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December 16, 2012 3:32 am at 3:32 am in reply to: Upset at two related things that were in the Hamodia Weekly #913370
i think the girls should start dating around the same age as boys like 22/23 and then they will both be mature enough to get married and will close the age gap! instead of boys getting married younger they are imature and not ready if anything that will cause more divorces not help the situation
gemgirl -i think you should ask a rav what to do. and ask the girl why the guy broke the engagement.?
why did u hold off on it? did u first want to wait to see what the website would be all about? I am shocked that they advertise like this ,they are like making a promise that they will end the shidduch crisis !! how can they do that? They are not hashem! I wonder what theyre website will be all about?, how different can it be already from the other websites? I will be very happy if they can accomplish what they say they will,but I am very skeptical about it.
what do u think of hareiat.com ?? its a new website starting november 11th and they claim they will end the shidduch crises for good??
well if the yeshiva is really not working out for you then you can find another one that suits you better ! I dont think hashem would want you to stay in a place that your feeling miserable from. I think you should work it out the best you can in that yeshiva,if its still not working out , then find a better yeshiva that suits you and your needs!! good luck!
curiosity- even though it was 73 she got married at the age of 24 so bh she wasnt old , she started young so even though she had to go through so many guys at least she still got married at a normal age!
getaclue – I think u should try also getting brachos from big gedolim in israel ,daven at amuka…
I think whenever ur supposed to get married u will get married! wether its at the age of 23 or the age 0f 19. The only thing u can do is daven and do a normal amount of hishtadlus like go to shadchanim…. I know of someone who was in shidduchim since she was like 19 I think and she finally got a date at like 22 and that date ended up being her husband so look at it this way ,the less people u go out with the better ,my mother went out with 73 guys until she found the right one and it wasnt fun,She wouldve rathered to hav less dates and meet my father right away but thats what hashem wanted so thats what happened!
shein -she probably is and thats not a nice comment.
did u try zivugzone.com ?
i heard of it before to but the chasan and kallak x rlly have money so it was more of a chesed i guess
well if you bump them a little its fine but not if you bump them too much and it makes a mark and make sure when you do it they are not in the car because the driver will probably get mad!
practice makes perfect! the more i park the better i get!! I am a much better parker then I was when I first got my license! almost 2 years later and its easy for me to make perfect parks when before I would watch other people do and think it was so hard.
in out of town places boys are more likely to say good shabbos to girls. but the girl should not start it if the boy says good shabbos then she can answer him but the boy has to start . im not saying he should but if someone does initiate it it should be the boy not the girl . i heard this for other things as well like if a girl sees a boy cousin on the street and he doesnt say hi then she should not eithr but if he says hi then she can say hi back
lindt / lindor chocolate the truffles they are delicous! best chocolate ever!
Everyone probably has different definitions but i think dark means tanned , but some people may think it means dark hair… Everyone is different some people may like the younger cuter look and some people may think it too imature and kid-ish. I think most girls who go for that look are kids them selves or have kid-ish looks like teenagers under 20. Alot of chassidish ppl. who get married have more of a young kid face because they are still young as supposed to litvish ppl who get married more like 19 , 20 and up and have more adult young faces .
thanx for the info i called the number but its silent now maybe it will work in a few minutes
thats great of u to say that! all men should learn from you,i hope you will always remeber to appreciate what woman- ur mother now and wife one day iyh ,do. and not take it for granted because sometimes people forget and they get used to it. may u be zoche to find ur future wife soon!
good question i x have an answer bec i x hav experience either yet but here are some books with helpful tips i read – i only want to get married once by chana levitan and riding the waves by tamar ansh
because some people are not photogenic they can be gorgeous in person but in a picture theyre eyes come out too red theyre face looks too bright …… so if a guy sees a picture of them and they didnt come out good then they might just say shes not for me but if they met her they would think otherwise. also when someone meets a person they get to see theyre personality and looks its a whole package so they might feel differntly once they meet. I kno of someone who heard that a boy had buck teeth and his eyes had some problem with them that they didnt look directly at the person like croos eyed but she decided to give it a chance and once she met him she liked his personality that the looks didnt matter as much and today they are bh happily married
beautiful,inspiring i hope ur tefillos were already answered and if not they should be very soon!!
