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  • in reply to: Ancient religions to Judaism #2114528
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    Hinduism changed in great deal over the centuries. Just like the other religions, they copied various Jewish practices that originally they did not do.

    Why would you have such doubts to think otherwise, given that there’s no documented record of Hindus practicing the various similar practices to Judaism, prior to Matan Torah?

    in reply to: Waze #2114460
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    Pekak: Thank you for your very informative and thought out contribution.

    in reply to: Roshei Hayeshiva #2114193
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    #1: You earlier said that there’s “quite a list of American rishwi yeshiva that got semicha from RIETS”, yet now you could only list one current such Rosh Yeshiva, when asked. (The one you mentioned is a grandson of Rabbi J.B. Solovitchik.)

    The YU of today, with its toeiva clubs (since the 1990’s) and all, is incomparable to the pre/postwar period when America had very few choices of Yeshivos –and YU, with all its faults even then, was one of the only options.

    in reply to: Roshei Hayeshiva #2113732
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    #1: Which current Roshei Yeshivos received smicha from YU?

    in reply to: The process of asking for money for a wedding #2113723
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    Dofi: What is the punishment for someone who violated the Halacha by giving more than 20%?

    in reply to: Relating the Tisha B’av message from Hashem in Today’s generation #2113722
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    Dofi: Is that your standard Cut & Paste every time you see a Lubavitcher?

    in reply to: Roshei Hayeshiva #2113692
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    #1: Are you forgetting the great Roshei Yeshivos of Yeshivat Chovevei Torah?

    in reply to: I don’t like Donald Trump, but… #2113555
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    It’s a typical, old fashioned, political persecution.

    in reply to: Was Hordus a Jew? #2113548
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    Chaylev, what is the Halachic criteria to determine whether an owner of a slave gave to hope?

    in reply to: Was Hordus a Jew? #2113521
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    MDG, technically, whoever inherited ownership of Hordus could have freed him.

    in reply to: Roshei Hayeshiva #2113315
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    I noticed the American qualification only after my submission.

    Good point; I don’t think Rav Meilich is a Rosh Yeshiva.

    in reply to: shabbos nachamu 2022 #2113308
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    Moshiach is coming before Shabbos.

    in reply to: The GOP: 1854-2007? #2113288
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    Politics is a bore. Learn Torah for the real excitement.

    in reply to: Roshei Hayeshiva #2113196
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    HaGaon HaRav Ahron Schachter shlit”a
    HaGaon HaRav Shaul Alter shlit”a
    HaGaon HaRav Gershon Edelstein shlit”a
    HaGaon HaRav Elimelech Biderman shlit”a

    in reply to: Waze #2112929
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    AAQ, what’s your feeling about radar detectors?

    in reply to: Waze #2112924
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    Waze is remarkably accurate in identifying police spot hangouts.

    in reply to: Waze #2112848
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    Menachem, I’m in middle of ספר יוסיפון.

    in reply to: Waze #2112831
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    What are the pros and cons between Waze and Google Maps?

    in reply to: Tisha B’Av isn’t entertainment #2112765
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    The OP is correct. The first response to him can be a Limud Zchus.

    in reply to: Waze #2112770
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    Is Waze more effective than a radar detector?

    in reply to: The process of asking for money for a wedding #2112730
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    Dofi: Many of these Roshei Yeshiva hold by the p’sak that Shabbos (which is a m’doraysa) ends according to Rabbeinu Tam’s zman. Yet, a number of talmidim end at the earlier zman. Yet, the R”Y don’t “bar them” as a result. So there’s no reason to think you have any basis to assert that they’d bar them for what you say that they would.

    How many Roshei Yeshivos can you name right now, in your next comment, that are opposed to 18 year old bochorim getting married? If you provide no names, as we both know you cannot legitimately provide any, we have our answer and can safely assume you to be incorrect.

    in reply to: The process of asking for money for a wedding #2112731
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    Dorah: Many of your Zeidas and Bubbes, living in the Shtetl, would have felt lucky to have a separate bedroom for their six boys from their six girls. Quite a few of your ancestors slept in the small kitchen or dining room. Are you suggesting your zeidas birth was an error?

