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I suggest don’t follow footballers as you can get hurt; don’t follow sprinters as you will fall behind very quickly; follow marathoners, hopefully you can stay at their speed for several minutes.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI think most public schools (at least outside south) teach a lot about race. I think the ranting about “CRT” reflects a more general phenomenon – schools not teaching about US history and government properly, but only complaining about what they want extra.
We, Jews, are doing the same, paying attention to what we did not get. There is less excuse for us, given that we know a lot of history and can appreciate the difference. There is a school of thought that it is better for Jews to live among bad goyim to prevent assimilation, but, based on recent history, I am not sure whether we can calibrate antisemitism high enough to keep us in line, but low enough to keep us alive. A better theory (Rav Shach, for example) is that we need antisemitism only when Jews assimilate.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantThese things matter to us. When National and International Socialists were rising in Germany, I am sure there were some Jews who said “this does not matter to us” but it did eventually …
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAvira, we had haskalah and Reform a little earlier than 1920. Maybe this is when they arrived to Brisk and even that is not so. There were probably always people not interested in observance, but they often did not have any good options, so they stayed quiet, and maybe their children or grand-children straighten out .. In cases when they could – Greeks, Spain, Germany, they left.
And I don’t think majority of “klal” has a lot of urgency about the issue. How many BTs are in regular shuls? how many ever meet or talk to secular reform Jews, Israelis or Russians? How often do Rabbis talk about outside other than about the danger? In most places, not often.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> you are really lucky she decides she wants a working guy
what do you mean by “lucky”? If you think, she should marry someone who does not work, then why “lucky”? If you don’t think so, you can just make it known that you are not planning to support them, and let her go from there.
There might be a problem of competition here: if “everybody” (in that community) marries at earlier age, then this girl will be at disadvantage. It may be that those who get professions, get married later? So, if she finishes BS by 21, maybe she’ll have her choice of MS and PhD candidates?
October 22, 2021 12:35 pm at 12:35 pm in reply to: What is the real reason for banning Jews from Israel? #2019769Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantShimon > It isn’t because of covid, that is for certain.
Shimon, I think this is their sneaky way not to allow people who think like above. I don’t think there is a mitzva of taki visiting Eretz Isroel while increasing their chance of getting some new variant … Better go visit North Korea while you have time on your hands, shake hands with Kim after coughing.
October 21, 2021 4:53 pm at 4:53 pm in reply to: Classics and Beyond Vayeira – Sense and Sensitivity, #2019468Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantThis also started a tradition of heilike Jewish women to think that everything wrong in the house is due to their husbands – even as Hashem corrects Sarah here. This is balanced with H’ telling Avraham to listen to Sarah in the case of Avraham, preventing Jewish men from totally ignoring the wives’ complaints.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantdespite all our complaints, the rest of the world generally moves money into US during troubled times. But diversify, of course. Yaakov kept two camps when meeting Esav. We mention on Purim that this was the time of high risk because all Jews lived in the same empire.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantOnline behavior changed the world in amazing ways, indeed. Early in Internet times, a Rebetzin refused to have her family photo online for a shul. now, everyone is instagramming. Maybe, it is not an ayn hara anymore when there are more people posting than reading.
As to flaming, it existed in early online groups even with full names. I don’t think people understood that this is going to be a permanent record. Luckily for them, old search results are on page 10.’
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantOne Biden’s measure benefited the Jewish community – he increased child credit to 3-3.6K per child and made it fully refundable, that is you don’t need to earn money to get “credit”. So, sort of UBI for children. Bli ayn hara, this could easily add up to 20+K for a family. I presume, schools that require tax documents or are just aware of this, get a part via decreasing discounts.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantIt seems to me that NYC avoided a disaster similar to Chicago and other cities and ended up with two non-disasters to choose from. People in other places envy you. Maybe you deserved a break from the current mayor. As R Yohanan have asked “are you still enjoying it suffering]”?
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantHealth, I just put in the next line that I looked at a number of these publications. Don’t respond after reading the first sentence.