There are girls with checklists and there are girls without.but if a girl met someone who she liked and everything was going well i x think she would think i must hav everything on my checklist.i know of someone who did not want to marry a guy with a beard but guess what? she ended up marrying a guy with a beard. so thats an external thing and not part of his personality ,but i think unless its something really major, she would feel like she x need everything on her list .There are some ppl with their lists that get everything and are happy but there are alot of ppl who have to give in to some things and not get theyre perfect shidduch. Ultimatly hashem knows who our bashert is and what type of person is good for us. hopefully when someones bashert comes along they x turn them down bec theyr not evrything on theyre checklist especially if theyre checklist consists of petty things like someone tall,rich….. that they think is good for them.i never heard of seminaries telling girls that!
curiosity-i agree 100 % about the whole shpiel/megilla u wrote about the kollel thing and i would add to it the concept of yissacher and zevulan that some ppl learn and some ppl. work so that they can help each other out . one financially and one spiritually to get some of their zchus of limud torah!!
There are plenty of girls that would date oot as u call it. unless ur really far out like a long plane ride away,then girls might not want to move that far away from their family. so date girls from ur town!.
curiosty-I think most boys out there SHOULD have ur point of view in learning.the world was made for men to work to support there wife and family and NOT the other way around!!! the boys who realize this should not be considered more modern or less frum for doing what hashem wants from them (as it even says in the kesuva that a man is supposed to support his wife). of course learning is important and all boys should learn everyday of their lives but they dont have to do it 24/7 every hour of the day . That should only be reserved for a select few people in this world who are on that madrega(level)to really learn and breathe torah. because torah does support the world, but living a kollel life is NOT for everyone and people have to wake up and realize that!!!! hashem gave the ladies a curse to have a hard time having children with pain… betzev teldi banim … and men- bzaos apecha tochal lechem(with the sweat of ur brow….work …to get bread . so why are girls taking both curses on themselves???? Its a mixed up world!! and u are one of those people who are not mixed up so dont worry ! hopefully ull find ur bashert soon! at the the right time to the right perosn – someone who will appreciate ur values and not wish u were learning full time! hatzlachaJuly 20, 2012 9:58 pm at 9:58 pm in reply to: H-a-s-h-e-m H-e-l-p M-e F-i-n-d A S-h-i-d-d-u-c-h-!-! #888460
silent one: amazing prayer!! did u find ur zivug yet?if not- hashem should help u find ur zivug asap! and of course the same bracha goes to happy.. the person who started this thread!July 20, 2012 6:05 pm at 6:05 pm in reply to: H-a-s-h-e-m H-e-l-p M-e F-i-n-d A S-h-i-d-d-u-c-h-!-! #888459
silent one: amazing prayer!! did u find ur zivug yet?if not- hashem should help u find ur zivug asap! and of course the same bracha goes to happy.. the persone who started this thread!
yummy cupcake-well ur probably right but then again you never know!! I wouldnt be surprised if some mothers who want to get theyr sons married would take the test according to their sons personality and then if a shidduch comes up, say somthing came up to theyr son and not tell the boy where its really from till after they go out!! it depends how yeshivish people are- if they have internet then they cant be that yeshivish like u and me , even if you say u want someone yeshivish then why are you on cofeeroom??
yummy cupcake- i agree with ur point especially about the internet asifa! but putting that aside people still use the internet including people like u and me. , so if the internet is still being used then we should use it for a good purpose.Boys are lost in a forest as they say and girls are lost in a dessert-so according to boys they have piles and piles of resumes to go through and they think all the girls sound the same, so if they use this website then they might actually get a girl who is really shayich for them and theyre personality.It can give girls a way to get ahold of boys as a possible shidduch for them which is something that is very hard to do these days for a girl.The more yeshivish people will do it through a shadchan of course which is one of the options.If it helps at least 1 couple get engaged then its worth it ! DOnt u think??
swag=trying to be cool! love that cash definition!
