Imaofthree

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  • in reply to: Mice in mein hoiz #994211
    Imaofthree
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    Put out a glue trap with a bit of peanut butter.

    in reply to: Thank you Project Nasi! #862712
    Imaofthree
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    Far East, I don’t think that the shaddchanim only focus on the girls they can make more money from. Of course noone minds a little appreciation, but I didn’t find that they were doing it for the money at all. I have been in touch with shaddchanim who truly care and are very special people, who want to help everyone meet their beshairt. Not only their high paying customers.

    Unless you are speaking from personal experience. Have you joined project nasi or enrolled your daughter?

    Well I am speaking from personal experience.

    in reply to: Girls High School Curriculum: Maybe all the schools need to do this #870081
    Imaofthree
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    After reading that article in the Jewish Press, I am going to open up a high school which will focus on making the girls look like models so they will get a shidduch.

    Classes will be in hair styling, make up, fashion, and two hours of gym a day. Then instead of “wasting” twenty thousand (or more) on seminary, get a nose job, botox, and lipo instead!

    in reply to: Thank you Project Nasi! #862710
    Imaofthree
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    There are many shaddchanim that are NOT on Project Nasi, it’s not as if Project Nasi has a monopoly on all shidduchim!

    in reply to: Thank you Project Nasi! #862708
    Imaofthree
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    If a girl is poor, and she does not join Project Nasi, does it mean she will not get married? No, she does her hishtadlus, having bitachon that Hashem has her zivug all ready for her! What happened to Bitachon?

    in reply to: Article In Jewish Press #861868
    Imaofthree
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    This is exactly what the Jewish Press wants, to publish an article that will draw negative attention to their paper. This article caused much agmas nefesh and I hope an apology will soon follow. If not, I call on all those who buy this paper or suscribe to stop buying and cancel their subscription.

    in reply to: NASI project shidduchim??? #899774
    Imaofthree
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    Maybe because you are only paying a shaddchanus fee but you are not paying for the costs and time of running the program itself.

    in reply to: NASI project shidduchim??? #899762
    Imaofthree
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    It takes one month to get a refund.

    in reply to: Thank you Project Nasi! #862689
    Imaofthree
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    PBA, yes, I am thanking them for the one yes but also thanking them for other suggestions that did not work out.

    Some days I get very sad about this whole shidduch parsha. I generally am okay but this situation can get anyone down. And on those days, I get a message from Project Nasi…how about this idea, how about this shaddchan, and I feel that I have not been forgotten about.

    Some of my daughter’s friends have been in the parsha for THREE YEARS and have not had ONE SINGLE DATE YET. I wish I was kidding but sadly I am not. So I am happy that my daughter not only got one date but she has people thinking about her and working on getting her married, IY”H. I am also getting good, constructive, solid advice on an area in which I have no experience.

    in reply to: Thank you Project Nasi! #862686
    Imaofthree
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    Making shidduchim takes alot of time and effort. It’s almost like a full time job. I feel that the shaddchanim deserve the shaddchanus.

    There are those people who pay three thousand dollars for a stunning shaitel. Then there are those that pay a shadchan three thousand in shaddchanus for a wonderful Ben Torah. I guess I am one of the latter. 😉

    Thank you for your good wishes oomis1105.

    in reply to: Dor Yeshorim in Girls High School #1157893
    Imaofthree
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    My girls did it and it was no big deal. the people are highly trained in drawing blood and it didn’t hurt. Mamash takes two seconds. I think they draw about two small vials of blood, not much. It is a good idea for your daughter to have it done because then the girls get busy with seminary and college. Don’t be nervous your daughter will do just fine! Hatzlocha!

    in reply to: Kiddish Rabba After Shabbos Davening #859059
    Imaofthree
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    When there is a big kiddush at shul my neighbor doesn’t make choulent cause everyone comes home too stuffed. They just make kiddush and wash, a bit of fish and they are done. My husband does not eat at the kiddushim at shul because he would much rather come home and sit down like a mensch at the table and eat the seudah I prepared.

    in reply to: So, what was the best Shlach Monos you got?! #858766
    Imaofthree
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    Someone gave us a veggie platter with choumous and pretzels. Yummy and healthy.

