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To easily get rid of really stubborn deep down tarnish, use
Tarn-X (or however it is spelled) followed by a polishing with whatever polish you typically use. By the time you polish it, it will be easy to quickly shine it up. Someone else once suggested to em to put aluminum foil on the bottom of the bath tub (shiny side up), put tarnished items flat down on it, fill the tub a little bit with Spic and Span and hot water, then cover the silver items with more aluminum foil, shiny side down this time). Apparently this causes the trnish to transfer to the foil. I never tried it, but have heard from others that it works.
oomisParticipantThere is only ONE way for a secret to remain a secret between two people. If someone wants something to remain on the down low, they need to NOT talk about it with anyone.
oomisParticipantThe fact that the ????? lasts longer by a baby girl than by a baby boy shows that there is more ??????? by the birth of a girl than by a boy!! “
Funny that you mention that – I actually was thinking of it, but chose not to add it to my previous post. There is another reason for the tumah lasting twice as long by the girl, and that is because every female born, carries in her AT BIRTH her future potential for creating additional life. So the tumah is both for the mother and the female baby, hence the kedusha is likewise double.
oomisParticipantNo, anonymity has no real effect on me. I try to be IRL, the way you read me here.
oomisParticipantThere is nothing like a dame….
A boy may be the kadish’l, and he may carry on the family name, but the girl will grow up to carry, birth, and nurture the next generation of klal Yisroel. Her level of kedusha is higher than a male, hence the need for her to do fewer mitzvos in order to be at the same level as her male counterpart. As far as I am concerned, ANY healthy baby who is born is a brocha beyond belief. And if chalilah a baby is not 100% healthy, that baby is still a brocha when he or she is loved.
oomisParticipant“Pesach is the easiest time of the year to cook this way…as posted above, just go non-gebroks & you’ll do just fine! Use potato starch instead of matzoh meal in your recipes. That’s it! “
That is essentially what I decided to do. I want to thank you and everyone else who gave me extremely helpful advice. I have spoken with my guest about this, and I think the decision has been made that it IS best to start now on the GFD. Apparently the damage can be very insidious and not show up for years, by which time it’s a real Chasunah!!! Thank you for the suggestion about the matzah and fake matzah. The problem has been that this person has not received a definitive diagnosis, but all things point in that direction, though there are some anomalies in the test results. Still, i wouldn;t want to be responsible for messing someone up and it is just smarter to play it safe and err on the side of caution.
oomisParticipantMy favorites are everyone who mentioned ME!!!!!
oomisParticipantHere we go, another cholent thread… Why isn’t it closed yet? 😉 :”
Sorry, Real Brisket…er…Brisker.
oomisParticipantThank you, Estherhamalka and 2qwerty. Your replies were very helpful. I know I will have to be very careful when preparing for my company. I just wanted to be sure it would not hurt if something I make touches something by accident (not mixes, but just comes in slight contact). I am trying to prepare basically a non-gebrochts menu for the person, but I am told there is gluten hidden in many things that one would never expect.
oomisParticipantMy guest does not yet know really much of ANYTHING. The appointment is well after yom tov (the doc is very hard to see, as he is the foremost authority in NY, and this case is unusual). I had just wondered if any of the people on this forum might either have the condition or know someone with it, and had some experience and basic info such as I asked for (especially the part about food touching food).
oomisParticipantI want to add, the person in question IS speaking to the doctor about this, but the appointment is well after Pesach, and whatever research has been done is confusing to understand.
oomisParticipantEveryone deserves to be married to someone who finds THEM attractive. No one should feel their spouse merely settled for them. That’s a terrible feeling. The problem is with today’s emphasis being put on the MOST superficial examination of physical attributes, to the point that unless a girl is a specific number size, or the boy is a certain number in height, or even the MOTHERS of these two meet certain physical criteria, that some people are refusing shidduchim that might otherwise be wonderful for them.