In the Jewish community, I know people who were and who were not affected. People who were affected were generally the ones who stayed uncareful, whether because their work/teaching or because of personal attitude. Several cases were people affected early in nursing homes and some older people during recent spikes whose relatives brought it in. I heard about only one case among my professional contacts (a professor in March 2020). Benefits of sane behavior are much higher than of any drug or vaccine, approved or not. As Gemora says, Hashem gave us Torah as medicine.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantWikipedia does not have to be leftist. It is a collective product. If you see that something is not correct and you have a source for a correction, rather than just an opinion, you can go and edit it. If the issue is political, then all sides start editing each other and results is unpredictable, but predictably unreliable
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantActually, malaise works wirelessly, he does not even need to touch anything. Markets, allies, and adversaries all change their behaviors with expectations of your behavior. Companies stop investing in energy or in general expecting taxes and rule changes (happens right now), allies do not expect your help and look elsewhere, adversaries anticipate your reaction (Iran, Crimea)
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> Did you go through all 61 studies to constantly write there isn’t enough evidence?!?
I looked at summary tables of studies that list effect, number of participants and in some case quality (low, very low). I also looked through a random sample of about 10 of them, including ones listed here. You can often see quality from the design – do they match patients by demographics, for example.
For the approved medicines, I only looked at summaries. I looked in depth at Phase 3 vaccine trials when they came out.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantcrazykanoi listed all things that were done by Trump (thus “additional” in every line), except the infrastructure bill that did not pass yet, may be a waste of money, may be coupled with a bigger waste of money, and was somehow not of interest to Dems when Trump was the President.
Also, could someone clarify re:security – I’ve seen lots of funds going to private school during 2020 relief but my impression was that in 2021 a lot of funds are restricted to public schools. Didn’t look carefully, though.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantKollelman,
thanks for taking your time to collect these references. Let’s now read them together. I think taken together, they are saying that there is potential benefit, but a lot is unclear, and it is surely not enough to use it instead of other protective methods, like vaccine.A couple of them indeed suggest improvement. Most from 3rd world countries One is non-RCT observing 300 patients very early in pandemic in March-May in FL seemingly without even matching patients to each other by demographics. Most reviews say that the quality is low.
One (already discussed, controversial) study has 15 criteria, of which 1 shows significance moderate, the rest vary between low and very low.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGH> ben torah (chashuvah or not) can sometimes act like a jerk
I disagree. There are multiple quotes about Talmidei Chachamim that we can use as a definition of the term, such as T Ch merabim shalom b’olam. That is someone who is not doing that, is not one.
In particular, if you see T’Ch doing averah in the evening, you don’t need to give him tochacha next day, as he surely did teshuva. From this, we see that T’Ch can do an avera, but he will not do it repeatedly or habitually.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantSyag, I said Drs, not doctors! since last millennium
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantNat, between us Drs, I have no idea who Joe Rogan, Gupta, CNN are exactly, and what it has to do with the price of cholent in China.
I have no problem researching various medicines. I just don’t understand how a couple of possible medicines became a part of a call to forgo all other protection layers – vaccines, SD, masks, other medicines. You seem to be listening to crazy right arguing crazy left and trying to figure out who is right. This is insane. I smell a rat here, hope you will too.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantan example of successful market strategy:
When Rav Huna was told that he is wrong not paying workers who already stole from him and paid them: either vinegar (literal “stock”) became wine, or price (NYSE stock) of vinegar went up. Maybe there is an economic pshat here: when people behave positively towards each other, there is less mistrust in the market, and the stocks go up. Similarly, Yaakov “created markets” and also urged shepherds to work the full day honestly without mistrust to each other.Another way to invest is in your own skills: have a profession/skills that is not tied to dealing with speculative things, like stock markets, but to something that can be useful in any market: plumbing, medicine, teaching and then you’ll survive the downturn.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> My point was that they were taking a relatively harmless medication and trying to hype its danger by listing items other than side effects as side effects
It seems that many ignorant people are literally taking horse portions and so public health people are trying to prevent it. You can also probably get to the horse does by taking it repeatedly as vitamins. This is not a vitamin.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantWomen overall have less inclination to deal with abstract issues, like math, maybe because they have more issues to attend in real life. So, maybe women should not plan their learning around dafim of Gemorah, but focus on a wide variety of mitzvos that they feel are relevant to them, depending on a person this could be kashrus and niddah, or also chesed, education of their and other children, business, speech, etc. If they want to understand those issues in depth, they can surely learn whatever helps them learn it, and this might be Gemora, poskim.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> if someone is on that madreiga
Even if you are on that madreiga, but your wife is not and wants you to look at her – you will have to look. This is presuming you are at least listening to her.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantNat, there is a clinical trial that finished a month ago with 100 people
Studying the Expected Effect of Ivermectin Nanosuspension as Nasal Spray Upon Post covid19 Persistant Anosmia. PI: Zaky Aref . No results published yet.October 19, 2021 3:34 pm at 3:34 pm in reply to: ADHD can be an expression of the creative mind #2018604Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> It is my opinion that modern day life is much harder for people labeled ADHD.