LOL I was cracking up from this thread!! I dont think guys should ask for pictures in the first place but if the guy is asking for a picture then at least he should give a picture in return. and to guys who want to wear crazy colored sox wear them to sleep but not in the street. did anyone hear of the new site that just launched zivugzone.com ? -for orthodox singles like chassidish,yeshivish,leaning yeshivish,mchmir modern…… -can do through a shadchan as one of the options
I once wrote a letter to someone who got me very upset and I actually sent it. I really regreted it after, and I had to convince my friend that I was very angry when I wrote it and that I didn1t really mean it.bh we ended up making up and we are still friends today., I learnt my lesson that if I would write a letter like that in the future I would NOT send it. because next time i may not be so lucky and might actually lose a friend.
Music can be heard from various iPods and speakers wafting through the cool air
New footprints appear in the sand every few minutes as people come and go daily
On top of the people,high above, there are planes and helicopters flying through the clouds
Pictures being taken,smiles being captured in seconds by cameras of parents,grandparents and just people, creating memories
i did some more thanx ayc but each line has to be one more word than the next like a has one word b has 2 words c has 3 words… so its alil harder but urs is very good! ur really talented!
Doing things like swimming
Eating, having picnics and sandcastles
Filled the air with a happy calmness
Going splashing in the roaring crashing waves
In this happening, sun burnt faces turn into tans
Joking and laughing and just enjoying the peaceful scenic beach
Kites flying gracefully in the air, white seagulls soaring high above.
Lounging in beach chairs, staring at the gorgeous ocean,enjoyinghashems glorious world
its like an abc poem but its ony till L
I LIKE TO REMEMBER THAT I AM A DAUGHTER OF HASHEM SO THAT MEANS I AM A PRINCESS – A BAS MELECH !!!
the person who created the whole idea of hollywood and movies was jewish and thats even more sad!
brotherofurs true but if u want to relax in a ”kosher” way then at least it teaches you lessons.,but I personally am not a such a big fan of them bec I hate it how they dress up like men when everyone is ladies I just think its weird and also how they try to copy the goyish movie. just make a kosher one that doesnt have to do with goyish ones at all make up ur own plot and dont take it from a goyish source and try to make it kosher! btw what does ur name mean brother o furs ? i x get it
agent emes and light for grey towers the ladies film and al the imitations of goyish films like miri pops in instead of mary poppins….
r u talking about arthur Read and D.W and buster the rabbit and francine and binky ???????? and all those ppl bec they r not pg13, they r cartoons for kids. I watch g and pg but not pg13 unless its really for a dumb reason like its very scary like a harrypotter, so they cant make it pg bec. the younger kids would be scared, so they have to make it pg13. I also think that no one should watch pg13 and beyond that like r and unrated ……… because its bad!!!!!!!! so it doesnt matter how old they are they should never watch it!!!!!! but Im tryin to watch less and less and eventually stop! btw moderater I wanted my sub title as Daughter Of Hashem not oh hashem.
i think u should ask the goyishe girl over the frum guy forsure no question!!! thats my humble opinion u can take it or leave it!
i think alot of them were abused either emotionally or physically and this caused them to be off the derech and Im saying this from people I personally know
lol maybe so can u change it to daughter of hashem? thanxMay 5, 2011 11:24 pm at 11:24 pm in reply to: Is It Worth Releasing Bin Laden Photos To Prove That He's Dead #764438
thanks I actually saw it somewher I didnt make it up anyway I think they should release the photos and whoever wants to c them will get to c them and whoever thinks its too grusome for them wont look at it!
yup it was me dont blame lil sally saucer
false i hate math! you dont believe bin ladens deadMay 5, 2011 3:00 am at 3:00 am in reply to: Is It Worth Releasing Bin Laden Photos To Prove That He's Dead #764431
I heard that bin laden died in 2002 and they froze his body and decided to say that he was killed now!!!
OSAMA BIN LADEN WAS announced SHOT & KILLED on May 1
Hitler YEMACH SHEMAM it was announced COMMITED Suicide on May 1
thanx so much but can you wrote daughter oh hashem instead of daughter of hashem,so can you change it (to of instead of oh)?
can my subtitle be daughter of hashem ???? plz!!!
someone went on a roller coaster with the girl and told her to close her eyes and they bot was holding a paper that said will u marry me so the rollercoaster took a picture,then when the ride was done they went to c theyre picture and she saw him holding the paper in the picture so she said yes!!!!
amusement park , dave and busters, boating, go karting,bowling….
can my subtitle be daughter of hashem ???? thanx in advance