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WolfishMusingsParticipant
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Improving my photography & Photoshop skills
Further realizing that I am a worthless human being
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Experimenting cooking new dishes.The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantChas V’Shalom should anyone get the wrong idea into their head that davening without a Minyan is preferable.
No, but I see no harm from making the best out of a bad situation, which is what the OP was doing.
The Wolf
March 25, 2020 6:12 pm at 6:12 pm in reply to: Corona-Safe Chol Hamoed Activities for Children #1843100WolfishMusingsParticipantWould a family outing to Bear Mountain be a corono-safe visit considering its great outdoors permitting sufficient social-distancing?
From the NYS Parks, Recreation and Historic Preservation Page (Bear Mountain is a NYS park):
COVID-19 UPDATE: New York state parks, trails and grounds of historic sites are open for open air outdoor recreation. Governor Cuomo is urging all New Yorkers to stay home as much as possible. If you do plan on visiting, it should be for a healthy nature break. For the safety of all visitors and to stop the spread of COVID-19, all State Park playgrounds, athletic courts and sporting fields are CLOSED. Please limit outdoor recreational activities to non-contact, and avoid activities where you may come in close contact with other people. If you arrive at a park and crowds are forming, choose a different park or trail, or return another time/day to visit. We appreciate your support and patience as we navigate this public health crisis together. Learn more about COVID-19 and its impact on NY State Parks. Visit: COVID-19 UPDATE
NEW: CAMPING UPDATE
Early Season Camping: Due to the global health crisis, all campgrounds, cabins, and cottages are CLOSED to overnight visitation through April 30. All visitors with reservations will be issued a full refund. We ask for your patience as refunds are processed.
Camping Reservations: New York State has suspended all new camping, cabin and cottage reservations for the 2020 season until further notice. We are assessing campground status on a daily basis. If you’ve made a reservation for the season beginning May 1, and we determine your campground is safe to open, your reservation will be honored. However, visitors who wish to cancel an existing reservation may do so and receive a full refund. Thank you for your patience as we work to protect the safety of our visitors and staff.
WolfishMusingsParticipantA Dati farmer in Itamar (father of 11) sued the court, which turned down his claim. Among other issues, we would have had to have celebrated Purim again.
While not necessarily claiming that his suit had merit, I’m not sure why repeating Purim would be a problem. That happened when we had leap years determined on an ad hoc basis instead of on a set calendrical cycle.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantCTL, yet you lose the privileges of being a b’chor.
Big deal.
If someone like me can be a bechor, then it obviously doesn’t have too much meaning.
The Wolf
February 2, 2020 11:39 am at 11:39 am in reply to: Selective Service System – Do you register your sons? #1828039WolfishMusingsParticipantMy answer to the OP’s question is 100% legal and within both the spirit and letter of the law.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantI got married at 21. Still happily married nearly three decades later.
But I’m a rasha gamur, so what do I know?
The Wolf
January 31, 2020 12:15 am at 12:15 am in reply to: Selective Service System – Do you register your sons? #1827605WolfishMusingsParticipantNo, I did not register my sons.
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WolfishMusingsParticipantMy family and I just recently got the game Spyfall. Great game (especially with more than four players) and no problem with Shabbos (as the game only consists of cards).
The gist of it: All the players are at a location (determined by the cards), but one person is a spy and doesn’t know the location. The players begin asking questions of one another. The job of the players is to figure out who is the spy. The job of the spy is to figure out where they are.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantits their property
That’s mistake number one.and no 1 shld interfere w/ the free market.
And that’s mistake number two.The Wolf
December 5, 2019 8:48 pm at 8:48 pm in reply to: Is it okay to learn (Torah) During Davening? #1808306WolfishMusingsParticipantIs it ok to learn while your rosh yeshiva is giving a shmuess or shiur?
When I was in school, the RY gave a shiur in Yiddish once a month. The shiur lasted between an hour and a quarter and an hour and a half. This was the only Yiddish used in the Yeshiva at all.
I didn’t understand a word of Yiddish. Being forced to sit there for that long as a kid with literally nothing to do was, to me at the time, torture.