    At least they did have bread, salt and water. Soda they didn’t have and chicken was very infrequent, too. So you surely cannot complain they weren’t fed. (Otherwise, you wouldn’t be here today.)

    in reply to: In honor of Tisha B'av. What you respect about… #2112732
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    I respect Sefardim for their unity.

    in reply to: 1914/1939 2.0 #2112728
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    Reb Eliezer, he was shot between the two court rulings. The second/final court, as I said, upheld one of the counts against Kastner (after his death).

    in reply to: Philanthropy for Kavod #2112627
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    You can make a donation on behalf of a niftar without putting the niftar’s name anywhere. This is no less a zchus for the niftar than if the niftar’s name is displayed.

    in reply to: The process of asking for money for a wedding #2112614
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    Dorah: Having children asap is a biblical obligation not to be trifled with over financial considerations. Do you think parents of 10 or more children were able to “afford” it? If not, do you believe they should have had less and thereby you fault them for having birthed “too many” children?

    in reply to: The process of asking for money for a wedding #2112612
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    Dofi: Do you think they’re capable of enforcing it? If they’re not capable of doing so, you have no question.

    in reply to: 1914/1939 2.0 #2112611
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    Reb Eliezer, the key word there is “most”. NOT all. Even the zionist supreme court upheld that Kastner was guilty of defending Nazis after the war in Nuremberg. And even the other two counts that the SC overturned, they only did so to defend their fellow zionist’s honor. Even so, they couldn’t deny his guilt on the third count. The lower zionist trial court found that Kastner was guilty on all three counts.

    Wikipedia is notoriously unreliable on all contentious topics.

    In any event, Kastner is responsible for the deaths of 500,000 Hungarian Jews. He was Eichmann’s right hand man in killing Hungarian Jewry, in Eichmann’s own words and in the historical record. A fellow Jew shot Kastner to death in Israel out of anger for the mass murder that Kastner is guilty of.

    in reply to: In honor of Tisha B'av. What you respect about… #2112603
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    I respect Teimanim for maintaining tradition.

    in reply to: 1914/1939 2.0 #2112587
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    Yes, Adolf Eichmann, not Albert. It’s been a long week.

    But Kastner was a collaborator. Eichmann himself, in a 1950s interview with a German magazine (that was later republished in Life Magazine) before he was caught, bragged that without Kastner he wouldn’t have been able to kill so many Hungarian Jews. Kastner knew beforehand, unlike the rest of Hungarian Jewry, of Eichmann’s plan to send Hungarian Jews to death in Aushwitz. Kastner never told his fellow Jews and instead let Eichmann round them up without them resisting or trying to run away (as anyone knowing they’re being shipped on trains to death camps would try to do), in order so that Kastner could get one trainload of people saved, who mostly were his family and colleagues.

    Read the Vrba-Wetzler Report. Even the zionists courts in Israel admitted that even after the war Kastner defended Nazis in the Nuremberg Trials.

    in reply to: Philanthropy for Kavod #2112584
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    Interjection: Paying those bucks for that designer’s name on your bag, or a fancy name on your watch, is also irrational. Most people don’t do it.

    in reply to: “Frum” female singers on YouTube #2112578
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    If you see your frum neighbor having family lunch in McDonald’s, chowing on cheeseburgers next to the window table as you pass the street and thoroughly enjoying their meal, whereas even though you are not a “victim” of anything you should and must be distributed enough to care about your fellow Jew who is commiting wrongdoing.

    Same here, even though we never used YouTube and have no intention of ever look at any YouTube, knowing that your sister is commiting wrongdoing on YouTube should disturb you enough to care about her spiritual wellbeing as well as the spiritual wellbeing of all her victims that do use YouTube and are nichshol over her inappropriate public videos.

    In this case it isn’t even worse than the McDonald’s example, as there are many more aveiros, as it affects not just than one person but rather many people.

    Kol Yisroel Arevim Zeh Lzeh.

    It needs to be stated under your cries of specific other’s aveiros, the involved parties followed the psak of their rav as given.

    in reply to: The process of asking for money for a wedding #2112567
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    Dofi, how much rent would a one bedroom basement cost a new couple?

    in reply to: 1914/1939 2.0 #2112545
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    Kastner was a Nazi collaborator. Kastner was Albert Eichmann ym’s’s right-hand man in exterminating Hungarian Jewry. The Rebbe fully paid for his seat on the train. 90% of the train passengers were Kastner’s immediate and extended family as well as his zionist colleagues. If anyone gets “credit” for that train being able to take the passengers to Switzerland, the credit goes to Albert Eichmann, as without Eichmann the train would never have come or been authorized to go to Switzerland.

