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gumball: Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhalom! we will Misssssssssssss you ssssssssssssooooo much. hope you have a sssssssssssssssssuper ssssssssssssummer.
MAZEL TOV! MAZEL TOV! MAZEL TOV!Wow!!! this is really exciting may hashem help you should be zoche to build a bnb with happiness and delight! how about giving us a brucha!!
I heard it’s the latest to speak to your mother in law about the weather 😉 someone even told me it prevents fights!
Latest research came out.. that the people who study this weather tend to be bored!
Attn: Pumper & Bee
Once a thing I heard
And to think about it I was preferred.
Only what we can handle hashem gives us.
I guess we are strong enough
To get chosen to pass through this test so tuff!
To every dark tunnel there is a light
That will one day SHINE SO BRIGHT!
There is so much to fill each day
We can do mitzvahs, helping another yid, or simply pray!
Stand strong! with flying colors Lets get over this test
A bayis neman biyisroel a house for hashem to build
Mazel Tov! Mazel tov! With tranquility our hearts will Be stilled!
Your pain I feel and see,
Since I am in the same boat
I took this time. To write u a little note
i agree with you,This time is tuff!
Finding your zivug can be rough.
But remember to always keep you smile
Even if it takes a while
And know that hashem loves you so much
Make sure to get close with him and keep in touch
If you will follow my advice
Use it to do chessed, tefillah and more
A good zivug hashem has for you in store!
Just try try and try
To keep your spirits high!
Hope this helped! 🙂 it helps me every day!
Pumper: an ez solution! TRUST IN HASHEM! because whatever he does to u … and whatever stage you are in right now…. is simply the BEST for you! im”h you’ll get married trust me… everyone get there! someone a little earlier than the other. and when u get married life starts…. so enjoy your time being.. not everyone gets this quality time. married life may be at times hectic. and if you have extra time… use it to get closer to hashem. to build a relationship with him! daven, say tehillim… or even talk to him with your own words! in this zchus may your find your zivug bkuriv momish! s/o really matchy & good for you. p.s. i am also still single.and it’s proven to get going happy! 🙂 one day will post our mazel tovs on the CR! enjoy!
mra01385: Thank You. i get inspired so i figured to inspire e/o else.
I wait every wednesday to listen to his shuirim. They just give me so much energy to go on with life. Like before a yom tov he puts such excitement in you. it’s so different when i wake up thursday! all excited. with simcha! he is just amazing! i always like his good sense of humor! stories, and torah on the parshah.
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May we all be zoche to bring moshiach soon!! a kushera pesach!
adorable: I am trying to encourage myself at the same time. people say i am very strong even if i am an older single. i think i’ll give the compliment to hashem. he is giving me the koach!
Thank You! e/o
It’s really a treasure we all have after I daven I feel so good! I just wanted to share this thought with everyone else!
I am just in no mood for anything…
And the phone doesn’t stop ring!
I am just stuck on my chair in shock
like a ship parked at its dock
sitting and thinking what will be?
Another date when will i c?
Give me brachas… HELP me out!
before i lose myself and start to shout!
The best solution for your problem is VITAMIN A & B (Amunah/Bituchin)let hashem do his job. The best you can do is to daven and do mitzvahs. The rest is up to hashem.If you’ll trust in him he will do good and you’ll be really CALM!
Also take each day as it comes… Life is just too short to worry!
Hope this helped!
red head: that’s true! I have friends who got married young and are b”h bz with children when they themselves are still in their childish years. It’s not easy i am not saying. But we gotta be happy & think that hashem only gives tests for a person who can pass it. So i guess whoever was chosen for this test can pass it! never forget hashem loves u!
p.s. can we keep this as a support group!
c’mon let’s go with the positive attitude. I am not saying to be picky. I believe everything is from hashem and he will give everyone in the CR his/her bashert! let’s be happy with whatever the situation is at this point! trust me, whenever it gotta come it will come even if u don’t want! haha 🙂 🙂 🙂
SORRY I LEFT THIS OUT…
Thank You i can only try u certainly did try your best! i am not a he. but thanks for all kind words!!!
I am still single and shidduchim are very hard!! the only thing that keeps me going is bituchin! there is nothing else i can do! you just feel helpless.. and there is a reason for that to depend of hashem! I never feel down because of my beleif I trust hashem 100%
MichelleNY: 100% true!!!!!!!!!I also believe these 2 things are the most important. and don’t forget if you’ll have fully trust in him hashem will say ok i’ll help her/him.
“Warning: not as easy as it sounds.” If you just try to work on tefillah and bituchin you’ll see how sweet it’s it’s totally not hard! it will be addictive you’ll feel soooooo close to hashem!
you’ll be such a happy joyous person!
ages are different depending on which circles you come from but everyone knows for themselves.
Of course I didn’t mean to say we have bad days chos v’sholem. only when things don’t look so good to us. Then we have chizuk by thinking hashem is by our side! you guys got it all wrong. chos v’sholem all days are good!