One day, after the shiur, he said to me “I’ll give you $20 if you can tell me over what the shiur was about.” He *knew* I didn’t understand Yiddish. I’ve never ever (that I can remember) wanted to punch someone in the face in my life, but his comment drove me about as close as I ever came to that.
I just walked away.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantHow can they al be talking, what is the ???? ???? doing?
He is talking too, is he not?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWhat defines a messed up school?
Any school that would allow me on the grounds.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantI refuse to answer. What are you going to do about it?
The Wolf
December 5, 2019 8:46 pm at 8:46 pm in reply to: Inviting divorced women to your Shabbos table? #1808302WolfishMusingsParticipantWe very often (at least every other week and often more often than that) had a divorced woman by our table (and sleep over at our house) on Shabbos. I guess this proves, once again, how horrible I am. But don’t worry… I won’t be having this person over to my house again.
The Wolf
You may want to try rereading the post
December 1, 2019 3:29 pm at 3:29 pm in reply to: Does a Divorce indicate a Family lacked Shalom Bayis? #1806291WolfishMusingsParticipantDo all marriages indicate that the couple was extremely anxious to leave thier parents house,because they simply couldn’t deal with the pressures of living at home anymore?
No. I was not anxious to leave my mother’s house and I had no problems living with my mother and sister. I got married because I loved (and, nearly thirty years later, still do love) my wife and wanted to spend my life with her.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantI listen to the following Jewish podcasts:
5 Minute Daf Yomi by Rabbi Shmuel Herzfeld
Chochmat Nashim Podcast
Daily Halacha by Rabbi Eli Mansour
Headlines
Iggros Moshe A to Z (inactive, but the archives are available, and I’m subscribed if anything new should come along)
Maimonides Minute by Rabbi Scott Kahn
Responsa Radio – Jewish Public Media.Please note that not all of these podcasts will agree with your hashkafic outlook. Listener discretion is advised.
The Wolf
December 1, 2019 3:29 pm at 3:29 pm in reply to: Is it okay to learn (Torah) During Davening? #1806293WolfishMusingsParticipantI will sometimes learn something after I finish Shmoneh Esrei, but I close the sefer as soon as Chazaras HaShatz begins.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWolf, what is the basis for that judgment?
I have to have a basis for hating someone?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantMeno, Avrohom only davened for any hypothetical innocent Sedomim, not for the guilty ones.
That’s not true. He was asking to save the entire city, not just the righteous people that may have been in it.
On the other hand, it should be pointed out that you don’t have to love someone to daven for them.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantThere is one Jew that I do not love. It is because he is a rasha gamur and (as I’m often reminded on these boards) it is a mitzvah to hate him.
The Wolf
August 1, 2019 9:52 pm at 9:52 pm in reply to: Tuna soup is delicious, and if you refuse to try it, you’re a coward. #1768764WolfishMusingsParticipantFine. I’m a coward.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantafter trying that, we were thrown out of the bowling alley. then the boy proposed to me and I said yes!! mazel tov
Worst. Plot. Ever.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWho said classical music ever went out of style?
And, certainly, there is plenty of good instrumental music being made today.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantThe Wolf: Of course you’re an unrefined boor. You were raised by wolves.
🙂
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantIf I were looking for a wife (I’m not, I’m happily married over 25 years), I would have no problem taking a woman to a restaurant for a first date.
I guess it’s just because I’m an unrefined boor.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantHas anyone noted the irony that one of the voices advocating an end to women’s suffrage and criticizing leadership by women has a username that commemorates a male politician who made one of the biggest mistakes in the last century?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantUndercove,
I’m still waiting for an answer to my question. The fact that you are not answering leads me to believe that you don’t have an answer.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantBefore Artscroll, the Gemara was a closed book to me.
Since using it, it has helped me to become familiar with the terminology and methods used in the Gemara. The more I used it, the more I learned how to read the Gemara without it. Since using it, the Gemara has opened up to me to the point where I can open a non-Artscroll Gemara and figure out, in most cases, what is going on.
The result is a deterioration in the quality and depth of understanding in all areas of Torah study, from Mishna and Gemara, through Poskim and Shutim. I doubt there is a way back.
