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  • in reply to: Difficult questions about grandparents #899668
    simcha613
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    This is getting a bit off topic, please start a new topic called “definition of frum.” For all those who answered my question- thank you so much. I just wanted to comment on one of the answers I saw by funnybone-

    ” I believe that it’s okay to tell children that grandma and grandpa aren’t as religious as we are. You can explain why you feel religion is important and that you live in a community where you and your children can have friends with similar religious values. Grandma and grandpa grew up in a different environment, went to different schools, didn’t have such a great community etc., but cared very much that their children should be more religious than them.”

    When I say I don’t want to give an answer that makes the grandparents look like resha’im, it’s not only because I want the children to respect them (which is also very important). It’s also because, to put it bluntly, kids have big mouths. And things you say to the kids about grandparents may end up getting back to them. I wouldn’t want the grandparents to be insulted by things that are said to the kids. Implying that the grandparents aren’t so religious, when they think they are, may be hurtful to them, even if you could say it in a way that the children understand.

    in reply to: Chazal and science #923827
    simcha613
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    Bubka- you did not answer my question. My question is, how does it make sense that they knew science better than Torah? In the world of Torah there are machloksim for various reasons. But in the world of science, there was no machlokes? They get Halachah from the Torah, and science from the Torah, yet they argue about Halachah and they agree about science? Chazal were better at extracting science from the Torah than Halachah?

    in reply to: Kashas on the Parsha #1169243
    simcha613
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    What’s pshat with the rakia separating the upper waters and the lower waters? Poshut pshat and the way Rashi seems to understand it is that the lower waters are the oceans and rivers and the upper waters is this (presumably floating) storehouse of water in the sky which is where rain comes from. From a scientific perspective this is not true. There is no storehouse of water in the sky. Rain is recycled from the oceans via the clouds. I’m okay with Rashi being incorrect about science, but how else can we understand this passage in the Torah?

    in reply to: shaving during Chol Hamoed #898846
    simcha613
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    I thought about it more, and it seems that the takanah, if I may say, is a bit outdated. I am not saying that’s a reason to stop listening to it, we have to listen to takanos Chazal even the reason no longer applies, but here is my logic.

    In the days of Chazal, most people probably had beards and even those who shaved probably didn’t shave so often. I wouldn’t be surprised if people shaved (or trimmed) every 4 to 6 weeks. Chazal were afraid that people would push off their monthly shave to Chol Hamoed which would be disrespectful to Yom Tov, and therefore forbade it. In addition, since people shaved once a month, it wasn’t really disrespectful to enter the second days with a weeks worth of stubble.

    Nowadays however many people shave every day, at the very least for Shabbos, so it’s unlikely that people would push off their shave to Chol Hamoed. In addition, since people shave so often, it is disrespectful to enter the second days with a weeks worth of stubble.

    Like I said, we have to listen to takanos even if the reason no longer applies (unless you want to argue that being machmir in this issue is actually being meikil in kavod Yom Tov), but I am rather sure that if Chazal were around nowadays, they wouldn’t have made this takanah.

    in reply to: conservatives vs. liberals #898649
    simcha613
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    I never said it’s too much and I don’t think it’s a bad thing. I agree with the conservative approach. When I said more regulations I meant more than the liberals. Which, as I pointed out, is ironic because liberals want more regulations in economic issues.

    in reply to: shaving during Chol Hamoed #898840
    simcha613
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    For the record, I never said that a person who follows halachah is a slob. I never said an aveil or a person who doesn’t shave during Chol Hamoed is a slob. I said that a person who doesn’t shave, whether it’s because of halachah or any other reason, looks like a slob which I equate with looking unkempt or messy. I didn’t meant to characterize followers of halachah as slobs or lazy people. I meant that sometimes halachah requires us to look messy and it bothers me that we are supposed to look messy for the second days of Yom Tov (and Shabbos Chol Hamoed) when it seems antithetical to the concept of kavod Shabbos and kavod Yom Tov.

