state. IY”H one day soon, the State will be run according to halachah!

    in reply to: Anti-Zionists Criticized in Matzav Inbox #2395415
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    yankel berel: I heard it from numerous Rabbonim. It was also printed on YWN in their article about Ponovezh in 2020: https://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news/israel-news/1854765/in-long-standing-minhag-israeli-flag-flies-from-ponevezeh-in-bnei-brak-on-yom-haatzmaut.html

    R’ Ahron Soloveichik (who was a magid shiur in MTJ, then was appointed by R’ Hutner to give the highest shiur in Chaim Berlin, then at RIETS, before moving to Chicago where he was Rosh Yeshiva in Skokie before opening the Chicago branch of Brisk) also observed Tom Ha’atzmaut, and had his yeshivos say Hallel.

    in reply to: Anti-Zionists Criticized in Matzav Inbox #2395048
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    It should be noted that the Ponevezher Rav did do more than just raise the flag – he also had the yeshiva omit Tachanun. It was only after he passed away that this changed. R’ Shach zt”l disagreed with the opinion, and he changed the yeshiva’s minhag to say Tachanun.

    in reply to: WZO elections 2025 #2394614
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    YYA – you clearly don’t know how the WZO gets its funding. It doesn’t come from private donors.
    Every time a property is sold/bought in Israel, there is a special tax that is paid. That tax goes to the WZO, and that is where the funding comes from.

    in reply to: WZO elections 2025 #2394296
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    somejew: You are blinded by your hatred. Nobody is “eager to drag Rav Chaim’s name through the mud”, other than those who disagree with what he said. People have claimed he was tricked, that he was mistaken… that’s insulting R’ Chaim zt”l.
    Religious Zionists recognize that salvation comes from Hashem – we just view the State of Israel as part of that. It’s definitely not an avodah zarah.
    You just remind me of the old story about the person stuck in a flood. He climbs to the roof of his house, and asks Hashem to save him. A boat comes along and offers to take him to safety. He says, “No thank you, Hashem will save me – I don’t need your help!” Then a helicopter comes, and he gives the same answer. In the end, he drowns. He complains to Hashem, “Why didn’t you save me? I had such faith in You!” Hashem answers, “I sent a boat and a helicopter, why did you decline them?”

    in reply to: WZO elections 2025 #2393348
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    There are just a few days left to vote. As is being reported on the front page of YWN, the push to oppose voting was orchestrated by the Conservative movement, to block the frum groups from getting votes. They also now showed the letters between R’ Shmuel Kaminetsky and R’ Chaim Kanievsky, where R’ Chaim said to vote.

    in reply to: Any good fast heimish accapella #2392734
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    ard: I only heard/read that R’ Scheinberg zt”l allowed classical music, not all recorded music. He held that music which brings someone to increased simcha and/or dancing would be forbidden.
    This is also what I was taught growing up, and what my family followed – classical music, or even slow music which won’t lead to dancing is permitted. Fast music, even acapella, is not allowed, as it can bring someone to dance.

    in reply to: Any good fast heimish accapella #2391973
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    Many poskim forbid listening to fast accapella music during sefira. R’ Belsky, notably, was very against it, and bemoaned the fact that people were lax in observing a period of aveilus, and were al says looking for ways to get around it.

    in reply to: Hi I’m back 3.0 #2389946
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    Maybe I’m doing like Chabad, but my reasoning is very different.
    I recognize that I SHOULD be sleeping in the sukkah, but I have a reason not to. If that reason went away, I’d be in the sukkah. Chabad won’t, because they claim it’s a minhag not to.
    Do Chabad eat all meals in the sukkah on Shemini Atzeres? I thought they make kiddush in the sukkah during the day, but eat the meals inside?

    in reply to: Hi I’m back 3.0 #2389507
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    I did some more research on the issue, and found that the exemptions for sleeping in the sukkah are not so modern.
    The Mordechai on Sukkah states that most people in his area did not sleep in the Sukkah, because it was cold.
    The Rema quotes the Mordechai, but rejects the reasoning of the cold – he says it’s because a man shouldn’t be with his wife in the sukkah. However, he encourages couples to have privacy within the sukkah, so they could be there.
    The Taz says that if a woman wants her husband to be in the same room as her inside the house, then that is reason enough to sleep inside. The Chasam Sofer agrees withe the Taz.
    I also read that R’ Moshe Feinstein did not sleep in the sukkah when he was at his own home – but he lived in an apartment building, and there was a large communal sukkah there, with no privacy. Some have reported that when he was at his daughter and son-in-law, in Monsey, he did sleep in the sukkah.