    in reply to: flowers? or too soon? #858740
    Imaofthree
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    Yay!!! Mazal Tov!

    in reply to: Collecting Tzedaka during Davening..your opinion? #859110
    Imaofthree
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    My husband carries a roll of quarters to shul with him (obviously not on shabbos) to give to the poor people who ask for Tzaddakah. Honestly, I would prefer them collecting at shul than coming to my door when my husband is not home.

    in reply to: Crowdsourcing dating #914314
    Imaofthree
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    Two hundred girls? Three years? I don’t think his system is working so great!

    in reply to: cant get the guys to give a yes :( #859423
    Imaofthree
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    I know how you feel. May you get a YES very soon to your beshairt!!

    in reply to: Nice affordable wedding present #856683
    Imaofthree
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    How about a challah cover?

    in reply to: Jerusalem Purim Disaster #856514
    Imaofthree
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    Spend purim and shabbos in Bnei Brok.

    in reply to: Baked stuff #857877
    Imaofthree
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    Hot pretzels? YUM! Great idea!

    in reply to: Baked stuff #857875
    Imaofthree
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    I love home baked mishloach manos. The kugels and cakes go into my freezer and gets used. The candy goes to the cleaning lady. Only my close friends send baked stuff.

    in reply to: Bnos Sarah 2013… who's coming???? #919882
    Imaofthree
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    Both my daughters went to Bnos Sorah. It’s a great seminary, you will love it. Lucky you that you got in, I hear it’s very popular! hatzlocha

    in reply to: Apropriate for older girls t o dress up??? #896942
    Imaofthree
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    I can’t stand it when people dress up in Halloween costumes (like witches) on purim! No monster costumes, please!

    in reply to: This weeks Yated Chinuch Roundtable #875393
    Imaofthree
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    One of the reasons why I am not renewing my subscription.

    in reply to: FOOD. #850955
    Imaofthree
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    An hour a day of exercise is plenty. Doing more could be dangerous. There was an article recently in the mishpacha magazine (I think) about a young woman who was addicted to exercise. She even exercised on Shabbos.

    in reply to: FOOD. #850949
    Imaofthree
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    Join Weight Watchers!

    in reply to: PESACH HOTELS #851097
    Imaofthree
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    Well good thing I never show up for breakfast!

    in reply to: PESACH HOTELS #851088
    Imaofthree
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    BPT, I eat less when I am at a hotel than if I am home. At home I am always in the kitchen (and nibbling at this and that). At a hotel I have time to exercise and take care of myself and go to shiurim and daven. I come down for the meals and noone forces you to eat cake.

    in reply to: PESACH HOTELS #851083
    Imaofthree
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    Hockster613, I have gone away to hotels for pesach and it was FANTASTIC! The best vacation ever!

    in reply to: Neutering and Spaying an animal #849755
    Imaofthree
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    thanks Gavra!

    in reply to: If you've read "NASI Project Responds", have you changed your mind? #848256
    Imaofthree
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    I think AZ is the head of the project Nasi, Cherry Bim.

    in reply to: Who is reponsible? #849053
    Imaofthree
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    This is why I do not give rides to women with babies. I do not have a car seat and I could get ticketed.

    When I do give women rides I always tell them to buckle up.

    in reply to: Please post healthy filling and easy to make lunches for men #1191162
    Imaofthree
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    I pack breakfast and lunch for my husband every day. A chobani greek yogurt, fruits (banana, oranges, apples) some type of granola bar or banana muffin (that I bake). A bag of cut up veggies. Sandwhich with tuna, or cheese, eggsalad, chummus, peanut butter and jelly. A bag of healthy kind of chips or popcorn.

    He loves it and thanks me. 🙂

    in reply to: If you've read "NASI Project Responds", have you changed your mind? #848210
    Imaofthree
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    If you yourself are not doing anything about helping the shidduchim situation, don’t criticize those who are putting in their time and effort in project nasi.