Not sure. Would an ADHD person be happy harvesting wheat hour after hour, day after day? Or washing clothes in the river? There are way more creative occupations in our days.
It is really a sign of failing schools if they can not attend to kids who are different from those who sit quietly and do not talk. You need to stop relying on schools and attend to your kids yourself, just like you do other mitzvos – putting tefilin, making a sukkah, having children.
October 19, 2021 3:31 pm at 3:31 pm in reply to: ADHD can be an expression of the creative mind #2018599Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAsh, it does not mean that ADHD does not exist and should be denied, I think what many of us are saying that there are multiple ways to deal with it in a good way, and the outcomes might improve depending on how bad the problem is and how well you deal with it. Ignoring is not a solution.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantCould you guys PLEASE tell us what are you information sources? I really want to understand
> Mexico has “ended the pandemic” (as reported here in YWN)
Mexico daily deaths are increasing from July and are currently gradually decreasing and are 2x below US, and 2x over UK, Israel, Canada. Not ended
> India
Indeed, Indian medical commission had HCQ and IC in their COVID protocol. They took them out in August 2021 due to low effect. Cases and daths did not increase after that.Note that using results from such countries to project to USA is anyway questionable. Say, people in India are missing in Zinc. Then, having a vitamin would help them a lot. Does not answer that it will help in US – maybe yes, maybe no. The fact that you can’t show one developed country, tells a lot. Just think about it.
IC effects:
Sep 2021 review from Italy of 11 RCTs finds slight improvement using IC stressing very low quality of data. So, it is potentially something to add to other methods, but not a substitute.Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantkollelman,
there are several large studies showing that vaccines are not increasing number of miscarriages.There are also observations of effect on the cycle that seems to be affecting 1-2 cycles. Several studies just started in US abot it with expected results in Spring 2022.
There are also studies showing increased number of miscarriages due to COVID disease.
So, any family who is in this situation and is not taking a vaccine, should practice social distancing. hope you are advising this to your numerous contacts who report this to you.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantFirst, the daughters are helping the mother to make the matza balls and may not have time to wait until all older siblings sign their fir kashes
2nd, in some homes, women would be sitting in a separate room from the father and it is indeed not proper to shout from another room for any gender.
Also, girls may not require so much proding, they’ll listen and feel the story without a need to show off their sharp questions.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAvira,
an interesting test case. Mental illness aside, could you point to a source that says that people who are not doing mitzvos bein adam l’makom are dealt harsher than ben adam l’havero. I clearly understand that we feel that way, as l’makom makes us feel Jewish, but it is not clear to what extent…Ben sore umore is eating/drinking/stealing, nothing about shabbos or kashrus
Hashem being not so harsh on Migdal Bavel generation as they have unity between themselvesIf you let your hypothetical bum get out of the house, the case become harder to defend – here he is driving endangering people, not wearing mask when visiting grandma, forgetting his kid in a hot car. Even in the basement, he might hack someone or steal from his parents to get money to pay for the video games.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> Everyone went through the same system. Some people suffer more than others in life but those are not necessarily the ones who throw away Yiddishkeit. Today’s stupid excuse is trauma when most don’t have trauma it’s fake news.