    in reply to: shaving during Chol Hamoed #898829
    simcha613
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    bubka- Just because someone is following halachah doesn’t mean that they can’t look like a slob. An aveil looks like a slob even though he is following halachah. 30 days without shaving makes one look like a slob. In addition, 6 days without shaving makes men look like slobs. Just because one is following halachah doesn’t change that reality. Most men (who don’t have beards) would not go to work with that messy stubble. Most of those same men wouldn’t enter Shabbos with that messy stubble. We aren’t supposed to shave during Chol HaMoed so people do not enter the first days with that messy stubble. So we enter the last days with that messy stubble making us look like slobs. Following halachah may be the right thing to do, but that doesn’t change the fact that 6 days without shaving is a slobby and messy look.

    in reply to: Is White Collar Crime An Aveirah? #897485
    simcha613
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    poppa bar abba- I don’t know the topic so well, but wouldn’t dina demalchusa dina apply even if every single detail of a law doesn’t make sense? Wouldn’t that make every white collar illegal act assur even if we can’t fit it in to the halachic lo tignov/lo tigzol?

    in reply to: cheese #897225
    simcha613
    Participant

    147- I have heard shittos that said that the S”A meant pas Yisroel specifically. He didn’t mean every single chumra. And even though chalav stam that was kosher didn’t exist back then, it’s unclear if he would have extended that minhag to chalav yisroel and chalav stam.

    in reply to: Satmar Rav on rice #896709
    simcha613
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    I’m assuming MORIS was being sarcastic, because out of all the words he could have used to argue with Sam, I feel that narrow minded is not the correct one. I don’t think Sam was being narrow minded.

    in reply to: women working #894437
    simcha613
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    gavra- don’t know where that Gemara is, would love to see it, but it is possible “so that her husband can learn Torah” is not the same thing as “so that her husband can learn Torah full time.” It’s possible that Gemara is talking about a situation where the husband would have no time to learn if the wife wouldn’t help out financially.

    in reply to: women working #894432
    simcha613
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    iced- it seems that there are two reasons that a woman should be at home and not working. 1. she is the best person to raise her children and if she is not at home to raise them, then they will struggle. 2. kol kevudah bas melech penimah- it’s not really so tznius for a woman to out in the workforce.

    Why would learning in Kollel be a “worthy tradeoff” to allow her to work if it is detrimental to her children, and forces her to compromise on tzniyus?

    in reply to: Zionism argument #894186
    simcha613
    Participant

    Correct me if I’m wrong but I think this is an accurate summary of the arguements:

    Argument 1 for Zionism- Having a Jewish run government in Eretz Yisroel is the beginning of the final geulah.

    Argument 2 for Zionism- Since the founding of the medinah, there is been more Jews and Torah in Eretz Yisroel since around the destruction of the 2nd Beis Mikdash and we owe the medinah our hakaras hatov and support.

    Argument 1 against Zionism- It is assur to have a Jewish run government in Eretz Yisroel until Mashiach comes. We are in golus and it is not our place to decide when it ends.

    Argument 2 against Zionsim- Most of the government is not religious and some of the government is even anti religious. The government of Israel has an agenda to create a secular state in Israel and is prejudiced against Charedim and Frum Jews. We should not support such a government.

    in reply to: Disinheriting an OTD Child #893440
    simcha613
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    Ravhamachshir- I have heard that mehalech, but I’ve heard the other perspective as well. I think I remember hearing R’ Paysach Krohn say that the fact that Yitzchak Avinu had an OTD son in Eisav shows that even the best parents can have OTD children. It’s not always in the parent’s control and sometimes the best eitzah is tefilah.

    in reply to: Its time to address this important question: #891264
    simcha613
    Participant

    There is one basic difference between the Yeshivish/Charedi world and Modern Orthodoxy. The difference between the two has nothing to do with being meikil or machmir in halachah or interperting halachah to conform with secular society. It happens to be that many people who claim to be Modern Orthodox are more meikil in an effort to be more like modern society, but that’s not real Modern Orthodoxy. That’s an unfortunate result of what true Modern Orthodoxy was meant to be.