    For those who are complaining about the money….we spend at least twenty thousand dollars for seminary in Israel. Isn’t getting them married just as important?

    thank you and have a good shabbos.

    in reply to: Has YWN lost its way? #845259
    Imaofthree
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    Surely you can’t blame YWN for the pics of the celebrity that popped up on your computer when you googled it. I say that YWN is doing a great job and those who don’t think it’s for them can go else where.

    in reply to: where is Bombmaniac and Haifa Girl? #845213
    Imaofthree
    Participant

    I also used to go by a different name but then I changed to Imaofthree. Noone ever noticed, oh well! 🙂

    in reply to: NASI – The Inside Scoop #844905
    Imaofthree
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    BPT, I love, LOVE this!

    “Starting at age 16, girls need to hear that there is no reason for them to break their heads, getting good marks, so they can get a degree, so they can support their husbands.

    Next, tell them they need not rush into marraige at 19, because the quality boys are not running away. They are only getting more mature as the get into the 23-24 slot, hence better suited for the job of being a decent, appreciative husband.

    Most important, is the next belief. They need to start looking for boys that have a job (or are almost done with getting their degree. Anything less, is an insult to the hard work the girls have (and continue to) put in towards getting a good carrear.

    Once boys know what is expected of them, they will look for ways to achieve it. If the “admission ticket” to the dating arena means you need to be employable, you can be sure the boys will figure out a way to get in the game.

    For too long, we have allowed our boys to live a double-standard, and its high time we demand from them the same accountability we do from our girls.”

    in reply to: post seminary? #844765
    Imaofthree
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    This is why I made sure my daughter knew what she was going to do before she set foot on the plane to seminary.

    in reply to: NASI – The Inside Scoop #844863
    Imaofthree
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    Squeak, I strongly disagree with you and your post makes no sense!

    in reply to: Best Weight Loss Diet/Excercise #982268
    Imaofthree
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    hope you used plenty of mouthwash with the garlic diet! 🙂

    in reply to: I feel like I don't belong here #842743
    Imaofthree
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    I don’t really belong here either, I am probably much older than other posters. Some topics are very interesting to me, some are not. But I like the idea that I can sometimes bring up a topic and read other people’s opinions on it. So I don’t plan on stopping to read the coffee room.

    in reply to: Where's the snow??? #850080
    Imaofthree
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    Snow is pretty! Don’t worry we will get some, can’t be that we will have no snow this winter.

    in reply to: Toilet Training #842543
    Imaofthree
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    I found cute books on the topic to read to my toddler and got the cutest video from the library for kids about using the potty. Good luck and just be very patient.

    in reply to: I'm speechless #846100
    Imaofthree
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    Maybe she is OTD? You did the correct thing to tell her. There are so many chocolates that are kosher, wondering why she would choose a non kosher one.

    in reply to: Snow Chains #911859
    Imaofthree
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    I thought putting chains on tires is illegal because it eats up the road.

    in reply to: Guy's Shidduch Resume' #908087
    Imaofthree
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    Dor Yeshorim number

    in reply to: Increase in OTD Children… are made to feel like second-class citizens, #839764
    Imaofthree
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    Always runs with scissors fast, I think what you are writing about is a very normal feeling for a baalas teshuva. Everyone goes up and down in their frumkiet, thinking how we could do better. Focus on the things that you do, don’t let the yatzer horah get you down and depressed. Thank you for sharing with us here in the coffee room and I wish you hatzlocha.

    in reply to: Increase in OTD Children… are made to feel like second-class citizens, #839732
    Imaofthree
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    “In my observations, the majority of OTD children are the result of seemingly frum, but really “OTD parents”.”

    Not true at all. There are many reasons why a child goes off the derech. Everyone thinks they know THE REASON.

    in reply to: 8 year old gets spit on by chassidim #840001
    Imaofthree
    Participant

    How sad! We must daven harder for Moshiach to come.

    in reply to: In-grown toenails URGENT ADVISE PLEASE #838162
    Imaofthree
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    Hi Crazybrit, I had ingrown toenails as a teenager and went to a podiatrist who removed the part that was ingrown but it kept coming back. So the podiatrist cortorized that part of the nail bed so it didn’t grow back. I have not had a problem since. Please don’t try to operate on yourself, go to the podiatrist and have it taken care of. feel better.

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