Not everyone agrees. R Yaakov Kamenetsky had a 2nd grade teacher in Lita who accused him of lying when he was late and had an unusual explanation – he was urgently sent to find a substitute knife for a bris milah, Rav was hurt but survived. Later in life, he and his former classmate Rav Ruderman wondered how many more Chachamim could have came from that class, if not the teacher …
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> but to remind us all of our feelings in 2008,
there is indeed a theory that crashes come at about every 20 years – when there is a new generation of financial advisors who do not believe that a crash can really happen again. Difference between personal experience and intellectual knowledge. We have a lot of Torah on that – that Noah believed and did not believe that flood is coming …
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantHealth, there are numerous organizations and country and state leaders, I am sure at least some of them are interested in this. Lack of proofs was not surprising a year ago, but it is suspicious now.
To support somewhat your position – look at heterogeneous boosters. Every manufacturer organized trials for boosters using their own vaccine, but it was left to a university to test boosters between different vaccines. And all they were able to do so far is to test antibodies in the lab. So, yes, yetzer hara of profit and organizational biases are a big motivator. But what is the alternative? Note that Chinese and Russians vaccines are not doing better than Western.
Still, organizing a test of very cheap treatments applied in mild cases seems to be (relatively) easy.
I can’t believe there is nobody to do that.Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> In this case, the people that believe in it have no interest. They usually are individual practioners, that just want to do what they think is best for the patient.
On another thought – how is this narrow focus different from the pharma focused in developing their own medicines?
October 18, 2021 11:47 pm at 11:47 pm in reply to: David Amess (fatally stabbed by Islamic b) accused the BBC for anti-Israel bias #2018281Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantThe list of those who think it is avoda zara is long and includes most modern authorities, and the list of those who think it is not for non-Jews is shorter but also long (starting w/ Meiri), and it s very annoying when people quote sources from one side only, as if this is a football competition.
should we treat them as sofek?
I do not see anyone differentiating between different groups? Are they all the same indeed?
How do we treat individuals, who might be clueless. Anecdotally, one ger reports that when he started explaining to a devout relative why we don’t think that 3=1, the relative admitted that she never really understood why 3=1 herself …
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantSyag> he threw it out there as an insult,
Syag, just re-read it loudly using softer tones and you will see that RebE thinks that Artscroll is not helping students in a long term. It is a reasoned opinion. It is OK to suspect someone who always asks annoying questions, but you need to dan Rebbe of CR l’tzad zhus!
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantArtscroll may help some, hurt some, but beyond the first layer – they tend to simplify the discussion, translate with a certain slant, and quote only some opinions. So, I think, OK to use it as a help in translating words, looking up references, marvel the clear script comparing with yellow pages of the re-re-reprinted Vilna edition, but not to use it as a source of learning.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> I’m just used to google docs
yes, indeed. One article reports about a “teacher” who “successfully” “taught” 4th graders on zoom. when they came back and she asked them to spell, she heard a sound of (school-provided) iPads switching on – all kids were simply talking into iPads whole year and could not spell anything. I agree that this is arguable, as we lost ability to prepare horses for a ride; to follow direction without Waze, etc. But at least, if you can’t spell without docs, prepare your post in docs. If you didn’t, then THAT is a sign of disrespect, especially if you are talking to older people.
October 18, 2021 10:44 pm at 10:44 pm in reply to: ADHD can be an expression of the creative mind #2018251Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> but you’ll get through, everyone makes it through in the end
not true, many don’t get through – get on meds, develop low self-esteem, miss out on learning.