    Basically everyone agrees that there are positive and negative things about secular society. The Charedi/Yeshivish world believes that the negative aspects of secular society are too great and therefore we should shut ourselves out to secular society unless it is absolutely necessary. Modern Orthodoxy believes that there is tremendous positive that exists in secular society and we should try our best to take advantage of those positives while keeping away from the negatives. Basically, an ideal Modern Orthox Jew is as shomer Halacha as a Charedi, values Torah as much as a Charedi, but feels a greater involvement in the secular world is a positive thing.

    In terms of leaders- I guess the main leaders are the Roshei Yeshiva of YU like R’ Schachter and R’ Willig. Though, to be honest, while the Charedi world in general aren’t machshiv the Rabbanim of the Modern Orthodox world, the ideal Modern Orthodox Jews have tremendous respect and are influenced greatly by the Charedi Gedolim like R’ Elyashiv zatzal and R’ Kanievsky shlita. For example, in YU and many other Modern Orthodox yeshivos and shuls, there were hespedim this year for R’ Scheinberg zatzal, R’ Elyashiv zatzal and R’ Nosson Tzvi zatzal. I am not sure if the main Rabbanim of YU would get that same respect in a Charedi or Yeshivish yeshiva or shul.

    in reply to: Married Women Learning Daf Yomi? #1028153
    simcha613
    Participant

    Helath I already responded to your “teiretz” over there.

    See the topic called –

    “Words from an ex IDF solider for Yom HaZikaron”!

    in reply to: Words from an ex IDF solider for Yom HaZikaron #1163274
    simcha613
    Participant

    Health- I don’t think that’s what the S”A meant. The Rama is clear that a woman is obligated to learn the practical things. The S”A however opens up that they get sechar for learning, but they don’t get as much sechar as a man because they aren’t obligated to do it! Obviously he is not talking about the practical areas, because they are obligated to learn those things and would get the same sechar as a man! The S”A meant she gets sechar for those areas of Torah where she isn’t obligated to learn like the non practical areas of Torah Sheba’al Peh, but it’s not allowed to be taught to her. How do we reconcile these two statements? I stand by what I said before. It can’t be imposed on women in general but a woman who is lishmah can learn and will receive sechar.

    in reply to: Married Women Learning Daf Yomi? #1028133
    simcha613
    Participant

    Health and Choppy- why would they receive reward for doing something that is clearly assur? Can you give me another example of something that is clearly assur but the violater actually receives reward instead of punishment? If the Shulchan Aruch doesn’t want women to learn, why would the Shulchan Aruch tell us that they receive sechar for doing it (this is the first line in that halachah that Health conveniently forgot to quote)?

    in reply to: Chukas Hagoyim #886753
    simcha613
    Participant

    I heard a shiur a long time ago, so I don’t remember who said what- but I think it’s a machlokes- is it something that the Goyim do that’s based on something idolatrous? Or is it anything that the Goyim do that wouldn’t have been done in a shielded Jewish community? Nafka minos could be a male wearing a wedding ring or a momenet of silence after a tragedy. I think we (at least Ashkenazim) paskin like the former.

    in reply to: Rav Yisroel Lau will be the guest speaker at the siyum Hashas #887661
    simcha613
    Participant

    What about the effects of such a move? Maybe the Vishnitzer Rav is not guilty of sinas chinam because he is fighting against a position that he disagrees with, not the person. He “hates” Zionism, not R’ Lau. But this move will definitely cause MO’s and Dati Le’umi’s to hate that chassisuds… and possibly all chassidus. This move might accidentaly send the message to the Chassidim to hate Zionists. If this move isn’t sinas chinam, it will definitely cause sinas chinam.

