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I think the glasses are hysterical but looks cool on some people!

I understand, but its not enough of a reason to not go again. For all you know she had a great reason why she wore flats. And when ur married u can buy her what ever u want and u can encourage her to wear what u like. First see her middot and the more impportant things before saying no.

Half the things u guys wouldn’t know but- baked ziti, mini pizzas, samboosaks, borekas, mijredeh, spanach, cuseh. Calsones, penne ala vodaka,mashed potatoes, salad, vegetable soup, maccaroni, cescasoun

Truth be told-that was the reason why I said everyone is selective. Some say they’re not, but they really are.

First of all I just want to say-and we want to know what mashiach isn’t here yet?? “The food, the attitude” are u KIDDING???? I have soooo much to say right now but I am holding myself back VERY much. U can think whatever u want. Hashems so proud of this thread

I went out with someone who before I went out with him I thought he was ok. I said fine ill give it a try I ended up wanting to marry him but it didn’t work out for reasons which Hashem only knows why I had to go out with him but anyway his middot and personality made me think he was everything and he became soo cute to me. Someone can be stunning to one girl and that same guy can be ugly to a different girl. Its all in the eyes of the beholder.

Exercise 3/4 times a week for at least a half hour you’ll lose a lot of weight.

Being a teenager is awesome. I love it. But I want to get married Be”H very soon…looking for the right one…I know Hashem will send my zivug bekarov at the right time. Amen!

Most things are true but not all. I guess everyone has their own opinion of high maintenance.

The Goq-thats not at all what it means. Its material objects. Designer clothes, expensive cars, nice jewelery, resteraunts….

It seems as if chayav is asking this question because he hears around him people saying how bad it is and that they don’t go. I assume he just wants to know WHY.

When I was younger we always went to the movies, the school didn’t like it but they didn’t forbid it. Once I was applying to high school they forbade it and ever since then my family hasn’t gone. I always figured once I got out of high school ill go, but I didn’t. You see things differently once you grow up.

Hudi-not necessarily.

Its someone who wants and has the ‘finer things in life.’

(Now everyone don’t blow up at me saying “a BMW is not something fine its gashmiyus, ect.)

Ofcourse-examples on the top of my head-one boy was talking about other peope non stop, and not in such a nice way. A different boy told me how ‘stupid’ and annoying his sister was (he was trying to be cute). With girls I see it easily. Most of my friends have great, beautiful middot but some, just the words that come out of their mouth shock me. (Not curses or anything like that, just stupiddd things)

When I look into a boy we don’t go calling everyone. We’ll ask a few people, and his rabbi. My mother can tell if the rabbi really loves the boy or not. The rest-his middot and the like u have to find out YOURSELF. Everyone CAN have the best middot u just have to see for yourself. I’m very into noticing if the boy does or not. B”H B”H Hashem has given me a great gift that I see people (boys and girls) middot clearly.

Totally understand u with the vibe situation. But now your kind of commited to this date so u can’t really back out. It kind of sounds like HE’S trying to back out, “ill text u” in other words: “or not.” So he might not even. And u can’t tell the shadchan no bc u don’t want her to think down on u.

Oomis perfectley said!!!

How about the shadchans ask do u want him to walk u to the door?

Its so not awkward walking to the door, u talk like u were talking before. And when u get to the door say “thank u I had a nice time….”

I understand those who say they don’t want their neighbors to see….I never really thought about it because I don’t really have that problem….

Dunno-ME!!!!!! Add massages to the list. Thanks

Shlishi-to each his own I guess!

Also most people just look better in black-especially if they have a lighter coloring. Light colors would make them look to pale and washed out.

Sounds pretty much like a womens thread to me!! Ha!!

I have pretty straigh/wavy hair B”H but for dates I usually wave it towards the bottom for a pretty look (and leave the top and my side bangs straight).

As for the black clothes I love black! But if u would look in my closet u would see COLORS! white skirts, gray skirts, pink skirts, I wear all color all the time but I love black too. U just have to know how to dress and have a nice style 🙂

Sender Av-thats very interesting! After havdalah most ppl in my community have the custom of dipping our finger into the wine that put out the candle and then writing a shin with it on our foreheads

I sat there typing about 100 words and they’re not going through 🙁

Hola-hello

Buenos dias-good morning

Buesnos tardes-good afternoon

Buenas noches-good evening

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