You need to sit down with the kid daily and entertain him, while building his knowledge and capabilities until he finds something exciting and runs forward. My parents made sure that I’ll know curriculum before the class, then I easily go and read further ahead while teachers were murmuring something. In cases where I was not ahead, I will fall behind and teachers would make my life miserable. Was I cured? No, as my PhD advisor asked me to go test for ADHD after I suggested changing the topic of my thesis in the middle of the program. One of my kids continued saying that he has bad memory (as the teachers told) while interrupting almost any midrash I tell him with “you told me this years ago”. When we made him skip a grade, grades improved and whining stopped.October 18, 2021 10:43 pm at 10:43 pm in reply to: ADHD can be an expression of the creative mind #2018253Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantfarby, when learning a sugya, try reading some general overviews that will enable you think about it before delving into pages and pages of details.
October 18, 2021 10:42 pm at 10:42 pm in reply to: ADHD can be an expression of the creative mind #2018252Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantfarby > i mamash couldent sit still and i started walking around
this is a good sign. During school year, try moving more during recess, after school while learning by heart or listening to a class. Have multiple locations at home where you can work, prepared with whatever you need – pencil, paper, light, so you don’t waste time organizing when you move. Maybe ask teachers to let you leave class once in a while. In lower grades, wise teachers send such kids out to do chores – bring a pencil, etc.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantMy read of the studies is that Ivermectin might be helpful when used early after or even before exposure. Benefit increases with dose but so do side effects. If you use it every time you are exposed, you may end up overdosing indeed. Positive studies on the site are small, large ones are negative – claimed to be done under bad protocols.
This is how it should work – after small studies show promise, you organize a large study that follows a promising protocol. People who are promoting this should focus on creating such trial. Given the cost of the drug, this would be an easy one to do.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantHealth > I can tell you one thing – the government isn’t doing a good job Stopping this Pandemic!
A good point, but if let’s look at _developed_ countries that do it much better: some are remote AND used quarantines. Many European countries have somewhat better vaccination rates and using a different mix of similar vaccines. Some may be using smarter masking strategies and measuring antibody levels. Did any of them succeeded due to Ivermectin? I do not have that data. Please, examples, but from developed countries only please.
October 18, 2021 10:08 pm at 10:08 pm in reply to: Classics and Beyond Vayeira – Sense and Sensitivity, #2018242Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> A person whose ideas are different from mine, or a person I find too thin-skinned, should be accorded no less respect and be treated no less pleasantly than my doppelganger.
This should be fixed at the top of CR!
October 18, 2021 10:08 pm at 10:08 pm in reply to: David Amess (fatally stabbed by Islamic b) accused the BBC for anti-Israel bias #2018243Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantRemah lived when Protestantism was just emerging, so we may want to look at later poskim also. One possible hiluk may be that it is avoda zara for Jews, but not for non-Jews. A book by two experts says so, but when I asked the first author, he said this was only because his co-author insisted so much, so I don’t know whether this is a strong shitah.
Islam was not considered avodah zorah in some of the times when they were even crazier than now, what changed now? Who said that only idolworshippers can be crazy?
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantSyag > Everyone has heard how the chofetz chaim treated the yid who broke shabbos.
True, but he has limits also. He visited a Jewish commissar who was taking Yeshiva boys into Soviet army and said that he did not come to give tochacha as he realizes it is not going to help, but he come because when the commissar will be accused in Shemayim, he will defend himself – if Ch. H were to give me tochacha, I would have done teshuva. “So I came to take this defense from you”. Of course, this can be interpreted as a round-about way to cause teshuva….
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> Or it’s an alliance
Air Forces do joint exercises for a reason – to make sure they are able to work together if needed. Maybe as a sign to some neighbors, especially with increased uncertainty of the US position …
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAvira > chazon ish in YD 2 28 and say that nowadays we don’t know how to give proper tochacha
What was the chiddush here if R Akiva said this way earlier? Maybe you are skipping over something?
L’maase, I am wondering even when we talk about people who did receive Jewish education in large quantities – can we be sure of the quality? We are now discussing seriously when is geneiva allowed. I kind of suspect that in previous times, this was better undertsood.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> Avrohom Avinu never looked at Sara Imainu
(until he was going to mitzraim). And mitzrim considered her beautiful. Either she had hair or Mitzri fashions were similar to Hungarian.
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