    in reply to: Better to Wear a Hat for Davening at Home than to Daven with a Minyan #886066
    simcha613
    Participant

    Lichorah he is only talking about Minchah and Ma’ariv during the week. No one wears a hat during Shacharis with their Talis and Tefilin. And on Shabbos, I think the Ramban says that davening with a minyan is D’Oraysa on Shabbos, so I find it hard to believe that R’ Chaim would say to be mevatel a D’Oraysa (according to some Rishonim) to wear a hat (especially since most married men don’t wear a hat during Shacharis with their tallis).

    in reply to: Would you choose army or kollel? #886985
    simcha613
    Participant

    For the record, in this weeks Parshah, Hashem told Moshe to take “anashim” for the army and Rashi explains this to mean the tzadikim. Who are these tzadikim? Are they not the people who would normally sit in Kollel?

    in reply to: Would you choose army or kollel? #886963
    simcha613
    Participant

    Use your brain- Unfortunately, the people who you are referring to, I assume the chilonim, don’t have respect for Torah, and some possibly are disgusted by . It’s a sad state, but it seems that’s the reality. The reason they choose the army, and not the “easy way out” of Kollel as I put it, is because they have too much self respect to do something that they don’t value just to get out of the army.

    I was asking more theoretically like if the EY needs more soldiers than the Chiloni and Dati communities can provide, and Charedim were needed to serve but they have an “out” by choosing to learn, who would choose army over kollel if kollel is more valuable and less risky? Or, iyH when EY is run by a frum government, and all (if not most) of its citizens are shomrei Torah uMitzvos, and there needs to be an army but anyone can get out of the army by choosing to learn, who would choose to serve? What incentive exists to fight?

    I am not looking for answers like “if the country is frum, then we won’t need an army” or “then Mashiach will come and there will be no more wars” because I’m not sure if that’s true. I don’t know what the times of Mashiach will be like, and I’m not convinced that Mashiach will automatically come if there is a frum government. I am also not convinced that if EY is a frum state that we wouldn’t need an army as many societies in Tanach (like the Dor HaMidbar and the generation of Dovid HaMelech) who were presumably halachic and still needed an army.

    in reply to: Would you choose army or kollel? #886902
    simcha613
    Participant

    choppy- while I understand your logic, I can also understand why the Chilonim are upset with that logic. Whether it’s their fault or not, they don’t understand the value of Torah. Therefore, they can’t understand why some people get to dodge their national responsibility by learning Torah. I am not upset with Plesener or any other secular Jew who would rather see Chareidim in the army than in the Beis Medrash. They don’t understand the value of Torah, and we haven’t done a good job showing it to them. Why should they allow Charedim to do something that is in their eyes not so valuable, while their own children are risking their lives on the battlefield?

    in reply to: Would you choose army or kollel? #886900
    simcha613
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    golfer- I agree that serving in the army is more valuable in that regard than working. My point is, is that if a person needs a parnassah, he will choose to work. If he doesn’t need as much parnassah, and he wants to focus his time on more valuable endeavors, and he has a choice between sitting and learning or going to the army, what incentives are there to choose the army? As I said before, learning is much less risk and as much (if not more) reward. And if our nation needs soldiers, and it’s an individual’s choice to choose either the army or the Beis Medrash, where will our nation get soldiers?

    in reply to: Would you choose army or kollel? #886890
    simcha613
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    golfer- the difference between the question of army vs. kollel and earning a living vs. kollel is that earning living has a clear advantage over kollel- you make money. You give yourself a greater chance based on derech hateva to earn a parnassah to support your family. By learning in kollel, you are sacrificing that. Therefore, it is understandable why a person who doesn’t want to spend his life learning full time, or he doesn’t feel like he is cut out for it would choose earning a living over learning in Kollel. There are benefits and sacrifices on each side.

