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smartcookie:
So you disagree with “the chevra” who says that the Chassidish solution can apply to non-chassidim?
P.S. It is not crazy, it has to do with expectations and exposure.
In the Alter Heim, you came home from work (as a boy),& your father told you that you were engaged, and you asked to who?
And it worked, and they were happy (see: “do you love me”, Fiddler on the Roof).
Be kind whatever you do.
Always a good idea.
Caller ID.
Don’t say hello when picking up the phone, say good evening.
and HANG UP!
If they don’t get, they will stop
(As opposed to if you (help) build it, they will come).
Sof Davar- don’t start. If you’re not Chassidish you’ll never understand.
If you can’t understand it, does the system still work?
And if it doesn’t, why suggest it? 😉
It may help to explain it (slowly, like to a child), and then people who “don’t understand” might take it seriously.
AZ:
If you are saying that only older girls should pay to play, then it will help those who do. But what stops the younger girls from also paying? And if they do, you are back where you started.
PBA:
You can use it over on the Jonathan Swift thread.
ronrsr: Why does the boy need to be mature?
Agree with J&W 22 (surprise):
The market (and that is all shidduchim is, a market) will function as it is supposed to do. Supply and demand. If the Shaddchanim drop out, a new method will come up. Supply will match with demand & equalibrium will be reached.
At this point equalibrium has been reached. There is more of a market for boys (for whatever reason, AZ or not) than girls. Greasing the rails more with more money will not make a difference on a Macro level, but it (just like if you are rich & beautiful) will help on a Micro level.
Sam:
I’m not saying the lawbreakers or illegals (or legals) that get benefits should be allowed to stay (they should not). That is a red herring.
Yum.
Agreed:
Boys should get married at 17, and girls at 18.
Simple solution 🙂
Green Eggs & Ham liker 🙂
Yes, if half a billion people in China can prove that they have jobs waiting for them in the US, and will not be a burden to society (i.e. there is some sort of visa that disallows benefits of citizens, such as unenployment & healthcare) then I have no issues with them working in the US.
no.
I think they should deport the illegal people. They’re turning our country into a non-English-speaking country and spreading dangerous diseases around and stealing your stuff.
I think they should deport the Jews. They’re turning our country into a non-English-speaking country and spreading dangerous diseases around and stealing your stuff.
I can just see where this logic is going.
I believe everyone in this world has the right to a better life, and the right to work towards it. As such, anyone who is willing to work and will not be a burden on the state should be allowed to do so (so that they will not be breaking the law, it should be legal).
P.S. I am a US Citizen.
Yum:
Juicy Lashon Hara.
And yes, it makes me in the mood for a steak.
CN: Invite an additional co-worker (either gender) on the project to join, so it becomes more businesslike.
I have not had a problem with it.
SDHN:
Realize that not all “Frum” workplaces have Torah/Yeraim Jews running them. A cousin of mine had a similar problem (boss hit on her consistently, and they were both married) in a very “Heimish” office. She ended up leaving rather than continue in that job.
A23:
I thought that either:
1: Parents of the school (voluntarily or in lieu of tuition) make the calls.
2: Individuals who want/need the extra money but stay at home (like Kollel wives) make the calls.
Not that it should be a business with a workplace and the whole shabang.
Guess I learned something, Thanks.
Work
Has HaRav Shmuel Neiman ever worked in “The Workplace”? Most work gets done outside offices; its called a cubicle. (not my line, but a good one). 😉
I, for one, agree with cantoresq.
Just want to add if you are upfront with people that you will not touch them for religous reasons, they will be careful not to offend YOUR sensibilities and will avoid trying to cause you problems.
There are companies that do this!?
Wow.
Back where?
(I know, I’m that guy, and the place is here 🙁
jk
So from the parallelness (is that even a word?) we can figure out what the original means, no?
Man you are quick 🙂
I don’t divulge what I do (other than work :-), but everyone who has learned Gemora for real is a natural Lawyer. It comes with the job.
Mr. 80:
So the word “frum” has nothing to do with “Torah” per say.
Just like someone can be a “frum” Catholic or Unitarian, they can be a “frum” Reform Jew.