    in reply to: The process of asking for money for a wedding #2112499
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    CTL, every 18 year old has an obligation to get married. Bread, salt and water, if they have that, they have parnassa. They may not delay marriage for financial purposes. It is Halachicly prohibited.

    in reply to: 1914/1939 2.0 #2112488
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    akuperma: You offer nice theories, but the world — including the United States and the United Nations — recognizes Taiwan as part of China.

    in reply to: The process of asking for money for a wedding #2112376
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    AAQ: The standard of livelihood required is bare minimum. “Kach hi darkah shel torah – pas b’melach tochal etc.” — Bread salt and water – if you have that, you have parnasah.

    in reply to: The process of asking for money for a wedding #2112278
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    Hadorah: The mishna in Pirkei Avos says that 18 years of age should be the ceiling of when to get married, not the floor. It wants us to be married no later than that age. The absolute Halachic deadline one must get married by is age 20. After that the Halacha is (content warning: readers with liberal tendencies are recommended to stop reading this comment) that if he isn’t trying to get married once he is 20, Beis Din should force him to get married.

    in reply to: “Frum” female singers on YouTube #2112266
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    Avira:

    1. Your last response is giving a different reason that your previous response to me. This is fine, but I just want to point this out.

    2. “Not all erva is the same.. It’s a davar pashut.” I feel the same. But I’d like to see this point made in the Halachic literature rather than rely on our gut feelings — possibly incorrectly.

    3. Getting back to how this point fits into the original discussion, we were discussing the inappropriateness of women posting YouTube videos of themselves singing. I am asserting that the Halachic reason this is inappropriate is the same as why it is inappropriate for a woman to post a YouTube video giving swimming lessons. (Without getting into which is comparatively “more wrong” than the other; which might be a bit like debating if it is worse to beat an innocent person up than to steal his car.)

    in reply to: Oak of Mamre and other Torah Sites #2112262
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    Wasn’t it the Ari HaKodesh ZT”L who identified most of the ancient kevorim in Eretz Yisroel?

    in reply to: 1914/1939 2.0 #2112196
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    akuperma: Taiwan is a part of China. Virtually every country in the world, including the United States, recognizes this fact. The United States voted to kick Taiwan out of the United Nations and replace them with China, on the basis of the fact that it is recognized that they are both the same one country; and that the United States and virtually the entire world recognizes the government in Beijing as the only legitimate national government of China. We do not have diplomatic relations with Taiwan since they are part of China, and we have diplomatic relations with Beijing.

    In short, China is a terrible communist country; but they do not seek to conquer any other nation. When the South tried to secede from the United States, we reclaimed our land by force.

    in reply to: “Frum” female singers on YouTube #2112191
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    Avira, do you have any feedback to the response I made above to your comment? Both examples of erva that we discussed are recordings, not live. So what Halachic basis do you have to differentiate between the two?

    in reply to: The process of asking for money for a wedding #2112216
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    And is the tradition in your family that the young adults tend to marry approximately when they’re 19 years old or is it closer to when they’re 29 years old?

    in reply to: Oak of Mamre and other Torah Sites #2112221
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    rightwriter: Why would you doubt it?

    in reply to: “Frum” female singers on YouTube #2111942
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    Avira, in both cases they are recordings.

    in reply to: “Frum” female singers on YouTube #2111909
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    Even with all the attempted excuses justifying this unjustifiable activity, no one can deny it is a slippery slope. Now it’s singers making YouTube videos of themselves singing. Next it will be female lifeguards making YouTube videos of themselves giving swimming lessons. There’s no Halachic difference between the two. The lifeguards will say if the singers can do it, so can we.

    in reply to: The process of asking for money for a wedding #2111908
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    Mentsch1: You misunderstood me. I know that outside Israel the Kallah’s family buying the Choson an apartment isn’t a thing. But outside Israel the Kallah’s family has many other expenses they’re responsible for, much more so than the Choson’s family — and it is widely accepted practice.

    And that’s all part and parcel of traditional Yiddishkeit. The Kallah’s family has always, from time immemorial throughout Jewish history, provided the Choson a dowry. As is proper.

    in reply to: The process of asking for money for a wedding #2111815
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    And how do poor American parents marry off their daughters?

    in reply to: The process of asking for money for a wedding #2111793
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    takah: If the amount isn’t raised, it is borrowed. And then paid back afterwards (probably by raising it.)

    in reply to: Yeshivos #2111758
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    Avira, what did Rav Shach and Rav Avrohom Yehoshua disagree about?

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