I guess it was terribly selfish of me to contribute to the communal deterioration of learning in all areas of Torah just for the sake of my own learning. The classic case of a mitzvah haba’ah b’aveirah.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantUndercove,
I ask my question again…
My understanding is that an admission card is given to parents when their past accounts are settled.
Can you please tell us ( a ) if I am wrong (and if so, how), or ( b ) why using this process to ensure the yeshiva receives monies it is entitled to results in the money being stolen?
Can you please answer?
Thank you.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantUndercove,
My understanding is that an admission card is given to parents when their past accounts are settled.
Can you please tell us ( a ) if I am wrong (and if so, how), or ( b ) why using this process to ensure the yeshiva receives monies it is entitled to results in the money being stolen?
Thank you.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWolfishMusingsParticipantTo the best of my ability, yes.
I don’t necessarily get it right every time, but I try my best to pronounce a Sh’va Na/Nach correctly, especially since it sometimes changes the meaning of the word.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantThe vast majority of Sephardim are right-handed. The same is true of Ashkenazim.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantI actually own it. Is there something you want looked up?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantIt’s 28 years after my chuppah. We still hold hands.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantThere is one flaw in your argument: Despite your silly argument that they should not count, New York and California do, in fact, count.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantSports are a form if avodah zara where one worships the human body and physical form. It is the opposite of ruchniyus and kedusha where we value the soul and spiritual pursuits.
And yet, just about every yeshiva allows their kids to play some form of sports during recess. And just about every summer camp allows kids to play sports.
I guess practically every yeshiva and camp official are facilitating avoda zara, according to you.
The Wolf
May 10, 2019 4:19 pm at 4:19 pm in reply to: Is there a hetter for staying up both nights of Shavuos? #1725425WolfishMusingsParticipantI don’t know. I don’t even stay up all night the first night.
(I usually take a half hour nap after the meal and then go to shul for the rest of the night to learn.).
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWould you be comfortable with having your son/daughter marry a BT? Why/Why not?
Yes, I would be comfortable.
1. When my children get married, they will be old enough to judge a person’s character and decide his or her merits based on their actions and middos, not the circumstances of their birth.
2. I, myself, am a ba’al teshuva and am married to someone who is frum from birth.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantYou mean why would a school call itself a Bais Yaakov instead of just a “Jewish girls school?” Same reason a place would call itself a yeshiva or mesivta instead of a “Hebrew Day School.” The titles signal the type of institution.
So, in other words, it’s just branding?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWell, I tried to convince my wife to go by Mrs. Husband Name.
She refused.
She pointed out that my first name isn’t “Husband” and my last name isn’t “Name.”
I couldn’t really argue against that…
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantFor some it may be muttar. CYLOR
For some, they may not have started observing the mourning portion of the Omer until today (Rosh Chodesh).The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantOK, I know this is a stupid question, only worthy to be asked by an idiot like me, but I honestly don’t know the answer:
What, exactly, is a Bais Ya’akov? How is it different from any other girls’ school?
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantGood to see this thread. I’m always on the lookout for new places to go on dates.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantOne of my kids moved out and now their room is vacant. I guess I have to remove it from the house…
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantI think I heard that there was an office there.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantWho says the goat was innocent?
Who says the cat is wrong for doing what cats do naturally? Who says the dog is right or wrong for doing what dogs do naturally?
How can fire and water be right or wrong? Neither have consciences? Perhaps the “blame” belongs with whomever set the stick on fire or dowsed the fire with the water?
The Malach HaMaves is an angel and doesn’t have free will. It does what HKBH wants it to do. It can’t be “right ” or “wrong.”The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantCome to think of it: Both the cheese and the eggs might be treif. The cheese made from cows undergone that stomach procedure and the eggs from a chicken that was a treifa.
Yes, you figured it out. I purposely sought out a cow and chicken that were teraifos, just so that I could have non-kosher cheese and eggs.
The Wolf
WolfishMusingsParticipantIf you’re one of those people that puts ketchup on your eggs, I will consider you the epitome of evil.
No ketchup on eggs. Even the completely evil have standards.
The Wolf
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