To the Right, Ever to the Right, Never to the Left, Forever to the Right!?
Where there’s gold, A market that will hold, Tradition that is Old, Reluctant to be Bold!
Come sing Hoshana Hoshana!
What is meant by a “Frum Goy”.
And it is common usage.
It is their (the callers’) parnassah.
They get a (rather large) percentage of the take.
So they need you to give.
And when your parnassah is on the line, you will be rude.
Nothing.
It is a made up word and can mean whatever you want it to mean.
Ron Paul – Heath Shuler
I am Male.
For some of us it is easy.
😉
This is so funny and wrong I don’t even know where to begin.
I’ll just say you are disagreeing with Rav Moshe Wolfson, who says learning is a much easier lifestyle (since that is the language you understand).
If you want to debate this please start a new thread.
Emphasis added.
Being that you completely misunderstood me (Are you ESL?), I guess I can’t say anything about the “at work” part either.
But I now understand more how the p’sakim in the names of the “gedolim” get created.
B’Hatzlacha
G@W
P.S. this was a response to MF, who said:
Yeshiva and learning Torah is harder than working. If there is anyone who shouldn’t be complaining, it is those who are in college or working. The Yeshiva guys should be handed a silver platter for the Avodas HaKodesh they sweat for.
If anyone would like to argue with me and agree with MF, please bring some sort of reason why.
Oylam:
The main thing that is checked out now is the size of the bank account.
Jail is also good, as we can assume Cayman Islands.
If you don’t have those (Chas V’Shalom), then you might need a picture.
But at that point, you lost the top 20% of Bochrim anyway.
Anyone that wont pick up a penny because goyim USED to throw pennies at Jews and make fun of them is NOT SO SMART (THE WORD I USED GOT EDITED OUT)
When was the last time that you saw that happen??
IIRC R’ Avi Shafran said (IN CC) that it has happened to him recently with a quarter.
Any numbers for other jewish areas, like Kiryas Joel & Williamsburg?
Don’t judge a book by its cover?
Only an Indian.
learn
Besides, you would probably take Lake Shore Drive (From WRP) to 55 (or 290/88) to 80.
A quick search (I don’t Ski) brings up Wilmot.
play pool
Is that when you pretend to do laps? Show off your latest strokes?
🙂
Seriously, I imagine many here will say billiards is Assur. Why, I don’t know (he’s on third, and I don’t give a darn :-).
Yeshiva and learning Torah is harder than working. If there is anyone who shouldn’t be complaining, it is those who are in college or working. The Yeshiva guys should be handed a silver platter for the Avodas HaKodesh they sweat for.
😉
This is so funny and wrong I don’t even know where to begin.
I’ll just say you are disagreeing with Rav Moshe Wolfson, who says learning is a much easier lifestyle (since that is the language you understand).
If you want to debate this please start a new thread.
Oomis,SJSinNYC and others, there is such a thing as Halocha, which is the Will of HaShem Isborach. According to it, men and women do not have the same rights and obligations when it comes to marriage.
What is this refering to?
PBA:
😉
thanks wolf.
And what about some (repeat: some) evil ex-wives who indoctrinate father-hatred in their children, keep their children as much away from their loving caring father as possible, use goyish courts in violation of halachic rules on monetary ownership to squeeze and steal every possible penny from her ex-husband in the form of alimony and child support?
What about them?
(I know, I’m setting myself up)
Thanks cantoresq.
Is this TV show real or is it made up, like wrestling?
Seems like a made up story to me.
Being that I can’t see youtube, can someone summarize the video please?
Once again:
Sometimes it is worth getting beaten by Beis Din, or for the Ra’avad, starve.
And yes, in certain cases it should be encouraged. Health of the wife from STDs, for example, which a Bais Din may have no clue or may disbelieve.
Sometimes it is worth getting beaten by Beis Din, or for the Ra’avad, starve.
Besides, I don’t think that will actually happen in the here and now. When Moshiach comes, he will create Shalom.
Unless you know of a case where Bais Din has beaten someone for not willing to comply (I was going to use a stronger term, but thought it might be blocked)?
Ofcourse:
Have your Kehila hire a real shadchan.
Then he/she will concentrate on your singles.