    My question was that it doesn’t seem like there is any advantage to serving in the army over kollel. You live in worse conditions, your life is in danger, and you are doing less of a service for Klal Yisroel. Practically, even though they are both necessary, why would a person choose to go to the army over kollel? What incentives exist for him?

    in reply to: Would you choose army or kollel? #886882
    simcha613
    Participant

    So, again, if the prevalent opinion is that sitting in Kollel is at least as valuable as going to the army if not even more valuable (and I do believe it is more valuable), why would a person choose to risk his life and go to the army, when he could be of more help sitting in safe Kollel? Who will fight on the front lines for us?

    OR should the community do something to regulate those sitting in Kollel, either by doing something to make Kollel less appealing for those who aren’t truly genuine (like by making long hours like having night seder go very late, have strict attendance policies, small stipends, uncomfortable living quarters, difficult examinations, etc…) or by simply having an acceptance policy and only accept those who are truly genuine into the kollel forcing everyone else to go to the army?

    in reply to: Would you choose army or kollel? #886875
    simcha613
    Participant

    yummy- I never said they were both equal. I said you need both. Even the dor hamidbar needed soldiers.

    in reply to: Gedolim #883687
    simcha613
    Participant

    R’ Yosef Dov Soloveichik and the Brisker Rav

    in reply to: 4th of July vs yom haatzmaut #943947
    simcha613
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    kfb- The Land of Israel is inherently holy and it is our homeland. Some people show hakaras hatov to the State of Israel because since the founding of the State, there have been more Jews and Torah in EY since around the time of the destruction of the second Beis HaMikdash. They show this hakaras hatov by celebrating the day the State of Israel was founded.

    Also, you can’t compare the ability to go to France with the ability to go to Israel. Israel is our homeland, France is not.

    in reply to: whens the latest i can say kriyas shema al hamita???? #881146
    simcha613
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    S”A 235:3- Lechatchila one must say Krias Shema at Tzeis (M”B- because of zrizin makdimin leMitzvos) and its zman is until Chatozs (M”B- and if you say it later then you are violating the words of the Chachamim) but if you violated this and delayed past chatzos, then you are yotzei as long as you say it before Alos (M”B- that’s if you did it on purpose but if you were oneis you can even be yotzei if you say it before Neitz).

    in reply to: whens the latest i can say kriyas shema al hamita???? #881137
    simcha613
    Participant

    There is a website called myzmanim that gives you all the times. Basically, you must say Krias Shema after Tzeis HaKochavim (when the stars come out). The minhag is is that this is 42 minutes after shkiah- sunset (that’s an hour after candle lighting on Erev Shabbos- though in reality Tzeis is probably earlier). You also must say Krias Shema before Chatzos (midnight… but the halachic midnight, it’s not always 12 AM). Assuming you did all that, then you should also say Krias Shema before you go to sleep however late it is (presumably until Also HaShachar- dawn). If you forgot to say Krias Shema before Chatzos, say it as soon as you remember, don’t wait until you go to sleep. Then you could say Krias Shema again before you go to sleep.

    in reply to: whens the latest i can say kriyas shema al hamita???? #881133
    simcha613
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    You must say Krias Shema before Chatzos. Assuming you did that already (by davening Ma’ariv after Tzeis, or if you davened Ma’ariv at shkiah then by repeating Krias Shema some time after Tzeis), then you can say Krias Shma al Hamitah as late as you want until I assume Alos HaShachar.

    in reply to: Frum women doctors #880911
    simcha613
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    I think men need to ask their LOR before deciding to become an OBGYN. Some of the things that a male OBGYN would have to do would be completely assur for the average male, more so than any other medical field. A male who wants to go into that field probably has to ask a halachic shaila if his particular situation warrants going into that field. Obviously, an OBGYN himself is not violating those issurim, but there would probably have to be a good reason to put oneself in that situation.

    in reply to: PRENUPTUALS in FRUM circles??! #879329
    simcha613
    Participant

    For those who don’t accept the pre-nup- how can we protect women from men who want more than a Beis Din or secular court are willing to give them, and will not give their wife a get in order to get what they want?