It used to be that a boy and girl were redt to each other, and based on very casual information, the date was made. It worked – great, if not, on to the next one. Now, people are demanding such EXACTING details of minutiae about both parties, that many shidduchim are actually not ending up being redt at all. And that is a crying shame. Do we REALLY need to know when the boy or girl toilet-trained?????????
oomisParticipantA person can be chozeir b’teshuvah, but he may not be able to make it a complete teshuvah. That does not mean he should not do so. Better to make it up to five people he remembers harming, than ignoring ALL of the people from whom one stole because he cannot recall all of them, so why bother trying.
oomisParticipant“oomis1105: I find it funny that you are arguing with the Chazon Ish”
SJSinNYC is correct. I would never presume to argue with the Chazon Ish, even if he were still alive. However, you quoted your recollection of his words, and I made my point that if you follow that logic(as I do not, clearly), then what I stated would also appear to make sense (and we both know that it does not, because anyone who would refrain from seeking necessary medical treatment based on such logic, would be a fool).
March 30, 2011 7:54 pm at 7:54 pm in reply to: Is it permitted to sell – Store Credit or a Gift Card? #753956oomisParticipantUnless something is non-transferable there is no reason why it cannot be sold. Sometimes a gift card is tied to a promotion through someone’s purchase of a service of some type. It might require ID in order to be used. In that case, they really should not sell such a card, as the person to whom they are selling did not buy the service. The latter is just my personal opinion. If it IS transferable, no one cares who uses it.
oomisParticipantThe music is beautiful. it was beautiful when Country Yossie (I think)recorded the song, “In a Vinkeleh Shteit.” The lyrics are different of course, but this is an old tune.
oomisParticipantIf this is HS, you need to ask yourself why you are in an advanced class when math is not your best subject. If you need a tutor in the subject and cannot keep up, you should ask to be transferred if possible to an easier-paced class. It is NO shame or crime to not be in the advanced class. In fact, you might enjoy math a lot better if you felt more confident in being able to keep up. Have you talked to the teacher about this, not to mention your parents (are THEY the ones who want you in the class)?
oomisParticipantMake sure it has a kosher for Pesach kashrus symbol, because these things may be processed with soy products, or the like.
oomisParticipantMy friend loves Kerestirer matzos. OT slightly, does anyone knwo of a totally gluten free matzah that is tasty? A relative of mine has been provisionally diagnosed with celiac disease, so we want to avoid problems on Pesach. Also, dos anyone know Non-Gebrochts companies that can be relied upon to not make their products with traces of nuts? My granddaughter has a nut allergy (to all nuts and seeds – but seeds are not shayach to Pesach), and I want to know if there are any products that we can safely use for her that will not trigger anything.
oomisParticipantThe reason why I asked this question is because I remember hearing that the Chazon Ish holds that one should not have life insurance because if someone does it could work against him. The reason is that perhaps the reason why he is spared death is because of the financials problems he will cause his family, but now that that issue is no more, he might die”
By that same logic we should not go to doctors, because maybe we aren’t getting too sick because we are needed by our families. Hashem expects us to do our part to remain healthy, and to be able to provide for our families in the event that chalilah we are not healthy enough to survive, or if we should die unexpectedly.
oomisParticipantI eat gebrochts. If someone comes to me who does not, I specifically make several alternatives for that guest that will be non-gebrochts, so the guest has plenty to choose from. Al pi halacha, the guest IS permitted to eat even from food that was cooked in a pot that previously held gebrochts. Saying that it is not permissible is a mistake. Gebrochts/non-gebrochts are only a minhag. The fact that they are b’davka eaten on the eighth day of yom tov, proves it is not assur l’chatchilah. If there were a chashash of chometz, gebrochts would be assur even on the eighth day, just as mamesh cometz is. But to each his own. Pesach is definitely a gluten-sufferer’s delight.
oomisParticipantWhy should there even be a question about this? Life insurance is paid out to provide for the beneficiary in case of the death of the insured. DOn’t we put money into retirement plans, so that when working is no longer optional there is a ready source of income? I see no stirah.
oomisParticipantNo, she didn’t have to eat from it. It would probably never have happened had her husband not added a CHUMRAH onto Hashem’s mitzvah, instead of teaching her the halacha exactly as it was given.
oomisParticipantI would post my many talents, but I am too modest (another of my talents, btw)…
oomisParticipantNot so, Zeeskite. I am a fan.
oomisParticipantAlso, a Journey’s song “Yerushalayim.”
oomisParticipantIt’s What I Believe (Journeys???) AKA Poppa Please Tell Me.