    In short, there are definitely those who hold that there are valid exemptions to sleeping in the sukkah. However, to say that it became a minhag not to do so is just ignorance. Even according to the opinions that there are exemptions, if those don’t apply, then one should sleep in the sukkah. So a single man, in a warm place, really has no reason at all to sleep inside.

    in reply to: Hi I’m back 3.0 #2389187
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    I’ll be honest – I don’t sleep in the sukkah. When I moved to my current home, I went out into the Sukkah at night, before Yom Tov, and there was a raccoon there. I also have skunks and foxes that like to stay in my yard, and they can easily get into the sukkah.
    I discussed this with my Rav, and he told me that if there are animals there that can potentially transmit diseases (all 3 animals can transmit rabies), then I definitely have reason to sleep inside the house.
    I do eat in the sukkah on Shemini Atzeres.
    When someone says “eating in the Sukkah on Shemini Atzeres goes against my minhag”, that is just ridiculous. A minhag that goes against halachah is a minhag shtus, and has no validity. There may be valid reasons to sometimes not follow something (as I noted above re: sleeping in the sukkah), but claiming it’s a minhag isn’t one of them.
    Maybe the next time a Chabadnik asks me if I put on tefillin, I’ll say, “It’s not my minhag to do that, and you know all about following minhagim that go against halachah!”

    in reply to: Make The Seder Great Again #2385993
    DaMoshe
    Participant

    HaLeiVi, there is a middle ground. I’m happy to have my kids say Divrei Torah, but there are 2 other things I bear in mind. First, the mitzvah is on me to tell over the story to them, not the other way around. Second, I try very hard to have the Afikomen before chatzos, and if possible, to finish the 4th cup by then too.
    So I tell my kids beforehand that I want to hear what they have to say, but we do need to bear those things in mind. I tell them to keep some of their Divrei Torah for the daytime meals, and we can hear it then!
    I believe my seder will be great this year. At first, I was disappointed that I wouldn’t be having guests. I invited a number of people, including some whom I believed could use a place, but didn’t get any acceptances. But just the other day, my wife found someone who needed a place, and she accepted our invitation. So now we will be having a guest at our seder!
    My Rebbe, R’ Bender, always says that Simchas Yom Tov isn’t complete unless you’re sharing it with others.

    in reply to: Seder ideas #2384080
    DaMoshe
    Participant

    Joe, I have a very close relationship with R’ Bender, and communicate with him regularly. Believe me, he knows how I live my life, and he has no problems with it. R’ Bender is one of the few Gedolim today who truly believe in chanoch l’naar al pi darko, and he recognizes that the way he lives is not the best for everyone else. He encouraged me to go to college. As I said, he is well aware of pretty much everything I do. I take any advice he gives me very seriously.
    Maybe he doesn’t have the same issues with Modern Orthodoxy that you do, and recognizes that it’s a perfectly fine derech of Judaism? I happen to personally know guys from Darchei whom he encouraged to go to YU for college. What do you say to that?

    in reply to: Seder ideas #2383624
    DaMoshe
    Participant

    My Rebbe, R’ Bender, says that one should make the Seder exciting for children. He says that R’ Reuvein Grozovsky used to act out the story, and especially by the makkos, he would literally get down on the floor to entertain the children by showing what the Egyptians had to deal with. R’ Bender does the same for his family (when his children were young for them, and now, for his grandchildren.)

    in reply to: WZO elections 2025 #2383178
    DaMoshe
    Participant

    AAQ: As I said earlier, I can believe it about others, but not with R’ Chaim zt”l. It was well known that whatever he said came from a special siyata dishmaya. He himself said that Hashem put the words in his mouth, and he just spoke them. If he said to go vote, then it’s the other Rabbonim who are missing some information.

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