    in reply to: PRENUPTUALS in FRUM circles??! #879322
    simcha613
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    Feif- at the same time, Beis Hillel and Beis Shamai also had competent poskim and they didn’t rely on each other. Maybe mamzerim is a more chamur din than dishwashers, but until we have a Sanhedrin, if R’ Elyashiv truly believes the RCA pre-nup is a get me’useh, I don’t see how his followers could rely on R’ Schachter and marry a woman who was divorced with it.

    in reply to: PRENUPTUALS in FRUM circles??! #879321
    simcha613
    Participant

    Tomche- easier said than done. You have to look at the other side too. If you look through Chazal, you see the tremendous concern they had for agunos, and how they sometimes “cut corners” to protect them. The answer to the issue is not to ignore pre-nups, because unfortunately there are men who take advantage of the system and are willing to make women agunos for their own benefit. If according to major poskim that prenups do not create a get meuseh, and they protect women from becoming agunos, that also has to be taken into account. I don’t know the answer- safek mamzerim vs. agunos, but it’s not that simple.

    in reply to: Americas Got Talent #879604
    simcha613
    Participant

    I mean, how do you define Kiddush Hashem? Is the fact that he has a good voice a Kiddush Hashem?

    in reply to: PRENUPTUALS in FRUM circles??! #879316
    simcha613
    Participant

    We know Beis Hillel and Beis Shammai had major machloksim about yibum to the point that perfectly valid marriages for one of them led to mamzerim according to the other. Yet the Mishnah still says that they didn’t stop marrying into one another’s families. The question is, does that mean because they respected each other’s psak, and therefore if Beis Hillel called someone a normal Jew, Beis Shammai would rely on that even though according to their logic he would be a mamzer? Or does that mean they respected each other to the point that even though Beis Hillel may have thought someone was not a mamzer, he would make sure to tell any Beis Shammai followers not to marry him because according to Beis Shammai he’s a mamzer? If it’s the second case, then if you are a talmid of R’ Willig or R’ Schachter, then of course you can use the pre-nup… just keep track to warn any potential R’ Elyashiv followers from marrying into that family.

    in reply to: hat for shabbos #879194
    simcha613
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    It seems to me that if a person got to the “black hat spiritual level” without one, he probably could get to the next level without a black hat too. I don’t know why a person needs to “show off” his level of frumkeit to other people. Why is there such a need to stand out? Your relationship with Hashem is between you and Hashem alone and no one needs to know where you stand (with a possible exception being a Rav who should dress differently than his tzibbur to command respect). If you’re in a place where the norm is to wear it, then wear it. If the place isn’t the norm, why is it necessary? Again, why the need to show everyone else what spiritual level you feel that you’re on?

    in reply to: hat for shabbos #879182
    simcha613
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    When I was younger I decided to wear a black hat “lekavod Shabbos.” I guess I felt that where I was in my spiritual growth, it was kedai for me to start wearing it. As I got older, I realized that I didn’t need it for kavod Shabbos because I already wear a suit (something I don’t wear during the week) for Shabbos. I also felt, that it gave me a sense of ga’avah, like “I’m frummer than you” when I wore it in places that it wasn’t the norm. I felt like I was losing more than I was gaining. I stopped wearing my hat in shuls where it’s not the norm, and I wear it when I go to places where it is the norm.

    in reply to: Black hat #877103
    simcha613
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    R’Klonimus- I’m assuming Rashi didn’t wear a black hat as it wasn’t normal for his time. Wearing a black hat was normal 50 years ago. Why did that become the uniform?

    in reply to: Discuss the (soon to be expiring) Tal Law Here #874335
    simcha613
    Participant

    I’ve said this in the past- it seems that the Benei Torah who are sitting in learning would make the best soldiers. In Sefer Shoftim, Hashem told Gidon to take the Talmidei Chachamim as soldiers. He didn’t say that they should sit and learn while the non-learners fight. The zechus of Torah is what protects us, but maybe it protects us in the form of the Talmidei Chachamim on the front lines.