March 29, 2011 11:16 pm at 11:16 pm in reply to: Married Lakewood kids want a down payment now! #753664oomisParticipantAll good questions, popcorn.
oomisParticipantPineapple kugel is delicious, and is made with a little potato flour, no matzah meal as the binder.
oomisParticipantYogi – I hope I WAS at your wedding, and even if not, I am nonetheless very happy for you!!!!!!!!!!
oomisParticipantIf you live in NY, Chicago is out of town. If you live in Chicago, NY is out of town. Most people are referring to states other than the Tri-State Are when they say out of town, more like the Midwest.
oomisParticipantIt couldn’t hoit…
oomisParticipantThe topic was started by a TROLL. What’s better and apple or an orange? I could make a case for each. Men are not better than women, women are not better than men. We are each designed and assigned for differing roles in life. Women need fewer mitzvos than their male counterparts, to attain the same level of kedusha as men, because THAT IS HOW HASHEM DECIDED IT SHOULD BE. There is no need for argument about this, it is what it is. As a woman, when I say She-asani Kirtzono each day, I really mean it.
oomisParticipantYou might not be the only one, but you are CERTAINLY absolutely free to a) express your opinion and b) refrain from continuing to read posts that offend your sensibilities.
oomisParticipantSmartcookie, I would hate to be the friend who makes people feel they must walk around on eggshells around me. People eventually begin to resent that person for not allowing them to feel and enjoy their simcha publicly and to the fullest. So while I see your point, I too, respectfully and strongly disagree with you. Better that those friends should stay home and not cause the baal simcha to feel bad for expressing his own joy.
I have three children as yet unmarried, two are girls in the older category. Hashem knows my true heart, that every single wedding I go to, and even where the kallah is very young (meaning 19-22), I am VERY much b’simcha for my friends who are zochim to marry off that child. I daven that I would likewise be zochah, but I would hate to see myself as a person who cannot feel joy for others,even when I am not feeling it (yet) for myself. And even more, I would HATE for my friends to feel they could not share good news of theirs with me, for fear that it will “hurt” me to hear it. I believe that every mazel tov we wish others with a full heart, is credited to us, that we should hear it from others, as well.
oomisParticipantI commend you for your thoughtfulness, but this is your simcha, it is your last child, and you have the right to enjoy the trappings without feeling the concern that you do. What are you going to do when they have children – not tell your grandchildren-less friends about the bris?
March 27, 2011 7:09 pm at 7:09 pm in reply to: Married Lakewood kids want a down payment now! #753650oomisParticipantSimple. Don’t put down the down payment if you can’t afford it.”
Don’t do it, even if you CAN afford it. Since when do whiney kids get to make such unreasonable demands of their parents??? Quelle chutzpah!!!!
A parent does what he or she can do OUT OF LOVE, not out of the child’s feelings of entitlement. We have sadly and deplorably raised a generation of truly thoughtless and selfish brats who think they have a right to demand that their parents continue to raise them as if they were still helpless children. And if the parent DOES say no, their noses get out of joint.
Conversely, many parents deliberately encourage their kids in this selfish behavior, because they are better able to retain control over them when they hold the purse strings. That is incredibly bad behavior on the part of the parents, not only their children.
oomisParticipantI was under the impression that children are not supposed to attend their parent’s remarriage (to someone other than their mother).
That being said, I personally think it is a good idea, because it helps to integrate the new spouse into the family dynamic. Their stepmom will be a part of their life, and they should (if they WANT to) be party of that process. I have no experience with this, so I may be totally talking through my hat.
oomisParticipantBlinkeleh, you can apply directly to ME for the poetic License (hereby granted).
oomisParticipanti’ll also vote for oomis (i know, i know – you’ve already narrowed it down to 3, but…) – she once on one thread said i said something well. And flattery gets you everywhere in my books – it’s even better than chocolate. and that’s saying a lot.”
Nah, chocolate is de BOMB!!!!!!! (thanks, you said that well, too. WAIT that makes TWICE!!!!!).
March 27, 2011 3:41 am at 3:41 am in reply to: Bochrim Spray-Paint Over �Not Tzniyus� Advertisement #759940oomisParticipantNo, we do not have the legal right to vandalize. We may, however, have the halachic right to. Then it’s a just a question of what you put more by, the American law or the Torah.”