Shmiras Haloshon Yomi
7 Iyar, 5770 / April 21, 2010
We have been discussing the issue of accepting rechilus, a report that somebody said something negative about you or did something harmful to you. In this segment, the Chofetz Chaim deals with cases where circumstances seem to indicate that the report is true.
Sitting among a crowd at a bar mitzvah, David says, in a voice loud enough for everyone to hear, that Reuven did something which was damaging to Shimon. One might assume that since this announcement was made in public, it is probably true. Can Shimon believe David? No. Shimon has to discern if there is anything constructive to be gained from absorbing this information. If it will help him to prevent further harm, he is allowed to suspect that the information is true and he can investigate further. If the information has no relevance for the future, he should assume that it is not true.
In previous segments, the Chofetz Chaim has offered us several possible reasons for rejecting such a report. Here, he reminds us of the most compelling one.
The Chofetz Chaim then challenges us:
Shmiras Haloshon Yomi
6 Iyar, 5770/ April 20, 2010
As we know, when a person does something which affects us negatively, our reaction will often depend on who that person is. For example:
Of course, there could be any number of reasons why the person left without telling you. He may have been mistakenly told that you had already left, or that you wanted to stay late. Perhaps an emergency forced him to leave in a hurry. Or, he may have simply forgotten.
The Chofetz Chaim discusses a case where you have been told that someone said something negative about you or has done something against you (i.e. you have heard rechilus) and you have confirmed that the report is true. Nevertheless, says the Chofetz Chaim, you are obligated to judge him favorably if there is any possible way to interpret his statement or action in a positive light. If you do not judge him favorably, then you are guilty of accepting rechilus.
The Chofetz Chaim concludes by discussing the teshuvah (repentance) which is required of someone who has accepted rechilus as truth:
yups, same here! but I guess that comes to show us that the outside doesn’t make a person!
asher yutzer only 4 times?
shaatra, wow! that sounds amazing! I will try to do it! you most prolly get so uplifted!! may hashem give you more good things to write down each day!
Do you think it’s copying the goyisha holidays?
thanks! now I feel YOUNG!
like the daily tehilim a sticky one 😉
Let’s see how serious you guys are about this first.
Mods maybe you make a nice sheet with everyones names and stories? updated every day?
Isn’t that what we’re doing here?
NY Mom: wow! that’s amazing! z’chus zull diech bie shtine!
Cest la vie: NICE! thanks for sharing!
Where are more stories?
ok.. so who is in with us? seriously speaking! any one know of a story? Even if u don’t see the good.. know e/t is from hashem! lets share our stories,I once read before moshiach will come.. pple will have to work on amunah. but truth is.. how can we not beleive we see soo many miracles.. look up to the sky an air plane every minute.. thousands of pple in the air.. it’s just AMAZING! lets start to see the wonder of this world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
how about if we go in order of alef-beis lets start with Amunah.. e/t bad happens say gam zu l’tovah!
yes, lets work together! klal yisroel is a family together!
kiddush lavunah story:
It was the last night to bentch the lavunah all other nights where cloudy
finally after a long time looking for the lavunah they found it.. but there was 1 person that couldn’t make it so they where coming up with a plan on how to save it for him… after long time thinking they came up with plan to take a pail and put in water and they put in the moon and closed it the next day they opened the pail and got pale the moon was missing 🙂
Thanks all for your chizuk. One thing I remember from my teachers.. the tought of thinking that you don’t know where to begin comes from the yetzer horah bec. then u don’t even start we gotta strenghten ourselves and start with 1 small deed!! thanks 2 u all! may we all have a good gebentched yur b’ruchnies, v’goshmeas :))
watermelon has lots of water
your very welcome! I thought i would share this.. cuz it gave me some chizuk!
His full name is Rabbi Elimelech Ben Eluzer!
Sorry moish01 if u don’t like the title, I will try my best to make a better one next time!
Pashuteh Yid: so do i have to start davening before netz and when netz is 7:15 in brooklyn i have to be up to shmone esra? thats what i remember doing last year!
WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That was nice!!!!
Does any one know if you have to daven shmone esra by the netz?? is that the point?
I would appreciate it Myshadow, you are always sooo helpfull!
anyone else knows?
yeah.. so lets start working on emunah and bituchin lol 😉
ames: i guess e/t boils down to BITUCHIN & EMUNAH! am i correct?
goody613: Try this i once heared a shiur.. and the speaker spoke about tefillah he said there are times that a person doesn’t have patience to daven… or can’t concentrate.. a person should never give up! bec. these are just eras.. nisoyins.. he gave a good idea… before davening tell yourself… ok today i will have kevuna by oshrie… take one kapital at a time. and then youll see after a while it will get better.. also of course ask hashem to help u concentrate!!!! thats the first step ! Good Luck!! and i wish u the best! to be close to hashem is JUST GREAT!!!!!!!!!
kiruvwife: I agree it is the best feeling to have connection to hashem! to know that hashem can do anything… and he can help me too! every morning when i wake up before i open my eyes… i thank hashem.. and ask him for hatzlacha in the coming day! and before i leave my house when kissing the mezuzah i say a special pussik asking him he should help me through out the day!