    in reply to: Words from an ex IDF solider for Yom HaZikaron #1163207
    simcha613
    Participant

    Just to clarify- the reason why I understand that when the S”A says one is not allowed to teach his daughter Torah means it cannot be imposed on her, is because assuming that a woman is allowed to learn Gemara (which would explain why the S”A chose to tell us that they receive sechar for learning), I don’t think the S”A means they are allowed to learn but they are not allowed to be taught. How can you learn without being taught?

    in reply to: Words from an ex IDF solider for Yom HaZikaron #1163206
    simcha613
    Participant

    Again you miss the beginning- “ishah shelamdah Torah yeish lah sechar aval lo kisechar ha’ish mipnei she’einah metzuvaeh ve’oseh ve’af al pi sheyeish lah secahr tzivu chazal shelo yilmad etc…”

    So you have to reconcile the beginning of that halachah that they have sechar with the end that it is not allowed to be taught to them. If you say that there is an issur for women to learn Gemara, why would S”A add the part that they receive sechar? What does that add practically?

    So, you could argue that it adds nothing practically, and the S”A was just saying that theoretically they receive sechar but Chazal made an issur for them to learn. IMHO, if that were the case, S”A should have left it out. Are there any other Mitzvos that women are theoretically allowed to do and probably receive sechar for it but Chazal assured it, and the S”A told us all that? Does the S”A say that women receive sechar for wearing tzitizs or tefilin, but Chazal said they aren’t allowed to?

    The way I’ve learned it is that a woman is allowed to learn Gemara and she receives sechar for it, as long as she genuinely wants to learn for lishmah reasons. However it cannot be taught to her, in other words it cannot be imposed on her. The issur is on the male (or female) teacher, not the female learner. The teacher has the responsibility to make sure that she wants to do it for the right reasons, and only then can she be taught.

    in reply to: Words from an ex IDF solider for Yom HaZikaron #1163202
    simcha613
    Participant

    PBA- “My Judaism is not like that. My Judaism is about doing what Hashem wants us to do–that is, what we should

    do. And how we should feel, and think. Hashem does not want women to learn gemara–chazal were clear about that.”

    I’m sorry, but it is not clear from Chazal that Hashem does not want women to learn Gemara. Have you ever looked up the Halachah in the S”A? Did you know that it says that women receive schar for learning? I don’t know the way G-d works, but logic dictates that G-d would not give reward to women for doing something that He does not want them to do.

    in reply to: Words from an ex IDF solider for Yom HaZikaron #1163190
    simcha613
    Participant

    I don’t think there is anything wrong with what R’ Teichtal did for his haskamos. He knew no one would give haskamos to the content of the sefer, probably because it was so controversial. So he used haskamos of his previous seforim not to praise the content of the sefer, but the competency of the author. I don’t see an issue with this at all.

    in reply to: Words from an ex IDF solider for Yom HaZikaron #1163163
    simcha613
    Participant

    HaKatan- and what happened to Shevet Efrayim? They got massacred. What happened to the medinah? They won their war. How could you compare the two when the results were so vastly different? If the Medinah was committing the same crime that Sheivet Efrayim committed, then it should have met the same fate.

    in reply to: Words from an ex IDF solider for Yom HaZikaron #1163156
    simcha613
    Participant

    I think it makes a lot more sense to say that the hakamas hamedinah was Hashem telling all of us to return to EY. Many at that time were homeless following the Holocaust, and the time was ripe for all of Klal Yisroel to return. We chose not to and we planted ourselves in the USA instead of EY. If we all would have went together, Mashiach would have joined us.

    in reply to: Words from an ex IDF solider for Yom HaZikaron #1163152
    simcha613
    Participant

    Health- are you saying that the medinah is the reason Mashiach isn’t here?

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