I follow “Dina D’Malchusah Dina” as per Halacha. Our Dina states that it is a CRIME to vandalize, and the Halacha states we have to abide by the rules of the State. No one told those guys to look up at the picture. it was not an untzniusdig picture according to standards set forth by law of the land. You don’t like that – move somewhere that is more to your liking, or somewhere over which your opinions and halachioc observance are allowed to prevail. Until then, you have to live where you are, and that might include the goyim who live around you, who by the laws of this land (a land which gives us ALL freedom of religion)are allowed to post pictures that are not obscene (and they are NOT, even if they are of a different tznius standard than your own)and have a reasonable expectation that no one will damage their property.
March 27, 2011 3:34 am at 3:34 am in reply to: Frum Company Owner Ripping Off Employees – What to Do??? #752629oomisParticipantI think that when the boss is pulling such shtick, his employees deserve to know what their rights are. Otherwise it is not only letting the boss commit a wrong, it is “lifnei iveir…” IMO.
March 25, 2011 9:39 pm at 9:39 pm in reply to: Bochrim Spray-Paint Over �Not Tzniyus� Advertisement #759918oomisParticipantWe do not have the right to vandalize. This is not a Jewish State or even a Jewish City under Jewish rule. So OUR absolute standards of tznius (which vary in many respects among frum Jews),
have little shaychus to the goyim. THEIR standard of tznius, as long as it does not violate common accepted decency (and the wearing of pants and even sleeveless shirts by women, is accepted as modest attire in this country)should not be treated in such a holier than thou manner. Suppose they had a giant ad for a ham sandwich or Red Lobster? Would you think they had the right to black it out? What we hold for ourselves we have no right to expect people who are NOT unzerer to likewise hold for themselves.
It would be wonderful if everyone dressed appropriately to our way of thinking, but that is NOT our call to make. Not in this country. Supposing a Muslim had done this and not those guys.
oomisParticipantI am with Zeeskite. Proper use of language DOES often affect our perception of a person’s intelligence, sometimes unfairly. We are becoming a nation of inarticulate people. We have dumbed-down curriculae, allowed many people who have no basic spelling and grammatical skills to teach our next generation of students, who will likewise have poor language skills, and we have encouraged the use of “fillers” in normal conversation, in place of real thought and verbal expression.
I really have trouble when someone is speaking and repeatedly says, “you know,” “like,” “um,” and the ubiquitious “whatever.” Those are poor substitutes for expressing oneself. There was a time when elocution was part of the subjects taught in school, and I think it is time to bring that subject back. (“Elocution??? Didn’t Ben Franklin discover that?”)
oomisParticipant“OOMIS!”
So nice of you, Sacrilege. And a shout-out, too! 🙂
however –
“If nominated I will not run, if elected I will not serve…”
oomisParticipantI see nothing wrong if you make up the time lost at the end of the day. If you come to work 30 minutes late, stay a half an hour at the end of the day and it is not theft”
Wrong. Unless your boss is OK with that, he or she may be relying upon you to be at work at the exact specified time. It might be of no help to him for you to give him an extra HOUR for that half hour, if what he needed was coverage in the office or job at that precise time. I work in a place where each employee is vital to the smooth functioning of the workplace. If one is late, it puts a real tircha on the rest of the staff, who really don’t care if that person “makes up the time,” because she was needed to be there when she was supposed to be there, or else needed to find a replacement for herself. People who are habitually late come off as people who do not give a hang for anyone else’s but their own needs. Everyone runs into an occasional problem and can be late sometime. But if it is a regular habit, then you need to get up earlier and get out with enough time to get to wherever on time.
oomisParticipantI always came to work (and everywhere else)a little early. One co-worker always came 15 minutes late. After four days, she was being paid for an hour in which she never worked each week. I don’t like that – it is dishonest, even when one does not acknowledge that this is so. And no, she had no prior arrangement with the boss to come in later than the rest of us. She just took a later train than she should have.
oomisParticipantGood line. I also agree with the sentiment. “
Thanks. We actually went through this, and it was not easy, but eventually my in-laws came to understand our position. But a lot of grief can go under that bridge before understanding is reached. I was lucky – my inlaws were very special and loving people, who were happy their son became frum. It is not always like that.
oomisParticipant“,
Scrubbing and scouring,
While your sweat is pouring,
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My take on this – Excuse me for taking poetic license to change what you wrote:
Cleaning every cranny and nook,
Down to the last Sefer and book
Scrubbing and scouring
And not “Happy Hour”-ing
No one is let off the hook.
oomisParticipantAre all your wisdom teeth out, btw? Personally I think it sounds like TMJ caused by chewing gum or grinding your teeth.
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